Re: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today

2003-01-23 Thread Robyn Thompson
Title: Message



Would love you to email a copy to me please

regards, Robyn

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Wayne 
  and Caroline McCullough 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Wednesday, January 22, 2003 8:17 
  AM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Had a win 
  today
  
  Hi Rhonda,
  
  Sarah Buckley (a doctor and a homebirth 
  mum of 4) has a very informative and well referecedarticleabout 
  ultrasounds. If you want I can pass it on via email. Just email me privately 
  at [EMAIL PROTECTED] if you 
  would like a copy for your friend. IMHO amnios are not worth the risk and 
  should not be done after 4 months gestation. They are supposed to do those a 
  lot earlier if there is a high risk of problems and only in cases where a 
  woman may wish to terminate the pregnancy. 
  
  Chees,
  
  Cas.
  

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win today

  

  
  I have a friend who is about 4 months pregnant - due in about 
  June I think. She was telling me today that they want her to 
  have an amniosentisis to check for Downs syndrome etc... 
  She is 27 yrs old and this is her first shild with no history in the 
  family of disability.
  Why would they want her to have a test like that done? She 
  is not high risk as far as i can tell. the only other factor 
  which I can think of and can not believe is that she is very dark 
  skinned African and her husband a white Australian.
  
  Anyone got any idea why the hospital would request she do 
  this?
  I told her of the risks that they had not mentioned.
  
  Rhonda.
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  January 21, 2003 22:09:50
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  [ozmidwifery] Had a win today
  
  Duck Aviva!!
  
  A pinards is the 'ear trumpet' that was 
  used to listen to the baby's heart beat before the invention of 
  sonicaids and monitors. I have a beautiful hand turned pinards made 
  from ash. Sadly many 'modern' midwives don't have the comfidence to 
  use one.
  
  Sally
  
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Sent: Tuesday, January 21, 2003 
11:09 AM
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a win today

OK, wot's pinards? (Is it so 
obvious I need to duck?)
Aviva
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Sent: Tuesday, January 21, 2003 9:06 AM
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today

That is fantastic! I use my pinards for all my 
antenatal visits too, as I don't like to putelectronic gadgets 
near a developing and sensitive babySally 
WestburyHomebirth Midwife

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RE: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today

2003-01-23 Thread Wayne and Caroline McCullough
Title: Message



Hi Robyn,

Could you please email me at the address 
below so that I have your email address? : ).

Cheers,

Caroline.

  
  -
  Would love you to email a copy to me please
  
  regards, Robyn
  
Sarah Buckley (a doctor and a homebirth 
mum of 4) has a very informative and well referecedarticleabout 
ultrasounds. If you want I can pass it on via email. Just email me privately 
at [EMAIL PROTECTED] if 
you would like a copy for your friend. IMHO amnios are not worth the risk 
and should not be done after 4 months gestation. They are supposed to do 
those a lot earlier if there is a high risk of problems and only in cases 
where a woman may wish to terminate the pregnancy. 

Chees,

Cas.


[ozmidwifery] FW: [Maternitycoalitonmidwives] news for Vic midwives

2003-01-23 Thread Robyn Thompson
This was quite a fruitful meeting, another two women attended alongside
Anne-Louise Carlton (a mother not sure how old her baby is?)

Louise Milne-Roch newly appointed CEO of the Nurses Board Victoria, in the
job for just 8 days - came mainly as an observer but also to get a feel of
the meeting content.  Anne Fuller Jackson also attended, she will be doing
most of the research for the Discussion Paper to be put before Parliament in
April.  They were a very interested group of women, quite understanding of
the midwife role in different practice settings.  Would love Justine Caines
to meet these women - my imagination is they would all gel well together.

Will await the joint compilation of the meeting and then post it for all to
read. The main emphasis for me was confirmation that common sense prevails -
it was clear that the present professional indemnity saga was understood by
these women.  Anne-Louise Carlton said while midwives do not have access to
Professional Indemnity there is no intention for the Nurses Board Victoria
to participate in deregistration.

There was a lot of common sense discussion about the different roles of
midwifery as they currently stand and how best to deal with these
differences in the event of a separate Midwives Act.  A fall back position
was addressed that gave credence to a Health Practitioners Act.

For me it established the need for women to hear us and for experienced
women (in childbirth) to make decisions for women at parliamentary level.

Lots of healthy discussion and good political dialogue.  Congratulations to
the very articulate consumer representative Leslie Arnott and her baby Clay
who indulged in a long breastfeed, gurgled and farted a little then went off
into a beautiful satisfied sleep.  I felt very proud of Leslie and her
confident approach, eloquent in the placement of her points for the needs of
women and babies.

Just another point - Have also had a reply from my letter to Steve Bracks,
Premier Vic will scan and post that soon also.

Happy Birthdays to all and a special thought for Sue Cookson

regards,Robyn


-Original Message-
From: villagemidwife2002 [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Wednesday, January 22, 2003 8:18 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [Maternitycoalitonmidwives] news for Vic midwives


Dear all
A group of MC members met with the Practitioner Regulation unit at
the health dept today. We will put together a report of the meeting
Anne-Louise Carlton is manager, and she is interested in legislative
reform - even to the extent of a Midwives Act. She wants to get new
legislation prepared for the Spring sitting of the parliament.

A discussion paper on the review of health practitioner legislation
will be prepared, followed by an opportunity for public consultation
and submissions, and a round of consultations with key stakeholders.
This will all happen in the near future. EVERYONE will need to
respond.

