Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Maria Lopez
K...
 
Enjoyed the clarity of this post of yours.  
 
I think that Mike might have been right and there is the possibility that if we 
both met and knew face to face we might become friends.  Anyway, we're in the 
same group and find very silly not to interact with each other.  You're wrong 
and I do like you.  We both are impulsive ladies. I like from the posting you 
sent to Anthony your very good intentions of helping him. There was warm and 
compassion in your personal way of posting .   I admire people who don't fear 
the consequences of speaking up their minds specially with taboo subjects as 
the one you spoke about.   Interaction between Anthony and yourself was an 
interesting dharma.  
 
Can we make up and be friends?
Mayka
 
 
 
 
 
--- On Mon, 8/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 8 November, 2010, 23:45


  








Anthony,
 
I'm not sure I understand  your point. You are the one who brings up the topic 
of sex in conjunction (I assume) with spirituality.  Specifically tantra and 
Buiddhism.  I don't view or use sex as a means to sacred spiritual awareness It 
is part of my relationship with a man I love.  While I find your comments 
abrupt, they are also confusing. I don't know what you mean by ndes, and you 
lost me with the comment on LSD and senior runners.  You mentioned drug-induced 
states, so I commented on that as an adjunct.
 
I thought your point was that you wanted  to find some type of spiritual 
awareness /awakening via sex and orgy-houses,  as  part of a buddhist /zen 
practice.  I don't even know what an orgy-house is.  Is that a brothel?  I 
understand orgy as train-sex. Thats not my style, and how one could ever see 
orgy sex as sacred is beyond me. But go for it.  Moreover, when I questioned 
you initially  about why you mention it so often, you stated that it gave some 
humor to the forum.
 
I shared a personal experience as a means to open a dialogue about a topic you 
seem to care deeply about.   Perhaps it is a cultural mis-perception.  I  felt 
that you discuss it alot because you actually have unfulfilled needs, and I was 
trying  to offer my support by suggesting that sex can be a part of life at any 
age.
 
I question dharma,  and many spiritual disciplines, mostly because I am not 
seeking a guru as a means to an end.  My zen and other spiritual practices are 
part of a balanced lifestyle. They are not my entire focus.  They serve as a 
foundation to guide me in my work, relationships, values and character. They 
are the base of my integrity and  help me offer what I  can in my everyday , 
busy life. They help me resolve conflicts.  They mediate my stress. They guide 
my compassion and offer some wisdom.
 
But I do not cling to a particular dharma path or religious  doctrine. I allow 
those to flow within, and change over time, as everything does. As said before, 
what works for others is completely fine with me.
 
Be well.. 
 
Kristy
   


--- On Mon, 11/8/10, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote:


From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, November 8, 2010, 2:46 PM


  






Kristy,
 
I appreciate your candor and enjoy your stories. I understand you had an 
eventless nde, but colorful sex experiences. You should be satisfied. Why 
should you question dharma, scriptures and the meaning of exitence? 
 
I know sex climax, LSD and ndes are all different, hard to compare. Forgetting 
how a senior runner should perform for the time being, my original question is 
how Tantra reconcile sexuality and Buddhism (LSD and nde are not yet in the 
game). I am not against sex, as long as it is carried out in an appropriate 
place, including an 'orgyhouse'. But it is a different matter when it is 
performed in a monastry.
 
Anthony

--- On Mon, 8/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 8 November, 2010, 6:25 AM


  






Hi Anthony,
 
You bring up  a good point. I will say that while the particular experience I 
shared was fairly athletic in the physical sensations, I don't  necessarily 
think that age or  disability precludes this same inner intensity and, for lack 
of a better word, 'peak ' experience. Similarly, senior runners often complete 
marathons and  experience  the same endorphin highs as the younger 
participants.  In those events, they are likely a result of physiology more 
so than spirit, but you  understand my point. We all know that a major key to 
eroticism is between our ears, not  our legs. 
 
I shared that particular experience because it was so very  intense, yet it was 
not something born from  practice, preparation or love. To the contrary. I 

[Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread ED


Mayka,

I take you at your word when you say:  I admire people who don't fear
the consequences of speaking up their minds ...

So, at the risk of of being label thorny, I say:

Yes, you and Chris could be friends, though probably not when in the
same kitchen, coffee klatch, or Yahoo group, as both of you are
confident, strong-willed alpha-females.

With playfully truthful loving-kindness,

--ED



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:


K...   Enjoyed the clarity of this post of yours. I think that Mike
might have been right and there is the possibility that if we both met
and knew face to face we might become friends.  Anyway, we're in the
same group and find very silly not to interact with each other.  You're
wrong and I do like you.  We both are impulsive ladies. I like from the
posting you sent to Anthony your very good intentions of helping him.
There was warm and compassion in your personal way of posting .   I
admire people who don't fear the consequences of speaking up their minds
specially with taboo subjects as the one you spoke about.   Interaction
between Anthony and yourself was an interesting dharma. Can we make
up and be friends? Mayka 


[Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread ED


Mayka,

Bill is attempting to be rosy.

