Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-30 Thread Dario Bonazza
Doug Franklin wrote: On 2011-11-29 13:18, Dario Bonazza wrote: (I'm not sure I succeeded in expressing my thought so well, but perhaps you'll get it) I think you expressed it pretty darned well, Dario. And I completely agree with what you say regarding building a community of the

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-30 Thread Joseph McAllister
What happened to the good old days, before I got old, and it was just you and me. We knew everything too. On Nov 30, 2011, at 06:12 , Dario Bonazza wrote: Doug Franklin wrote: On 2011-11-29 13:18, Dario Bonazza wrote: (I'm not sure I succeeded in expressing my thought so well, but

RE: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Bob W
PAA = CCB Thus it starts. The proliferation of alphabet acronyms that leads to complete communication breakdown. On 11/28/2011 8:18 PM, Daniel J. Matyola wrote: I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ:

RE: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Bob W
[...] Did you know that every time I do a studio shoot a kitten dies? -- William Robb I think I read somewhere that you don't have to cover them in magnesium to make them flash anymore, you can get some sort of electronic thing. Probably not as effective, but might be worth

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Mark Roberts
Bob W wrote: Thus it starts. The proliferation of alphabet acronyms that leads to complete communication breakdown. PAA = CCB OMG! -- Mark Roberts - Photography Multimedia www.robertstech.com -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Paul Stenquist
On Nov 29, 2011, at 6:28 AM, Mark Roberts wrote: Bob W wrote: Thus it starts. The proliferation of alphabet acronyms that leads to complete communication breakdown. PAA = CCB OMG! WTF? -- Mark Roberts - Photography Multimedia www.robertstech.com -- PDML

RE: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread J.C. O'Connell
Stenquist Sent: Tuesday, November 29, 2011 7:38 AM To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On Nov 29, 2011, at 6:28 AM, Mark Roberts wrote: Bob W wrote: Thus it starts. The proliferation of alphabet acronyms that leads to complete communication breakdown. PAA

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Ann Sanfedele
Hey - Ashley reads the list with me! Watch your mouth! ann On 11/29/2011 03:20, Bob W wrote: [...] Did you know that every time I do a studio shoot a kitten dies? -- William Robb I think I read somewhere that you don't have to cover them in magnesium to make them flash anymore, you

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread John Sessoms
From: Rick Womer Do I want to know what IFQ stands for? Image for Qritique? -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE from the PDML, please visit the link directly above and follow the directions.

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Charles Robinson
On Nov 25, 2011, at 18:06, William Robb wrote: I tried to give a critique one time and was told to accept the photograph on it's own merits, and either accept it for what it was or STFU. And now you know why most every photograph that is shown here, whether it be a stunning landscape or a

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
So, can we agree that on a PESO or GESO or PUG entry or whatever, if the poster invites criticism, those who have an opinion of any sort are free to express it, and to give positive or negative feedback, as long as the comments are directed to the merits or failings of the image, and not personal

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Dario Bonazza
Daniel J. Matyola wrote: So, can we agree that on a PESO or GESO or PUG entry or whatever, if the poster invites criticism, those who have an opinion of any sort are free to express it, and to give positive or negative feedback, as long as the comments are directed to the merits or failings of

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Ann Sanfedele
On 11/29/2011 12:41, Daniel J. Matyola wrote: So, can we agree that on a PESO or GESO or PUG entry or whatever, if the poster invites criticism, those who have an opinion of any sort are free to express it, and to give positive or negative feedback, as long as the comments are directed to the

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread David J Brooks
On Tue, Nov 29, 2011 at 12:41 PM, Daniel J. Matyola danmaty...@gmail.com wrote: So, can we agree that on a PESO or GESO or PUG entry or whatever, if the poster invites criticism, those who have an opinion of any sort are free to express it, and to give positive or negative feedback, as long as