If you have an opinion that you would like to air on this list,
now's the time.  The group who attended the meeting - Sue Budge,
Robyn Thompson, Leslie Arnott (+ baby Clay), Pauline Ahearne and me -
 all preferred to option of total reform and a Midwives Act.

If you have copies of the current legislation governing midwifery in
other countries [or States of Oz]RT (esp those with Midwives Acts), or know
someone who
could get hold of it, please chase it up, and let me know. There is
a long way to go yet, and legislative reform is only one step in the
total reform package that we want to see, but the meeting seemed
very positive.

Another matter to report is an interesting development in the
professional indemnity insurance stuff. We have been assured at the
meeting today that the legislation will not be further changed to
make it a mandatory requirement for registration - that this will
remain a 'discretionary' power that the regulatory authority has (ie
Nurses Board). We have been told to seek clarification in writing
from the Minister, which of course we will do. Yes Minister!

I will be away for the next few days. We are renting Kerreen's place
at Phillip Island.

I received an up to date copy of the list of MCH coordinators for
the State, so have attached it to the files on this site. I got it
after being ticked off for hand delivering birth notification forms
to the centres, rather than going through the coordinators!

Stay strong
Joy J


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RE: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar

2003-01-23 Thread Robyn Thompson



For 
years and years, Pinnards and the human ear were the best tools. The 
midwife trains her ear the more she listens. The easiest way to get a good 
heart beat is to palpate the baby first, feel where the baby's back lies and 
listen over the shoulder, if posterior listen over 
thechest.Most children and dad's can hear the heart rate with 
an ear especially when you teach them to gently palpate the baby's lie and 
presentation.

kind 
regards Robyn

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  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 6:44 
  PMTo: [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: 
  [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplarHI 
  allas a midwife student I find it interesting to see how different 
  midwives work. I was surprised to see (well not really :-( ) when I was 
  on my recent clinical placement that there were no pinards readily 
  available...I hunted around til I found one in the FBUand used it on the 
  few occasions when I was granted the opportunity to feel and listen...Having 
  worked with many HM MW over the years I find most have great skills in 
  listening to the babe with a pinard in whatever positions the woman seemed to 
  get herself into...and if the pinard was not suitable, then the stethoscope or 
  the naked ear was used. I have found personally that the art is in 
  tuning the ear to the babes heart sounds.it truly is a skill to master 
  using the pinard and the stethoscopeboth I am becoming more confident in 
  using. I as yet cannot hear with the naked earbut as with the pinard and 
  the steth...once you do KNow what your hearing its unmistakable.I find the 
  old doppler a bit of a trick though...again its seems to be what one gets used 
  too and having not used one alot I find its practise in 'knowing' how to tilt 
  the transducerseems to be the 'angle of the dangle'...in how reliable one 
  is in using one. Again practice and experience !! I love using the 
  pinardand in labour if I cannot hear the FHR reliably I try the 
  stethoscopeparticularly if the woman is mobile and active, on all fours 
  etc...it alot easier to just slip the steth in under her belly to listen than 
  to disrupt her rhythm. The lower the babe gets into the pelvis too, the more 
  difficult I find it to hear the heart b! ! eat...even with a dopplerbut 
  once that babe is really nice and rotated to the anterior it seems for me 
  easier to hear it againagain all comes with experience I 
  suppose:-))Yours in reforming midwiferyTina Pettigrew.B 
  Mid Student ACU Melb. 


RE: [ozmidwifery] Response to criticisms re-use of water during labour/birth at RPA

2003-01-23 Thread Robyn Thompson
Hi friends and colleagues
Seems to me that there is no bridging of the gap here.  Would be really good
if you could all sit down around a table and just talk.  The autocratic,
bureaucratic approach doesn't really do anyone any good.  Women, their
chosen others and midwives can do this together.  Whether advocate or
midwife you all have excellent and very important roles to ensure the woman
gets her ultimate experience.  So please come together in an all consuming
and supportive way because the bottom line is, you are all fighting for the
same cause.

Best wishes and love to all

Robyn

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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of Hannah Dahlen
Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 6:36 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Response to criticisms re-use of water
duringlabour/birth at RPA


Dear Andrea

Good communication is the key to avoiding most misunderstandings. Just think
how many wars would have or could have been averted if this was done in the
first place. We could not agree with you more on this issue. We would
certainly not find it acceptable for any midwife to be un-welcoming,
antagonistic or rude. We believe we have dealt with the use of water for
labour and birth issue in the previous email but if there is another concern
here to do with two specific RPA staff members then this should be pursued
through the appropriate channels. The way to do this is by approaching
Alexis Upton the manager of the Delivery Ward or Administration. This way
all the facts can be obtained and both sides are able to tell their story.
It would also be best if the woman involved would be the one to make the
complaint as I assure you this will be taken very seriously and thoroughly
explored. This way it will look less like someone is pushing his or her own
political agenda so to speak and it will hold much more weight. Thank
goodness the voice of the consumer does hold so much power. It is a pity
they don¹t realise it, as our system would be a lot better off.

We are not asking you to Œfall into line to protect midwives¹ but there are
several very effective avenues for making complaints. None is more effective
than going to the management with the concerns if they can¹t be resolved
with the individual or individuals. There are higher recourses when this is
not satisfactory. This will indeed help RPA keep Œits house in order.¹ None
of us is beyond improvement and we always seek the opportunity to improve.
We look forward to following up this issue with the woman involved, for as
you rightly said the main concern was the effect this had on her. That would
indeed be our main concern as well.

