I know it is so embarrassing to have an accident anywhere, even if you don't know the people you are around. I have had in department stores and I have had to ask the salespeople to send for someone to clean up. I know it is especially embarrassing when you are in classes. It's especially frustrating when you have to wait for someone to come help you, causing skin redness and irritation. I usually try to use Desitin and I have a prescription for vasolex from the wound clinic. _http://www.healthcentral.com/skin-care/r/medications/vasolex-top-148200_ (http://www.healthcentral.com/skin-care/r/medications/vasolex-top-148200) Dana In a message dated 11/30/2012 2:44:27 P.M. Central Standard Time, [email protected] writes:
Tod, THAT is one of THE WORST things to push aside in your mind and say "OH, well" If it help, I've been there. ((((HUGS)))). Bobbie On Nov 30, 2012, at 3:39 PM, Todd <[email protected]> wrote: > I felt like that TODAY as a matter of fact. Spent two hours this morning showering, putting on my nice work clothes and five minutes after getting to work I had a bad bowel accident. Spent the next 4 hours coming home and cleaning up. Those are the times I feel the lowest and most frustrated. > > On Nov 30, 2012, at 2:57 PM, Bobbie Humphreys <[email protected]> wrote: > >> Don, >> Those are fantastic idea's and that is exactly what I TELL other quads to do, but when it comes to my self ………….… I can't seam to think straight when I'm THAT ANGRY!!!! Right now I'm stuck in bed with a stubborn superficial wound that just won't do it's last bit to close. As I'm getting older, 57 now, it's taking longer to heal son of a @)+}\>! >> Bobbie >> >> >> >> On Nov 30, 2012, at 10:56 AM, Don Price <[email protected]> wrote: >> >>> >>> When I was first injured I bought a punching bag. Just one of those inflatable ones. I would punch it or knock it around with my chair when frustrated. >>> >>> Other ways I've found to deal with anger/frustration: >>> 1. music therapy. Crank the tunes! Use headphones if you need to. Find music for each mood and keep them on a CD or iPod. >>> 2. exercise. Dance in place, or exercise, in your chair until you wear yourself [and your anger] out. It really works! >>> 3. call a friend or write to the quadlist! >>> >>> Don. >>