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
I don't know, Ann. It seems to me that the comments have been rather polite and non-critical of late. Six or nine months ago, I received some detailed and pointed constructive criticisms on a number of images, but that hasn't been the case for the last few months. As a result, I find myself

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Keith Mosier
I’ve been out of the loop lately: not even able to lurk. Larry, the brain dump is a very good start. Your rules actually apply to a lot of life in general. There are a lot of good comments in this thread. The only reason I post photos is to get feedback from a group of people who collectively

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Larry Colen
On 11/29/2011 10:49 AM, Daniel J. Matyola wrote: I don't know, Ann. It seems to me that the comments have been rather polite and non-critical of late. Six or nine months ago, I received some detailed and pointed constructive criticisms on a number of images, but that hasn't been the case for

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Jack Davis
Deal! Jack - Original Message - From: Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Tuesday, November 29, 2011 10:30 AM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On 11/29/2011 12:41, Daniel J. Matyola wrote: So, can we agree that on a PESO

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread John Sessoms
From: Daniel J. Matyola So, can we agree that on a PESO or GESO or PUG entry or whatever, if the poster invites criticism, those who have an opinion of any sort are free to express it, and to give positive or negative feedback, as long as the comments are directed to the merits or failings of

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Jack Davis
To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Tuesday, November 29, 2011 10:49 AM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism I don't know, Ann.  It seems to me that the comments have been rather polite and non-critical of late.  Six or nine months ago, I received some detailed and pointed

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2011-11-29 13:18, Dario Bonazza wrote: (I'm not sure I succeeded in expressing my thought so well, but perhaps you'll get it) I think you expressed it pretty darned well, Dario. And I completely agree with what you say regarding building a community of the like-minded. For me, it's

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2011-11-29 1:07, Rob Studdert wrote: A FB community page or organisation page (I co-manage one) can have a number of admins which negates that need for handovers etc. Nice. I've never done that (FB community/organization page) so I wasn't aware. -- Thanks, DougF (KG4LMZ) -- PDML

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread William Robb
On 29/11/2011 9:12 AM, Ann Sanfedele wrote: Hey - Ashley reads the list with me! Watch your mouth! I'm not shooting in the studio all that much any more. I'm thinking of the kittens. -- William Robb -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-29 Thread Larry Colen
On Nov 29, 2011, at 8:37 AM, John Sessoms wrote: From: Rick Womer Do I want to know what IFQ stands for? Image for Qritique? I'd go with RFC, Request For Critique just because I like to confuse people by repurposing TLAs. -- Larry Colen l...@red4est.com sent from i4est -- PDML

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Tom C
Been out and about at Bryce and Zion National Parks over the weekend. I may have one or two shots to display. :-) Here's my thoughts on this semi-annual topic: 1. If a person posts a picture they're inviting a response. Usually they're expecting a positive response I believe, otherwise they

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Ann Sanfedele
Well put, Tom.. Nice summing up of the whole bit ann On 11/28/2011 13:21, Tom C wrote: Been out and about at Bryce and Zion National Parks over the weekend. I may have one or two shots to display. :-) Here's my thoughts on this semi-annual topic: 1. If a person posts a picture they're

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread knarftheria...@gmail.com
I agree with Ann. Cheers, frank --- Original Message --- From: Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com Sent: November 28, 2011 11/28/11 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism Well put, Tom.. Nice summing up of the whole bit ann On 11/28/2011 13:21, Tom C

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread P. J. Alling
@pdml.net Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism Well put, Tom.. Nice summing up of the whole bit ann On 11/28/2011 13:21, Tom C wrote: Been out and about at Bryce and Zion National Parks over the weekend. I may have one or two shots to display. :-) Here's my thoughts on this semi-annual topic