Regards


Hannah Dahlen (Clinical Midwifery Consultant, CSAHS)
Helen Dowling (NUM Birth Centre RPA)
Alexis Upton (NUM Delivery Ward RPA)
Kate Griew (Clinical Midwifery Educator Delivery Ward RPA)







on 19/1/03 10:51 AM, Andrea Robertson at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Thanks Hannah for your explanations of the facilities at RPA. The
situation
 that I encountered a, and wrote about, cannot be ignored, and was very
 different.  What happened to me me and the woman who I was accompanying
was
 this:

 We were met by a very uncooperative midwife who was neither welcoming or
 helpful. She was antagonistic from the start and was categorial about the
 water birth policy that said the bath could not be used for labour. We
 were not wanting a water birth but just the possibility of using the bath
 later in the labout if it would help the woman who was having a very
sharp,
 short labour with a lot of pain. The water pressure is so low in the unit
 that it was going to take a very long time for the bath to fill and I felt
 we had to get started early.

 The supervisor who was then called in was extemely agitated and
 uncoperative. She did not introduce herself, was unnecessarily rude and
was
 unwilling to talk to me rationally. I asked about the policy about using
 water in labour and was told that it was not written down. She said that
 she had worked in the UK and knew about using water but was not willing
 to let it happen on this particular night. She also made it very clear
that
 the staff had not had any training and until this happened, no-one was to
 use the bath in any way.

 My main concern in all this was the effect it was having on the woman. Her
 rights were being restricted, she was being limited in what she should
 choose to do. If this option was indeed not to be offered, why was this
not
 communciated in advance to this woman on her labour ward tour, or through
 her obstetrician?   The poor communication skills demonstrated by the
staff
 were appalling. I tried to be as low key as possible because I knew that
 the woman could probably hear what was going on even though she was in the
 next room. A woman in labour is excessively sensitive to her surroundings,
 as I am sure you will appreciate.  I kept thinking, if this is happening
to
 me and to this private client of a 

Re: [ozmidwifery] FW: [HBAC] VBAC after 5 c/s

2003-01-23 Thread Lois Wattis
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR FRIEND, CAS!!!
VBAC is a very special triumph.  Hooray for woman power!
Kind regards, Lois


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From: Wayne and Caroline McCullough [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 7:50 AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] FW: [HBAC] VBAC after 5 c/s


I just had to forward this on from my other mailing list [HBAC] on Yahoo
Groups. This just goes to show how some women are just so amazing and
how some doctors are so ignorant!

Ps: friend of mine had her first VBAC yesterday, at home with MW and DH
at 37 weeks after about 7-8 hours active labour. Baby weighed in at
7lbs. We are so proud of her!

Cheers,

Cas McCullough

-Original Message-
From: Leilah McCracken [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
Sent: Thursday, 23 January 2003 9:35 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED];
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [HBAC] VBAC after 5 c/s


Hi list- women's bodies are amazing (as are at least a few OBs). I had
to put this on my site. Leilah

---

An OB/GYN Thread that Ended in VBAC

-with thanks to Angela Horn of homebirth.org.uk. Find the original posts
from this 1996 thread beginning here-
http://forums.obgyn.net/ob-gyn-l/OBGYNL.9603/0647.html



Would be interested in response from the list to a request presented to
me last week.

The pt is 37 y.o. G6 P5 [sixth pregnancy, fifth child] with five prior
low-transverse c/s. 1st section done for CPD with delivery of 4 lb
infant. 2nd section elective repeat. 3rd section elective repeat.
4th section after failed VBAC. c/s performed after 45' in second stage
with final Dx of fetal heart rate abnormality and persistent OP 5th
section performed after pt had experienced 24 hr of ROM [rupture of
membranes] without labor (records indicated hesitancy to attempt
induction with four prior uterine
incisions)

She is VERY motivated to attempt VBAC. My inclination is to go for it,
but I'm not sure about augmentation (even with IUPC) if failure to
progress occurred.

I'll be anxious to hear your opinions.

Terri Rosenbaum, M.D.

==

Terri:

I would let her attempt a VBAC, and I would augment her if necessary. I
don't know anything about your hospital and facilities, but the usual
VBAC guidelines apply.

I have always thought that most ruptures occur during the 2nd. stage of
labor. In addition, she could have a uterine rupture with augmentation
as a G5, regardless of the prior C/S history.

Patrick S. Pevoto, M.D., FACOG



A contraindication to pitocin is a contraindication to contractions. If
you are willing to allow spontaneous contractions, then what is wrong
with oxytocin induced contractions? A contraction is a contraction. The
only diference is that you are doing something to bring about the
contraction with the oxytocin. If properly administered and watched,
there should be no more problem with pitocin induced contractions. [Note
from Leilah McCracken, site editor: what an idiot!!]

With this patient, if I were to allow her to labor or to be augmented, I
would be there with my hand on her abdomen and probably watching the
Intrauterine pressure monitor as well..

R.Daniel Braun, MD
Clinical Professor
Indiana U. School of Medicine



At 3:23 PM 31/3/96, R. Daniel Braun wrote:

A contraindication to pitocin is a contraindication to contractions. If

you are willing to allow spontaneous contractions, then what is wrong
with oxytocin induced contractions ? A contraction is a contraction.
The only diference is that you are doing something to bring about the
contraction with the oxytocin. If properly administered and watched,
there should be no more problem with pitocin induced contractions.

