Wow Andrea,
I was also a bit surprised by your response, and it certainly stirred me up
enough to respond.
My third birth was a hypno-birth state, and whilst I didn't experience pain
in the same way I did with my first two births, I was by no means
disassociated with the birthing process, in fact I found myself more attuned
to it because I wasn't focusing on the pain. It was a really interesting
experience for me, and surprised me that I wasn't feeling the pain in the
same way, the tightenings were real, I felt my baby descend, I felt my baby
kick, I felt and experienced more in that birth that I ever had, and it
wasn't through mindless or mindful distraction, rather a state of being.
During this particular pregnancy I had a wonderful midwife who really helped
me to work on myself emotionally and helped me to come to terms with many
stressful events that were happening at the time. Thank goodness she did,
because by the time I was ready to birth, I was able to totally surrender to
the process. Maybe that was why I experienced a pain free birth, or maybe it
wasn't? But the interesting point I wanted to make was that I naturally put
myself in a hypnotic state - with no guidance from anyone! So it made me ask
the question, if it is possible for a woman to do that, then what does it
take for her body to surrender and resppond in a way that does not involve
the use of pain. If I was to have a fourth child, it would be interesting to
see if I would have the same experience! Any other stories out there?
I personally see this as a very important role of the
carer/educator/supporter to be a friend and listen to these women, help
reframe things in their lives, and if there is a need for more specialised
psychological care, then at least they are aware neough to be able to refer
that woman on, otherwise no one would even know, had their 'minds,' not even
been acknowledged.
It is too easy to discount theories about pain and women in labour (because
a man came up with the idea!) without asking the question - 'how does that
happen?'
Lots to think about
Tracey




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I've been following the discussion about hypnobirthing with interest as
this is a topic I wrote about in one of my Diary entries back in September.
I won't go into my reservations here, but you can read what I have said
here:

http://www.birthinternational.com/diary/index.html

Look for the entry on September 17 (click on the calendar date)

I expect that this will fuel the discussion a bit more....

Andrea

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Andrea Robertson
Birth International * ACE Graphics * Associates in Childbirth Education

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