Perhaps hypnobirthing is the wrong label. Perhaps it is more about
achieving a peace within oneself naturally rather than hypnotising
oneself into an altered state, because when we think hypnosis we tend to
think of people doing crazy things on a stage and not knowing anything
about their own antics... By common definition the word implies a lack
of control, accountability and a susceptibility to control by others...
I just think we need to get past the labels. If by hypnobirthing you
mean getting into a relaxed state which we all know is so important in
labour (although I dare say women have given birth in all kinds of
states depending on their circumstances... How would you feel giving
birth during the bombing of Bagdad for instance?). My mother birthed my
sister in a pain-free state. She basically went into hospital after her
waters broke and then after a few hours of nothing felt the urge to
push... The midwife told her to hold on and left the room to get the
doctor but she said "no way" and seconds later the midwife caught my
older sister, just in time. I can tell you that my Mum was in no way
relaxed because she was all on her own until that final push but she
still had a pain-free delivery.

Just some more food for thought!

Cheers,

Cas.

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Hi Tracey,

I like to get people to think... that is always my first aim!

I wonder if what you were feeling in your third birth was actually the 
effect of endorphin release? As you know, the endorphins are directly 
affected by fear and anxiety and perhaps the wodnerful support you had
in 
your pregnancy that enabled you to work through your concerns from
earlier 
experiences meant that your andrenaline was lower, and your endorphins
were 
thus at a higher level than before.  Whilst you might think that this
was 
due to "hypno-birthing" perhaps it was your body doing what it does 
naturally. As a natural opiate, endorphins will create just this kind of

mental state that you describe and they will of course reduce the pain
you 
are feeling as well.

Let's remember that nature never intended women to suffer during birth
and 
provides endorphins to  get us through. If we ascribe their effects to
some 
kind of learned behaviour instead of acknowledging their purpose and
impact 
then we are selling ourselves and our wonderful innate capacity for
birth 
short, once again.

Love these kinds of debates....

Warm regards,

Andrea


At 02:50 PM 31/10/2003, Tracey Anderson Askew wrote:
>Wow Andrea,
>I was also a bit surprised by your response, and it certainly stirred 
>me up enough to respond. My third birth was a hypno-birth state, and 
>whilst I didn't experience pain in the same way I did with my first two

>births, I was by no means disassociated with the birthing process, in 
>fact I found myself more attuned to it because I wasn't focusing on the

>pain. It was a really interesting experience for me, and surprised me 
>that I wasn't feeling the pain in the same way, the tightenings were 
>real, I felt my baby descend, I felt my baby kick, I felt and 
>experienced more in that birth that I ever had, and it wasn't through 
>mindless or mindful distraction, rather a state of being. During this 
>particular pregnancy I had a wonderful midwife who really helped me to 
>work on myself emotionally and helped me to come to terms with many 
>stressful events that were happening at the time. Thank goodness she 
>did, because by the time I was ready to birth, I was able to totally 
>surrender to the process. Maybe that was why I experienced a pain free 
>birth, or maybe it wasn't? But the interesting point I wanted to make 
>was that I naturally put myself in a hypnotic state - with no guidance 
>from anyone! So it made me ask the question, if it is possible for a 
>woman to do that, then what does it take for her body to surrender and 
>resppond in a way that does not involve the use of pain. If I was to 
>have a fourth child, it would be interesting to see if I would have the

>same experience! Any other stories out there? I personally see this as 
>a very important role of the carer/educator/supporter to be a friend 
>and listen to these women, help reframe things in their lives, and if 
>there is a need for more specialised psychological care, then at least 
>they are aware neough to be able to refer that woman on, otherwise no 
>one would even know, had their 'minds,' not even been acknowledged. It 
>is too easy to discount theories about pain and women in labour 
>(because a man came up with the idea!) without asking the question - 
>'how does that happen?' Lots to think about
>Tracey
>
>
>
>
>-----Original Message-----
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>Robertson
>Sent: Friday, 31 October 2003 1:34 AM
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>Subject: [ozmidwifery] Hypnobirthing
>
>
>I've been following the discussion about hypnobirthing with interest as

>this is a topic I wrote about in one of my Diary entries back in 
>September. I won't go into my reservations here, but you can read what 
>I have said
>here:
>
>http://www.birthinternational.com/diary/index.html
>
>Look for the entry on September 17 (click on the calendar date)
>
>I expect that this will fuel the discussion a bit more....
>
>Andrea
>
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