But you are interfering with the normal course of events and then if
somethign goes wrong you have to accept responsibility.

With this patient, if I were to allow her to labor or to be augmented,
I would be there with my hand on her abdomen and probably watching the
Intrauterine pressure monitor as well.

I notice that you didn't write how you would deliver. Here she would
get an elective Vaginal Bypass and we'd really strongly try and convince
her to sign for T/L [trial of labor- TOL].

Dr. Eberhard W. Lisse



I would not offer this patient a trial of labor for many reasons
including liability concern.

Douglas Krell MD



I do a lot of VBAC yet without any data to back me, I would recommend
repeat C/S in this case. She's already had a failed VBAC as well as her
fifth C/S where someone told her it was best to not labor. There's a
good chance you could prove that MD wrong, but there is also a chance
you could prove him right. Chances are she'd do fine with a VBAC, but I
think you are out on a limb if something bad happens, and bad things do
happen. Be happy with a healthy baby and do the safe thing. If you do
elect to proceed with TOL, I would give her a real TOL with pit and all.
Watch closely, stay in the hospital, probably in the room. Good luck.

Mitch Nudelman


Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar

2003-01-23 Thread Trudie de keijzer
i always understood that pinnards  were invented to avoid contact with 
women(by professionals)i.e. keep a distance and therefore avoid doctors 
and midwives catching 'pubic lice'is this an old wives tale?
i find it just as easy to use my ear directly over the shoulder...
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RE: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar

2003-01-23 Thread Robyn Thompson
Over time the Pinnards has become a helpful little tool for those who prefer
to use it.  Often the inteded use changes with experience.  I feel pretty
sure that Caroline Flint has something about it in her book also.

regards, Robyn

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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of Trudie de
keijzer
Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 10:40 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar


i always understood that pinnards  were invented to avoid contact with
women(by professionals)i.e. keep a distance and therefore avoid doctors
and midwives catching 'pubic lice'is this an old wives tale?
i find it just as easy to use my ear directly over the shoulder...


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RE: [ozmidwifery] National get-together/Conference

2003-01-23 Thread Robyn Thompson
Andrea tells me there hasn't been much more in the way of response to a
Conference so maybe we can remove this from the files and rethink.Robyn

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of Andrea
Robertson
Sent: Saturday, November 30, 2002 12:13 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery] National get-together/Conference


Hi,

I've changed the subject on this one - nearly missed Robyn's post... can we
please change the title when the content changes from the original string?

Robyn wrote:

Why don't we through Ozmidwifery organise an outstanding NATIONAL
CONFERENCE with All the interested and supportive groups (lead my
Maternity Coalition and NMAP).  Invite the most effective members of
Parliament and all the Area Chief Executive Officers and many doctors,
invite overseas speaker who have made such changes in their
country.  Invite universities and educators from all areas. Even the NZ
Prime Minister would be helpful.  Invite the major insurance companies.

Don't wait any longer, we are all talking about being united, set some
plans now and start working on it in the New Year so we can set some dates.

Who is interested in this united front?

I am certainly interested in helping with this. I have made a start by
making the main thrust of the next Future Birth event a forum for
announcing/discussing/exploring NMAP, ACMI the PI issues and what these all
mean for the future of midwifery in Australia. There is already
considerable interest in this event and I hope that we will attract a lot
of midwives (as we did last time) who have not heard of any of this -
without them we will get no-where with implementing NMAP.

I've been thinking that there is a need to follow this up with exploration
of more aspects of this and that perhaps I should mount another event in 12
months instead of 2 years as I normally do.

I would be willing to throw the resources of Birth International behind
this effort, with profits to go to Maternity Coalition, if it would help.
Getting an event like this off the ground takes time and effort and a level
of expertise that we could provide.

Let me know what you all think. Meanwhile, we can get the ball rolling at
the Future Birth event in April. I have some ideas for supporting Maternity
Coalition through this event as well.

Andrea

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Birth International * ACE Graphics * Associates in Childbirth Education

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar

2003-01-23 Thread Mary Murphy



Quote of the Week From Midwifery Today seems pertinent to this 
discussion: MMWe who seek to assist childbirth using the age-old art and 
craft of midwifery must be willing to open our minds to discussion of what is 
truly useful to women and what may be unhelpful, especially when used 
routinely.-Sara Wickham


Re: [ozmidwifery] Response to criticisms re-use of water during labour/birth at RPA

2003-01-23 Thread Andrea Robertson
Dear Hannah,

Thank you for your reply. I have written to Alexis Upton and requested a 
meeting with her about this issue. I am looking forward to discussing it 
further with her.

Regards,

Andrea


At 06:35 PM 23/01/2003, Hannah Dahlen wrote:
Dear Andrea

Good communication is the key to avoiding most misunderstandings. Just think
how many wars would have or could have been averted if this was done in the
first place. We could not agree with you more on this issue. We would
certainly not find it acceptable for any midwife to be un-welcoming,
antagonistic or rude. We believe we have dealt with the use of water for
labour and birth issue in the previous email but if there is another concern
here to do with two specific RPA staff members then this should be pursued
through the appropriate channels. The way to do this is by approaching
Alexis Upton the manager of the Delivery Ward or Administration. This way
all the facts can be obtained and both sides are able to tell their story.
It would also be best if the woman involved would be the one to make the
complaint as I assure you this will be taken very seriously and thoroughly
explored. This way it will look less like someone is pushing his or her own
political agenda so to speak and it will hold much more weight. Thank
goodness the voice of the consumer does hold so much power. It is a pity
they don¹t realise it, as our system would be a lot better off.

