Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners
dear kanchan madam, osama bin laden didn't have blind parents. You have generalized simple coincidence On 7/2/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: same is applicable on sighted parents. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 10:30 AM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners My idea of asking was never to convey that all parents who are blind their children would become criminal. I just wanted to understand as too how do parents with blindness deal with such challenges. I have also seen cases where because of blindness one parent is considered less important in house after a point of time. And I have also seen cases where both blind parents have not been able to give adequate education to their children. But of course, that is not to say that all do the same. So if you and others can come out of their instant emotional reactions, then I can get a proper answer. The idea is not to defame anyone. Its just to understand the technicalities. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normal people interested in marrying blind partners
@Rajesh Sir: too harsh to classify ourselves as beggers. If someone is able to accept you with your disability for a life-long relationship, and otherwise you are at par with others in terms of education, finance, and otherwise,then where does begging come into the picture? @Ishita:I can understand your situation. You are at a stage where the little vision also matters for anyone in that circumstance. I do not completely disagree with your views; but what I would only say that don't keep this thought as a harsh bottem line. Thereby you will be closing your mind for a change which is not impossible to happen though howsoever less possible it may be. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normal people interested in marrying blind partners
@amar, Less possible change can be considered as exception. And exceptions are everywhere. i have just expressed my views. it doesn't mean i am not positive person. in fact i am realistic. That is why I believe that we can do lots of things but still we are becharas somewhere. On 7/2/14, Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com wrote: @Rajesh Sir: too harsh to classify ourselves as beggers. If someone is able to accept you with your disability for a life-long relationship, and otherwise you are at par with others in terms of education, finance, and otherwise,then where does begging come into the picture? @Ishita:I can understand your situation. You are at a stage where the little vision also matters for anyone in that circumstance. I do not completely disagree with your views; but what I would only say that don't keep this thought as a harsh bottem line. Thereby you will be closing your mind for a change which is not impossible to happen though howsoever less possible it may be. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marrying blind partners
@Rajesh Sir: Noted with thanks. @Bhawani Sir: somehow I skipped your reply. I get what you are saying. Lets not talk of the higher studies. Would be happy to understand, with a simple illustration like this. I am blind and you are sighted. May be we are equal in terms of education. You can help your child progress at a very young age. Examples could be proper hand writing, well maintained body language, helping child with the home work, projects (which even sighted people find challenging now a days due to the increasing educational competition), fansy dress competition, eating etiquettes, drawing, etc. etc. You could play with your kid in amusement parks and let him do whatever he wants. Whereas I may not be able to take part into certain activities. You can see and safeguard your kid in a park even if he is playing against your will. I cannot do so unless he gets hurt because there is no way for me to see as to what is it that he is doing and whether it is fine for him to do at this young age or not. I can simply be worried and be hopeful that all goes well. In such a case, is there anything specific we as individuals could do to make sure that there is a good connect between you and your children or the answer is that the children develop that understanding slowly in life? Now if I am blind and my spouce is blind, what are the solutions which people adopt? To my mind the answer could be either that you depend on the support of teachers (assuming that even they take the pain as if it was their own kid), or you depend on your family members who are non-blind. That is one of the major challenge which I feel a blind couple can be confronted with. And I want to understand based on the personal experiences of the members the ways to tackle with the same. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marrying blind partners
@amar You are just thinking of children. But if I am blind and if I marry sighted person in that case we both will have to lose a lot I will have to compromise with his education, social status or earning. If he is well educated, socially perfect and economically sound then he won’t accept me rather he won’t have any reason to accept me. At the same time he will always remember that he had to marry me because I had nice job or he couldn’t find proper girl in able bodied society. And if I marry with blind person and if we both are totally blind then we can bring our children properly if we have proper income For education we can hire personal teacher. For mobility we can keep full time driver. In that case also we may face difficulties but it would be 1000 times better then compromise. On 7/2/14, Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com wrote: @Rajesh Sir: Noted with thanks. @Bhawani Sir: somehow I skipped your reply. I get what you are saying. Lets not talk of the higher studies. Would be happy to understand, with a simple illustration like this. I am blind and you are sighted. May be we are equal in terms of education. You can help your child progress at a very young age. Examples could be proper hand writing, well maintained body language, helping child with the home work, projects (which even sighted people find challenging now a days due to the increasing educational competition), fansy dress competition, eating etiquettes, drawing, etc. etc. You could play with your kid in amusement parks and let him do whatever he wants. Whereas I may not be able to take part into certain activities. You can see and safeguard your kid in a park even if he is playing against your will. I cannot do so unless he gets hurt because there is no way for me to see as to what is it that he is doing and whether it is fine for him to do at this young age or not. I can simply be worried and be hopeful that all goes well. In such a case, is there anything specific we as individuals could do to make sure that there is a good connect between you and your children or the answer is that the children develop that understanding slowly in life? Now if I am blind and my spouce is blind, what are the solutions which people adopt? To my mind the answer could be either that you depend on the support of teachers (assuming that even they take the pain as if it was their own kid), or you depend on your family members who are non-blind. That is one of the major challenge which I feel a blind couple can be confronted with. And I want to understand based on the personal experiences of the members the ways to tackle with the same. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marrying blind partners
curiosity or quriyocity as in the thread subject: once a group of ladies took their kids to local part, out of the 5, one lady told him kid not to play in one corner of the park, as kids started playing, all ladies were enjoying gossip! After a while, 2 kids came and complained mom, ghaas se chot lag gayee (got scratches from the grass. The lady that asked his child not to play in that corner said, I told my boy to avoid that corner, I knew that corner has such sharp grass edges, where is my boy: the other lady replied, don't worry he is playing other side. Guess what, the odd one lady was blind. Just telling you this, because I feel that we all are equal, if not in terms of capabilities may be in terms of challenges that life throw at us and down the line we all face them with our experience. Late. MK Gandhi was never able to correct the handwriting of him eldest son, because his own handwriting was so poor, he was a sighted. One of my Friend father was not able to teach him Braille (all in the family were Blind) because both fater and mother were not educated and what they knew so well, chair canning, that too they could not teach to their kids, all girls and no one was interested in learning that. Every human is different and so their needs are, accept it and live happily and by the way, here is a tip to for those bline parents who want to correct their kids handwriting: grab a couple of cursive writing template books and ask you kid to practice. Get the template checked by some sighted friend once a while and remember the common mistake your kid does and the next time he start to practice, you keep reminding him about the mistakes, that's what I could do with my sister's daughter during the summer vacation, lovely time, pari f ka muh right me ho ga, j ke upar dot lagana and so on. Thanks With Best Regards Mukesh Sharma On 2 July 2014 16:09, Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com wrote: @Rajesh Sir: Noted with thanks. @Bhawani Sir: somehow I skipped your reply. I get what you are saying. Lets not talk of the higher studies. Would be happy to understand, with a simple illustration like this. I am blind and you are sighted. May be we are equal in terms of education. You can help your child progress at a very young age. Examples could be proper hand writing, well maintained body language, helping child with the home work, projects (which even sighted people find challenging now a days due to the increasing educational competition), fansy dress competition, eating etiquettes, drawing, etc. etc. You could play with your kid in amusement parks and let him do whatever he wants. Whereas I may not be able to take part into certain activities. You can see and safeguard your kid in a park even if he is playing against your will. I cannot do so unless he gets hurt because there is no way for me to see as to what is it that he is doing and whether it is fine for him to do at this young age or not. I can simply be worried and be hopeful that all goes well. In such a case, is there anything specific we as individuals could do to make sure that there is a good connect between you and your children or the answer is that the children develop that understanding slowly in life? Now if I am blind and my spouce is blind, what are the solutions which people adopt? To my mind the answer could be either that you depend on the support of teachers (assuming that even they take the pain as if it was their own kid), or you depend on your family members who are non-blind. That is one of the major challenge which I feel a blind couple can be confronted with. And I want to understand based on the personal experiences of the members the ways to tackle with the same. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marryingblind partners
unfortunately, so called sighted and educated couples also engage tutor for their children. where they are doing their homework and reading writing. secondly, now these days most of the education system has shifted towards digitisation. If me and you can write a mail to accessindia, then a blind couple can learn computers and educate them. the culture of amusement parks still awaited in small cities of india. this culture is suitable in metro cities. the married couple whether sighted or blind often stay with their one or more relative, why the blind couple can not stay with their sighted relative? Even a sighted house wife requires a kaam waali baai, then why it is not applicable for blind? sighted house wives are just watching tv and passing the time ideally at home, why they don't do all their business at home? however, I am a strong opinion that in case of blind, both husband and wife should be an earning partner. this will subsidise their disadvantages due to blindness. if one of them is not earning, then it will increase the expenditure, because we have to pay for each and every services. - Original Message - From: Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com To: accessindia accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 4:09 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marryingblind partners @Rajesh Sir: Noted with thanks. @Bhawani Sir: somehow I skipped your reply. I get what you are saying. Lets not talk of the higher studies. Would be happy to understand, with a simple illustration like this. I am blind and you are sighted. May be we are equal in terms of education. You can help your child progress at a very young age. Examples could be proper hand writing, well maintained body language, helping child with the home work, projects (which even sighted people find challenging now a days due to the increasing educational competition), fansy dress competition, eating etiquettes, drawing, etc. etc. You could play with your kid in amusement parks and let him do whatever he wants. Whereas I may not be able to take part into certain activities. You can see and safeguard your kid in a park even if he is playing against your will. I cannot do so unless he gets hurt because there is no way for me to see as to what is it that he is doing and whether it is fine for him to do at this young age or not. I can simply be worried and be hopeful that all goes well. In such a case, is there anything specific we as individuals could do to make sure that there is a good connect between you and your children or the answer is that the children develop that understanding slowly in life? Now if I am blind and my spouce is blind, what are the solutions which people adopt? To my mind the answer could be either that you depend on the support of teachers (assuming that even they take the pain as if it was their own kid), or you depend on your family members who are non-blind. That is one of the major challenge which I feel a blind couple can be confronted with. And I want to understand based on the personal experiences of the members the ways to tackle with the same. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marryingblind partners
