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Picking up and moving and starting "anew" is an option. But, hearing what I have of Amy, she'll
resent that and leave you in the dusty in a matter of months or years.
Your S.O. should be NUMBER ONE one the list of love & respect. I don't think Amy is putting you
there. For your sake, Erik, maye you ought to look out for YOU ... baby or not right now. Why? Amy
may turn into her mother, dump you, and feed your child poison against your character.
Happened to us. :-( You think you know people then bam!
Lori Michaelson
Age - 41
C4/5 complete quad, 26 years post
Tucson, AZ
-------Original Message-------
Date: 01/15/06 13:54:17
Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] advice
Larry,
I've told Amy many many times that she /we needs to see a professional.
Every time I mention it she just gets angry. Amy's mother told the
pastor of her church about me and he agreed that Amy is wasting her time
with me. Even though Amy's mother refers to me as "that invalid" she
still needs her blessing. I feel better hearing from all of you. . I
told Amy that maybe we should hold off on having kids till we got things
straight with her parents, but we both knew that might never happen.
Eric
William Willis wrote:
> Jeez, Eric, that's one hell of a situation. my heart breaks for the
> two of you. She sounds like the grandmother in the movie "Flowers In
> the Attic." Evil hiding behind a Bible.
> It is unlikely that she will change, barring some miracle. If you
> haven't already, visit a professional counselor. Together, perhaps the
> two of you can give Amy the strength to face up to her. A few prayers
> wouldn't hurt either. I believe just hearing someone else confirm that
> you are in the right would be a source of strength. God bless you, my
> friend. Larry Willis
>
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