We are not asking you to Œfall into line to protect midwives¹ but there are
several very effective avenues for making complaints. None is more effective
than going to the management with the concerns if they can¹t be resolved
with the individual or individuals. There are higher recourses when this is
not satisfactory. This will indeed help RPA keep Œits house in order.¹ None
of us is beyond improvement and we always seek the opportunity to improve.
We look forward to following up this issue with the woman involved, for as
you rightly said the main concern was the effect this had on her. That would
indeed be our main concern as well.

Regards


Hannah Dahlen (Clinical Midwifery Consultant, CSAHS)
Helen Dowling (NUM Birth Centre RPA)
Alexis Upton (NUM Delivery Ward RPA)
Kate Griew (Clinical Midwifery Educator Delivery Ward RPA)







on 19/1/03 10:51 AM, Andrea Robertson at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Thanks Hannah for your explanations of the facilities at RPA. The situation
 that I encountered a, and wrote about, cannot be ignored, and was very
 different.  What happened to me me and the woman who I was accompanying was
 this:

 We were met by a very uncooperative midwife who was neither welcoming or
 helpful. She was antagonistic from the start and was categorial about the
 water birth policy that said the bath could not be used for labour. We
 were not wanting a water birth but just the possibility of using the bath
 later in the labout if it would help the woman who was having a very sharp,
 short labour with a lot of pain. The water pressure is so low in the unit
 that it was going to take a very long time for the bath to fill and I felt
 we had to get started early.

 The supervisor who was then called in was extemely agitated and
 uncoperative. She did not introduce herself, was unnecessarily rude and was
 unwilling to talk to me rationally. I asked about the policy about using
 water in labour and was told that it was not written down. She said that
 she had worked in the UK and knew about using water but was not willing
 to let it happen on this particular night. She also made it very clear that
 the staff had not had any training and until this happened, no-one was to
 use the bath in any way.

 My main concern in all this was the effect it was having on the woman. Her
 rights were being restricted, she was being limited in what she should
 choose to do. If this option was indeed not to be offered, why was this not
 communciated in advance to this woman on her labour ward tour, or through
 her obstetrician?   The poor communication skills demonstrated by the staff
 were appalling. I tried to be as low key as possible because I knew that
 the woman could probably hear what was going on even though she was in the
 next room. A woman in labour is excessively sensitive to her surroundings,
 as I am sure you will appreciate.  I kept thinking, if this is happening to
 me and to this private client of a very supportive obstetrician, how does
 the average, unsupoprted woman fare? This private client was always going
 to have her obstetrician in attendance as he was in the building with three
 other labouring women at the time and he was unconcerned about her
 labouring in water (or even a waterbirth is it came to that) so why were
 the staff so uptight? The fear thing has everyone running scared and it is
 the women who  must suffer from a lack of preparedness and poor public
 relations by the staff!

 Yes, this has been discussed in a public forum and I make no apologies for
 this. There is a right to 

RE: [ozmidwifery] Birth Plans WAS Had a win today

2003-01-23 Thread Wayne and Caroline McCullough
Hi Kartini,

I would be glad to share my birth plan with you but I am not quite
finished. I am trying to get it finished this week as I am beginning to
think this baby is going to come earlier than expected. It is a list and
an essay/letter of sorts. I am trying to keep it brief but have also
added notes for the doctor/hospital midwives to read if they have
concerns over my choices. I felt it necessary to back up each
contraversial point with references from the medical and birth
literature. I am giving my own midwife a two page list as she does not
need to be told to be supportive and respectful... I just know she will
be : ).

Please email me off-list at [EMAIL PROTECTED] if you would like a
copy when I am done. 

Salut!

Cas.

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Thomas
Sent: Thursday, 23 January 2003 11:25 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today


Hi Cas,
I was wondering if you, or anyone else, could send me a written example
of a 
birth plan. This is a big issue in france and I would really like to
know 
how aussie women write theirs, how they go over them with their midwife
or 
doctor, how they are received ???
Is this a list like the one you write for christmas, or is it a whole 
essay/epic poem? Please show me if you have the time.
thanks a lot, Kartini



From: Wayne and Caroline McCullough [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today
Date: Mon, 20 Jan 2003 22:13:11 +1000

Hi all!

Just had a major win today and had to share. I am due to VBAC in mid 
April and I just got my obgyn to agree to no IV bung and no continuous 
monitoring (except for 15 minutes per hour while in hospital unless 
there is foetal distress evident from intermittent monitoring). I went 
into my doc's office very nervous about confronting these issues and 
ready to argue my case but he just agreed that my requests were 
reasonable and left it at that (even though he had insisted on both of 
these when I first talked to him)! At least now I can be sure to get 
his written support of my birthplan so that I don't run into admin. and

policy probs while in labour... A real weight off my mind.

We are all set for the birth in April and I am loving getting to know 
my midwife who will be with us for the labour and birth!

Feeling positive, supported and encouraged...

Cas.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] PINARD not Pinnards

2003-01-23 Thread Jan Robinson
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] PINARD not Pinnards 



Dear listers
I find my Doppler invaluable when the children or other family members want to listen to their baby to be. It is also an essential tool for underwater monitoring. However I maintain my skills using the Pinard as I sometimes have clients wanting the safest environment for their unborn baby, request that I dont use ultrasound to monitor fetal heart rates during pregnancy.

