Re: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,   I didn't have direct experiences in an orgyhouse, nor did you, I assume. So we can only make mental assumtions.   Anthony --- On Wed, 23/2/11, Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com wrote: From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest To:

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,   In Taiwan, a woman, whose husband had an affair with another woman, cut off his genitals, and threw it into the toilet bowl, flushing it with a copious amount of water. Then, medical workers had to spend a lot of time retrieving the organ in the sewage. Fortunately, the doctors

[Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
Mike, Possibly, if it could be apprehended. ~ED The truth is rarely pure and never simple. ~Oscar Wilde The truth, once spoken is no longer the truth. ~Eastern saying , --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, mike brown uerusuboyo@... wrote: ED, Isn't it better to live in Truth than dwell in

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Kristy,   Does it need striving to be in 'just this'? Otherwise, will your mind not go astray?   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote: From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka/Edgar,   Compassion should be given to victims of rape, and those molested by pedophilic priests. There is deep psychological wound involved. Rape fantassies, whether on the part of males or females, are not part of the statement here.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Maria Lopez

Re: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest

2011-02-24 Thread Maria Lopez
  Mayka: You're right never been in an orgy house.   But you said you were:   Anthony: On the other hand, I also agree that when I enjoy myself in the orgy house, it is all 'just this'.   Mayka: Responses to you were because of that comment you made.       --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Anthony Wu

Re: [Zen] Fwd: Integral Tantra and Sexual Ethics

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Kristy,   Thank you for this. However, I can only understand it when I am enlightened. I will work hard on shikantaza with Tantric visualization.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote: From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com Subject: [Zen] Fwd: Integral

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Maria Lopez
Anthony;   You got me here.  The horrible vision of this story has made me understand that I wouldn't have the goats of doing something like that. Nonetheless, I keep having the idea of castrating a rapist.  But better to leave in a surgeon hands.   That is the solution I can think of right now

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
ED,   How can you say zen underlies Christianity, if the Old Testament is part of it.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote: From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com Subject: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, 24 February, 2011,

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Maria Lopez
Bill:  oh yeah, and cut off their penis while you're at it'. Mayka: What does your comment above means?.  Did you mean as an act or revenge, judgemental...or what?.  If the comment comes because of the idea of castrating a rapist...I stick to it.  Though not as passionately as yesterday, yes

Re: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Kristy,   Don't you ever come any closer to a dangerous person as Bill is, without a protective demon by your side.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Bill! billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote: From: Bill! billsm...@hhs1963.org Subject: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Date:

Re: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,   I am making progress in bloody English. When I use the present tense, I mean what will happen in the future. So the experience in the orgyhouse has not materialized. It is only a plan, and I still have to work hard to find such a place.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Maria Lopez

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,   As I said, victims deserve compassion. As regards the offenders, law has to take care of it. If that fails, I know no better alternative than the working of karma.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com wrote: From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Maria Lopez
Anthony;   What is compassion for you? Perhaps there is compassion in action that you are unable to see it.  Mayka   --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote: From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Edgar Owen
Hi Kristy, I said voluntarily satisfy, not be a sex slave In other words if a man is loved and his desires satisfied by a woman who loves him, he doesn't have the need to become a rapist. I think the hidden message here is that men aren't born rapists, they rape out of unsatisfied

[Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Mel
Thank you Mayka. Well put!!   Buddha be praised Mel gunnar19632...@yahoo.com.au --- On Wed, 23/2/11, Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com wrote: From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others? To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Received: Wednesday, 23

[Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Mel
It is impossible to force change on anyone, ED. However, please do understand that I wouldn't have been the first, nor will I be the last to take note of openly dualistic postings from those outside of the path, and those who aspire to the Zen way of life itself are bound to notice such posts

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,   Compassion is a luxury for me. If I run into bad luck, I accept the punishment of my own karma. I don't believe anybody else can change it.   Anthony --- On Thu, 24/2/11, Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com wrote: From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com Subject: Re: [Zen] Re:

[Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to Anthony/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Mel
It's quite ok if you see it that way. One way of describing the BigMind is by comparing it to Mowgli's jungle environment. An environment containing many things, and many happenings...and yet self-contained. The mind is like a sea with many waves and is never settled or calm at all times. So,

[Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED)

2011-02-24 Thread Mel
Oh ED, don't go there!(*grin/laughter*) Using the fem*n**t word will not get you forgiven...trust me...coz I've been burned in the past for such mistake   in peace Mel --- On Thu, 24/2/11, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote: From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com Subject: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm

[Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED)

