aku pernah jd soloist, pernah jg brg tmn. tp klopun soloist, biasany di sana ada tmn2 (local CSers) sana. tp biasany klo loncat2 kota, ataupun jalan2 dlm kota tetep sendirian. aku biasany lebih enjoy solo drpd ramean. makany klo foto2 travel ku kebanyakan cm scenery atau objek lokal , tanpa aku di dalamny, hehe.. jd praktis tinggal jeprat jepret, cepet. hehe..paling aku cm ambil angle tertentu yang khas daerah situ aja klo mau jdin background foto :)
aku paling suka explore orang lokal dan culture lokal, sama tempat2 yg indah. jd emg kyy lbh cocok jd soloist krn klo ada temen, cenderung kita krg nyaman ngbrol dg orang lokalny, cenderung ngbrl dan enjoy sama teman. klo sendiri rasanya asik banget deh.. tiap kali aku solo, biasanya senseny justru di local stuffnya yg oke.. jalan sama temen ga kalah seru, tp aku orgny praktis, seringkali pengen bebas ke sana sini. klo sama temen, harus diskusi dulu, dan biasany jln2 jd lebih lama. tp enakny, ada temen di kala susah walaupun pas susah bagiku tetep lebih asik sendiri, tough dan independenny jd lebih kerasa dan menantang. utk trip yg tujuanny fun, seperti snorkeling, maen pantai, lebih asik sama temen krn klo sendiri cengok2 aja, krg asik, hehe.. asal tau cara jaga diri baik2, pelihara insting, mau explore dg cara aman, ramah, dan pelihara etiket baik, ga ada masalah dg soloist cewek. di jalan emang kadang suka ada yg manggil2 iseng, atau ngeliatin tp ya cuekin aja, jaga bawaan baik2, hindari daerah2 yg kira2 rawan (biasany deket daerah2 gini udah ada feeling ga enak). kadang perlu sedikit galak dan pasang tampang jutek sama lingkungan yg blm dikenal dan org2 yg mencurigakan. yg terakhir, klo sendirian, aku jd lebih deket sama Yang di Atas, krn aku sering berdoa biar perjalanan aman, hehehe.. -safe trip- --- In [email protected], Ambar Briastuti <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Temen2 Backpacker, > > Solo Travel artinya bukan travel ke kota Solo. Tapi adalah julukan > untuk yang jalan-jalan sendirian saja. Mungkin udah banyak yang > melakoni tapi ternyata barusan dinilai sebagai kecenderungan baru. > Para soloist ini punya alasan sendiri kenapa mereka melakukannya. > Salah satunya seperti dibawah ini. Terlampir adalah interview > tertulis dengan sebuah radio di Singapura yang menggali kemungkinan > trend ini kedepan. > > Tidak berarti solo travel ini juga independen loh. Artinya ada juga > soloist yang emang itinerary-nya dibuatkan agen (custom made). > Sedangkan saya mungkin termasuk katagori dua2nya, walaupun ditengarai > sekarang mulai bertumbuhan pasar untuk solo traveller (khususunya > perempuan yang lebih ke faktor keamanan). > > Mungkin rekan-rekan ada yang punya pengalaman solo travel? Ngga musti > ke luar negeri loh, wong di dalam negeri aja cukup menantang kok. > > Ditunggu komentar dan bagi2 critanya. > > > > Salam, > Ambar > > *ayuks bikin trip IBP lagi > > ========================= > > "Remember what Bilbo used to say: It's a dangerous business, Frodo, > going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don't keep > your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to... > > - Frodo to Sam" > J.R.R. Tolkien > > > 1. Why solo traveling? and what drive you to do and enjoy the trip? > > Well, it was a coincident actually. I had friend who plan to go > Ireland together while we were in work back in UK, but it turned out > she wasn't able to do for some reason. So I decided to have a go on > myself. Yups do everything by myself; from research, planning, and > action (booking hostel, route and find budget flight). > Then I discovered that when you travel solo it doesn't mean that you > will go alone all along way. I met local who give more insight view > about places and knowledge about culture. I met fellow backpacker who > willing to share transport or accommodation. So why I never lonely > when traveling on my own, because we can concentrate to learn what > actually happen in our environment. Cultural changing, people > speaking, how the local treat you and digging more information about > the background of the travel itself. Places, foods, transportation, > or simply the customs. As a traveller we absorb and study, looking > the wisdom that can be missed when we travel in groups. > > 2. So what should we prepare to travel solo? > > -research about destination, make a point or themes that you are very > keen to do/to see. For example : culinary travel to Luang Prabang, or > Archeology adventure in Angkor Wat. Put this theme as the based of > the goal and work based on that. Research can be with internet or > books (guide books or travel books that inspire