Like Lieve I sometimes leave a Pinard for the father to listen when he is having trouble making ear contact. 
Usually after a few practice runs finding the point of maximum intensity the men tell me they would rather listen with their ear.

PS
I believe the correct spelling in PINARD ... The stethescope was named after the same Pinard who devised Pinards manouvre for dealing with the extended legs of a breech baby.

Jan Robinson 



On 22/1/03 5:16 PM, Lieve Huybrechts [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Thats also my way of working. They come to the prenatal visits and they can tell exactly how the baby is positioned. They call me the moment that breech babys tumble around. That gives them confidence and power. I have a lot of pinnards and I give each couple a pinard from 20 weeks on and I teach the father how to listen. They make it an event of the day. In one case I forgot my doppler at home during a birth. I listened to the baby with the pinard and they didnt find it strange or unsafe at all. They knew that it was perfect.

Warm greetings
Lieve



On 22-01-2003 00:00, Sally Westbury [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Cas,

You point is intereting. I also dont offer for women to hear the baby. .. It is that process of allowing or teaching women to know their own baby, for them to be the expert. I also ask the women what position the baby is in and how the baby is.. whether the baby has dropped etc etc.. before I feel.. Probably is why at the end of the pregnancy I have women who can be very overdue (I am waiting with 2 overdue women presently) who are utterly confident that the baby is fine and they can wait for the baby to be ready to come out!

 

Sally Westbury

Homebirth Midwife

 

You are a midwife, assisting at someone else's birth. Do good without show or fuss. Facilitate what is happening rather than what you think ought to be happening. If you must take the lead, lead so that the mother is helped, yet still free and in charge. When the baby is born, the mother will rightly say: We did it ourselves!



 from The Tao Te Ching 



 










Re: [ozmidwifery] FW: [Maternitycoalitonmidwives] news for Vic midwives

2003-01-23 Thread Aviva Sheb'a



Sounds like 2003 has started well! 
Hooray! and Thank You to you all for doing such a wonderful, important, 
job.
Aviva
- Original Message - 
From: Robyn 
Thompson 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 9:10 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] FW: [Maternitycoalitonmidwives] news for Vic 
midwives

This was quite a fruitful meeting, another two women attended 
alongsideAnne-Louise Carlton (a mother not sure how old her baby 
is?)Louise Milne-Roch newly appointed CEO of the Nurses Board Victoria, 
in thejob for just 8 days - came mainly as an observer but also to get a 
feel ofthe meeting content. Anne Fuller Jackson also attended, she 
will be doingmost of the research for the Discussion Paper to be put before 
Parliament inApril. They were a very interested group of women, quite 
understanding ofthe midwife role in different practice settings. Would 
love Justine Cainesto meet these women - my imagination is they would all 
gel well together.Will await the joint compilation of the meeting and 
then post it for all toread. The main emphasis for me was confirmation that 
common sense prevails -it was clear that the present professional indemnity 
saga was understood bythese women. Anne-Louise Carlton said while 
midwives do not have access toProfessional Indemnity there is no intention 
for the Nurses Board Victoriato participate in deregistration.There 
was a lot of common sense discussion about the different roles ofmidwifery 
as they currently stand and how best to deal with thesedifferences in the 
event of a separate Midwives Act. A fall back positionwas addressed 
that gave credence to a Health Practitioners Act.For me it established 
the need for women to hear us and for experiencedwomen (in childbirth) to 
make decisions for women at parliamentary level.Lots of healthy 
discussion and good political dialogue. Congratulations tothe very 
articulate consumer representative Leslie Arnott and her baby Claywho 
indulged in a long breastfeed, gurgled and farted a little then went offinto 
a beautiful satisfied sleep. I felt very proud of Leslie and 
herconfident approach, eloquent in the placement of her points for the needs 
ofwomen and babies.Just another point - Have also had a reply from 
my letter to Steve Bracks,Premier Vic will scan and post that soon 
also.Happy Birthdays to all and a special thought for Sue 
Cooksonregards, Robyn-Original 
Message-From: villagemidwife2002 [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]Sent: Wednesday, 
January 22, 2003 8:18 PMTo: [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: 
[Maternitycoalitonmidwives] news for Vic midwivesDear allA group 
of MC members met with the Practitioner Regulation unit atthe health dept 
today. We will put together a report of the meetingAnne-Louise Carlton is 
manager, and she is interested in legislativereform - even to the extent of 
a Midwives Act. She wants to get newlegislation prepared for the Spring 
sitting of the parliament.A discussion paper on the review of health 
practitioner legislationwill be prepared, followed by an opportunity for 
public consultationand submissions, and a round of consultations with key 
stakeholders.This will all happen in the near future. EVERYONE will need 
torespond.If you have an opinion that you would like to air on this 
list,now's the time. The group who attended the meeting - Sue 
Budge,Robyn Thompson, Leslie Arnott (+ baby Clay), Pauline Ahearne and me 
-all preferred to option of total reform and a Midwives Act.If 
you have copies of the current legislation governing midwifery inother 
countries [or States of Oz]RT (esp those with Midwives Acts), or knowsomeone 
whocould get hold of it, please chase it up, and let me know. There isa 
long way to go yet, and legislative reform is only one step in thetotal 
reform package that we want to see, but the meeting seemedvery 
positive.Another matter to report is an interesting development in 
theprofessional indemnity insurance stuff. We have been assured at 
themeeting today that the legislation will not be further changed tomake 
it a mandatory requirement for registration - that this willremain a 
'discretionary' power that the regulatory authority has (ieNurses Board). We 
have been told to seek clarification in writingfrom the Minister, which of 
course we will do. Yes Minister!I will be away for the next few days. We 
are renting Kerreen's placeat Phillip Island.I received an up to 
date copy of the list of MCH coordinators forthe State, so have attached it 
to the files on this site. I got itafter being ticked off for hand 
delivering birth notification formsto the centres, rather than going through 
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[ozmidwifery] S.O.S!