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread knarftheria...@gmail.com
We're a very polite people (with the exception of Bill Robb). ;-) (just kidding, Bill) cheers, frank --- Original Message --- From: P. J. Alling webstertwenty...@gmail.com Sent: November 28, 2011 11/28/11 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Larry Colen
On Nov 28, 2011, at 12:33 PM, knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: We're a very polite people (with the exception of Bill Robb). ;-) (just kidding, Bill) He's not a person? -- Larry Colen l...@red4est.com sent from i4est -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread P. J. Alling
On 11/28/2011 3:34 PM, Larry Colen wrote: On Nov 28, 2011, at 12:33 PM, knarftheria...@gmail.com wrote: We're a very polite people (with the exception of Bill Robb). ;-) (just kidding, Bill) He's not a person? I don't know, you should ask his wife. -- Larry Colen l...@red4est.com sent

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread William Robb
On 28/11/2011 12:21 PM, Tom C wrote: 7. I generally give only positive feedback and feel that praising the positive is the best way of promoting improvement and continued excellence. The photographer can learn the basics from a book and with practice, so I feel no need to give instruction.

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread William Robb
On 28/11/2011 2:04 PM, P. J. Alling wrote: Stop being agreeable, but then I guess you can't help it, you're Canadian. I'll try to make up for Frank's agree-ability. -- William Robb -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ: Images submitted for discussion and critiques. Dan Matyola http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/danieljmatyola On Mon, Nov 28, 2011 at 7:21 PM, William Robb

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Brian Walters
On Monday, November 28, 2011 8:18 PM, Daniel J. Matyola danmaty...@gmail.com wrote: I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ: Images submitted for discussion and critiques. By all means give that a try but, I

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Christine Nielsen
On Mon, Nov 28, 2011 at 7:21 PM, William Robb anotherdrunken...@gmail.com wrote: On 28/11/2011 12:21 PM, Tom C wrote: 7. I generally give only positive feedback and feel that praising the positive is the best way of promoting improvement and continued excellence. The photographer can learn

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2011-11-28 21:54, Brian Walters wrote: By all means give that a try but, I think a statement in a PESO noting that comments and suggestions are welcome (or similar), should be enough. I'm can't understand why a statement like that shouldn't be taken at face value. I agree, but with a

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Rick Womer
Do I want to know what IFQ stands for? Rick   http://photo.net/photos/RickW - Original Message - From: Daniel J. Matyola danmaty...@gmail.com To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Monday, November 28, 2011 8:18 PM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism I still say

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Tom C
7. I generally give only positive feedback and feel that praising the positive is the best way of promoting improvement and continued excellence. The photographer can learn the basics from a book and with practice, so I feel no need to give instruction. Well, yes and no. Only giving

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread P. J. Alling
Thus it starts. The proliferation of alphabet acronyms that leads to complete communication breakdown. On 11/28/2011 8:18 PM, Daniel J. Matyola wrote: I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ: Images submitted for

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread P. J. Alling
:18 PM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ: Images submitted for discussion and critiques. Dan Matyola http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/danieljmatyola On Mon, Nov 28, 2011

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Ann Sanfedele
I F Q ? dangerous acronym, that Dan! lol ann On 11/28/2011 21:54, Brian Walters wrote: On Monday, November 28, 2011 8:18 PM, Daniel J. Matyola danmaty...@gmail.com wrote: I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ:

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Ann Sanfedele
Listpdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Monday, November 28, 2011 8:18 PM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism I still say that we should have two types of submissions: PESOs (pictures posted for enjoyment and sharing) and IFQ: Images submitted for discussion and critiques. Dan Matyola http

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread knarftheria...@gmail.com
that more acronyms or initialisms will do much more than clutter our already busy lives. Cheers, frank --- Original Message --- From: Brian Walters supera1...@fastmail.fm Sent: November 28, 2011 11/28/11 To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-28 Thread Rob Studdert
On 27 November 2011 13:45, Doug Lefty Franklin do...@nutdriver.org wrote: I think it could be a good thing.  However, it has the same governance issues as the PUG and the PDML: someone has to be first point of contact and owner at any point it time.  And some sort of transition will be