very true bhavani sir. if they can earn 60 to 7 per month i am sure they can have the best life. though how much we need to spend good life that is subjective. On 7/2/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: unfortunately, so called sighted and educated couples also engage tutor for their children. where they are doing their homework and reading writing. secondly, now these days most of the education system has shifted towards digitisation. If me and you can write a mail to accessindia, then a blind couple can learn computers and educate them. the culture of amusement parks still awaited in small cities of india. this culture is suitable in metro cities. the married couple whether sighted or blind often stay with their one or more relative, why the blind couple can not stay with their sighted relative? Even a sighted house wife requires a kaam waali baai, then why it is not applicable for blind? sighted house wives are just watching tv and passing the time ideally at home, why they don't do all their business at home? however, I am a strong opinion that in case of blind, both husband and wife should be an earning partner. this will subsidise their disadvantages due to blindness. if one of them is not earning, then it will increase the expenditure, because we have to pay for each and every services. - Original Message - From: Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com To: accessindia accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 4:09 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are nnormal people interested in marryingblind partners @Rajesh Sir: Noted with thanks. @Bhawani Sir: somehow I skipped your reply. I get what you are saying. Lets not talk of the higher studies. Would be happy to understand, with a simple illustration like this. I am blind and you are sighted. May be we are equal in terms of education. You can help your child progress at a very young age. Examples could be proper hand writing, well maintained body language, helping child with the home work, projects (which even sighted people find challenging now a days due to the increasing educational competition), fansy dress competition, eating etiquettes, drawing, etc. etc. You could play with your kid in amusement parks and let him do whatever he wants. Whereas I may not be able to take part into certain activities. You can see and safeguard your kid in a park even if he is playing against your will. I cannot do so unless he gets hurt because there is no way for me to see as to what is it that he is doing and whether it is fine for him to do at this young age or not. I can simply be worried and be hopeful that all goes well. In such a case, is there anything specific we as individuals could do to make sure that there is a good connect between you and your children or the answer is that the children develop that understanding slowly in life? Now if I am blind and my spouce is blind, what are the solutions which people adopt? To my mind the answer could be either that you depend on the support of teachers (assuming that even they take the pain as if it was their own kid), or you depend on your family members who are non-blind. That is one of the major challenge which I feel a blind couple can be confronted with. And I want to understand based on the personal experiences of the members the ways to tackle with the same. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Very well said Nikita! I like the parts of going and asking people what they are wearing and finding out why everyone is complimenting them! Also the social obligation one! Actually there is a lot of arrogance in men blind or not, therefore they are a little worried when it comes to marriage. If you swant to have a successful and happy marriage, you need to learn to become humble! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of nikita vaid Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 11:14 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Hi all, I have been reading this discussion on and off on the move but could finally now get time to share some of my spontaneous thoughts. I would only like to share some of my personal experience as a born blind individual and as a wife of a sighted person. I have been married 3 years now it was a love but more like an arrange marriage. Trust me its no big deal when a blind person getting married to a sighted person. What is more important here is that how the blind person makes his/ her sighted counterpart very comfortable. I am very particular about all the work, house hold responsibility my duty towards my husband and the entire family just as any other sighted laidy is suppose to be. I always ensured that I workout the alternative ways/ arrangements by which my husband should never feel that his wife is any different person and that he is require to take up more responsibility . Its important for a couple to work on captalising upon each other's strengths To tell you frankly, though I cannot see, but majority of the small fights/ nok jhoks between me and my husband is pertaining to keeping the house clean, keeping all the things up to date, including his upto dateness in terms of his dressing where I keep on telling ye thik nahi hai and ye thik hai. Some time he jokeingly asks me also tumhe dikta nahi hai ese mujhe nahi lagta Its important that we as blind person are adequately confident about our selves and having this attitude of blind hai toh kaya hua really helps. In my family, both maiden side as well as in the inlaws side, I am taken as an example for the way I manage my house and also dress up my self. Bhawani ji was mentioning here that we as blind person cannot complement other on their dressing etc. but trust me its not difficult. If you can't complement on a person's - a color of the dress, may be u could complement on her perfume, her handback, jwelry etc if you are able to touch it. 1 very honest trik that I use is if say in my office 1 person is getting complements from other for her looks or dress, from others, I also go up to her and tell her that mam I am feeling good and happy that a lot of people are complementing you today I am sure u r looking good, can u describe the color of your dress to me if you don't mind, I am sure this is suiting you very much. There are ways to do so. And by and large people also realize that it may not always be possible for you being blind to complement them always. Many a times, just by touching, I tell my mother in-law. mummy this saree is good or this saree is not as good as your that saree so you change it. And to tell you, when ever my husband is going for an important meeting or occasion, its me who actually choose his clothes from the cubbord He also understands me but empathizes rather than sympathizing with me. One important thing I feel that we as blind individuals must be very rigid about and ensure that in no situation our sighted counter part should be under this impression that he has done a social obligation, or a great favor by marrying a blind person. Trust me if we are really confident and free from all fears, we are just no different and the opposite person has to understand this else he / she does not deserves us. I will keep on sharing my thoughts in this discussion no on. Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: These days very few young people look for permission to marry! So there is nothing much you can do if your son wants to marry anyone! My current
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Nikita, I would have shouted and jumped with joy had you been giving a speech! I confess that before reading your email I had little ideas how can a blind woman become a perfect life partner for a sighted man. You are superb, madam! I salute you and your rigid spirit of doing the impossible! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of nikita vaid Sent: 01 July 2014 11:14 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Hi all, I have been reading this discussion on and off on the move but could finally now get time to share some of my spontaneous thoughts. I would only like to share some of my personal experience as a born blind individual and as a wife of a sighted person. I have been married 3 years now it was a love but more like an arrange marriage. Trust me its no big deal when a blind person getting married to a sighted person. What is more important here is that how the blind person makes his/ her sighted counterpart very comfortable. I am very particular about all the work, house hold responsibility my duty towards my husband and the entire family just as any other sighted laidy is suppose to be. I always ensured that I workout the alternative ways/ arrangements by which my husband should never feel that his wife is any different person and that he is require to take up more responsibility . Its important for a couple to work on captalising upon each other's strengths To tell you frankly, though I cannot see, but majority of the small fights/ nok jhoks between me and my husband is pertaining to keeping the house clean, keeping all the things up to date, including his upto dateness in terms of his dressing where I keep on telling ye thik nahi hai and ye thik hai. Some time he jokeingly asks me also tumhe dikta nahi hai ese mujhe nahi lagta Its important that we as blind person are adequately confident about our selves and having this attitude of blind hai toh kaya hua really helps. In my family, both maiden side as well as in the inlaws side, I am taken as an example for the way I manage my house and also dress up my self. Bhawani ji was mentioning here that we as blind person cannot complement other on their dressing etc. but trust me its not difficult. If you can't complement on a person's - a color of the dress, may be u could complement on her perfume, her handback, jwelry etc if you are able to touch it. 1 very honest trik that I use is if say in my office 1 person is getting complements from other for her looks or dress, from others, I also go up to her and tell her that mam I am feeling good and happy that a lot of people are complementing you today I am sure u r looking good, can u describe the color of your dress to me if you don't mind, I am sure this is suiting you very much. There are ways to do so. And by and large people also realize that it may not always be possible for you being blind to complement them always. Many a times, just by touching, I tell my mother in-law. mummy this saree is good or this saree is not as good as your that saree so you change it. And to tell you, when ever my husband is going for an important meeting or occasion, its me who actually choose his clothes from the cubbord He also understands me but empathizes rather than sympathizing with me. One important thing I feel that we as blind individuals must be very rigid about and ensure that in no situation our sighted counter part should be under this impression that he has done a social obligation, or a great favor by marrying a blind person. Trust me if we are really confident and free from all fears, we are just no different and the opposite person has to understand this else he / she does not deserves us. I will keep on sharing my thoughts in this discussion no on. Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: These days very few young people look for permission to marry! So there is nothing much you can do if your son wants to marry anyone! My current husband's family were very against our marriage... but he ran away from home to marry me! Then in ten days all was well and now the family loves me perfectly! You just have to accept your children marrying anyone. The idea is to let them live out and find out. Just be there with them and there is a better chance of marriages to last if youngsters take responsibility of choosing their partners! You find partners for them... there is bound to be trouble at every spot! Because you will always be to blame for all the little/big things that may go wrong! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly. The relation based on compromise and pressure may or may not last long, but 1 thing is sure that, It will not urn happiness to any of them. In the jurny of life, you should be clear about your expectation from your partner [the expectation should be realistic]. When you think that you have met the right choice, you should speak your expectations, don't take anything for granted. At the same time be clear about the partners expectations from you. Just don't get married to a sited partner to substitute your blindness. That task can be completed by hiring the employee. Many of us run behind the sited partner because of social stigma, but we should remember 1 thing that our spouce is not the thing of exhibition. In the end, You and only you are responsible for your decision, and you have to rip the frute of your decision. So whatever you decide please decide with at most care from both partners point of view. Sorry for long mail. On 6/27/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You don't have to throw anyone off. But you certainly can use the divorce to part ways and begin again! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:32 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
well said Mahendrji, Hopes, in the future both blind and sighted will be equally live together. Slowly and gratually the avairness will be creat towards the blind by sighted. On 6/26/14, mahendra gal...@chello.at wrote: sight is not irrelevant, however by just marrying sighted person, is not an solution of the problem. some people think, now that they are married to sighted, and mostly boy marrying girl, is end of the matter, that don't need to work for there relationship at all. At 05:32 AM 6/26/2014, you wrote: Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners
madam! in general you can not touch anybody. in particular you can touch your close friends or relative. what example you have given I am already doing in my office, I was talking in general not in particular. -Original Message- From: nikita vaid Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 11:14 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Hi all, I have been reading this discussion on and off on the move but could finally now get time to share some of my spontaneous thoughts. I would only like to share some of my personal experience as a born blind individual and as a wife of a sighted person. I have been married 3 years now it was a love but more like an arrange marriage. Trust me its no big deal when a blind person getting married to a sighted person. What is more important here is that how the blind person makes his/ her sighted counterpart very comfortable. I am very particular about all the work, house hold responsibility my duty towards my husband and the entire family just as any other sighted laidy is suppose to be. I always ensured that I workout the alternative ways/ arrangements by which my husband should never feel that his wife is any different person and that he is require to take up more responsibility . Its important for a couple to work on captalising upon each other's strengths To tell you frankly, though I cannot see, but majority of the small fights/ nok jhoks between me and my husband is pertaining to keeping the house clean, keeping all the things up to date, including his upto dateness in terms of his dressing where I keep on telling ye thik nahi hai and ye thik hai. Some time he jokeingly asks me also tumhe dikta nahi hai ese mujhe nahi lagta Its important that we as blind person are adequately confident about our selves and having this attitude of blind hai toh kaya hua really helps. In my family, both maiden side as well as in the inlaws side, I am taken as an example for the way I manage my house and also dress up my self. Bhawani ji was mentioning here that we as blind person cannot complement other on their dressing etc. but trust me its not difficult. If you can't complement on a person's - a color of the dress, may be u could complement on her perfume, her handback, jwelry etc if you are able to touch it. 1 very honest trik that I use is if say in my office 1 person is getting complements from other for her looks or dress, from others, I also go up to her and tell her that mam I am feeling good and happy that a lot of people are complementing you today I am sure u r looking good, can u describe the color of your dress to me if you don't mind, I am sure this is suiting you very much. There are ways to do so. And by and large people also realize that it may not always be possible for you being blind to complement them always. Many a times, just by touching, I tell my mother in-law. mummy this saree is good or this saree is not as good as your that saree so you change it. And to tell you, when ever my husband is going for an important meeting or occasion, its me who actually choose his clothes from the cubbord He also understands me but empathizes rather than sympathizing with me. One important thing I feel that we as blind individuals must be very rigid about and ensure that in no situation our sighted counter part should be under this impression that he has done a social obligation, or a great favor by marrying a blind person. Trust me if we are really confident and free from all fears, we are just no different and the opposite person has to understand this else he / she does not deserves us. I will keep on sharing my thoughts in this discussion no on. Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: These days very few young people look for permission to marry! So there is nothing much you can do if your son wants to marry anyone! My current husband's family were very against our marriage... but he ran away from home to marry me! Then in ten days all was well and now the family loves me perfectly! You just have to accept your children marrying anyone. The idea is to let them live out and find out. Just be there with them and there is a better chance of marriages to last if youngsters take responsibility of choosing their partners! You find partners for them... there is bound to be trouble at every spot! Because you will always be to blame for all the little/big things that may go wrong! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marrying blind partners
Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to be tackled appropriately. Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and foremost, I am of the opinion that do not try everyone and anyone. Spend proper time, and then understand really is it what you are looking for? Forget be it blind or sighted. Second, I quite agree with Rajesh sir and Shadab bhaiya's views of being yourself and having your other qualities at its best which can then open a window for detailed and deep discussion. Disability related challenges need to be discussed not only between the individuals but also at the family level to avoid complications if any. If you have a decent earning prospects and a decent life wherein you are capable of upbringing your family well, then it is not as big problem as we see getting a sighted partner also. Again to emphasise, the only important aspect is to discuss the disability related challenges at the beginning itself to avoid issues in future. Nikita diii is just one exceptional example. maintaining yourself as a girl of that kind despite blindness also is a big thing to happen! But of course city, education, family and all plays a big role in that personality with which one comes out as an individual. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly. The relation based on compromise and pressure may or may not last long, but 1 thing is sure that, It will not urn happiness to any of them. In the jurny of life, you should be clear about your expectation from your partner [the expectation should be realistic]. When you think that you have met the right choice, you should speak your expectations, don't take anything for granted. At the same time be clear about the partners expectations from you. Just don't get married to a sited partner to substitute your blindness. That task can be completed by hiring the employee. Many of us run behind the sited partner because of social stigma, but we should remember 1 thing that our spouce is not the thing of exhibition. In the end, You and only you are responsible for your decision, and you have to rip the frute of your decision. So whatever you decide please decide with at most care from both partners point of view. Sorry for long mail. On 6/27/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You don't have to throw anyone off. But you certainly can use the divorce to part ways and begin again! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly. The relation based on compromise and pressure may or may not last long, but 1 thing is sure that, It will not urn happiness to any of them. In the jurny of life, you should be clear about your expectation from your partner [the expectation should be realistic]. When you think that you have met the right choice, you should speak your expectations, don't take anything for granted. At the same time be clear about the partners expectations from you. Just don't get married to a sited partner to substitute your blindness. That task can be completed by hiring the employee. Many of us run behind the sited partner because of social stigma, but we should remember 1 thing that our spouce is not the thing of exhibition. In the end, You and only you are responsible for your decision, and you have to rip the frute of your decision. So whatever you decide please decide with at most care from both partners point of view. Sorry for long mail. On 6/27/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
How idealistic talking going on? I can’t ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn’t get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly. The relation based on compromise and pressure may or may not last long, but 1 thing is sure that, It will not urn happiness to any of them. In the jurny of life, you should be clear about your expectation from your partner [the expectation should
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Dear Friends, I am also following the discussion on this topic. According to me, all human beeings are always having a mixture of good and evil thinkings and manerism in them. But they vary in percentages among all. Some times good nature overcomes the evil nature and vice versa. This nature will diffrentiate a good and a bad person. Simalarly, som of the nature and habits will coincide with one onother. Sometimes this nature will make others to attract. Searching a partner is not only based on physical activity or physical nature. Mindset is the main part to be checked while searching for a life partner. As per indian culture, marriage is not a small term aggrement, It is considered to be a life time agreement.So, It is our duty to analyse and get an appropriate partner to schdule our life in all circumtances. If any thing go apart from that we should have a mentality to adjust that situation.Getting a good partner is the best gift of god to us. Enjoying or suffering the life is based on selection of partner. So, I request you all to have a proper analysis before selecting the life partner. Thanks Saravanan.K +91 9916512402 Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
OK will see how much I can write. Any pointers? Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:31 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
People are unique and each person comes to the table with varied experiences in life. What appears to be impossible for some is at time possible with others. I think it is important for us to live our lives with an open mind aspiring for the best for ourselves. Predisposed ideas and notions will only shut doors for us. What is reality? For me reality is what is real for me. Likewise what is real for me might not be real for someone else. Nikita is living a life and all that she goes through in terms of experiences is real as far as she is concerned. I can always aspire to live my life like her . For that of course I need to give myself a fair chance. It might not be wise for us to define certain things as idealistic and some thing else as reality. If we do so, we might loose out. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of ishita kapoor Sent: 01 July 2014 14:33 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can’t ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn’t get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
Ishita, I understand your concern. But let me tell you that the picture is not all that gloomy. If you are good friends with some one especially in the same gender, then why will some one not let you get a feel of or describe his or her clothes etc. there is no questions of being over confident or hyper active, this will anyways not help it.. yes I agree that especially in the arrange marriages its difficult but not impossible jus because of blindness. A lot however also depends on luck. Why do we as blind persons have a tendency to remain so different / isolated from others in our general social live? Is in it that we assume a lot of things - especially negative ones on our own? Can we just try and change our own outlook to ourselves at least? Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can't ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn't get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners
Hi nikita, Yes you are right; we can touch clothes of our friends. But in office? Can I ask my manager or other person working with my institute that: are sir ya madam log apke kapdo ki kafi tariff kar rahe hai muje chhu lene do to mai bhi tariff kar sakun? Of course not. Here my point is: why a non disable decide to marry blind person? In my view if he or she doesn’t get proper match or you are earning handsomely then only he or she will think to accept us as life partner. I know that the picture is not as gloomy as it appears in my mail. At the same time it is not as real as your mails. We have limititation and noone wants kamzor life partner. We may get rather we can easily get non disable friends. But a non disable will never accept us as life partner without solid majburi. On 7/1/14, Nikita Vaid nikita.v...@bankofbaroda.com wrote: Ishita, I understand your concern. But let me tell you that the picture is not all that gloomy. If you are good friends with some one especially in the same gender, then why will some one not let you get a feel of or describe his or her clothes etc. there is no questions of being over confident or hyper active, this will anyways not help it.. yes I agree that especially in the arrange marriages its difficult but not impossible jus because of blindness. A lot however also depends on luck. Why do we as blind persons have a tendency to remain so different / isolated from others in our general social live? Is in it that we assume a lot of things - especially negative ones on our own? Can we just try and change our own outlook to ourselves at least? Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can't ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn't get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners
why we are discussing here marrying blind with sighted. better is to go for blind partner. I think that on the point of adjustment and conformity blind partner would be the better choice. however, I can't say anything more on it, because I am alone. Literally I have gone threw hell in my previous married life and it has legally been broken 5 years ago. I am not an expert on human relationship. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can’t ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn’t get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners
majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind cummunity. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to be tackled appropriately. Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and foremost, I am of the opinion that do not try everyone and anyone. Spend proper time, and then understand really is it what you are looking for? Forget be it blind or sighted. Second, I quite agree with Rajesh sir and Shadab bhaiya's views of being yourself and having your other qualities at its best which can then open a window for detailed and deep discussion. Disability related challenges need to be discussed not only between the individuals but also at the family level to avoid complications if any. If you have a decent earning prospects and a decent life wherein you are capable of upbringing your family well, then it is not as big problem as we see getting a sighted partner also. Again to emphasise, the only important aspect is to discuss the disability related challenges at the beginning itself to avoid issues in future. Nikita diii is just one exceptional example. maintaining yourself as a girl of that kind despite blindness also is a big thing to happen! But of course city, education, family and all plays a big role in that personality with which one comes out as an individual. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners
you are right ishita, if a sighted person marry a blind person then either he or she has fallen in love with him or he or she would be in a very compromising situation. I know some parents of blind earning daughter where they have paid a very high amount to purchase a sighted partner for her to marry her in own cast. we can not compare metros like delhi and mumbai with entire india. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:42 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners Hi nikita, Yes you are right; we can touch clothes of our friends. But in office? Can I ask my manager or other person working with my institute that: are sir ya madam log apke kapdo ki kafi tariff kar rahe hai muje chhu lene do to mai bhi tariff kar sakun? Of course not. Here my point is: why a non disable decide to marry blind person? In my view if he or she doesn’t get proper match or you are earning handsomely then only he or she will think to accept us as life partner. I know that the picture is not as gloomy as it appears in my mail. At the same time it is not as real as your mails. We have limititation and noone wants kamzor life partner. We may get rather we can easily get non disable friends. But a non disable will never accept us as life partner without solid majburi. On 7/1/14, Nikita Vaid nikita.v...@bankofbaroda.com wrote: Ishita, I understand your concern. But let me tell you that the picture is not all that gloomy. If you are good friends with some one especially in the same gender, then why will some one not let you get a feel of or describe his or her clothes etc. there is no questions of being over confident or hyper active, this will anyways not help it.. yes I agree that especially in the arrange marriages its difficult but not impossible jus because of blindness. A lot however also depends on luck. Why do we as blind persons have a tendency to remain so different / isolated from others in our general social live? Is in it that we assume a lot of things - especially negative ones on our own? Can we just try and change our own outlook to ourselves at least? Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can't ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn't get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners
Interestingly there is no argument as to weather a blind person must marry a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables or furniture; you therefore need to understand That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one can prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and there can be nothing worse and hellish than a bad marriage, incompatibility can lead to living life in hell! The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind cummunity. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to be tackled appropriately. Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and foremost, I am
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Don't worry, we all have unhappy experiences at times. I think you may just like to give yourself a break And get over it! If there are a few blind beggers, we cannot lable all blind as beggers... can we? So there is no need to lable anyone or any situation! Just go with the flow and take things slowly and you will find great people waiting for you! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners why we are discussing here marrying blind with sighted. better is to go for blind partner. I think that on the point of adjustment and conformity blind partner would be the better choice. however, I can't say anything more on it, because I am alone. Literally I have gone threw hell in my previous married life and it has legally been broken 5 years ago. I am not an expert on human relationship. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can’t ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn’t get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of George Abraham Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 12:09 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Cc: 'Deepti Gahrotra' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hey Preeti, Now that you have shared so much on the subject, why don't you write a blog post for us on the subject. I would be happy to publish. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 10:11 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily
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Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part? I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these are just my concerns. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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Hi All, This is turning out to be the most intriguing discussion that we've had in quite a while! I have thoroughly enjoyed reading all the posts; some people have made some really thought-provoking points. That being said, one thing which particularly struck a chord with me was what George Sir said about the need to enlarge one's social circle. That point, in my view, goes to the heart of the issue as that has a direct impact on your ability to possess the required qualities to be attractive, your ability to be an equal partner in a relationship, etc. Far too many of us spend most of our time engaging with other blind people and only enjoy talking about assistive technology and the challenges that our visual impairment entails all the time. While I agree that these things are very important and deserve our attention, I earnestly believe that doing these things to the exclusion of all else is the primary cause of our inability to effectively engage with sighted people, let alone sighted partners. My uniform experience has taught me that, those blind people who do not take their blindness too seriously and consider it another dimension, albeit a very important one, of their personality, are the ones who have more sighted friends and partners. If a blind person thinks that he is simply not good enough for a sighted person, then all his actions will reflect his low self respect and lack of confidence. As a result, this often ends up being a self-fulfilling prophecy. As others have rightly pointed out, what actually matters at the end of the day is not whether you have a sighted or blind partner, but whether you have the ability and willingness to contribute substantively to that relationship. In sum, we all, as blind people, have a choice. The choice is this: Do we want to view ourselves as blind people who must view everything around us through the lens of blindness (no pun intended), or do we want to view ourselves as intelligent, confident and competent individuals who happen to be blind? I am not denying the fact that many of our flaws and foibles can be attributed to our blindness and have to be suitably dealt with, but almost every important decision that we have to make eventually comes down to this choice. Best, Rahul On 01/07/2014, Nikita Vaid nikita.v...@bankofbaroda.com wrote: Ishita, I understand your concern. But let me tell you that the picture is not all that gloomy. If you are good friends with some one especially in the same gender, then why will some one not let you get a feel of or describe his or her clothes etc. there is no questions of being over confident or hyper active, this will anyways not help it.. yes I agree that especially in the arrange marriages its difficult but not impossible jus because of blindness. A lot however also depends on luck. Why do we as blind persons have a tendency to remain so different / isolated from others in our general social live? Is in it that we assume a lot of things - especially negative ones on our own? Can we just try and change our own outlook to ourselves at least? Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How idealistic talking going on? I can't ask a person working in my office to allow me to touch his or her clothes or hand to know how it is, unless I am over confident or hiper active. If I am blind person then I can allow my able bodied son or daughter to accept blind life partner willingly. Otherwise such things happen in fictions only. Arrange marriage between blind and sighted is only compromise. When a non disable doesn't get proper match in his world then only he or she thinks to marry blind person: as something is better then nothing. I also love to read idealistic comments but reality is not always bookish. On 7/1/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: 500 to 800 words. If you want to share more, you can break the and do it in two blog posts George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: 01 July 2014 13:19 To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners How many words? Will take me a few days though. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation
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Once again, Rahul, am taking this opportunity to invite all of you to come over to the next Fusion Meet on 3rd August Sunday at 2 pm. Please bring along your sighted and non disabled friends. And also may I request you guys to extend this invitation to all the other lists and to all your friends, family and contacts off the lists as well. We are trying to extend this invite to as many people we can so your colleaguesand co workers are also welcome. Anyone who would like to expand your social space is to come. Please do drop me a line of confirmation, so we can make arrangements. So now let us not only talk, let us take some action! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Rahul Bajaj Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:50 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners Hi All, This is turning out to be the most intriguing discussion that we've had in quite a while! I have thoroughly enjoyed reading all the posts; some people have made some really thought-provoking points. That being said, one thing which particularly struck a chord with me was what George Sir said about the need to enlarge one's social circle. That point, in my view, goes to the heart of the issue as that has a direct impact on your ability to possess the required qualities to be attractive, your ability to be an equal partner in a relationship, etc. Far too many of us spend most of our time engaging with other blind people and only enjoy talking about assistive technology and the challenges that our visual impairment entails all the time. While I agree that these things are very important and deserve our attention, I earnestly believe that doing these things to the exclusion of all else is the primary cause of our inability to effectively engage with sighted people, let alone sighted partners. My uniform experience has taught me that, those blind people who do not take their blindness too seriously and consider it another dimension, albeit a very important one, of their personality, are the ones who have more sighted friends and partners. If a blind person thinks that he is simply not good enough for a sighted person, then all his actions will reflect his low self respect and lack of confidence. As a result, this often ends up being a self-fulfilling prophecy. As others have rightly pointed out, what actually matters at the end of the day is not whether you have a sighted or blind partner, but whether you have the ability and willingness to contribute substantively to that relationship. In sum, we all, as blind people, have a choice. The choice is this: Do we want to view ourselves as blind people who must view everything around us through the lens of blindness (no pun intended), or do we want to view ourselves as intelligent, confident and competent individuals who happen to be blind? I am not denying the fact that many of our flaws and foibles can be attributed to our blindness and have to be suitably dealt with, but almost every important decision that we have to make eventually comes down to this choice. Best, Rahul On 01/07/2014, Nikita Vaid nikita.v...@bankofbaroda.com wrote: Ishita, I understand your concern. But let me tell you that the picture is not all that gloomy. If you are good friends with some one especially in the same gender, then why will some one not let you get a feel of or describe his or her clothes etc. there is no questions of being over confident or hyper active, this will anyways not help it.. yes I agree that especially in the arrange marriages its difficult but not impossible jus because of blindness. A lot however also depends on luck. Why do we as blind persons have a tendency to remain so different / isolated from others in our general social live? Is in it that we assume a lot of things - especially negative ones on our own? Can we just try and change our own outlook to ourselves at least? Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of ishita kapoor Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 2:33 PM To: AccessIndia
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners
Dear friends, instead of delliberating too much on this topic, why can't we share our own experiences of marriage, since it can help the youngsters in search of a partner. regards On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly there is no argument as to weather a blind person must marry a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables or furniture; you therefore need to understand That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one can prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and there can be nothing worse and hellish than a bad marriage, incompatibility can lead to living life in hell! The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind cummunity. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands
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Where do you live? Are you in Delhi? Because if you are, or if you canmake it, I wish to invite you for the forth coming Fusion meet at the India International Center on 3rd August and join me in shareing your valuable experience on this very important subject? Please do let me know. Warmly Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of habeeb. c Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 5:15 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Dear friends, instead of delliberating too much on this topic, why can't we share our own experiences of marriage, since it can help the youngsters in search of a partner. regards On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly there is no argument as to weather a blind person must marry a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables or furniture; you therefore need to understand That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one can prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and there can be nothing worse and hellish than a bad marriage, incompatibility can lead to living life in hell! The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind cummunity. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se
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he can explain it better. however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part? I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these are just my concerns. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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there is no formula of successful married life and successful marriage. even I have found that marriage councellors in mahila police stations are facing difficulties in their married life. there is a big difference between philosophy and practicle. -Original Message- From: Preeti Monga Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:04 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested inmarryingblind partners Interestingly there is no argument as to weather a blind person must marry a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables or furniture; you therefore need to understand That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one can prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and there can be nothing worse and hellish than a bad marriage, incompatibility can lead to living life in hell! The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind cummunity. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence
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partners for them... there is bound to be trouble at every spot! Because you will always be to blame for all the little/big things that may go wrong! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Saturday, June 28, 2014 5:10 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Ashida madam, Sorry for delayed reply due to my occupation. If my son interested to marry with blind girl. Really I will give the permission to him. I assured this is a white line of the black stone. On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against