2003-01-23 Thread Lyn Cottee
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar








Dear List,

I know its
a long shot but if you know anyone in the Melbourne area who is suitably
qualified to help a mother of eight look after her seven week old twins, Id be
glad to hear from them. The hours she needs are M-Th, midnight to 6 a.m.
starting immediately! She is breastfeeding them and wants to continue doing
that, but would like to get some sleep after their midnight feed until their
next feed at 3, which is
understandable. She would also like to go to sleep afterwards, again, not an
unreasonable request! Her current nanny sleeps on the job and has other
unsuitable traits which I wont go into at the moment.

I can be
contacted on 9530 6930 if anyone knows of anybody who can help, that would be
wonderful. Pay is negotiable.

Love,

Lyn Cottee




-Original
Message-
From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On
Behalf Of Lieve Huybrechts
Sent: Wednesday, 22 January 2003
4:17 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery]
Pinnards v's dopplar



Thats also my way of
working. They come to the prenatal visits and they can tell exactly how the
baby is positioned. They call me the moment that breech babys tumble
around. That gives them confidence and power. I have a lot of pinnards
and I give each couple a pinard from 20 weeks on and I teach the father how to
listen. They make it an event of the day. In one case I forgot my doppler at
home during a birth. I listened to the baby with the pinard and they
didnt find it strange or unsafe at all. They knew that it was perfect.

Warm greetings
Lieve



On 22-01-2003 00:00, Sally Westbury
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Cas,



You point is intereting. I also dont offer for
women to hear the baby. .. It is that process of allowing or teaching women to
know their own baby, for them to be the expert. I also ask the women what
position the baby is in and how the baby is.. whether the baby has dropped etc
etc.. before I feel.. Probably is why at the end of the pregnancy I have women
who can be very overdue (I am waiting with 2 overdue women presently) who are
utterly confident that the baby is fine and they can wait for the baby to be
ready to come out!



Sally
Westbury

Homebirth
Midwife



You are
a midwife, assisting at someone else's birth. Do good without show or
fuss. Facilitate what is happening rather than what you think ought to be
happening. If you must take the lead, lead so that the mother is helped, yet
still free and in charge. When the baby is born, the mother will rightly say:
We did it ourselves!

from The Tao Te Ching 














Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar

2003-01-23 Thread Lois Wattis



Dear Mary and Ozmid Listers -
I agree the Midwifery Today quote is pertinent to the 
discussions about listening...
I'd like to add this quote, which I've shared 
before.
"Progress is impossible without 
change:
and those who cannot change their 
minds
cannot change anything" George Bernard 
Shaw.
Food for thought... Regards, Lois

 Original Message - 

  From: 
  Mary 
  Murphy 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 9:30 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's 
  dopplar
  
  Quote of the Week From Midwifery Today seems pertinent to this 
  discussion: MMWe who seek to assist childbirth using the age-old art 
  and craft of midwifery must be willing to open our minds to discussion of what 
  is truly useful to women and what may be unhelpful, especially when used 
  routinely.-Sara Wickham


Re: [ozmidwifery] Who/what The Tao Te Ching is?

2003-01-23 Thread Mrs joanne m fisher
Thanks Sally for that wonderful explanation.
Cheers, Joanne.

- Original Message - 
From: Sally Westbury [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Tuesday, January 21, 2003 10:43 PM
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Who/what The Tao Te Ching is?


 The Tao Te Ching, the ancient Chinese Book of the Tao was written by
 philosopher Lao Tzu around 2500 BC. Not a religion, Taoism resembles
 modern Physics in that it describes the nature of the universe, the laws
 that govern it and the ideal ways that a person might place themselves
 in harmony with those laws. As the oldest surviving book, it shows that
 the simpler and more in tune with the laws of Nature something is, the
 longer it will endure.
 
 The Tao Te Ching is a challenge. It challenges you to see the world as
 it actually is by accepting the stark truth of the physical laws that
 control existence and evolution. It challenges us to discover
 intellectual independence wherein we have complete trust in our own
 perceptions and instincts. It challenges you to reject force and rely
 rather on the steady force of your attitudes to influence others.
 
 Sally Westbury
 
 Homebirth Midwife
 
  
 
 You are a midwife, assisting at someone else's birth. Do good without
 show or fuss. Facilitate what is happening rather than what you think
 ought to be happening. If you must take the lead, lead so that the
 mother is helped, yet still free and in charge. When the baby is born,
 the mother will rightly say: We did it ourselves!
 
  from The Tao Te Ching
 
 
 
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today

2003-01-23 Thread Mrs joanne m fisher
Title: Message



I too would love a copy please Cas. Also, wishing you love and 
stength for your birth. 
Cheers, Joanne. [EMAIL PROTECTED]

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Robyn 
  Thompson 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, January 23, 2003 7:54 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Had a win 
  today
  
  Would love you to email a copy to me please
  
  regards, Robyn
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Wayne 
and Caroline McCullough 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Wednesday, January 22, 2003 8:17 
AM
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Had a win 
today

Hi Rhonda,

Sarah Buckley (a doctor and a homebirth 
mum of 4) has a very informative and well referecedarticleabout 
ultrasounds. If you want I can pass it on via email. Just email me privately 
at [EMAIL PROTECTED] if 
you would like a copy for your friend. IMHO amnios are not worth the risk 
and should not be done after 4 months gestation. They are supposed to do 
those a lot earlier if there is a high risk of problems and only in cases 
where a woman may wish to terminate the pregnancy. 

