honesty is the best policy , but thats a can of worms , if u like to do wrong but feel guilty about your actions , which is true to self ? , sobriety is a state of mind not blood , i once herd a comic say if u turn into an ass when u drink its because your an ass to begin with , always seemed to make sence . sobriety is a state of awareness . intoxication is eather a heightend or diminished state of awareness , or a person maintains a level state of awareness ,
does honesty tie in with judgement ? Ash wrote: > There are different behaviors and attitudes for different situations, > nothing for anyone to feel insecure about in that regard. Though I get > the point about some personalities being an inch deep, I've even caught > myself in that state, the feeling is shame I guess.. > > On 5/16/2011 2:19 PM, gabbydott wrote: > > Because we don't say so here. We keep it in the back of our minds. > > > > On Mon, May 16, 2011 at 3:35 PM, Chuck Bowling > > <[email protected] > > <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote: > > > > Why would that be inappropriate? We all do it - although some may > > lie about it. Changing who we are to fit the social context seems > > to be the norm. > > > > > > On Mon, May 16, 2011 at 6:14 AM, gabbydott <[email protected] > > <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote: > > > > I was just going to say that I tend to zoom in or out or > > switch roles depending on the situation, but I guess that this > > might be regarded as inappropriate also, hm. > > > > > > On Mon, May 16, 2011 at 8:49 AM, Chuck Bowling > > <[email protected] > > <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote: > > > > That probably depends on what kind of individual you want > > to be in a social situation. I think intoxication just > > numbs the part of the brain that provides an etiquette > > filter in social situations. After a few drinks you still > > know in the fore of your mind that staring at a girls > > boobs is inappropriate but you just don't give a damn. > > > > > > On Sun, May 15, 2011 at 10:37 PM, the taoist shaman > > <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote: > > > > is to forget self the best way to be an individual ? > > if not why then > > does intoxication lube socalization ? > > > > @\ /@ > > " > > VVVVV > > VVVVV > > > > the taoist shaman wrote: > > > this post below -it is almost impossible to be an > > individual- > > > individuality is essential to ... human life . if > > there is no > > > individual there can be no unity . u must unite with > > ones own self in > > > order to be a ''real'' part of ( unite with) > > society . there are > > > thous who fear , and try to silence , > > individualities , because they > > > themselves are not an individual , and dont want to > > be left out of the > > > whole . now someone might try and say '' to be too > > much of an > > > individual will separate a person from the whole '' > > i say that person > > > is separated from themselves , because ( like the > > many ways we all > > > speek of the same basic religion through differant > > symbolisms ) our > > > simmalaretys are greater than our differences > > > > > > > > > >
