Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-22 Thread dhunt
Eric, how wise your wife is on this mater of the mobile phone! LOL. I hae one, check its messages a few times a day, and it's usually turned off. Re: the liberty to not answer the phone: We all have it; who's willing to take it?

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-22 Thread dhunt
Various private and government data horders have copies of these messages; surely, they can be found in indices? LOL. They'll be archived, copied, and redistributed for the life of the interwebs...

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-21 Thread Heather
I can't resist I'm probably old enough to be your mother, but I have the same problem with dating and had to end a romantic liason with an otherwise pleasant gentleman who couldn't seem to understand why I didn't just install Windows so Yahoo messenger will work and we can cyber. It felt

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-21 Thread nux
The feeling of being 'left out' is very powerful. It's so hard, sometimes I get such a strong desire to have a smartphone, use Windows, watch soap operas, read the gutter press, support a football team, be just like everyone else, even though I know I'd hate it, even though I've spent my

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-20 Thread tuxfalk
Hi i'm a new member..ity's really true that girls use linux free softwere???

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-10 Thread gnuser
To be honest, I understand (now more than before) that there is no real need to hide EVERYTHING about you. Of course, the kind of spying that you are mentioning is wrong and I would say criminal. But it's like... a social network like Diaspora, that apparently respects the users a lot more

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-10 Thread nux
Facebook is a global psychological profiling and surveillance tool, masquerading as a social networking tool. Of course it can be accessed using free software - it's a broad net, designed to catch as many fish as possible. To lock people out based on their refusal to use proprietary

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-09 Thread pc . athome
Taking it to a serious level, don't fall for Facebook or other social media (you could also argue get a simple cell phone not a smart one). I recenty watched a very interesing video that came on LXF - a Stallman presentation. A guy from East Germany (not sure if living in Ireland/Eire now)

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread oralfloss
We have free media. Whether one considers Facebook free media or not, we still have access to free media. Facebook doesn't try to oppress every type of media it can, but rather it collects data about its users. Therefore, Facebook is not an attack on our civil liberties. It is completely

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread shiretoko
You wrote originally in this thread: They [refering also to facebook] are both SaaSS. Magic Banana posts: It is not SaaSS. and your answer: I agree with this. Fbit does not. I think you're rather twisting things around so you finally reach the conclusion that your point is proven.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread Andrew R.
On 08/10/13 16:01, oralfloss wrote: To make an analogy, Facebook is a tolled bridge on an river that flows downstream for an infinite amount of miles. Anyone can build their own bridge on this river, or use already set up non-tolled bridges. By tolling the people who cross the Facebook

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread mve1
The problem with analogies is we have to be very careful that they make sense. I think your analogy is does not. A bridge, in this sense of the word, is a structure (in this case you claim facebook) carrying a road (in this case I assume digital information) across something (for traditional

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread gnuser
Well, first I apologize for not replying sooner. I was without internet for a few days -.- Next, i would like to thanks everyone who gave some kind of feedback, and i would like to say this: this thread was mostly supposed to be fun to begin with. Not a very serious topic, just a fun thought

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread arielxgbarton
I was joking about software used to make the stamp. LOL. The letter can be shredded after being read. But who could be bothered to raid a recycling bin

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread oralfloss
Given the terms that fbit was using to define SaaSS, they would both be. I don't believe either are. When I try to put things using my own definitions all fbit can do is make his own, so I use those definitions instead. When other people butt in to the conversation, they assume that I

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread oralfloss
But to continue that analogy, many of your friends can only be reached across that single tolled bridge on the internet. They probably know that it's the only bridge, but they don't know anything else (or care). That is their own ignorance that is impairing them, not Facebook. They can make

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-08 Thread oralfloss
The problem with analogies is we have to be very careful that they make sense. I think your analogy does not. A bridge, in this sense of the word, is a structure (in this case you claim facebook) carrying a road (in this case I assume digital information) across something (for traditional

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-07 Thread mve1
oralfloss, I had decided to give you the last word, but this seems to be the thread that keeps on giving. I don't use facebook so I'm not sure if it is SaaSS or PaaS and to tell you the truth, I don't think it matters. I had already conceded to Magic Banana's post where he said neither

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-07 Thread tegskywalker
This sounds like common sense, but women like a man who has good self esteem and is confident in his conviction. If you are funny, that helps a lot too as a good sense of humor can really break the ice on a date and sustain it if it becomes a relationship. Also remember that it is not a