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Mark Roberts
P. J. Alling webstertwenty...@gmail.com wrote: I'm not sure I'd be in favor of that, just about every kind of idiot uses facebook, whereas it takes a special kind of idiot to subscribe to the PDML and post to the PUG. Well the useful thing about Fcebook is that people who like the PUG wouldn't

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Ann Sanfedele
In terms of exposure (no pun) for the PUG a bunch of us just liking it and sharing the link it would possibly increase visitation without having to disenfranchise the anti-facebook population on the list, eh? ann On 11/27/2011 07:12, Mark Roberts wrote: P. J. Allingwebstertwenty...@gmail.com

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread David J Brooks
On Sun, Nov 27, 2011 at 9:59 AM, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: In terms of exposure (no pun) for the PUG a bunch of us just liking it and sharing the link it would possibly increase visitation without having to disenfranchise the anti-facebook population on the list, eh? When did you

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Ann Sanfedele
On 11/27/2011 10:58, David J Brooks wrote: On Sun, Nov 27, 2011 at 9:59 AM, Ann Sanfedeleann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: In terms of exposure (no pun) for the PUG a bunch of us just liking it and sharing the link it would possibly increase visitation without having to disenfranchise the

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Paul Stenquist
On Nov 27, 2011, at 11:04 AM, Ann Sanfedele wrote: On 11/27/2011 10:58, David J Brooks wrote: On Sun, Nov 27, 2011 at 9:59 AM, Ann Sanfedeleann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: In terms of exposure (no pun) for the PUG a bunch of us just liking it and sharing the link it would possibly increase

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Bran Everseeking
On Fri, 25 Nov 2011 18:06:50 -0600 William Robb anotherdrunken...@gmail.com wrote: Most people don't want a critique, they want an ego massage, and no one likes to be told that their image is an excruciatingly boring, poor rendering of a banal and cliched subject. sad true and entirely

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Bran Everseeking
On Sat, 26 Nov 2011 22:17:49 -0500 P. J. Alling webstertwenty...@gmail.com wrote: I'm not sure I'd be in favor of that, just about every kind of idiot uses facebook, whereas it takes a special kind of idiot to subscribe to the PDML and post to the PUG. MARK! -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Bran Everseeking
On Sat, 26 Nov 2011 21:29:20 -0500 Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: As far as promoting the PUG goes, it would be quick and easy to set up a PUG Facebook page. Might even attract some people to The List. I am cheating here having read some dissent then coming back to this point.

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
I am far from a FaceBook fan, but I think a page for the PDML is a great idea, if someone is willing and able to set it up and maintain it. If we attract a few idiots who are not our type of idiots, a few days on the list will drive those folk away. We are a unique and idiosyncratic bunch, and

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2011-11-25 19:15, Tim Bray wrote: I think it’s a little more nuanced than that. If I think a PESO is worthless, I say nothing. If I think it’s great, I’ll say so and if I can, add a word or two about why. If i think a picture is worthwhile and could be improved by cropping or color

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2011-11-26 19:00, Brian Walters wrote: Well, I suppose it's a matter of available time. For me, it's hugely a matter of available time. As Paul mentioned, if I tried to comment on every posted photo or gallery, I'd never have time for anything else. And a constructive near miss message

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Jack Davis
I'd as soon experience bedbug infestation.   Jack From: Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Sent: Sunday, November 27, 2011 8:04 AM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On 11/27/2011 10:58, David J Brooks wrote: On Sun, Nov 27, 2011 at 9:59 AM, Ann

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread mike wilson
On 27/11/2011 03:34, Christine Aguila wrote: That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine As I understand it PUG is for list members, actively contributing or not. Why would we want to promote it? On Nov 26, 2011, at 8:29 PM, Mark Robertsm...@robertstech.com

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread John Sessoms
From: Christine Aguila That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine On Nov 26, 2011, at 8:29 PM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: Christine Aguila christ...@caguila.com wrote: I value the PUG, Brian!Cheers, Christine As far as promoting the PUG goes,

