Bobbie (and anyone else going through bad times),
I'm so sorry to read about all the pain and sadness you're going through. It's
very hard to see another human suffering, especially when you care about them.
Add me to the long list of people on here who care and implore you not to do
anything to harm yourself.
You listed quite a number of factors that are bringing you down and to the
point of feeling out of control. It seems like you have identified the
problems, now you're seeking solutions. I agree with what others have said
about seeking medical attention for the depression. I also agree that it would
be beneficial for you and your husband to utilize caregivers for at least part
of the time. And please get your hubby to join you in counseling!
I pray you can take back control of your life. Take it day to day, one step at
a time and you will get there. Never give up--your life is valuable! If you
ever feel that no one cares just ask this group and we'll remind you that WE DO!
Don
c5-6 diving accident, 1982
Tempe, AZ
