That's a beautiful list, Archytas. Thank you.

On Oct 13, 8:23 pm, archytas <[email protected]> wrote:
> All cultures I've come across practice deceit - even chimpanzee ones.
> Thus the espoused theories run with theories-in-use. We used to hear
> the phrase 'keeping up with the Jones' a lot here.  Cultures are often
> equally daft.  There's one with no concept of paternity via sex,
> another that expects rotten selfish behaviour and another that treats
> its leaders with open disgust.  Cultures are the problem in many
> cases, little more than Idols of the tribe.  I take these as
> important:
> 1.hospitality
> 2.non-violence
> 3. mutual, tolerating respect
> 4.honesty
> 5. good times
> 8.mutual help
> 7.near equality
> 8. open, countervailing institutions
> 9.control over leadership
> 10.self-sustainability (including population control)
> 11.care for the elderly and disabled
> 12.respect and encouragement of innovation
> 13.means to prevent serfdom via capital accumulation, in few hands
> 14. anti-bureaucracy and the presence of satire.joy and thinking well
> of others
>
> On Oct 14, 12:25 am, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote:
>
>
>
> > The first two could be elegance of line and material; the second set
> > is do-able if you can retreat from the worldliness.
>
> > What about joy and humor? Are the cultures too formal and ritualistic?
> > Yet- they like the sound of slurped noodles which makes me smile.
>
> > On Oct 13, 10:28 am, Vam <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > Eastern thought :
>
> > > Manifest plainness
> > > Embrace simplicity
> > > Reduce selfishness
> > > Have few desires.
>
> > > ~ Lao Tzu ~
>
> > > On Oct 13, 6:27 pm, Vam <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > When and where did you come across a protest by more than a million
> > > > people against the govt of the day, without a single instance of
> > > > violence or bloodshed... to the point when the govt had to bend and
> > > > give in, further brought to its knees and accede to people's demand ?
>
> > > > It happened here. Why ? Because everybody can relate to something
> > > > inviolable in our learning from our past, acquired over millenia !
>
> > > > As I said... I can't fathom a society beset with a million miseries
> > > > that can still radiate a million smiles, where people without means
> > > > and expectations still mean well of others, still find something
> > > > valuable about themselves and their life to be helpful towards others,
> > > > still look up to the sun in the hopeless mornings, and to the moon in
> > > > the unbearable nights, and say to themselves, " All is well !"
>
> > > > It's a society where the worldly and the other-worldly is so enmeshed
> > > > in each other that people easily transit from one to the other... it's
> > > > revealing of the "cooling thoughts" I previously spoke about.
>
> > > > On Oct 13, 12:22 pm, gabbydott <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > I would like to understand what you are saying, Vam. Where is the 
> > > > > cooling
> > > > > thoughts within all this "chaos"? Do not judge? I'm afraid I'm not 
> > > > > getting
> > > > > your point yet. I hope you will enlighten me. Thank you for your 
> > > > > patience
> > > > > with me.
>
> > > > > On Thu, Oct 13, 2011 at 9:10 AM, Vam <[email protected]> wrote:
> > > > > > " I need to learn more about Eastern ways. I have read some things 
> > > > > > but
> > > > > > have not really integrated them into practice and thinking. I am
> > > > > > intrigued."
>
> > > > > > Don came back with a stereotype pic of India. I found it too 
> > > > > > idiotic a
> > > > > > start to take it forward.
>
> > > > > > People who visit India say they are " overwhelmed !" When there's
> > > > > > everything around you, anybody would be overcome. When you see 
> > > > > > conmen
> > > > > > and that fakir who'd pee on piled billions without a thought... it
> > > > > > simply becomes inexplicable... the poorest slum before the richest
> > > > > > mansion in the world, and the integration flowing in between, before
> > > > > > our eye, make it impossible to reduce the world, life and being to
> > > > > > black and white images. Judgement then would only add to the chaos !
>
> > > > > > So much misery and so many smiles... it's a chaos that works all
> > > > > > right. But if it doesn't blow up in a million mutinies, the credit
> > > > > > must go to those cooling thoughts from millenia before that spread 
> > > > > > all
> > > > > > over from Asia Minor, Central, East and Far East.
>
> > > > > > Welcome to Eastern Thought !
>
> > > > > > On Oct 13, 6:41 am, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> wrote:
> > > > > > > Some Protestant religions equated material success with God's 
> > > > > > > favor so
> > > > > > > that also played a part but yes- the West loves its rags-to-riches
> > > > > > > darlings, consider those who succeed have the right ambition and
> > > > > > > virtues- it's rather like a sport, isn't it? I seem to be missing 
> > > > > > > a
> > > > > > > profit incentive in my genetic make-up- my parents were fiercely
> > > > > > > materialistic but then I think they had seen the Great Depression 
> > > > > > > with
> > > > > > > their own eyes even though they were doing fine during the 30's- 
> > > > > > > like
> > > > > > > one of those peppy films. Yet ownership has risks because you are
> > > > > > > stuck and culture-laws-wars can turn life upside down so mother 
> > > > > > > saved
> > > > > > > string and rubber bands as well as a slew of dire warnings. :-)
>
> > > > > > > I need to learn more about Eastern ways. I have read some things 
> > > > > > > but
> > > > > > > have not really integrated them into practice and thinking. I am
> > > > > > > intrigued.