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Friends When the issue of compatibility is considered key in creating conducive climate for couple's career, better professional background should be given the utmost priority while finding partner. It can work well in arrange marages, but in love? nothing can be surmised and all happens at one go. either you swim or you sink... but Ideally, we blind people should also seek partners from the same professional background. For example, I'd be glad to live my marital life with someone who should also belong to academics and preferably from disability studies. So my disability issues will be taken care of before hand... On 7/1/14, Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com wrote: Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to be tackled appropriately. Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and foremost, I am of the opinion that do not try everyone and anyone. Spend proper time, and then understand really is it what you are looking for? Forget be it blind or sighted. Second, I quite agree with Rajesh sir and Shadab bhaiya's views of being yourself and having your other qualities at its best which can then open a window for detailed and deep discussion. Disability related challenges need to be discussed not only between the individuals but also at the family level to avoid complications if any. If you have a decent earning prospects and a decent life wherein you are capable of upbringing your family well, then it is not as big problem as we see getting a sighted partner also. Again to emphasise, the only important aspect is to discuss the disability related challenges at the beginning itself to avoid issues in future. Nikita diii is just one exceptional example. maintaining yourself as a girl of that kind despite blindness also is a big thing to happen! But of course city, education, family and all plays a big role in that personality with which one comes out as an individual. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its
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congratulation dear, being a sighted person you have decided to marry a blind girl. It is rarely found that a sighted person married a blind girl and you are one of them. I have raised 2 points in my previous messages and you have fullfilled one of them. as you were in love before your marriage. - Original Message - From: Muthu Raj mu...@enable-india.org To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 8:01 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Hi friends, Greetings from sighted husband and visually impaired house wife and of course sighted toddler- baby boy born to them, jeevan - the sighted baby swarna - totally blind, but completely independent house wife and a loving mother of 2 kids (me and my son) I fell in love with swarna when she was interning with enable India and I was working here, BTW still working :-) our relationship started as student teacher then blossomed into friendship then into love, like any other love story we too had opposition from parents, but our love was strong enough to convince and control our parents into getting us married with mutual consent from our both parents BTW this this august will be our fifth wedding anniversary. love is blind after all, it does see any disability :-) Cheers from jsm family On 1 Jul 2014 05:44, nikita vaid nikita.h...@gmail.com wrote: Hi all, I have been reading this discussion on and off on the move but could finally now get time to share some of my spontaneous thoughts. I would only like to share some of my personal experience as a born blind individual and as a wife of a sighted person. I have been married 3 years now it was a love but more like an arrange marriage. Trust me its no big deal when a blind person getting married to a sighted person. What is more important here is that how the blind person makes his/ her sighted counterpart very comfortable. I am very particular about all the work, house hold responsibility my duty towards my husband and the entire family just as any other sighted laidy is suppose to be. I always ensured that I workout the alternative ways/ arrangements by which my husband should never feel that his wife is any different person and that he is require to take up more responsibility . Its important for a couple to work on captalising upon each other's strengths To tell you frankly, though I cannot see, but majority of the small fights/ nok jhoks between me and my husband is pertaining to keeping the house clean, keeping all the things up to date, including his upto dateness in terms of his dressing where I keep on telling ye thik nahi hai and ye thik hai. Some time he jokeingly asks me also tumhe dikta nahi hai ese mujhe nahi lagta Its important that we as blind person are adequately confident about our selves and having this attitude of blind hai toh kaya hua really helps. In my family, both maiden side as well as in the inlaws side, I am taken as an example for the way I manage my house and also dress up my self. Bhawani ji was mentioning here that we as blind person cannot complement other on their dressing etc. but trust me its not difficult. If you can't complement on a person's - a color of the dress, may be u could complement on her perfume, her handback, jwelry etc if you are able to touch it. 1 very honest trik that I use is if say in my office 1 person is getting complements from other for her looks or dress, from others, I also go up to her and tell her that mam I am feeling good and happy that a lot of people are complementing you today I am sure u r looking good, can u describe the color of your dress to me if you don't mind, I am sure this is suiting you very much. There are ways to do so. And by and large people also realize that it may not always be possible for you being blind to complement them always. Many a times, just by touching, I tell my mother in-law. mummy this saree is good or this saree is not as good as your that saree so you change it. And to tell you, when ever my husband is going for an important meeting or occasion, its me who actually choose his clothes from the cubbord He also understands me but empathizes rather than sympathizing with me. One important thing I feel that we as blind individuals must be very rigid about and ensure that in no situation our sighted counter part should be under this impression that he has done a social obligation, or a great favor by marrying a blind person. Trust me if we are really confident and free from all fears, we are just no different and the opposite person has to understand this else he / she does not deserves us. I will keep on sharing my thoughts in this discussion no on. Thanks and warm Regards, Nikita V. Raut, Senior Manager [HR] Baroda Corporate Center, Bank of Baroda, On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: These days very
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Bhiwani, I have found in afew cases that sighted children who have blind parents or even one blind parent, sometimes becomes headstrong, spoilt and in rare cases acriminal. I know that you wont hear of these because parents wont complain to the Authorities but many seek my advice when it is too late. Of course this can happen in so called sighted society. Kanchan -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: 01 July 2014 17:29 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners he can explain it better. however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part? I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these are just my concerns. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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I have 2 sighted children, and when I divorced my first husband after 11 years of an abusive marriage, everyone warned me that my children, a daughter and a son, will go on the wrong track and become spoilt and develop all bad habits! I was most concerned but I only kept my belief in the saying, lead by example. And I am blessed and delighted to let you know that both my children have turned out into wonderful adults, responsible, ethical, sensitive and great citizens! I thank God and everyone who are responsible for this. They both are now married, independent and my daughter is a great mother to her 2 children. So, maybe, it is not blindness that is what is important, but the values that we practice ourselves that makes our children what they become! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of KanchanPamnani Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 8:46 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Bhiwani, I have found in afew cases that sighted children who have blind parents or even one blind parent, sometimes becomes headstrong, spoilt and in rare cases acriminal. I know that you wont hear of these because parents wont complain to the Authorities but many seek my advice when it is too late. Of course this can happen in so called sighted society. Kanchan -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: 01 July 2014 17:29 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners he can explain it better. however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part? I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these are just my concerns. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com
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I would like to know how blindness contributes to becoming headstrong or criminal. Specifically how does lack of sight help foster such tendencies, if at all? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of KanchanPamnani Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 8:46 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Bhiwani, I have found in afew cases that sighted children who have blind parents or even one blind parent, sometimes becomes headstrong, spoilt and in rare cases acriminal. I know that you wont hear of these because parents wont complain to the Authorities but many seek my advice when it is too late. Of course this can happen in so called sighted society. Kanchan -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: 01 July 2014 17:29 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners he can explain it better. however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part? I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these are just my concerns. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Caution: The Reserve Bank of India never sends mails, smses or makes calls asking for personal information such as your bank account details, passwords, etc. It never keeps or offers funds to anyone. Please do not respond in any manner to such offers, however official or attractive they may look. Notice: This email and any files transmitted with it are confidential and intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you are not the intended recipient, any dissemination, use, review, distribution, printing or copying of the information contained in this e-mail message and/or attachments to it are strictly
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marrying blind partners
My idea of asking was never to convey that all parents who are blind their children would become criminal. I just wanted to understand as too how do parents with blindness deal with such challenges. I have also seen cases where because of blindness one parent is considered less important in house after a point of time. And I have also seen cases where both blind parents have not been able to give adequate education to their children. But of course, that is not to say that all do the same. So if you and others can come out of their instant emotional reactions, then I can get a proper answer. The idea is not to defame anyone. Its just to understand the technicalities. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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Also a good idea I think. But there should a few more thoughts on this one, like matching values! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 9:32 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marrying blind partners Friends When the issue of compatibility is considered key in creating conducive climate for couple's career, better professional background should be given the utmost priority while finding partner. It can work well in arrange marages, but in love? nothing can be surmised and all happens at one go. either you swim or you sink... but Ideally, we blind people should also seek partners from the same professional background. For example, I'd be glad to live my marital life with someone who should also belong to academics and preferably from disability studies. So my disability issues will be taken care of before hand... On 7/1/14, Amar Jain amarjain2...@gmail.com wrote: Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. blind. Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind partner at that basic level. But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That has got nothing to do with disability per se. It also depends how well you can play your role in that other partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over dependent on her. The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to be tackled appropriately. Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and foremost, I am of the opinion that do not try everyone and anyone. Spend proper time, and then understand really is it what you are looking for? Forget be it blind or sighted. Second, I quite agree with Rajesh sir and Shadab bhaiya's views of being yourself and having your other qualities at its best which can then open a window for detailed and deep discussion. Disability related challenges need to be discussed not only between the individuals but also at the family level to avoid complications if any. If you have a decent earning prospects and a decent life wherein you are capable of upbringing your family well, then it is not as big problem as we see getting a sighted partner also. Again to emphasise, the only important aspect is to discuss the disability related challenges at the beginning itself to avoid issues
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marrying blind partners
Please remember the answer that I found, if you have read my last posting, is Lead by Example! If you can diligently do that properly and honestly, then there is absolutely no problem. Incidentally, I am the blind parent, and my children even today, know that it is the mom they need to keep in good humer and all will be well! So don't worry, children are the true reflection of what we have made of them by setting examples! Usually, we have all the lecturing and correcting for our children, when in the true sense, we are doing exactly the opposite in our own actions! Then, we are sending out completely conflicting messages to them. And mind you, this holds true for even toddlers and very small children. We feel they dont understand, but it is the exact opposite! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Amar Jain Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 10:31 AM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marrying blind partners My idea of asking was never to convey that all parents who are blind their children would become criminal. I just wanted to understand as too how do parents with blindness deal with such challenges. I have also seen cases where because of blindness one parent is considered less important in house after a point of time. And I have also seen cases where both blind parents have not been able to give adequate education to their children. But of course, that is not to say that all do the same. So if you and others can come out of their instant emotional reactions, then I can get a proper answer. The idea is not to defame anyone. Its just to understand the technicalities. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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Yes, there is a big difference in practicing what you preach! Yes, there is no fixed formula for a good marriage, but you need to become open to trying to find the things which could work for you in particular. Remember, every human, has good and bad points, so you need to work on the relationship. And of course, if you have done whatever you can do, and find it is still not working out, it is a good idea to opt out gracefully so that you don't spread the negative beyond to infect your complete environment! Try and try again, learn from your own experiences and try not to make the same mistakes over again, and you will get to the right marriage. But, in all this be careful, we all look for faults in the other partner... stop a moment and look at yourself! The fault just may lie inside you yourself. So don't shy away for working on your own self and look to improve your own self. Listen to the feedback your partner maybe giving you and see if he or she is saying something that you actually may need to work on improving upon yourself. For the only person you can change is yourself, and no one else. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 5:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested inmarryingblind partners there is no formula of successful married life and successful marriage. even I have found that marriage councellors in mahila police stations are facing difficulties in their married life. there is a big difference between philosophy and practicle. -Original Message- From: Preeti Monga Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:04 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested inmarryingblind partners Interestingly there is no argument as to weather a blind person must marry a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables or furniture; you therefore need to understand That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one can prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and there can be nothing worse and hellish than a bad marriage, incompatibility can lead to living life in hell! The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 10-12 emails in accessindia group can
