[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Jerome Grisanti via Contra Callers
Kat, Nice observations. I'll note that your symmetrical version of California Twirl into "Tug and Turn" is almost exactly the definition of "Trade By" in club squares for dancers who are facing out of the set. (For dancers facing in, trade by is functionally the same as "pass through." I like

[Callers] Re: Mousetrap?

2023-02-09 Thread Sue C. Hulsether via Contra Callers
I looked up Marian Rose’s version of Tunnelmania in her (brilliant) book “Step Lively, 3” and she gives no attribution either. She does encourage the caller to make sure the music always stops at the end of phrase, not randomly in the middle…..so that the dancers inherently are listening for

[Callers] Re: Mousetrap?

2023-02-09 Thread Luke Donforth via Contra Callers
Thanks Bill. John Sweeny sent me another version of that dance: https://squaredancehistory.org/exhibits/show/dare-to-be-square-weekend-2011/item/730 fun to see how things have been adapted. Sue Hulsether had one she got from Carol Ormand, "Tunnelmania" which seems to match the exponential growth

[Callers] Re: Mousetrap?

2023-02-09 Thread Bill Baritompa via Contra Callers
Hi Luke,     This dance is similar to what you describe. Silly Threesomesyoutu.beIt's called Silly Threesoms. I dont remember where I got it.To set it up, I get couples made of an adult and child to come on the floor to make a circle. The kids all go into the middle and the adults pair up to make

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Winston, Alan P. via Contra Callers
Oh, and another thing, which I really should have said somewhere in that long screed. To me, part of the essence of country dancing, what makes it attractive to me, and why a community grows around it is that we all need each other to for this kind of dancing to work. I could have a

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Winston, Alan P. via Contra Callers
Since it looks like we're sharing experiences, evolutions, and thoughts on calling terms, I'll throw in mine, and it's going to be all over the map. Let me stipulate that I'm a cis-het guy and my relationships since, oh, 1990 have been with women I've met at dances. My first country-dance

[Callers] Mousetrap?

2023-02-09 Thread Luke Donforth via Contra Callers
Hello all, I've been asked back to a family dance I did at a camp last summer. When I was there last year, one of the kids said "are we going to do Mousetrap?!", a dance they remembered from a previous year with the prior caller. I've tried to find it, but am having no luck. The previous caller

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Jacob or Nancy Bloom via Contra Callers
I see a very worrisome problem with the "Scottish Swing": It's too close to the "Bull by the Horns" swing. In other words, if all the dancers stay upright, everything will be fine, but what if you get a couple of young dancers who decide that it would be more thrilling to lean back as far as they

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Katherine Kitching via Contra Callers
Hello from Halifax, NS, Canada! I'd like to add to this convo by saying that for many years (as both a dancer and then a caller), I've had the desire to cultivate the roles as equal, rather than the Larks having more of a leader role. I wasn't sure that that was an ok thing to want though, so

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Julian Blechner via Contra Callers
I'm loving reading this discussion! Some replies: Peg, I think it's important we take into account what Allison wrote: I haven't seen published examination of Positional calling's effect with people with Left/Right confusion. Allison: It's approximately 1 of 7 people. It's not a small number.

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Becky Liddle via Contra Callers
Hi Ridge, You are brave to bring this issue up. I empathize with your discomfort, and appreciate your willingness to try to work around it to make the space safe and welcoming to other dancers. As a lesbian, I confess my initial (unthinking and I’m not proud of it) reaction was “get over

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Perry Shafran via Contra Callers
It feels to me that one of the things that modern contra is trying to do is to make the roles more symmetrical.  I mean, we can all do the ladies/robins right-hand chain with no problem, but when it comes to any other chain (lark RH chain or any LH chain), even the most adept contra dancers

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
Thanks, Jeff. It helps to hear this from an organizer of (IMX) one of the more avant-garde dance series. Tony From: Jeff Kaufman Sent: Thursday, February 9, 2023 10:44 AM To: Tony Parkes Cc: Ridge Kennedy ; Shared Weight Contra Callers Subject: Re: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
To be clear, I’m not advocating the use of “lead/follow” anywhere but in the preliminary session (or, if there is no session, in an experienced dancer briefing a first-timer friend on the way in). Like it or not, our heritage includes a few asymmetrical moves, and I think it’s more helpful to

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers
Hi Tony, As someone who helps organize a Larks/Robins dance, I think it's completely fine for the caller to mention during the workshop that the Lark role often has a bit of leading and the Robin a bit of following. It's an accurate description, and some dancers will come in with a preference,

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread John Sweeney via Contra Callers
I agree completely with Tony, except… I don’t think it is a good idea to use the terms “leader” and “follower”. The only leader in the room is the caller. For flashy moves either person can briefly lead another – e.g. twirling the end person as you go Down the Hall in Lines of Four.

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
I get the impression that “men/ladies” is a common set of terms in the UK. I believe it’s less commonly seen as acceptable here in the US, as the two words are not parallel. In the early days of the Second Feminist Movement (mainly the 1970s) I seem to recall feminists objecting to the common

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread jeff - syncopaths via Contra Callers
I, too, have struggled with this issue, going from men/women terminology to gents/ladies while explaining that they are roles, not genders. I never took to larks/robins due to the aforementioned “I hear ‘lark’ and it triggers ‘lady’ in my mind.” And that still happens. Decades of dancing with

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
Ridge’s point about ballroom vs. symmetrical swings is related to an issue that I have about the trend toward de-gendered roles. I haven’t said much about this publicly, as I hesitate to appear to be either on the “wrong” side of a controversy or unwilling to listen and possibly change my mind.

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread John Sweeney via Contra Callers
I also have many male dancers who don’t want to do ballroom-hold swings with other men. I always recommend the Double Allemande Swing: https://youtu.be/Ue0yCtjjbGs?t=107 I have offered this hold to countless men and ladies on both sides of the Atlantic and it always works easily and

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
I’m not the best person to address this, as I have (as yet) very little experience with positional calling, even as a dancer. But I don’t think anyone is currently advocating “lefts allemande right.” Referring to the two roles as “left” and “right” would be just another renaming, similar to

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Ridge Kennedy via Contra Callers
Dear All, I have thought a lot about the nomenclature issues. I too went from ladies to women and back to ladies, worked with armbands and bare arms, leaders and followers, larks and robins, and have lapsed almost accidentally into positional calling out of an abundance of trying not to say the

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Allison Jonjak via Contra Callers
I don't have a cultural stance against positional calling, but I do have the "right/left" equivalent of dyslexic (if you say turn right/left as I'm driving, I get it wrong about 70% of the time, and I work around it by navigating with NSEW or a map.) I was able to learn dancing by feel and by

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Jim Thaxter via Contra Callers
Just a thought, but has anyone checked with the lgbtq community about what terms they would like to have used? Another thought, someone mentioned earlier in the thread that the terminology issue had been discussed thoroughly some time ago and the decision had been made to go with the birds. I

[Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')

2023-02-09 Thread Amy Cann via Contra Callers
Since no one else has mentioned this, I'll just say that my entire personal difficulty with birds comes from fairy tales and ornithology. When we say "robin" we are mostly thinking about that bird with the "red breast", right? Not something kinda reddish-brownish? That's the male. In my childhood