Yes- empathy is probably a stretch to another branch of the "tree". How about consideration and respect? How about looking at things from the other's point of view? How about simple acts of courtesy? Boarding school had us doing curtsies to the nuns and Prime where we were awarded silver medals for the week...I don't think I got one for deportment, that I can remember- too much spirit! :-)
Well, I expected good table manners, behavior, attempts to order one's room, fairness at sports/games, etc. And I will open doors for the elderly, give up my place in line, etc. when I see fit. Maybe etiquette is comfort with little acts of kindness- even as simple as "please" and "thank you". Or thank you notes. Etc. I am not a fan of "in your face" tactics but have had stormy periods in my life. That's just life! On Apr 13, 8:06 pm, ornamentalmind <[email protected]> wrote: > 'Is etiquette a relative of empathy?' - rigsy > > No > > On Apr 13, 5:44 am, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > Is etiquette a relative of empathy? > > > On Apr 13, 6:13 am, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> > > wrote: > > > > Respect is something that must be taught. I learnt it the hard way > > > from my dad. I am teaching it to my own kids in rather an easir > > > mannor. But you are right OM, not everybody has it and not everybody > > > dervese to be shown it. So what does Rigsy mean I wonder? > > > > On Apr 13, 12:27 am, ornamentalmind <[email protected]> > > > wrote: > > > > > rigsy....how does that work?...if you don't mind? > > > > Thanks > > > > > On Apr 12, 5:31 am, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > I am not writing about phony etiquette but one that is based on > > > > > respect and order- yes, one that is sincere. > > > > > > On Apr 11, 8:30 am, ornamentalmind <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > > Sadly, etiquette, similar to most social niceties is but a lie...a > > > > > > form acted upon mechanically and not actually meant. In this vein, > > > > > > *IF* 'we' leave earth, 'we' will be taking the same weaknesses with > > > > > > us > > > > > > elsewhere...the weaknesses that have produced perpetual wars and the > > > > > > drive to reduce taxes to the state where education is crippled > > > > > > almost > > > > > > to the extent as to be unrecognizable. > > > > > > In this way, consciousness and our self knowledge and clarification > > > > > > of > > > > > > same are the most important aspects for survival...not just > > > > > > avoidance > > > > > > and 'escape'. > > > > > > > On Apr 11, 4:36 am, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > > > Free speech or cheap talk? The breakdown of etiquette has had a > > > > > > > negative impact on society and I have never thought a mob > > > > > > > charming. > > > > > > > > I think universal draft should be reinstituted- for both sexes- > > > > > > > after > > > > > > > highschool- except for those who wish to teach or perform some > > > > > > > volunteer work that requires additional training/education. I > > > > > > > haven't > > > > > > > worked out the details...yet! :-) > > > > > > > > On Apr 9, 2:14 pm, malcymo <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > > > > With regard to whether or not society is progressing. Is not > > > > > > > > scientific advance just altering the playing field? > > > > > > > > > Europeans left for the Americas fo similar reasons to those > > > > > > > > that we > > > > > > > > feel are necessary to leave the earth, though perhaps not so > > > > > > > > pressing. > > > > > > > > > The fact that we discuss these matters in relation to the > > > > > > > > survival of > > > > > > > > nature rather than just a desire to get away must be considered > > > > > > > > progress, musn't it. > > > > > > > > > ALSO:- > > > > > > > > > Within the last 200 – 300 years our lords and masters made > > > > > > > > perhaps one > > > > > > > > of the most courageous decisions which left them open to the > > > > > > > > powerful > > > > > > > > criticism of public opinion; they decide to educate all; enable > > > > > > > > everyone to read and write. The enormity of this step, albeit an > > > > > > > > enforced step, is difficult for us to conceive because we have > > > > > > > > known > > > > > > > > nothing other than our right to free speech. > > > > > > > > > Yes society does still act with hubris often motivated > > > > > > > > emotively by > > > > > > > > insecurities but the right to free speech among a large > > > > > > > > proportion of > > > > > > > > society must indicate a move forward. > > > > > > > > > Giving your population that right would be equivalent in > > > > > > > > magnitude to > > > > > > > > dissolving ones armed forces, would it not? > > > > > > > > > Malc > > > > > > > > > On Apr 10, 2:53 am, Chuck Bowling > > > > > > > > <[email protected]> > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > On Sat, Apr 9, 2011 at 3:05 AM, rigsy03 <[email protected]> > > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Hello, Chuck. Welcome aboard! > > > > > > > > > > > A common worry of animals- predator and prey. Humans have > > > > > > > > > > more > > > > > > > > > > categories of panic, don't they? > > > > > > > > > > I don't know. I'm not really clear on what 'categories of > > > > > > > > > panic' means. As I > > > > > > > > > understand it there are two reactions to fear - fight or > > > > > > > > > flight. Typically > > > > > > > > > in humans the higher functions of the brain shut down and > > > > > > > > > allow the more > > > > > > > > > primitive instincts to take over. In effect, in a raw > > > > > > > > > survival situation, we > > > > > > > > > become little more than animals ourselves. > > > > > > > > > > Of course there are different levels of anxiety with panic > > > > > > > > > being the > > > > > > > > > extreme. But, even there we aren't any different in the > > > > > > > > > actual feeling of > > > > > > > > > anxiety. I would hazard a guess that the only difference > > > > > > > > > would be in the way > > > > > > > > > we internalize our anxiety after the fact. > > > > > > > > > > As to my reply to the previous post; of course it was a joke. > > > > > > > > > I doubt > > > > > > > > > animals think much about jesus or god. If anything, I'd > > > > > > > > > imagine that they > > > > > > > > > see us as their gods. > > > > > > > > > > > This evening I heard a rattle on the driveway gate and I > > > > > > > > > > opened the > > > > > > > > > > door to see if a neighbor child was retrieving a ball that > > > > > > > > > > had flown > > > > > > > > > > over the fence. A fierce slap of wings and a huge bird took > > > > > > > > > > off- an > > > > > > > > > > eagle?- so quickly, I couldn't identify it plus I slammed > > > > > > > > > > the door in > > > > > > > > > > fear. Maybe it was an eagle who knows about the rabbits and > > > > > > > > > > other > > > > > > > > > > critters. It's always something! :-) > > > > > > > > > > > On Apr 8, 11:14 pm, Chuck <[email protected]> > > > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > On Apr 7, 7:34 am, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > to know what the animals think of us humans!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > They're thinking "don't eat me. oh jezus god, please > > > > > > > > > > > don't eat me!"- Hide quoted text - > > > > > > > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > > > > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text -