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same is applicable on sighted parents. -Original Message- From: Amar Jain Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 10:30 AM To: accessindia Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners My idea of asking was never to convey that all parents who are blind their children would become criminal. I just wanted to understand as too how do parents with blindness deal with such challenges. I have also seen cases where because of blindness one parent is considered less important in house after a point of time. And I have also seen cases where both blind parents have not been able to give adequate education to their children. But of course, that is not to say that all do the same. So if you and others can come out of their instant emotional reactions, then I can get a proper answer. The idea is not to defame anyone. Its just to understand the technicalities. Regards, -- Amar Jain. Website: www.amarjain.com Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Dear Bhawani sir I read a piece a fortnight ago 'outliers of motherhood' gifted to me by one of my friends on my birthday she is doing PHD here. where author very convincingly argues do we ever think why we want to produce children? She writes 'when a woman is busy in erratic workaholics hours at the workplace and her body desires to produce, but she isn't comfortable to bring him/her up why she is forced to do so'? So the fundamental question she raises and I found it very fascinating, why we marry? And the second thing which I wish to respond to your valid concern about 'eye-contact' by textually narrating a small story. Once after the seminar on Possibility of Modi coming and the future of India got over at India International Centre, we were having drinks at the venue. Students and teachers were socializing together. Suddenly one lady journalist working with HT leaned forward and inclined to shake hands and I had no clue since I was dam busy in finishing my flask. Next moment, One of my friends told me her facial expression were going little reddish, you need to act, I felt sorry and took initiative on my own and shook hands. Then she after a minute silence, said something in little nashili voice to me which I still remember: 'your and my identities is full in many ways. The many vacuums in life will be there no matter how much we enjoy it with things and people.' And I think same is the case with eye-contact... At first meeting it may trouble blind/non-blind daters, but as things develop all can be smartly managed. On 6/29/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel comfortable to my ideal friends. a blind person himself make him handsome or beautiful but, can not judge other's beauteousness. - Original Message - From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 3:03 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five
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I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly. The relation based on compromise and pressure may or may not last long, but 1 thing is sure that, It will not urn happiness to any of them. In the jurny of life, you should be clear about your expectation from your partner [the expectation should be realistic]. When you think that you have met the right choice, you should speak your expectations, don't take anything for granted. At the same time be clear about the partners expectations from you. Just don't get married to a sited partner to substitute your blindness. That task can be completed by hiring the employee. Many of us run behind the sited partner because of social stigma, but we should remember 1 thing that our spouce is not the thing of exhibition. In the end, You and only you are responsible for your decision, and you have to rip the frute of your decision. So whatever you decide please decide with at most care from both partners point of view. Sorry for long mail. On 6/27/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You don't have to throw anyone off. But you certainly can use the divorce to part ways and begin again! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:32 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs
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please read my all replies carefully. I have also wrote that a blind person should develop his or her personality. how many blind people have a good personality. I am not talking about access indians or other who have a proper reach to all the facilities. specially in india blindness and poority comes together. however, I believe that there is no formula of a successful married life. the topic was now has turned towards dating. sighted girl and boy can date with a blind person but, the real life starts after marrige. regarding having children or not, specially in india, doing marrige and having babies are a very vital social thing. this is the reason we have cross 125cr of population. -Original Message- From: avinash shahi Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:39 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Bhawani sir I read a piece a fortnight ago 'outliers of motherhood' gifted to me by one of my friends on my birthday she is doing PHD here. where author very convincingly argues do we ever think why we want to produce children? She writes 'when a woman is busy in erratic workaholics hours at the workplace and her body desires to produce, but she isn't comfortable to bring him/her up why she is forced to do so'? So the fundamental question she raises and I found it very fascinating, why we marry? And the second thing which I wish to respond to your valid concern about 'eye-contact' by textually narrating a small story. Once after the seminar on Possibility of Modi coming and the future of India got over at India International Centre, we were having drinks at the venue. Students and teachers were socializing together. Suddenly one lady journalist working with HT leaned forward and inclined to shake hands and I had no clue since I was dam busy in finishing my flask. Next moment, One of my friends told me her facial expression were going little reddish, you need to act, I felt sorry and took initiative on my own and shook hands. Then she after a minute silence, said something in little nashili voice to me which I still remember: 'your and my identities is full in many ways. The many vacuums in life will be there no matter how much we enjoy it with things and people.' And I think same is the case with eye-contact... At first meeting it may trouble blind/non-blind daters, but as things develop all can be smartly managed. On 6/29/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel comfortable to my ideal friends. a blind person himself make him handsome or beautiful but, can not judge other's beauteousness. - Original Message - From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 3:03 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus
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Hey Shadab, Excellent quote. Sums it up for me. I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something I can do. What I can do, I should do. And what I should do, by the grace of God, I will do. EDWARD EVERETT HALE, NINETEENTH-CENTURY UNITARIAN CLERGYMAN AND WRITER If i desire a partner for dating or for marriage, i will do everything possible to get her to agree. Be it good physic, good demeaner, be it good money or vocation or knowledge and interests. A girl is not a proto type product. Every female is different; one may like spending time with you because you are funny or another for your street smartness. One may like talking about books or another about sports or movies. But that;s just a starter, you need to connect emotionally after the first interactions and that does not require sight. You should ask your self if i were a sighted girl or a guy, what things i would desire in my blind partner to be able to accept him/her with visual disability. Answers in priority order: Emotional connect Compatibility (Able to be yourself) Values and beliefs Intellectual levels Physical match Trust and confidence Money Bottomline: how can one contribute in the relationship. And at the end of the day what above quote suggests; you wish to or say you badly want to do it or not? When you will realise that the most important phase in your life is romantic youth. I know you will try, but please try in dignified manner. Never impose your self on any woman if she doesn't like you. So create opportunities and exposure by meeting new people at new places. Don't sit back. Experience it. Time is the most valuable thing in the world. Cheers On 6/30/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: please read my all replies carefully. I have also wrote that a blind person should develop his or her personality. how many blind people have a good personality. I am not talking about access indians or other who have a proper reach to all the facilities. specially in india blindness and poority comes together. however, I believe that there is no formula of a successful married life. the topic was now has turned towards dating. sighted girl and boy can date with a blind person but, the real life starts after marrige. regarding having children or not, specially in india, doing marrige and having babies are a very vital social thing. this is the reason we have cross 125cr of population. -Original Message- From: avinash shahi Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:39 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Bhawani sir I read a piece a fortnight ago 'outliers of motherhood' gifted to me by one of my friends on my birthday she is doing PHD here. where author very convincingly argues do we ever think why we want to produce children? She writes 'when a woman is busy in erratic workaholics hours at the workplace and her body desires to produce, but she isn't comfortable to bring him/her up why she is forced to do so'? So the fundamental question she raises and I found it very fascinating, why we marry? And the second thing which I wish to respond to your valid concern about 'eye-contact' by textually narrating a small story. Once after the seminar on Possibility of Modi coming and the future of India got over at India International Centre, we were having drinks at the venue. Students and teachers were socializing together. Suddenly one lady journalist working with HT leaned forward and inclined to shake hands and I had no clue since I was dam busy in finishing my flask. Next moment, One of my friends told me her facial expression were going little reddish, you need to act, I felt sorry and took initiative on my own and shook hands. Then she after a minute silence, said something in little nashili voice to me which I still remember: 'your and my identities is full in many ways. The many vacuums in life will be there no matter how much we enjoy it with things and people.' And I think same is the case with eye-contact... At first meeting it may trouble blind/non-blind daters, but as things develop all can be smartly managed. On 6/29/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel
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When we do get married, we of course feel that it is the best choice... but... it is only after sometime that one really finds out if you have made the best one! When you find out how much noise he/she makes in the bathroom... how he/she brushes his/her teeth... how are her/his eating habits... and the other daily habits and what can tip off the bad temper switch... all these things are not found out for certain till you begin living together like husband and wife! So there is a great deal of adjustment, and if you really have chosen the spouce with matching values, you may be in good luck for a lasting relationship... a happy one! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Zoher Kheriwala Sent: Monday, June 30, 2014 11:50 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners I remember of my childhood story, I use to get 10 rs. To spent every day. After buying Panipuri with that money I use to think I should have bought bhel instead. The point I want to make that whatever you want to decide for your marrege you should be sure that whatever you are choosing should be best for you and make sure that your partner should also think that you are the best possible choice. So both of the partners can live happyly. The relation based on compromise and pressure may or may not last long, but 1 thing is sure that, It will not urn happiness to any of them. In the jurny of life, you should be clear about your expectation from your partner [the expectation should be realistic]. When you think that you have met the right choice, you should speak your expectations, don't take anything for granted. At the same time be clear about the partners expectations from you. Just don't get married to a sited partner to substitute your blindness. That task can be completed by hiring the employee. Many of us run behind the sited partner because of social stigma, but we should remember 1 thing that our spouce is not the thing of exhibition. In the end, You and only you are responsible for your decision, and you have to rip the frute of your decision. So whatever you decide please decide with at most care from both partners point of view. Sorry for long mail. On 6/27/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You don't have to throw anyone off. But you certainly can use the divorce to part ways and begin again! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:32 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled
