Wah topik yg menarik bgt dan merupakan pengalamn pribadi bwt gw sendiri
memang solo treveller memang punya pengalaman yg tersendiri dan jauh lebih 
berasa bgt
dan juga punya tantangan tersendiri dalam menjelajah negeri orang ataupun ke 
daerah sendiri

dari cerita dan topik mbak ambar ini mungkin saya lbh cenderung ke semua serba 
solo alias sendiri tanpa agent 
jujur aku blm pernah kalau pergi kemanapun itinerarynya lwt agen ( kecuali 
hanya ticket pesawat aja ya )

Pengalaman pribadi saat menjelajah pertama kali ke luar negeri 5 thn yg lalu ( 
Singapore , Kuala Lumpur , Thailand )
itu semua saya lakukan dengan jalan sendiri dan bener2 sendiri
tidak ada bekal dan temen yg ada di negara yg sy tuju 
saya hanya berbekal searching di internet mengenai hal yg penting spt peta , 
hotel , dan beberapa tempat2 yg menarik 

pengalaman seru saat kartu passport yg masih kosong dan masuk pertama kali ke 
Singapore
langsung deh ditanya nginep dimana , sampe2 suruh tunjukin uang yg ada di 
dompet ada berapa wuih jadi agak shock dan takut ....
tp semua terlewati dgn lancar he he he 

Tapi intinya solo traveller sangat puas dan menyenangkan bagi yg suka sendiri 
ya ( tp juga diperlukan keberanian )
saya bisa menjelajah kemanapun yg saya suka alias bebas gak ada yg halangin
bisa mengekspresikan diri sendiri dan mengenal budaya di setiap negara
gw juga suka mengenal kebiasaan dan kehidupan setiap orang dr yg modern sampe 
yg traditional
berusaha mencari dan nanya langsung ke orang jadi terjadi sebuah interaksi / 
percakapan langsung dgn orang luar ( ada kepuasan tersendiri lho )
intinya seperti yg dilakukan kayak acara THE AMAZING RACE 

Setelah menjelajah sendiri di luar negeri .... jujur perasaan menjadi lbh 
berani dan tertantang kemanapun pergi tanpa rasa takut
mungkin karena pengalaman yg langsung interaksi tadi dgn orang lain apalagi di 
negara lain serasa beda aja

So gak ada salahnya di coba Solo traveller .... thats amazing race dan bisa 
melatih keberanian kita 

Ditunggu juga cerita2 dri temen temn yg lain

To Mbak Ambar ---- > Terima kasih dah banyak membantu di IBP ini dan dah bagi2 
cerita yg menarik pengalaman mbak ambar
                                              Kapan yah bisa ketemu mbak ambar 
langsung ..... hmm pasti seru bgt deh

Regards
iant 
Jakarta


-----Original Message-----
From: [email protected]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Ambar Briastuti
Sent: Wednesday, November 19, 2008 1:13 AM
To: [email protected]
Subject: [indobackpacker] Solo Traveller : trend baru?


Temen2 Backpacker,

Solo Travel artinya bukan travel ke kota Solo. Tapi adalah julukan  
untuk yang jalan-jalan sendirian saja. Mungkin udah banyak yang  
melakoni tapi ternyata barusan dinilai sebagai kecenderungan baru.  
Para soloist ini punya alasan sendiri kenapa mereka melakukannya.  
Salah satunya seperti dibawah ini. Terlampir adalah interview  
tertulis dengan sebuah radio di Singapura yang menggali kemungkinan  
trend ini kedepan.

Tidak berarti solo travel ini juga independen loh. Artinya ada juga  
soloist yang emang itinerary-nya dibuatkan agen (custom made).  
Sedangkan saya mungkin termasuk katagori dua2nya, walaupun ditengarai  
sekarang mulai bertumbuhan pasar untuk solo traveller (khususunya  
perempuan yang lebih ke faktor keamanan).

Mungkin rekan-rekan ada yang punya pengalaman solo travel? Ngga musti  
ke luar negeri loh, wong di dalam negeri aja cukup menantang kok.

Ditunggu komentar dan bagi2 critanya.



Salam,
Ambar

*ayuks bikin trip IBP lagi

=========================

"Remember what Bilbo used to say: It's a dangerous business, Frodo,  
going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don't keep  
your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to...

