Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-14 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 8:07 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: That was my understanding. Was that not your meaning? If not, then you must be referring to your views not being influenced by Bada Bing. If this is the case, and you are denying the first option, then you seem to be implying that

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-14 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 8:27 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Is it kind of a struggle going in to these club, believing these clubs are used for sex, where some dancers are drug addicts who work for their fix and are exploited for sex by he owners, where the exploitation of women who are

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-14 Thread Vaj
On 9/14/05 11:18 AM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I apologize. I seem to have gotten off on the wrong foot. I am all for discussion. And sharing impressions and views. No apology necessary, all is well. And I do feel there may be links to SCs and the global sex trade. And gender

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/12/05 7:00 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I know this is a fictional account, but I do believe in a large number of cases it is an accurate picture, watch a couple of Soprano episodes. The mob runs their act

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/12/05 7:09 PM, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I'm sorry, but the idea that in this day and age there are still intelligent people who have to be educated as to how strip clubs exploit women as sex objects is just too depressing to contemplate. Amen. It's almost not worth

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/12/05 7:57 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: As I have said, I am open to the possiblity that contemporary dancers in modern US club are exploited, but I have yet to see any compelling evidence of such. If there is such evidence in abundance, I have been inept in finding it.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/12/05 11:03 PM, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's interesting. the dark side of these people who try to pass themselves off as the latest guru. That tendency (to declare

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Peter
--- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] [...] Exactly. Those who are reacting to strip clubs as negative are uncomfortable with their

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Peter
--- off_world_beings [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 7:33 AM, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Vaj, I like you, but I have to wonder whether you have actually ever *been* to a strip club. Yes! Yes, it's sad that our society is so sexually biased that one of the only options women who don't want to work for low pay have

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
Holsopple, Kelly.  1999. Stripclubs According to Strippers. Making the Harm Visible: Global Sexual Exploitation of Women and Girls, eds. Donna Hughes and Claire Roche, Kingston RI: Coalition Against Trafficking In Women. The Glamorous Life of the Stripper Excerpted from a 1999 study by Kelly

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Peter
This study supports the anecdotal experience of several exotic dancer clients I've had. They all hated the work, had very negative feelings toward men. They only did it for the money and because it was quick and offbook. But is it exploitive? I see exploitation as a matter of degree. Yes, it is a

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Peter
Yes, Vaj and I used to hit the Pop-a-Top in Ottumwa. --- Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On 9/13/05 7:33 AM, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Vaj, I like you, but I have to wonder whether you have actually ever *been* to a strip club. Yes! Yes, it's sad that our

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 10:57 AM, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Yes, Vaj and I used to hit the Pop-a-Top in Ottumwa. That is, until I perfected the X-ray vision siddhi ;-) Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~-- Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 2:48 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: John Lennon said it when he said Woman is the nigger of the world. OK. So how does that make a case that US dancers, in modern clubs, are exploited. This seems

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 2:58 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nice dismissive answer. Now can you go beyond that and actually make a factual, current data and/or observation case as to why strip clubs exploit women as sex objects. Read the brief study abstract I posted. If you don't get it after

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 3:16 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: And how does this directly link to observed, not hypothetical, exploitation in exotic dance clubs? Be specific. I've observed these trends over my life. One (hopefully) has some awareness of what's going on around them--and some

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 3:21 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I have read it. I read it 2 years ago. I read it yesterdy before you posted it. It is laughable. I will post why later. OK... If that article is how you got it, its getting all pretty clear that you have little or no experience in

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 6:54 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I don't frequent them. Very rarely. I am just stating that the ones I have bben to are not the dens of inequity that you conjur up in your mind. I never used that phrase, nor do I necessarily think of these clubs that way. For me it's

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-13 Thread Vaj
On 9/13/05 7:01 PM, akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: This counters your prior statment that you had lots of empirical experiecne in modern clubs. Then please quote me where I made this alleged statement that I've had lot's of empirical experience. Yahoo!

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-12 Thread Vaj
On 9/12/05 3:53 PM, jyouells2000 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: This opens a question for inquiry, and I apply this to myself, too. Why would such behavior on Charlie's part bother us so much? He liked to look at naked women. Okay I have known other people in the past that I respect and

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-12 Thread Peter
--- authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's interesting. the dark side of these people who try to pass themselves off as the latest guru. That tendency (to declare

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-12 Thread Peter
--- jyouells2000 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's interesting. the dark side of these people who try to pass themselves off as the latest guru. That tendency (to declare

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-12 Thread Peter
--- akasha_108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On 9/12/05 4:59 PM, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: The other part of that question is how did you know it was true? JohnY I know! If you knew

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-12 Thread Peter
--- authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip Strip clubs exploit women as sex objects. Yes and no. I've had several clients who were exotic dancers and they absolutely

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: More Chopra

2005-09-12 Thread Vaj
I know this is a fictional account, but I do believe in a large number of cases it is an accurate picture, watch a couple of Soprano episodes. The mob runs their act out of a north Jersey strip club called Bada Bing. This is the local strip joint--not the upscale gentleman's clubs or the Moulin