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-07 Thread oralfloss
I disagree. The intrusion into your privacy, the mass profiling, surveillance, social mapping, predictive modeling and all the other BI that is run on all the data given to facebook constitute attacks against freedom. I contend that without privacy you cannot have freedom. That's what a

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-07 Thread Andrew R.
On 08/10/13 09:54, oralfloss wrote: That's what a privacy policy is for. I am free to use their services given those conditions, just as all other services have certain conditions. There have been many people asking about why extensive swearing isn't allowed on Trisquel, and there are

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-07 Thread mve1
I understand what you're saying. I just don't think you realize the implications. I'm not saying what they're doing is illegal (although I do think it should be). All I'm saying is that freedom is not just about free software. I highly recommend Eben Moglen's 2012 keynote at Re:publica.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-07 Thread oralfloss
No matter what services you use, unless they are 100% p2p, they will be centralised.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-06 Thread shiretoko
And now look up the definition of compel. A demand for a donation like donate now! doesn't coerce anyone in the slightest.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-06 Thread oralfloss
With that logic, facebook doesn't coerce anyone either.

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2013-10-06 Thread onpon4
It doesn't. Nobody is forced to join Facebook. So of course, you shouldn't join Facebook.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-06 Thread oralfloss
It doesn't. Point proven. So of course, you shouldn't join Facebook. That depends on how much you value privacy, not how much you value freedom. This thread is about free software, not privacy.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-06 Thread chris
I think your right and fortunately I've been pretty good about discouraging the people around me from adopting it. Unfortunately most don't understand the implications from the loss of privacy. Humorously it's the ones who are free software minded who seem to all be using it or have a desire

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-06 Thread oralfloss
Facebook's content can be rendered with a free software Web browser (such as Trisquel's Abrowser). The mobile version of Facebook does not make this browser run proprietary Javascript. So, unless you prove the contrary, Facebook can be used with 100% free software. I'm not trying to prove

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread virx61
I only use Facebook to contact a few of my legacy friends from before I stopped using things like Facebook. Eventually I hope to convince those few of them to at least communicate via email or Jabber with me. As far as I can tell, Facebook uses a closed-up, proprietary XMPP protocol for

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread whitepalm
I am glad that the original poster has started this thread. This is something that I have been thinking about, ever since I learned that there was another gay boy on the bus at school. Each day, I see him at the center of attention, with an iPad and an iPhone, asking people if they have a

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread shiretoko
He's so smooth and popular; I know I'd be so awkward that he wouldn't like me. But you never tried? So how can you know? Imagine you have a facebook account and finally you two become a couple. How would it feel knowing that this happens just because of this website? I don't know;

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread oralfloss
Yes.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread oralfloss
The whole point of this argument, actually this whole thread, is that the social networking service Facebook can be used with 100% free software. And, according to you, it isn't even SaaSS. Point proved.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread oralfloss
You keep claiming your term Reductio ad absurdum like it means something, but you have yet to explain the line at which something is considered that. Anyone can reduce to absurdity, but who are you to decide at which point that occurs? Is it just your own sense of false security that you use

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread mve1
It doesn't really matter and I wish you no ill. We can just agree to disagree. I can pay some money in exchange for Trisquel and you can pay with your privacy in exchange for facebook. Let's move on.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread oralfloss
That's the end of this on my side. I think we can safely end this thread here. Despite all this, you still feel the need to get your last word in. You really are just trying to end this with a moral high ground, rather than defending freedom.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-05 Thread oralfloss
co·erce transitive verb to compel to an act or choice You really are just projecting here; coercion isn't always bad. I never in any way said it is bad to ask for donations, but they are trying to convince you to donate by putting up those advertisements. That is coercion.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
snip -- Facebook respects your freedom if you use the mbasic mode. snip -- I don't know what oralfloss means by this. I imagine mbasic mode is some sort of mobile mode? In any case I doubt facebook even releases the source of all the code you run through their server. Much

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread dhunt
m.facebook.com is as close to fre as you're likely to get. It even works with a browser like lynx or emacs-w3m. I use facebook xmpp chat; wish it had audio. Facebook can be used with free software on the client side, as a service. True, it's not ideal...