Or, he is truthfully expressing his 'experience' of me which is real not
illusory (for him) as per the zen covnention for labeling phenomena.

--ED



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:

 Bill:

 You sound mysterious.  I wonder what you're trying to tell me.  Do
remember that my intelligence is in much lower degree than the one from
Anthony.

 Mayka



 Mayka,

 Oh yes! And Ed has quite an aroma also. But those are just the things
you have to put up with if you're going to catch a baby
tiger…Bill!


 Do you think so?  Mayka


\ Lovely? Maybe - but with LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of THORNS!



 Nothing to forgive ED. You're also lovely in your own way.
 Mayka


 Mayka,
 Do forgive me - it is just my ego obsessed with what is best for
itself.
 --ED


  ED;
 
  If you would like to to know about whatever you want to know about
Anthony better ask him directly and not me. But if you ask me about the
role he plays in the forum I would say that he's a lovely character. I
never seen his ego deffending itself and no matter how badly at times
he's been provoked. I admire his modesty and kind character
towards everyone.
  Mayka
  The I/me/mine in me responds: Does Anthony know or care about what
others in the forum know are best for themelves?
 --ED


   Only Anthony himself knows what is the best for him and not you.
   Mayka





[Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread ED





Bill,

Stage seven is the glow in which you are radiating yourself as truth.
You will feel totally in contact with yourself, and your presence will
radiate from you like a glow. This will continue until you have fully
presented yourself to others. The Zen people refer to this as the Zen
stink.  See: http://www.godening.com/FAQ.htm
http://www.godening.com/FAQ.htm

Surely not stage seven already?  ;-) ;-) ;-)

Aromatically and thornily yours,

--ED



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, billsm...@... wrote:

 Mayka,

 Oh yes! And Ed has quite an aroma also. But those are just the things
you have to put up with if you're going to catch a baby tiger

¦Bill!




[Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread ED


Yes.

Men behave toward each other differently when women are around than when
no women are around.

Women behave toward each other differently when men are around than when
no men are around.

Thanks, ED



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, ChrisAustinLane ch...@... wrote:

It is not true in my experience that strong women cannot be friends. It
happens all the time in non-male dominated arenas.

Thanks,  Chris Austin-Lane


Mayka,

I take you at your word when you say:  I admire people who don't fear
the consequences of speaking up their minds ...

So, at the risk of of being label thorny, I say:

Yes, you and Kristy could be friends, though probably not when in the
same kitchen, coffee klatch, or Yahoo group, as both of you are
confident, strong-willed alpha-females.

With playfully truthful loving-kindness,

--ED




K...   Enjoyed the clarity of this post of yours. I think that Mike
might have been right and there is the possibility that if we both met
and knew face to face we might become friends.  Anyway, we're in the
same group and find very silly not to interact with each other.  You're
wrong and I do like you.  We both are impulsive ladies. I like from the
posting you sent to Anthony your very good intentions of helping him.
There was warm and compassion in your personal way of posting .   I
admire people who don't fear the consequences of speaking up their minds
specially with taboo subjects as the one you spoke about.   Interaction
between Anthony and yourself was an interesting dharma. Can we make
up and be friends? Mayka  


Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Maria Lopez
Chris, ED and all:
 
To me is not a question about men or women but human beings.  There are times I 
don't get on with certain type of men and there are times I find difficult to 
get on with certain type of women.  There are very competitive men and there 
are very competitive women but there are also all those to whom value the most 
the quality contact they have with other human beings regardless they are men 
or women.  In real life I also have some male friend to whom first encounter 
was a disaster and then after some disagrements and fights become very close 
friends.  There is no difference here for as long as the person in front of us 
is of the same wave of thinking.  
 
Mayka 
 
 
 
 
--- On Wed, 10/11/10, ChrisAustinLane ch...@austin-lane.net wrote:


From: ChrisAustinLane ch...@austin-lane.net
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 16:11


  




You mean Kristy?


I am not an alpha female. More like a beta male. 


It is not true in my experience that strong women cannot be friends. It happens 
all the time in non-male dominated arenas. 

Thanks, 
Chris Austin-Lane
Sent from a cell phone

On Nov 10, 2010, at 6:01, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:






Mayka,
I take you at your word when you say:  I admire people who don't fear the 
consequences of speaking up their minds ...  
So, at the risk of of being label thorny, I say:
Yes, you and Chris could be friends, though probably not when in the same 
kitchen, coffee klatch, or Yahoo group, as both of you are confident, 
strong-willed alpha-females.
With playfully truthful loving-kindness,
--ED
 
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:







K...
 