Chees,

Cas.

  
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  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] On Behalf Of 
  RhondaSent: Tuesday, 21 January 2003 10:20 PMTo: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Had a 
  win today
  


  

I have a friend who is about 4 months pregnant - due in about 
June I think. She was telling me today that they want her to 
have an amniosentisis to check for Downs syndrome etc... 
She is 27 yrs old and this is her first shild with no history in the 
family of disability.
Why would they want her to have a test like that done? 
She is not high risk as far as i can tell. the only other 
factor which I can think of and can not believe is that she is very 
dark skinned African and her husband a white Australian.

Anyone got any idea why the hospital would request she do 
this?
I told her of the risks that they had not mentioned.

Rhonda.
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Date: Tuesday, 
January 21, 2003 22:09:50
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: 
[ozmidwifery] Had a win today

Duck Aviva!!

A pinards is the 'ear trumpet' that was 
used to listen to the baby's heart beat before the invention of 
sonicaids and monitors. I have a beautiful hand turned pinards made 
from ash. Sadly many 'modern' midwives don't have the comfidence to 
use one.

Sally

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Aviva Sheb'a 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Tuesday, January 21, 
  2003 11:09 AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] 
  Had a win today
  
  OK, wot's pinards? (Is it 
  so obvious I need to duck?)
  Aviva
  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Sally Westbury 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Tuesday, January 21, 2003 9:06 AM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Had a win today
  
  That is fantastic! I use my pinards for all my 
  antenatal visits too, as I don't like to putelectronic gadgets 
  near a developing and sensitive babySally 
  WestburyHomebirth Midwife
  
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar

2003-01-23 Thread TinaPettigrew
In a message dated 24/01/03 2:38:06 PM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


Do you mean just a regular old stethescope, Tina?

Cheers, Jen


HI Jen..
yep!!

Cheers TinaXX


Re: [ozmidwifery] S.O.S!

2003-01-23 Thread Pinky McKay
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's dopplar



Hi Lyn
surely this mum is eligible for In home care 
- paid for by the govt. Are you acredited to assess and provide or can you work 
along with someone like Louise Dunham (who is accredited) or Susan Rogan 
(who probably is) -they are quite fussy about their nannies and it would 
be good netowrking to be able to "share" staff in special circumstances like 
this. She needs to report her current nanny to whatever agency she went through 
and demand a replacement and/ or refund!!
Poor woman!!
Pinky

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lyn 
  Cottee 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, January 24, 2003 1:13 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] S.O.S!
  
  
  Dear 
  List,
  I know 
  it’s a long shot but if you know anyone in the Melbourne area who is suitably 
  qualified to help a mother of eight look after her seven week old twins, I’d 
  be glad to hear from them. The hours she needs are M-Th, midnight to 6 a.m. 
  starting immediately! She is breastfeeding them and wants to continue doing 
  that, but would like to get some sleep after their midnight feed until their 
  next feed at 3, which is 
  understandable. She would also like to go to sleep afterwards, again, not an 
  unreasonable request! Her current nanny sleeps on the job and has other 
  unsuitable traits which I won’t go into at the 
  moment.
  I can 
  be contacted on 9530 6930 if anyone knows of anybody who can help, that would 
  be wonderful. Pay is negotiable.
  Love,
  Lyn 
  Cottee 
  
  -Original 
  Message-From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of Lieve HuybrechtsSent: Wednesday, 22 January 2003 4:17 
  PMTo: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Pinnards v's 
  dopplar
  
  That’s also my way 
  of working. They come to the prenatal visits and they can tell exactly how the 
  baby is positioned. They call me the moment that breech babys tumble 
  around. That gives them confidence and power. I have a lot of pinnards 
  and I give each couple a pinard from 20 weeks on and I teach the father how to 
  listen. They make it an event of the day. In one case I forgot my doppler at 
  home during a birth. I listened to the baby with the pinard and they 
  didn’t find it strange or unsafe at all. They knew that it was 
  perfect.Warm greetingsLieveOn 
  22-01-2003 00:00, "Sally Westbury" [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  Cas,You point is intereting. I 
  also don’t offer for women to hear the baby. .. It is that process of allowing 
  or teaching women to know their own baby, for them to be the expert. I also 
  ask the women what position the baby is in and how the baby is.. whether the 
  baby has dropped etc etc.. before I feel.. Probably is why at the end of the 
  pregnancy I have women who can be very overdue (I am waiting with 2 overdue 
  women presently) who are utterly confident that the baby is fine and they can 
  wait for the baby to be ready to come out!Sally 
  WestburyHomebirth 
  Midwife"You are 
  a midwife, assisting at someone else's birth. Do good without show or 
  fuss. Facilitate what is happening rather than what you think ought to be 
  happening. If you must take the lead, lead so that the mother is helped, yet 
  still free and in charge. When the baby is born, the mother will rightly say: 
  "We did it ourselves!"
  from The 
  Tao Te Ching