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Mark Roberts
mike wilson m.9.wil...@ntlworld.com wrote: On 27/11/2011 03:34, Christine Aguila wrote: That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine As I understand it PUG is for list members, actively contributing or not. Why would we want to promote it? The idea would be to

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Brian Walters
On Sunday, November 27, 2011 3:37 PM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: mike wilson m.9.wil...@ntlworld.com wrote: On 27/11/2011 03:34, Christine Aguila wrote: That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine As I understand it PUG is for list members,

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-27 Thread Ann Sanfedele
and taking criticism On 11/27/2011 10:58, David J Brooks wrote: On Sun, Nov 27, 2011 at 9:59 AM, Ann Sanfedeleann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: In terms of exposure (no pun) for the PUG a bunch of us just liking it and sharing the link it would possibly increase visitation without having

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Aguila
/southernlight/ Rick http://photo.net/photos/RickW - Original Message - From: William Robb anotherdrunken...@gmail.com To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Friday, November 25, 2011 7:06 PM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On 25/11/2011 2:18 PM

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Paul Stenquist
anotherdrunken...@gmail.com To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Friday, November 25, 2011 7:06 PM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On 25/11/2011 2:18 PM, Larry Colen wrote: One thing I haven't seen a lot of is discussion on how to give and take criticism

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
I miss the days when I got scathing comments on my PESOs. They were always helpful, or at least thought provoking, even when the comments were a little hurtful. I'm a big boy, and I can take criticism. I made it though Marine boot camp, where I was insulted by professionals. I realize that I

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread David J Brooks
I to enjoy praises and knock downs of my photos, i use this information on any re shoots and future endeavors. As far as being able to take and handle criticism and reject,. i think people of my generation were taught how to fail, that it was not the end of the world. I think a lot of younger

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread David J Brooks
On Fri, Nov 25, 2011 at 7:59 PM, Paul Stenquist pnstenqu...@comcast.net wrote: It's important to note that the regular member didn't just critique the photo. He told the photographer that he should be ashamed at having posted such inferior work and generally directed his comments at the

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Jack Davis
: Re: Giving and taking criticism On Nov 26, 2011, at 3:16 AM, Christine Aguila wrote: I agree with Rick and Brian.  And I agree with Ken.  Everyone on the PDML is capable of giving frank and respectful critique.  Everyone has the rhetorical skills and the photographic technical skills.  I

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Ann Sanfedele
comments directed at the critique's author. Jack . - Original Message - From: Paul Stenquistpnstenqu...@comcast.net To: Pentax-Discuss Mail Listpdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Saturday, November 26, 2011 5:02 AM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On Nov 26, 2011, at 3:16 AM, Christine

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Aguila
On Nov 26, 2011, at 7:02 AM, Paul Stenquist wrote: When no one comments on a photo I've posted, I count that as a statement in itself: BORING! Same here. When I get no comments on stuff I've posted, I think the same thing. Cheers, Christine -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Nielsen
On Sat, Nov 26, 2011 at 10:19 AM, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: I have to say, I'm with Ann when she says: But I hope noone ever reads the _lack_ of any comment at all by me (or, for that matter, lots of others of us) as an automatic thumbs down - the randomness with which I read the

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Stan Halpin
On Nov 25, 2011, at 7:06 PM, William Robb wrote: Most people don't want a critique, they want an ego massage, and no one likes to be told that their image is an excruciatingly boring, poor rendering of a banal and cliched subject. I can agree that no one likes to hear such a message,

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Paul Stenquist
@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Saturday, November 26, 2011 5:02 AM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On Nov 26, 2011, at 3:16 AM, Christine Aguila wrote: I agree with Rick and Brian. And I agree with Ken. Everyone on the PDML is capable of giving frank and respectful critique. Everyone

