Sounds like a good result. Well done!

Regards
Jonathan West

On 4 April 2011 16:17, M Bender <[email protected]> wrote:

> Many thanks to those on the list who expressed ideas concerning the twitchy
> clarinet player.
>
> After yesterday's rehearsal, I approached him, and brought up the issue
> using the "impossible-to-follow-two-conductors-at-the-same-time" analogy. I
> gave him a specific example [including the words "takt" and "ictus"] and
> added that the "cues" he was giving were at times, actually anticipatory--
> which is very distracting for all those sitting behind and beside him. He
> was a bit startled at first, [perhaps, erroneously concluding that I
> possessed an encyclopedic knowledge of conducting technique?!] but then
> apologized profusely, telling me that while he WAS aware of it, he didn't
> always have the presence of mind to restrict his movements. He even went so
> far as to tell me that if it happens again to please mention it to him,
> [YES!] as he didn't want to be the cause of tentative/wrong entries due to
> his movements confusing or distracting other players in the wind section. We
> had a quick laugh about "performance nervousness or nervous ticks" [thanks
> Hans!] then went for a beer af
>  ter [thanks Conja!] with no apparent hard feelings.
>
> While I'm no master of diplomacy or negotiation, I do feel that the point
> was made, and no one was injured in the process. Of course, time will tell,
> but I'm optimistic.
>
> I'm keeping the video option close at hand, just in case we have to move to
> level two. [thanks David G.!]
>
> Again, my sincere thanks to all.
>
> Sincerely,
> martin bender
>
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