Perhaps it does matter.  Boys and men tend to be more sexually
aggressive than girls and women, though in the adult range of that
aspect, more women are beginning to come out of the timidity closet,
which pleases me to no end.  Or it did back when I was still able.

Nor does a child acting out sexually necessarily indicate a sexual
violation or abuse has taken place.  It may simply be a lack of love
in the home that causes that acting out -- though a lack of love can
certainly be considered abuse.  Or it could also be a vivid
imagination.  There are probably a host of reasons a child would act
out sexually, just as there are a host of reasons children act out in
many other ways.

As to whether that acting out would justify a response, well, in
today's emotional and irrational mindset many have regarding the
issue, I'd have to say there would be no justified response because it
would do no more than to place the child in the emotional chains of
shame, guilt and despair.  But I can conceive of a much healthier
environment where it would possibly be permissible to respond in
kind.  It just doesn't exist at this time.

On Apr 9, 11:03 am, Molly Brogan <[email protected]> wrote:
> boy or girl, does it matter?  children who act out sexually do so
> because they have been violated in this way.  But as a question of
> morality, would their approach justify any response to it?

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