I have a problem that I am sure others have already solved The scenario "Mary" at a time of youthful exuberance found herself pregnant at the age of 16 over 60 years ago. The baby was born and was adopted out to unknown (at the time ) parents who called her "Jane". The fathers name was not divulged and did not appear on the birth certificate. Jane did not have a happy childhood with her adoptive parents, When she was around 30 she managed to learn of Mary's identity and made contact
Mary did not marry or have any further children, but is now, in her 70s in close contact with Jane, Jane's husband as well as with Jane's children and grandchildren. ( her great grandchildren } and all want them included as her descendants in a descendant narrative report. In the same vein Jane does not want her adoptive parents identified or any reference made to them They are both happy with a General Note appearing on Jane saying she was legally adopted at birth but now is in close contact with her birth mother Mary The problem. Mary and Jane both want no reference to the birth father, They do not want him recorded as unknown, They do not want any "marriage" event recorded as a relationship or anything else They just the words "Mary had a daughter Jane" then continuation with the narrative the same as usual. Is that too much to ask? I have tried many things but nothing has worked. Removing the marriage link then just attributing the child to Mary, reinstuted a "marriage" and unknown father. I had thought that by making the "Unknown" father "private" as opposed to " invisible" he and the marriage would be ignored but regrettably that also suppresses Jane and her descendants Has anyone already solved this problem?? cheers from Stan in NZ Legacy User Group guidelines: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Etiquette.asp Archived messages after Nov. 21 2009: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Archived messages from old mail server - before Nov. 21 2009: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Online technical support: http://support.legacyfamilytree.com Follow Legacy on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/LegacyFamilyTree) and on our blog (http://news.LegacyFamilyTree.com). To unsubscribe: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/LegacyLists.asp