>
> > > > > > > On Oct 11, 11:32 am, Vam <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > The West admires those who push themselves to the top... that's 
> > > > > > > > how
> > > > > > > > they've structured their entire reward and punishment regime, 
> > > > > > > > and
> > > > > > > > their economics... marked by ownership.
>
> > > > > > > > The East has always propagated and believed in abnegating 
> > > > > > > > oneself,
> > > > > > > > putting one's ego aside... marked by compassion... despite that 
> > > > > > > > alpha
> > > > > > > > tendency of raising and riding on the ego that nevertheless 
> > > > > > > > happened
> > > > > > > > all the time.
>
> > > > > > > > These are TOTALLY different perspective to living, and values 
> > > > > > > > to guide
> > > > > > > > oneself by ! But the eastern way is possible, and perhaps the 
> > > > > > > > only way
> > > > > > > > out, if only China can unlearn its western ( marxist ) ideology 
> > > > > > > > !
>
> > > > > > > > On Oct 11, 5:17 pm, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> 
> > > > > > > > wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > I am currently reading Hoffer- books left "behind" by my ex 
> > > > > > > > > while he
> > > > > > > > > has my copy of the libretto of "Tristan and Isolde" and 
> > > > > > > > > Goethe's "
> > > > > > The
> > > > > > > > > Sorrows of Young Werther", etc. Quite amusing, at this point, 
> > > > > > > > > as he
> > > > > > > > > was a staunch Republican and I, an artsy type back in the 
> > > > > > > > > 70's-
> > > > > > > > > perhaps we were trying on each others "shoes". The Hoffer 
> > > > > > > > > books are
> > > > > > > > > "The True Believer", "The Passionate State of Mind" and "The 
> > > > > > > > > Ordeal
> > > > > > of
> > > > > > > > > Change" and I find "Believer" right on the mark re today's 
> > > > > > > > > various
> > > > > > > > > protests- if one can truly call them that.
>
> > > > > > > > > By "manners", do you mean ettiquette? I think the function of 
> > > > > > > > > both is
> > > > > > > > > to prevent humans from ripping each other apart- literally- 
> > > > > > > > > and
> > > > > > > > > provide "space" to navigate society.
>
> > > > > > > > > The competition among humans is fierce and that's the myth of
> > > > > > liberty/
> > > > > > > > > democracy- since groups/ideologies are safer than 
> > > > > > > > > independence and
> > > > > > > > > individuality.
>
> > > > > > > > > "Faith in a holy cause is to a considerable extent a 
> > > > > > > > > substitute for
> > > > > > > > > the lost faith in ourselves."//The less justified a man is in
> > > > > > claiming
> > > > > > > > > excellence for his own self, the more ready is he to claim all
> > > > > > > > > excellence for his nation, his religion, his race or holy 
> > > > > > > > > cause."//
> > > > > > "A
> > > > > > > > > man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth
> > > > > > > > > minding."//"The burning conviction that we have a holy duty 
> > > > > > > > > toward
> > > > > > > > > others is often a way of attaching our drowning selves to 
> > > > > > > > > passing
> > > > > > > > > raft. What looks like giving a hand is often a holding on for 
> > > > > > > > > dear
> > > > > > > > > life. Take away our holy duties and you leave our lives puny 
> > > > > > > > > and
> > > > > > > > > meaningless. There is no doubt that in exchanging a 
> > > > > > > > > self-centered for
> > > > > > > > > a selfless life we gain enormously in self-esteem. The vanity 
> > > > > > > > > of the
> > > > > > > > > selfless even those who practice utmost humility, is 
> > > > > > > > > boundless."//
> > > > > > > > > from "The True Believer"- Eric Hoffer
>
> > > > > > > > > Beyond these early quotes, I am reminded over and over again 
> > > > > > > > > of
> > > > > > > > > Obama's style and appeal to the masses. Some things never 
> > > > > > > > > change.
>
> > > > > > > > > On Oct 10, 6:24 pm, archytas <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > I'm always rather saddened when you bring up something like 
> > > > > > > > > > this
> > > > > > rigsy
> > > > > > > > > > - only because our UK newspapers are so unlikely too.  
> > > > > > > > > > Civilisation
> > > > > > > > > > and Its Discontents is a key volume in my subject area, 
> > > > > > > > > > through
> > > > > > > > > > Melanie Klein and the Tavistock School.  I tend to the view 
> > > > > > > > > > of
> > > > > > Freud
> > > > > > > > > > in the eloquent link, though there was madness in his 
> > > > > > > > > > practice.  My
> > > > > > > > > > own stuff tends towards the way 'manners' prevent a 
> > > > > > > > > > transparency of
> > > > > > > > > > interests (Elias, Veblen) and how much intellectual effort 
> > > > > > > > > > is
> > > > > > wasted
> > > > > > > > > > in this.  It's pretty obvious that the material could be a 
> > > > > > > > > > very
> > > > > > small
> > > > > > > > > > part of human existence if we weren't in such competition 
> > > > > > > > > > in it.
>
> > > > > > > > > > On Oct 10, 7:03 pm, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> 
> > > > > > > > > > wrote:
>
> > > > > >http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/10/09/freud-as-philosopher
>
> > > > > > > > > > > A lively essay, I felt, explained some conservative views 
> > > > > > > > > > > well-
> > > > > > on
> > > > > > > > > > > repression and self-restraint, ambivalence, emotional
> > > > > > unawareness.
>
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