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread shiretoko
In any case I doubt facebook even releases the source of all the code you run through their server. Much less give you the ability to copy or modify it. I don't see how this could respect your freedom. Without further explanation I would say it does not. This is true for most of the sites

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread gnuser
The only issue is that the stamp may have been designed with non-free software, and the postal service may use non-free sorting systems. Hopefully, they don't have any system to read the letter. Honestly, I think that is over thinking this. I couldn't care less how they made the stamp, I

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread gnuser
1. Those are not so bad ;) 2. Not my cup of tea, but not so bad themselves. 3. So... they are SonGoku in supersayian form... with boobs is that it? =P

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread gnuser
Well said. I think people these days need to take a look at your past life (through the net) before they decide if they want to be your friends. Lol quite a stupid concept if you ask me :P

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread gnuser
hey, you convinced two people... you should be happy, that is more than most of us can actually ;)

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
:) My idea was... I convince 2, they each convince 2 more... etc. Unfortunately I think neither of them convinced anyone else yet. I don't lose hope though.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
My feeling is that I deserve control over the programs I run, whether on my computer or not. You are right that it is the case that many websites try to run code (beside html...and you can see that source, if you consider it code). I try not to use run any of the so called web 2.0 shit. No

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
I see. I have no clue about facebook, mobile or not. It may be as close as you are likely to get, if you want to use facebook. You can still be freer and not use it. The fb chat is not xmpp. From facebook developers page: Facebook Chat should be compatible with every XMPP client, but is not

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread oralfloss
I don't know what oralfloss means by this. I imagine mbasic mode is some sort of mobile mode? In any case I doubt facebook even releases the source of all the code you run through their server. Much less give you the ability to copy or modify it. Mbasic mode is a mode where no scripts are

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread oralfloss
My feeling is that I deserve control over the programs I run, whether on my computer or not. You aren't running them if they aren't on the computer you are using. If you give someone a request or submit data, you are still not running a program on their computer. You are right that it is

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread oralfloss
Using facebook is still one of the worse ways to give up your freedom. If not yet, it will be. It is a stupidity to give one corporation (plus their associates, customers, government buddies) all that personal information. You are voluntarily giving information away. You are not forced to

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
You are voluntarily giving information away. You are not forced to give information. Indeed, it is not physical coercion, which is what I guess you are referring to when you say you are not forced to... I don't use it, so it is possible not to do so. However, there are many forms of

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
Mbasic mode is a mode where no scripts are needed, and it is purely server-side. There's no proprietary javascript or anything of that nature. If you think server-side code is a major concern, you should stop using the internet entirely. This also goes for just about any website. If it's

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
Internet forums have been around since the early 80's. Added to that, trisquel.info is community funded. We are users. On facebook and other such services, you are the product, not the user. Maybe the term web 2.0 was confusing. I don't use SaaSS.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread oralfloss
Internet forums have been around since the early 80's. Added to that, trisquel.info is community funded. We are users. On facebook and other such services, you are the product, not the user. All of those are owned by people, run by people, and contributed to by users. Where's the huge

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread oralfloss
Indeed, it is not physical coercion, which is what I guess you are referring to when you say you are not forced to... I don't use it, so it is possible not to do so. However, there are many forms of coercion, such as psychological and social; facebook employs those types of coercion. And

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread oralfloss
I believe this logical fallacy is sometimes called reductio ad absurdum. I insist there is a difference between my posting on the Trisquel forum and using facebook, a mass surveillance, data mining, profiling system. This is not black and white. They are both SaaSS. Also, your argument

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
I think we can safely end this thread here. Now Trisquel is coercing me to donate. lol. Anyway, you keep reducing everything else to the absurd.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
1) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reductio_ad_absurdum 2) XMPP is an open standard. The opposite of the gated community example. 3) There are various degrees of monopoly, and rarely does anything approaching pure monopoly exist. Thus, the term is generally used in a relative sense rather

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread mve1
You are right. Thanks :) our privacy and our freedom.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-04 Thread TralfamadorianOrator
I have convinced 2 people so far.( I think it's great just to make good examples of ourselves by publicly rejecting these big, centralized services -- especially services that are known to comply with massive state surveillance of users. It's hard to convince others (I can't even convince

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread gnuser
Now that was a very informative post. Thanks! Like I have said, in my country there are not a lot of clubs and meetings like there are in the USA, but I will give a thought about doing a trip. Oh and for the record, it's not like I am in search for a girl or anything, the thought just

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread gnuser
I know what you mean. One of these days I went out without taking my cell phone ( I am starting to treat my cell phone aas a regular home phone :P) and when I got back I had a couple of lost calls (parents and a friend). When I returned the calls and told them that I didn't answer because I

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread gramex
The computer may be broken twenty years from now. Letters are less likely to break of mechanical failure. :P

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2013-10-03 Thread adel . afzal
Haha Sal, what a novel idea ;)