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread P. J. Alling
On 11/25/2011 7:06 PM, William Robb wrote: On 25/11/2011 2:18 PM, Larry Colen wrote: One thing I haven't seen a lot of is discussion on how to give and take criticism. And a related discussion of what venues on the net, or off, are good for that sort of discussion. -- That's because we

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Tim Bray
On Sat, Nov 26, 2011 at 6:03 AM, Daniel J. Matyola danmaty...@gmail.com wrote: I also agree that there is no criticism harsher than getting no comments at all on a PESO.  To me that means not only that no one liked it, but also that no one thought there was any hope of fixing it or improving

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Cotty
On 26/11/11, Christine Aguila, discombobulated, unleashed: I agree with Rick and Brian. And I agree with Ken. I'm sorry. (I'm British). -- Cheers, Cotty ___/\__ || (O) | People, Places, Pastiche -- http://www.cottysnaps.com _ -- PDML

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread John Sessoms
From: David Parsons An idea was floated last year that if you wanted, or were okay with critique to use a different tag than PESO. Nothing ever came of it, but it's always an option for people who just want to share, and those who want active feedback. Someone on list has a sig that says

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Aguila
On Nov 26, 2011, at 1:20 PM, Cotty wrote: I'm sorry. (I'm British). I've never held that against you! :-) Cheers, Christine -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE from the PDML, please visit the link directly

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Brian Walters
On Saturday, November 26, 2011 2:23 PM, John Sessoms jsessoms...@nc.rr.com wrote: From: David Parsons An idea was floated last year that if you wanted, or were okay with critique to use a different tag than PESO. Nothing ever came of it, but it's always an option for people who just want

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Jack Davis
I have.  =] Jack - Original Message - From: Christine Aguila christ...@caguila.com To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net Cc: Sent: Saturday, November 26, 2011 11:59 AM Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism On Nov 26, 2011, at 1:20 PM, Cotty wrote: I'm sorry. (I'm

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread steve harley
on 2011-11-26 07:03 Daniel J. Matyola wrote I also agree that there is no criticism harsher than getting no comments at all on a PESO. To me that means not only that no one liked it, but also that no one thought there was any hope of fixing it or improving on it. I would much rather hear That

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread kwaller
/kennethwaller - Original Message - From: Paul Stenquist pnstenqu...@comcast.net Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism After reading Ann's comment, i have to add the same qualifier to my previous comment. I can't possibly comment on every photo -- I'd never get any work done. So

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Brian Walters
/ Kenneth Waller http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/kennethwaller - Original Message - From: Paul Stenquist pnstenqu...@comcast.net Subject: Re: Giving and taking criticism After reading Ann's comment, i have to add the same qualifier to my previous comment. I can't possibly

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Tim Bray
On Sat, Nov 26, 2011 at 2:50 PM, Brian Walters supera1...@fastmail.fm wrote: Yes, I regard GESOs as being posted for enjoyment, not critical comment.  I'll usually nominate a couple of favourites but nothing much more. Interesting; that approach had never crossed my mind. A

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Brian Walters
On Saturday, November 26, 2011 2:59 PM, Tim Bray tb...@textuality.com wrote: On Sat, Nov 26, 2011 at 2:50 PM, Brian Walters supera1...@fastmail.fm wrote: Yes, I regard GESOs as being posted for enjoyment, not critical comment.  I'll usually nominate a couple of favourites but nothing much

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Ann Sanfedele
On 11/26/2011 19:00, Brian Walters wrote: snip... I have no evidence to back it up but I suspect most people here look at galleries in the way I suggested. You've only got to look at how few comments the monthly PUG receives. Sometimes I wonder if anyone, other than the contributors,

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Paul Stenquist
On Nov 26, 2011, at 7:19 PM, Ann Sanfedele wrote: On 11/26/2011 19:00, Brian Walters wrote: snip... I have no evidence to back it up but I suspect most people here look at galleries in the way I suggested. You've only got to look at how few comments the monthly PUG receives.