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Avinash, Let me try to answer from my prospective... We girls like to have a handsome man around! I would look at someone tall and well built with a fit and clean body... no bad body smells! Someone with a kind voice, gentel manners, sencitive outlook, chivalrous and intelligent, someone who can control his temper, does not fall into alcohol at a drop of a hat... no unnecessary flattering, keeps his hands in control, is a good dancer and can partner with me, can treat women as equals and has guts to keep his commitments! Girls, have you anything to add to this list? I think we should take this opportunity to educate our blind men as to what we may like them to be like? And mind you guys, sighted girls also would love these attributes in you! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 2:04 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five and so on. And my notion of beauty is matured, duration guaranteed, it accords full recognition to the other one and simply more humanistic. Discussion ends there on such high note... I'd be glad to know how women with blindness perceive beauty in others? On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience
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These days very few young people look for permission to marry! So there is nothing much you can do if your son wants to marry anyone! My current husband's family were very against our marriage... but he ran away from home to marry me! Then in ten days all was well and now the family loves me perfectly! You just have to accept your children marrying anyone. The idea is to let them live out and find out. Just be there with them and there is a better chance of marriages to last if youngsters take responsibility of choosing their partners! You find partners for them... there is bound to be trouble at every spot! Because you will always be to blame for all the little/big things that may go wrong! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Saturday, June 28, 2014 5:10 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Ashida madam, Sorry for delayed reply due to my occupation. If my son interested to marry with blind girl. Really I will give the permission to him. I assured this is a white line of the black stone. On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
, June 28, 2014 5:10 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Ashida madam, Sorry for delayed reply due to my occupation. If my son interested to marry with blind girl. Really I will give the permission to him. I assured this is a white line of the black stone. On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don't believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn't get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five and so on. And my notion of beauty is matured, duration guaranteed, it accords full recognition to the other one and simply more humanistic. Discussion ends there on such high note... I'd be glad to know how women with blindness perceive beauty in others? On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don't believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn't get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five and so on. And my notion of beauty is matured, duration guaranteed, it accords full recognition to the other one and simply more humanistic. Discussion ends there on such high note... I'd be glad to know how women with blindness perceive beauty in others? On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver
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Dear Pooha, Well said. On 6/26/14, Deepika N deepide...@gmail.com wrote: Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase
Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel comfortable to my ideal friends. a blind person himself make him handsome or beautiful but, can not judge other's beauteousness. - Original Message - From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 3:03 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five and so on. And my notion of beauty is matured, duration guaranteed, it accords full recognition to the other one and simply more humanistic. Discussion ends there on such high note... I'd be glad to know how women with blindness perceive beauty in others? On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you
Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
Appreciation need not necessarily have to be restricted to physicalities. If we can verbalise the good we see in others, that would go a long way in relationship. Besides physical appearances are important but there are several more deeper layers/dimensions to human beings. If we are interested and concerned in the lives of the people we engage with and are willing to help, support and cooperate, a number of people will be attracted. Good looks is only the beginning of being attraction and if we do not have the inner beauty to go with it, then we are gone. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: 29 June 2014 17:53 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel comfortable to my ideal friends. a blind person himself make him handsome or beautiful but, can not judge other's beauteousness. - Original Message - From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 3:03 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five and so on. And my notion of beauty is matured, duration guaranteed, it accords full recognition to the other one and simply more humanistic. Discussion ends there on such high note... I'd be glad to know how women with blindness perceive beauty in others? On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I
Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
1. Physical attributes are like the opening batsmen. They take care of the shine. Some times they give you a good start. 2. But then the relationships are built on multiple factors. Common interests, love, care/share, give and take, contribution/participation. Physicality plays a very insignificant part. 3. Further to sustain a relationship, we also must grow as a person and allow our partner also to grow so that our friendship evolves and solidifies. We also need take on responsibility and play our role in the family Well I have tried to capture some factors, there could be more. George -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: 29 June 2014 17:53 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel comfortable to my ideal friends. a blind person himself make him handsome or beautiful but, can not judge other's beauteousness. - Original Message - From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 3:03 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai, how do you perceive beauty since you don't know how one does look like? 'What about your sixth sense how does it get activated'? I just cool them by invoking different interpretations of beauty from blind man's perspective. I enlighten them by causing surprise to them. You know how? Beauty lies in cuddling, it is found in one's tongue, it is well-captured from one's sublime personhood consisting of lows-and highs. They retort back 'come on gentlemen don't be too philosophical. Then the biggest arm starts yearning to be deployed, And I cunningly deploy it. Hello!? Your notion of beauty is racist from its very foundation, its temporary, lacks conviction, bound to fade one's she/he hits forty five and so on. And my notion of beauty is matured, duration guaranteed, it accords full recognition to the other one and simply more humanistic. Discussion ends there on such high note... I'd be glad to know how women with blindness perceive beauty in others? On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast
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No one can do everything! So just make sure you do what you can do to the best of your ability! There is always place and success for excellence! All the very best! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Shadab Husain Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 8:36 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Bhawani bhai, long time! I agree that eye contact is crucial and admit it troubles me too and till date I haven't found any solid solution to it. Eyes are one of the most vital organs and the limitations emanating from the lack of them can't be brushed aside. Acknowledging this, I mentioned only the beauties which we can feel by our other senses, and hope you'll agree that we can appreciate the human voice etc. the little point I'm trying to make here is that if we have certain limitations, it doesn't mean that we rust away our other capabilities in disuse. Do you agree? I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something I can do. What I can do, I should do. And what I should do, by the grace of God, I will do. EDWARD EVERETT HALE, NINETEENTH-CENTURY UNITARIAN CLERGYMAN AND WRITER -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: 29 June 2014 17:53 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners it is an imagination not reality. eye contact plays a big role on one's life if a person is sighted. sighted persons get 70 to 80% knowledge and experience of their surroundings through their eyes and in the context of blind person the case is totally different. even a person is partially blind, he always depend on his/her eyes. Can a blind person appreciate their colleagues in the office that aaj to aap bahut achhe lag rahe hain? If anybody claims it, i can challenge him. i don't believe on idealism, hence, my comment may not be feel comfortable to my ideal friends. a blind person himself make him handsome or beautiful but, can not judge other's beauteousness. - Original Message - From: Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Sunday, June 29, 2014 3:03 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity arenormelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners A girl in her teens and 20s has a deep and urgent yearning to be praised. We're very well overlooking the fact that though we can't see her, we can listen to her voice, praise her joyful tone, bashfulness, excitement, fear, frankness, suppressed smiles and several expressions felt by the ears. See what perfume she wears and never miss to praise it or gift her the perfume or creams or shampoo you like. Feel her (you know?) the sense of touch and shower praises on her. They're damn flattered if someone praises their hair. How well she cooks, walks (many can make out the way of walking by footsteps: are they light? Heavy? Rapid? Slow?) We can be great admirers of women and can easily flatter them. bring them flowers, chocolates or whatever they're excited about. But never feel that you're substituting for your eyes. Just love your wife and enjoy and overlook her small mistakes and forgive big ones but don't do it because of helplessness. A gent knows how to make his woman happy! -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 29 June 2014 14:04 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Pooha I've got something to say about beauty here. Many of my friends representing different genders on campus everyday are exposed to bodily beauty of varying kinds and get enmeshed for hours. But when they see me passing by any unknown persons unperturbed, one or the other often asks me Shahi bhai
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Ashida madam, Sorry for delayed reply due to my occupation. If my son interested to marry with blind girl. Really I will give the permission to him. I assured this is a white line of the black stone. On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don't believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn't get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now
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instead if it is daughter, then? - Original Message - From: Ravindra Jadhav ravikj...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Saturday, June 28, 2014 5:09 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Ashida madam, Sorry for delayed reply due to my occupation. If my son interested to marry with blind girl. Really I will give the permission to him. I assured this is a white line of the black stone. On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don't believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn't get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From
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unfortunately I don't have a daughter then why should I think about her. On 6/28/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: instead if it is daughter, then? - Original Message - From: Ravindra Jadhav ravikj...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Saturday, June 28, 2014 5:09 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Ashida madam, Sorry for delayed reply due to my occupation. If my son interested to marry with blind girl. Really I will give the permission to him. I assured this is a white line of the black stone. On 6/27/14, pooja poojamittal8...@gmail.com wrote: there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don't believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn't get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain
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Both aspects are important, former is for that perticular person and latter is for society -- From: bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 7:33 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning thedisabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want
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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners
ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners
Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners
First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don’t believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn’t get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don’t believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn’t get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don’t believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn’t get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople intrestedinmarryingblindpartners
there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you. -- From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerningthedisabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good or bad, only enriches your life quality! It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule. -Original Message- From: ishita kapoor Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life. I really don’t believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable person. If he or she doesn’t get proper match in non disable world then only he or she will consider disable partner. Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there. Though exceptions must be there. After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do with charity. i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable? my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry a blind girl willingly even my brother will not think in his dream to marry blind girl. so please accept reality and enjoy life. On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain shadab...@gmail.com wrote: Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: ofcourse it is a gamble. -Original Message- From: Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested inmarryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia
