Yet even curiosity gets the better of some Vam, as perhaps in
curiosity killing the cat.  One hesitates to use the tool metaphor in
speaking of sex - yet alas even curiosity may line the pathway to
depravity. I can't reveal full details of what has been happening
close to me over the last few years - but this includes the use of
daughters to attract young males to criminal activity through sex with
them by Fagin-like parents.

On 10 Apr, 05:35, Vamadevananda <[email protected]> wrote:
> " But I can conceive of a much healthier environment where it would
> possibly be permissible to respond in kind."
>
> You mean : You need it. I too. Let's do it.
>
> Instead, I see in the child's need an opportunity to create a healthy
> perspective of the matter in him, his thought - world, his life,
> beyond his need of sex and definitely without the least need in me to
> benefit / satisfy myself from his need of sex.
>
> Just an alternate view !
>
> On Apr 9, 11:49 pm, gruff <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > Perhaps it does matter.  Boys and men tend to be more sexually
> > aggressive than girls and women, though in the adult range of that
> > aspect, more women are beginning to come out of the timidity closet,
> > which pleases me to no end.  Or it did back when I was still able.
>
> > Nor does a child acting out sexually necessarily indicate a sexual
> > violation or abuse has taken place.  It may simply be a lack of love
> > in the home that causes that acting out -- though a lack of love can
> > certainly be considered abuse.  Or it could also be a vivid
> > imagination.  There are probably a host of reasons a child would act
> > out sexually, just as there are a host of reasons children act out in
> > many other ways.
>
> > As to whether that acting out would justify a response, well, in
> > today's emotional and irrational mindset many have regarding the
> > issue, I'd have to say there would be no justified response because it
> > would do no more than to place the child in the emotional chains of
> > shame, guilt and despair.  But I can conceive of a much healthier
> > environment where it would possibly be permissible to respond in
> > kind.  It just doesn't exist at this time.
>
> > On Apr 9, 11:03 am, Molly Brogan <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > boy or girl, does it matter?  children who act out sexually do so
> > > because they have been violated in this way.  But as a question of
> > > morality, would their approach justify any response to it?- Hide quoted 
> > > text -
>
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