you). > > - decide what kind travel style you want to go. Quick, easy and no > hassle or backpacking, more arduous and strenuous. This is relate to > most of the other travel aspects. If you want to go backpacker style > in tight budget, be prepare using public transport or walking with > your backpack. If you want something more sophisticated, choose based > from your convenience. Some people love challenges (that's why > Amazing Race is so addicted), some people just want a quiet vacation. > It's your style and you can change anytime you want. > > - then started looking for flight, bus, ferry or any kind transport > that move you one to another places. Look at map, decide how you go, > which country to start and so on. Create your own itinerary based on > the other people, or tour agency or make on your own etc > > - make sure you know about travel document and foreign currency. Well > this is why math can be useful in real life :) Travel Document like > passport and visa (is VOA-visa on arrival or have to apply visa > before hand?) > > -put the plan on the paper, you can do day by day, hour by hour or > just putting grand idea what you want to do. > > - exchange with fellow traveller with any open suggestion. This is > why forum and mailing list so important. You can rely on social > networking (FaceBook, MySpace, Frendster etc) but everybody got their > own opinion. Don't just walk off because someone try to scare you > about destination :) > > 3. Places I have been solo, mainly UK, Ireland and some Asia > > 4. The overall preparation is depend on the length of the travel and > the complexity of the tasks. Yeah, some area is remaining mystery but > some place just so easy to walk in (big city or capital tend to > better infrastructure than off beaten track). This is normal > timeline for travel in 5 days somewhere in Laos (part-time not fully > preparation) > -Planning the route based on the map dan current situation 3-4 days > -Searching budget flight and accommodation 1-3 weeks, if possible get > the advanced booking > -Activity and things to in details. 3 days including booking 1 week > -Read and learn local info 1-2 weeks (it's up to you, if you just > want to jump to the sightseeing bus and off). > > 4. Tips to start solo travel : > > First, ready for psychology barrier that sometimes put ourself in > doubt. It's not material things but it's about how you build your own > confidence. The challenge is knowing your ability to balance with so > called unpredicted factors that could be occur during travel. Let's > say : what should I do if someone rob my belonging or what I can do > if I am getting lost. By realizing any possibility of problems and > it's solution should bring peace in mind. You not have to planning > everything in details, but using common sense and how-to attitude, I > think everybody should be able to cope with fear or over-excitement. > Once you passed this barrier, you will surprisingly easy to do next > solo travel. > > Second, grab the correct information. I said 'correct' can be > translate as 'official information' above gossip or hear'nsay. So > many online forum there that need to check and recheck, guide books > that out of date or just miss match information. In this jungle of > virtual information we have to have a lead to drive us in the right > way. The destination information design to lure tourist. They can be > full of persuasive language that their place is the best in the > world. But all of those is up to your judgment. We're also have to > prepare to bad side of travel and accept it as the part of travel > itself. We never hope to have honeymoon trip all the time :) > > Third, adjust quickly. I mean everything. From foods, time > difference, language, cultural, or even behavior or daily customs. > The key to survive hassle is try to get to know local, read about > them or even learn the language just for the sake of easy > conversation. The local people is your asset if something bad happen > to you. Your attitude towards them reflects the relation itself. > > Four, map map map. Sorry to say that but the key to better travel is > knowing where you are. Map is the key to access many useful info such > as : accommodation, transport, food etc. Most important is know HOW > TO READ map, it can be paper based or GPS. All the planning stage > always very useful with map on hand. How to prepare day tour, moving > around or choosing places to stay. > > > Ambar Briastuti > www.ceritaambar.com | ym : ambar_briastuti | Adventures. Backpacking. > Photography. > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] >