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Brian Walters
On Saturday, November 26, 2011 7:19 PM, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: On 11/26/2011 19:00, Brian Walters wrote: snip... I have no evidence to back it up but I suspect most people here look at galleries in the way I suggested. You've only got to look at how few comments

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Aguila
I value the PUG, Brian!Cheers, Christine On Nov 26, 2011, at 7:31 PM, Brian Walters supera1...@fastmail.fm wrote: On Saturday, November 26, 2011 7:19 PM, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote: On 11/26/2011 19:00, Brian Walters wrote: snip... I have no evidence to back it

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Ann Sanfedele
On 11/26/2011 19:38, Paul Stenquist wrote: On Nov 26, 2011, at 7:19 PM, Ann Sanfedele wrote: On 11/26/2011 19:00, Brian Walters wrote: snip... I have no evidence to back it up but I suspect most people here look at galleries in the way I suggested. You've only got to look at how

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Mark Roberts
Christine Aguila christ...@caguila.com wrote: I value the PUG, Brian!Cheers, Christine As far as promoting the PUG goes, it would be quick and easy to set up a PUG Facebook page. Might even attract some people to The List. -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Aguila
That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine On Nov 26, 2011, at 8:29 PM, Mark Roberts m...@robertstech.com wrote: Christine Aguila christ...@caguila.com wrote: I value the PUG, Brian!Cheers, Christine As far as promoting the PUG goes, it would be quick

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Doug Lefty Franklin
On 2011-11-26 21:34, Christine Aguila wrote: That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine As far as promoting the PUG goes, it would be quick and easy to set up a PUG Facebook page. Might even attract some people to The List. I think it could be a good thing.

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread P. J. Alling
I'm not sure I'd be in favor of that, just about every kind of idiot uses facebook, whereas it takes a special kind of idiot to subscribe to the PDML and post to the PUG. On 11/26/2011 9:34 PM, Christine Aguila wrote: That's an interesting idea. What do folks think? Cheers, Christine

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Christine Aguila
Point taken! :-). Cheers, Christine On Nov 26, 2011, at 9:17 PM, P. J. Alling webstertwenty...@gmail.com wrote: I'm not sure I'd be in favor of that, just about every kind of idiot uses facebook, whereas it takes a special kind of idiot to subscribe to the PDML and post to the PUG.

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-26 Thread Ann Sanfedele
On 11/26/2011 22:17, P. J. Alling wrote: I'm not sure I'd be in favor of that, just about every kind of idiot uses facebook, whereas it takes a special kind of idiot to subscribe to the PDML and post to the PUG. Me too, Pete ann On 11/26/2011 9:34 PM, Christine Aguila wrote: That's an

Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-25 Thread Larry Colen
I've realized that one reason the PDML has helped me improve my photography is not only feedback on my photos, but looking at other people's photos and reading the feedback on them. It has exposed me to different styles of photography, given me a feel what other people like, or dislike, and

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-25 Thread William Robb
On 25/11/2011 2:18 PM, Larry Colen wrote: One thing I haven't seen a lot of is discussion on how to give and take criticism. And a related discussion of what venues on the net, or off, are good for that sort of discussion. -- That's because we don't offer criticism here. We had a regular

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-25 Thread Tim Bray
I think it’s a little more nuanced than that. If I think a PESO is worthless, I say nothing. If I think it’s great, I’ll say so and if I can, add a word or two about why. If i think a picture is worthwhile and could be improved by cropping or color adjustments or whatever, I’ll say that too. I

Re: Giving and taking criticism

2011-11-25 Thread Bong Manayon
There is an Ignatian(?) spiritual exercise where one is to either tell the truth only at all times OR say only nice things at all times but never at the same time. Which is why--I guess--the gurus or the truly wise as they grow...well, wiser..become more silent. Bong :-) On Sat, Nov 26, 2011 at

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