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You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo
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You have summarised it perfectly. - Original Message - From: Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.' accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:29 AM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel peopleintrested in marrying blind partners Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now
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Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha
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Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM
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High mam, your advice is good for me. I am being followed it what were you saying. I am living in the great city of Mumbai and i am a physiotherapist. Your advice is always helpful in my occupation. But i like to encourage the people to overcome there like disability, depression or any problem and this is my an important role to treat the patients. Hence, i wrote my experienced and observation in my previous mail. Again I would like to say, forget your disability or problem and live in normal life as other living. Why should not blind mary with sighted male or fimale? Just creat avairness among your society. I know this is not easy to you and me. It will take time, but we should try at list. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly
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In another context: Yuvraj Singh was a big time player in the Indian team but when he stopped contributing to the team people have started demanding that he be dropped. Thus as Preeti says, all of need to focus on the contribution factor and then you will find that you are in demand. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Deepika N Sent: 26 June 2014 19:44 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short
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This is fabulously thought, analyzed , simply expressed and it is indeed so true in almost every aspect of life. Such big issues and such a simple answer, start contributing to wherever you are and what ever you do. Thanks for gifting Accessindia this one preeti mam and Ravinder. Difficult to implement but definitely possible. Regards Aditi On 6/26/14, George Abraham geo...@eyeway.org wrote: In another context: Yuvraj Singh was a big time player in the Indian team but when he stopped contributing to the team people have started demanding that he be dropped. Thus as Preeti says, all of need to focus on the contribution factor and then you will find that you are in demand. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Deepika N Sent: 26 June 2014 19:44 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along
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nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end
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vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver
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No one can guaranty anything! Cant do so about my own life... weather I will be there to finish writing this mail or not? Managed I think... ha ha! Warmly Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 8:04 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
Hi Deepika, Good to hear from you. Where are you? Will you call me sometime? Will be good to catch up and join hands and work together. Warmly Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Deepika N Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 7:44 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked
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Sorry, but do we need such personal mails on the list? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:08 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Hi Deepika, Good to hear from you. Where are you? Will you call me sometime? Will be good to catch up and join hands and work together. Warmly Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Deepika N Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 7:44 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment, parties etc etc. They them self keep away from these activities. Due to his or her blindness. One seminar i attended in amedabad BpA school, the main topic was personality development. That time Jorj sir was also their. In three days I learnt lot of thing from jorj sir and Panchal sir. Now I am not afraid to anybody what they thing about me or what they comment on my rply. So come ahead and establish a good rapoe with others mostly with sighted. Just put the shugar on your tongue, means talk sweet and polite. Am i right mam? I thing blind and sighted both are same now a days. only one need is that don't see differently to each others. Then everything will be allright. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in
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also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you
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You don't have to throw anyone off. But you certainly can use the divorce to part ways and begin again! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:32 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along
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means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled
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Dont worry... life is a gamble all along anyway! Just work on finding a way to increase your reach. Means find ways of meeting many many more people, this way you will certainly find a girl who will really click. The smaller your exposure, the lesser chance you will have of succeeding with finding the right girl. You will ultimately try to make adjustments and compromises and then when you get into marrying anyone who is willing to marry you, there will only be trouble So don't worry look around and the Ms right will be found! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:48 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner? Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future. On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose it! -Original Message- From: Neeraj Singh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblindpartners vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv . Mobile 09630305273 On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a lottery ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you will become a philosopher! smile! - Original Message - From: Radha r.radh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marryingblind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga
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Oh am sorry again! I did not mean to do this again! Appologies I am a bit less tec savvy and I thought I was only writing to Deepika. Sorry will try my best to remember next time! Hope I will be forgiven? Thank you for pointing it out! Warmly Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:21 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Sorry, but do we need such personal mails on the list? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:08 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Hi Deepika, Good to hear from you. Where are you? Will you call me sometime? Will be good to catch up and join hands and work together. Warmly Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Deepika N Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 7:44 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well said. I agree 100% Regards, Deepika N On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: You are quite right dear! Only party and fun is not everything. Just be yourself and you will find others like yourself too if only you look. I think if you have something to give to the world, there is a lot of people who want you, weather you are blind or sighted does not matter. What matters is what you have to share and to give. The trouble with blind people is that they only are in the habit of taking and getting! Be a contributer and you will find your rightful place in the world! And the biggest problem with humans iswhat will others say or think about me! This is not only with blind, sighted also have the same problem! Just do the right things, be a giver and contributer in your own area and field and care about others needs! You will always be needed by all... blind or sighted does not then matter! Where do you live? Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 11:42 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Yes mam I agreed it. But sometimes compatibility is not only depend on your education, but also depend on your talkative nature. I observed most of the visually impaired persons won't be mix up in there coledge, relative and there surrounding society. They don't like fun, entertainment
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All of us are doing our share of contribution to this list. This is a good and very important topic to be discussed and especially for us blind people. I am always here and most willing to share my personal experiences with all of you. Just ask and I will be happy to share all that I have learnt and am still learning. Life is a wonderful thing and we all have it to live it only once! So let us pledge to live it as best as we can... take all the wonderful experiences, learn and share and move forward. Remember Failing is also a major part of life. Unless we do so, where are we to learn? For not many learn from other peoples experiences! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Radha Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:05 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Preeti mam, Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a amazing life partner. You've defined the real value of life and relationship, that we can trust for our entire life. I strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this worldin any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as our life partner and want to hold a friendly partner. I must say, the person who miss you is a great loser in his life, dear mam, isn't it? Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path. On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think
[AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
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it is a universal problem for blind community, not only yours. - Original Message - From: suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, June 25, 2014 11:46 PM Subject: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blindpartners hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blindpartners
the reality is all normal or blind people don't have same mentality. some normal girls or boys accept blind as life partners. but, whether our life will be happy only by marrying normal partners or not cannot have generalised answer. it depends on the partner's ability to understand each other, adjust to each other and live with minimum ego. On 6/26/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: it is a universal problem for blind community, not only yours. - Original Message - From: suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, June 25, 2014 11:46 PM Subject: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blindpartners hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. -- nothing is difficult unless you make it appear so. r. aravind, D R O in bank of baroda, mobile no: +91 9940369593, email id : aravind_...@yahoo.com, aravind.andhrab...@gmail.com. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that sighted people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds crazy to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them sighted people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of convenience! But, usually these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are only being pulled along because parting ways is not liked by society! As you may know, I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I dont live with them both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was missing... and I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were married. But the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should be... my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and belongs to a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a great partnership and friendship! Now dont tell me that this is one of its kind of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves. If we make a mistake, we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and get away from it! We just keep living the mistake for making the correction and trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of life? One only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human beings and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping! For being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right one for someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live happily! Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Asudani, Rajesh Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking
Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners
sight is not irrelevant, however by just marrying sighted person, is not an solution of the problem. some people think, now that they are married to sighted, and mostly boy marrying girl, is end of the matter, that don't need to work for there relationship at all. At 05:32 AM 6/26/2014, you wrote: Well, I agree with compatibility thing. However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the question? I think not. We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and compatibility issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits.. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Preeti Monga Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled.' Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is all about compatibility and what who is looking for in his/her partner! The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would want to have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most important. Preeti Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Ravindra Jadhav Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in marrying blind partners dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like me. Now coming to your dout. Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For example, I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school. On 6/25/14, suhas J suhasj...@gmail.com wrote: hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase with boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to knw tha Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any