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2013-10-03 Thread zatroch
Well-put. Although I cannot yet get rid of Google Hangouts.. because of girls. Tried experimenting with little to zero cellphone use.. but caused me unbearable mental states stemming from utter social isolation.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread arielxgbarton
You could always ask them for an address, and send them a letter. That requires no proprietary software, assuming you write the letter with free software / by hand. Then you can include an envelope for the response. Easy. The only issue is that the stamp may have been designed with non-free

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread chris
I'd be surprised if there weren't lots of options just about everywhere. Its more likely your just unaware of them. But-yea I recall another post saying something similar I wrote. I didn't recall who I suggested something like this to before. I don't see anything wrong with trying to find

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread virx61
I've thought long and hard about this situation, and my main solutions are: exchange e-mail addresses or phone numbers. And why not? they are a traditional and still relevant ways of communication. Given, many people are probably so deep into social networking that they won't even try to

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread virx61
My wife always says: just because you have a mobile phone doesn't mean it's a leash for your friends to always reach you 24/7 Also, I don't answer my phone unless I'm in an appropriate area, even if I have it with me. I assume other people have the same liberty ;-)

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread oralfloss
Facebook respects your freedom if you use the mbasic mode. Privacy and tracking is a whole different topic.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread virx61
Wouldn't gramma store all of the memorabilia on a 3.5-inch floppy disk? Oh, right, there's no computer that can read a floppy anymore. ;-)

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-03 Thread virx61
Disregarding privacy and tracking, you can also use Facebook Chat with an XMPP client like Pidgin. I use it to keep in contact with people I already know who don't use anything but Facebook. That helps me keep in contact without constantly reporting my activities publicly online ;-)

[Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread gnuser
Ok, now, please, don't take this too seriously. It's a thought that came along the other day, and maybe it would be fun to discuss here. But let's keep in mind dating girls (or guys for that matter) is not the main target of free software ;) So, let's say you are out with a couple of

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread onpon4
E-mail? Phone numbers?

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread gnuser
I would like it to be that simple :P These days people have forgotten about those simple things like emails and phone numbers. They think only in terms of facebook and skype. And if you don't have facebook you are a weirdo -.- just because they can't go snoop around on your previous

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread onpon4
Nobody you talk to uses a cell phone? I find that hard to believe. If someone looks down on you because you don't use Facebook, I would seriously question whether that person is worth talking to.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread shiretoko
Normally I explain the reasons why I don't use facebook or skype in a few sentences; I try to put my words carfully so no facebook user in the group feels attacked. If a girl really doesn't want to listen or calls me a weirdo because I don't do something bad many people do - well, then I'm

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread gnuser
Yeah, there is a lot of pressure into using certain services. maybe it's because everyone uses it or it' not really that bad or even I don't have anything to hide. But like jacob appelbaum has said we all have something to hide or else we would walk around naked ;) I just think it's a bad

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread icarolongo
Try to talk and meet girls in Diaspora, pump.io, etc :-D

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread nux
Amaze him/her by asking for a land address and write them a letter. My wife still has the letters I wrote to her 25 years ago when we first met. The same cannot be said for any of the more recent texts and emails.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread gnuser
That is a good idea actually ;) Doubt that I will find anyone near me in there, but its worth a shot. Now, it would be really laughable if a girl there would go like hey I rarely come here, add me on facebook xD LOOL thanks!

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread gnuser
Aww, the beautiful 80s and 90s *.* Sometimes I wish I had lived in those years. Too bad that if you ask for their address they will most certainly call the cops to arrest the stalker xD ahaha. I totally agree with you however that those were the things that held more meaning.

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread shiretoko
Too bad that if you ask for their address they will most certainly call the cops to arrest the stalker xD lol true, true

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2013-10-02 Thread chris
The last I checked there are still lots of places to find like-minded individuals. I can think of dozens of places within 40 minutes of me and I'm not exactly in a major city. Suggestions: 2600 meetings - http://www.2600.com/meetings/ Any kind of tech meetup (like Drupal meetups) or

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread nux
They need reeducating. Can you imagine granny getting out an old 486, powering it up and showing the grandchildren the lovely emails your grandfather sent me when we were courting? I suppose they might be printed off, but it's not the same. So, the answer is, you don't ask for their land

Re: [Trisquel-users] How to date girls using free software :P

2013-10-02 Thread mve1
I am fortunate enough not to have to go out to look for romance, but both personally and professionally, I have to agree that life is made difficult without using these services. Having no facebook, skype, linkedin, google things, etc. and having to explain why is a drawback with