-----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- Hash: SHA1 >>>>> "ams" == Abhijit Menon-Sen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes:
ams> Hi. At 2005-08-19 16:08:43 +0530, [EMAIL PROTECTED] ams> wrote: >> But yes, I have been on this list for a few months, and have >> not heard anyone actually mention it as a loss- the fact that >> there are no 'active' women on the list. ams> I don't know what you were expecting to see, but the subject ams> does come up every now and then: people wonder why more women ams> don't participate, say "Hey, we should do something about ams> that!" and go back to whatever they were doing, because ams> nobody knows what to do. >> With the ILUG-D list, it makes me feel like I have wandered >> into an old boys' gang... ams> That's not going to change without some help. ams> Appropriate behaviour is not learned in a vacuum: it's ams> learned through repeated interaction and observation. Very ams> few people actually *want* to make women uncomfortable, but ams> if they don't get any feedback about what they're doing ams> wrong, they won't know what to change. I agree with AMS up to a point here. As I see it, all that the men here can do is make sure that the list (and the Group) aren't ``woman-unfriendly''. Which means, as I see it, no blatant sexism, no off-colour stuff, no male-only assumptions. This is something that can be actively pursued, and to an extent is already part of the group and the list. OTOH, this is not the same as being ``woman-friendly''. Frankly I wouldn't even know where to start defining ``woman-friendly'' without resorting to stereotypes and, eventually, sexism. However, I think I speak for most of the members when I say that we're willing to learn and change through both interaction and express requests for making things more comfortable for women. Ball. Court. Your. Regards, - -- Raju - -- Raj Mathur [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://kandalaya.org/ GPG: 78D4 FC67 367F 40E2 0DD5 0FEF C968 D0EF CC68 D17F It is the mind that moves -----BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE----- Version: GnuPG v1.4.1 (GNU/Linux) Comment: Processed by Mailcrypt 3.5.8 <http://mailcrypt.sourceforge.net/> iD8DBQFDBrScyWjQ78xo0X8RApiZAJoCbLEW92BvBUipVcsELeKDv5YmmACdHBMy x2medp52y1pJjOWzC1UBjno= =PFis -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- _______________________________________________ ilugd mailinglist -- ilugd@lists.linux-delhi.org http://frodo.hserus.net/mailman/listinfo/ilugd Archives at: http://news.gmane.org/gmane.user-groups.linux.delhi http://www.mail-archive.com/ilugd@lists.linux-delhi.org/