2011-02-24 Thread Mel
Ok ED, I gotcha(*grin/smiles*). Honestly ED, I prefer to get answers from your BIG SELF, not dualistic dusty and old academic books, or other research sources   peace be with you Mel gunnar19632...@yahoo.com.au --- On Thu, 24/2/11, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote: (See, Mel, I didn't

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Maria Lopez
Mel:   Thank you for the kindness of your comments.  Just a shame that I went a little bit too much emotional over the rape subject and went entangled on myself emotions and talking non sense.  It only comes to show how easy is to loose oneself in samsara and that the difficulties of

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
Mayka Dear, Please don't feel that you are alone. Many of us on the forum are with you. I am sure those on the forum who meditates connect with you. I am also somewhat certain those who do not, probably do not. Steve already posted something like, ... there are those wanted to show that

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
If I may add some perspectives to Mel's observation below We all know the basic Buddhist practice is simply precepts, meditation, wisdom. It simply means if we can not surpass our habits -- habitual thoughts, habitual life style (the first practice), if we do not meditate (the second

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明
If I may add... Only when we witness the emptiness in all words, could we then embrace all words. Then and only then we are whole and be one with the One. Thank you for your time for reading this. JMJM Be Enlightened In This Life - We ALL Can http://chanjmjm.blogspot.com

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread ED
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 chan.jmjm@... wrote: If I may add some perspectives to Mel's observation below We all know the basic Buddhist practice is simply precepts, meditation, wisdom. It simply means if we can not surpass our habits --

[Zen] Re: Can a Buddha harm others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
JMJM, Please do not denigrate your gift of words. --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Jue Miao Jing Ming - 覺妙精明 chan.jmjm@... wrote: If I may add... Only when we witness the emptiness in all words, could we then embrace all words. Then and only then we are whole and be one

[Zen] Re: Can a Buddha harm others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Jue Miao Jing Ming - wrote: If I may add some perspectives to Mel's observation below We all know the basic Buddhist practice is simply precepts, meditation, wisdom. It simply means if we can not surpass our habits -- habitual thoughts, habitual life

Re: [Zen] Re: An Article of Interest

2011-02-24 Thread Chris Austin-Lane
Being emotionally connected enough to another to be inspired and motivated and taught by them != giving up responsibility for your own life. I like your theory that they are correlated, and I suspect people do validate their own sense of a teachers awesomeness by the degree to which they give up

[Zen] Re: An Article of Interest

2011-02-24 Thread ED
Chris, these matters are beyond words. Every relationship between student and teacher is different. Every relationship is a double-edged sword. If one does not appreciate, respect and yes even love the other, very little will be gained from the relationship. 'Responsibility' is a

[Zen] Re: Can a Buddha harm others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
JMJM dearest, You do not need to support anybody here. I believe they can all stand on their own two feet. They want to show that they are right, but not you self-proclaimed meditators? Is that not judgmental? Is that not a bit dualistic? ;-) --ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, JMJM

[Zen] Re: Can a Buddha harm others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
Mel, Non-dualistically speaking, we are all one BIG BALL of SH+++. ;-) PBUY, ~ED --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Mel gunnar19632000@... wrote: Ok ED, I gotcha(*grin/smiles*). Honestly ED, I prefer to get answers from your BIG SELF, not dualistic dusty and old academic books, or other

[Zen] Re: Can a Buddha harm others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
Mel, you are right. Human Nature being what it is, people become displeased and can even get angry if they experience one as expressing points of view that do not 'support' them. This is the real world in action, referred to in Zen as the illusory world - or so I have been told. PBUY, ~ED

[Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread ED
Mike, Tough question! The answer is an unknown function of one's values, priorities, foci, fixations, wisdom, compassion and obsession with 'truth'. But, the question is moot to an agnostic for whom the truth is indeterminate. ~ED The Truth can neither be asserted nor denied. ~Eastern

Re: [Zen] Can A Buddha Harm Others?(to ED/Mayka/list)

2011-02-24 Thread Kristy McClain
JM,   I am truly delighted that you feel this way.  I will arrange for you to share your practice and this insight with a sex-offenders group in your country.  I know they will welcome the idea that they--too, are part of the One, and do not  need tp fear those who would like to castrate them.  

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Kristy McClain
Edgar,   Your conclusions here are simply not accurate.  I agreed that sex is one of the factors t that motivate rape.  But being sexually satisfied does not prevent rapes from occuring.  Many, many rapists are married, and have sexual opportunities with other partners as well.  Men have the

Re: [Zen] Re: Can A Buddha Harm Others?

2011-02-24 Thread Maria Lopez
Audrey:   Have you noticed that anyone answered the questions:   1- What would you do if your mother, daughter, sister, niece, girlfriend were rape? 2 - Is there anyone on this forum who has raped someone?/P   And yet the thread about sex offenders carries on!.  But all that is pure mental