- Frodo to Sam"
- J.R.R. Tolkien


1. Why solo traveling? and what drive you to do and enjoy the trip?

Well, it was a coincident actually. I had friend who plan to go  
Ireland together while we were in work back in UK, but it turned out  
she wasn't able to do for some reason.  So I decided to have a go on  
myself. Yups do everything by myself; from research, planning, and  
action (booking hostel, route and find budget flight).
Then I discovered that when you travel solo it doesn't mean that you  
will go alone all along way.  I met local who give more insight view  
about places and knowledge about culture. I met fellow backpacker who  
willing to share transport or accommodation. So why I never lonely  
when traveling on my own, because we can concentrate to learn what  
actually happen in our environment. Cultural changing, people  
speaking, how the local treat you and digging more information about  
the background of the travel itself. Places, foods, transportation,  
or simply the customs. As a traveller we absorb and study, looking  
the wisdom that can be missed when we travel in groups.

2. So what should we prepare to travel solo?

-research about destination, make a point or themes that you are very  
keen to do/to see. For example : culinary travel to Luang Prabang, or  
Archeology adventure in Angkor Wat. Put this theme as the based of  
the goal and work based on that. Research can be with internet or  
books (guide books or travel books that inspire you).

- decide what kind travel style you want to go. Quick, easy and no  
hassle or backpacking, more arduous and strenuous. This is relate to  
most of the other travel aspects. If you want to go backpacker style  
in tight budget, be prepare using public transport or walking with  
your backpack. If you want something more sophisticated, choose based  
from your convenience. Some people love challenges (that's why  
Amazing Race is so addicted), some people just want a quiet vacation.  
It's your style and you can change anytime you want.

- then started looking for flight, bus, ferry or any kind transport  
that move you one to another places. Look at map, decide how you go,  
which country to start and so on. Create your own itinerary based on  
the other people, or tour agency or make on your own etc

- make sure you know about travel document and foreign currency. Well  
this is why math can be useful in real life :) Travel Document like  
passport and visa (is VOA-visa on arrival or have to apply visa  
before hand?)

-put the plan on the paper, you can do day by day, hour by hour or  
just putting grand idea what you want to do.

- exchange with fellow traveller with any open suggestion. This is  
why forum and mailing list so important. You can rely on social  
networking (FaceBook, MySpace, Frendster etc) but everybody got their  
own opinion. Don't just walk off because someone try to scare you  
about destination  :)

3. Places I have been solo, mainly UK, Ireland and some Asia

4. The overall preparation is depend on the length of the travel and  
the complexity of the tasks. Yeah, some area is remaining mystery but  
some place just so easy to walk in (big city or capital tend to  
better infrastructure than  off beaten track). This is normal  
timeline for travel in 5 days somewhere in Laos (part-time not fully  
preparation)
-Planning the route based on the map dan current situation 3-4 days
-Searching budget flight and accommodation 1-3 weeks, if possible get  
the advanced booking
-Activity and things to in details. 3 days including booking 1 week
-Read and learn local info 1-2 weeks (it's up to you, if you just  
want to jump to the sightseeing bus and off).

4. Tips to start solo travel :

First, ready for psychology barrier that sometimes put ourself in  
doubt. It's not material things but it's about how you build your own  
confidence. The challenge is knowing your ability to balance with so  
called unpredicted factors that could be occur during travel. Let's  
say : what should I do if someone rob my belonging or what I can do  
if I am getting lost. By realizing  any possibility of problems and  
it's solution should bring peace in mind. You not have to planning  
everything in details, but using common sense and how-to attitude, I  
think everybody should be able to cope with fear or over-excitement.  
Once you passed this barrier, you will surprisingly easy to do next  
solo travel.

Second, grab the correct information. I said 'correct' can be  
translate as 'official information' above gossip or hear'nsay. So  
many online forum there that need to check and recheck, guide books  
that out of date or just miss match information. In this jungle of  
virtual information we have to have a lead to drive us in the right  
way. The destination information design to lure tourist. They can be  
full of persuasive language that their place is the best in the  
world. But all of those is up to your judgment. We're also have to  
prepare to bad side of travel and accept it as the part of travel  
itself. We never hope to have honeymoon trip all the time :)

Third, adjust quickly. I mean everything. From foods, time  
difference, language, cultural, or even behavior or daily customs.  
The key to survive hassle is try to get to know local, read about  
them or even learn the language just for the sake of  easy  
conversation. The local people is your asset if something bad happen  
to you. Your attitude towards them reflects the relation itself.

Four, map map map. Sorry to say that but the key to better travel is  
knowing where you are. Map is the key to access many useful info such  
as : accommodation, transport, food etc. Most important is know HOW  
TO READ map, it can be paper based or GPS. All the planning stage  
always very useful with map on hand. How to prepare day tour, moving  
around or choosing places to stay.


Ambar Briastuti
www.ceritaambar.com | ym : ambar_briastuti | Adventures. Backpacking.  
Photography.




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