Enjoyed the clarity of this post of yours.  
 
I think that Mike might have been right and there is the possibility that if we 
both met and knew face to face we might become friends.  Anyway, we're in the 
same group and find very silly not to interact with each other.  You're wrong 
and I do like you.  We both are impulsive ladies. I like from the posting you 
sent to Anthony your very good intentions of helping him. There was warm and 
compassion in your personal way of posting .   I admire people who don't fear 
the consequences of speaking up their minds specially with taboo subjects as 
the one you spoke about.   Interaction between Anthony and yourself was an 
interesting dharma.  
 
Can we make up and be friends?
Mayka
 







Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Maria Lopez
ED:
 
In real life and face to face with people in the  arena of zen there are no 
women or men but just practicioners who sit down together and practice 
together.  There is not as much chatting but all activities are made in 
minfulness. 
 
Mayka
 
 --- On Wed, 10/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 17:45


  




 
Mayka,
You describe situations, preferences, choices and challenges that every human 
encounters in interactions with other humans in the normal course of life.
The crucial question is: With what sort of mind does a zenist greet them all?
--ED

 
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:


Chris, ED and all:
 
To me is not a question about men or women but human beings.  There are times I 
don't get on with certain type of men and there are times I find difficult to 
get on with certain type of women.  There are very competitive men and there 
are very competitive women but there are also all those to whom value the most 
the quality contact they have with other human beings regardless they are men 
or women.  In real life I also have some male friend to whom first encounter 
was a disaster and then after some disagrements and fights become very close 
friends.  There is no difference here for as long as the person in front of us 
is of the same wave of thinking.  
 
Mayka 
 






[Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread ED


Mayka,

Or perhaps as Bill might say:  Whatever is happening, the practicing
zenist's mind's effort is always directed toward remaining calm, alert
and aware in the here and now, in the state of 'just THIS', and as much
as possible without judgment, grasping, pushing away,
conception-formation or comment.

--ED



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:

 ED:

 In real life and face to face with people in the arena of zen there
are no women or men but just practicioners who sit down together and
practice together.  There is not as much chatting but all activities are
made in minfulness.

 Mayka




 Mayka,
 You describe situations, preferences, choices and challenges thatÂ
every human encounters in interactions with other humans in the normal
course of life.
 The crucial question is: With what sort of mind does a zenist greet
them all?
 --ED




 Chris, ED and all:

 To me is not a question about men or women but human beings.  There
are times I don't get on with certain type of men and there are times I
find difficult to get on with certain type of women.  There are very
competitive men and there are very competitive women but there are also
all those to whom value the most the quality contact they have with
other human beings regardless they are men or women.  In real life I
also have some male friend to whom first encounter was a disasterÂ
and then after some disagrements and fights become very close friends.
There is no difference here for as long as the person in front of us is
of the same wave of thinking.

 Mayka








Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Maria Lopez
ED:
 
I've been participating a little bit too much latlely in the forum.  I can't 
see any of my posting be useful to anyone.  When this happens the best for a 
practicioner is to quietly let go all the chat and lurk for a while.
 
See you later aligator, nor for a while cocrodile.
Thank you for all the company you have been giving through the weeks.
Mayka
 
 
--- On Wed, 10/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 18:20


  





Mayka,
Or perhaps as Bill might say:  Whatever is happening, the practicing zenist's 
mind's effort is always directed toward remaining calm, alert and aware in the 
here and now, in the state of 'just THIS', and as much as possible without 
judgment, grasping, pushing away, conception-formation or comment.
--ED
 
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:

 ED:
  
 In real life and face to face with people in the arena of zen there are no 
 women or men but just practicioners who sit down together and practice 
 together.  There is not as much chatting but all activities are made in 
 minfulness. 
  
 Mayka

 
 Mayka,
 You describe situations, preferences, choices and challenges that every 
 human encounters in interactions with other humans in the normal course of 
 life.
 The crucial question is: With what sort of mind does a zenist greet them all?
 --ED

 
 Chris, ED and all:
  
 To me is not a question about men or women but human beings.  There are times 
 I don't get on with certain type of men and there are times I find difficult 
 to get on with certain type of women.  There are very competitive men and 
 there are very competitive women but there are also all those to whom value 
 the most the quality contact they have with other human beings regardless 
 they are men or women.  In real life I also have some male friend to whom 
 first encounter was a disaster and then after some disagrements and fights 
 become very close friends. There is no difference here for as long as the 
 person in front of us is of the same wave of thinking.  
 
 Mayka
 
 







RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Anthony Wu
Bill,
 
Are widow ghosts on the list? Being 'derivatives' of human beings, they have no 
thorns.
 
Anthony

--- On Wed, 10/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:


From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 9:19 AM


  





Anthony,
 
I don’t know.  That’s a good question.  All I know is the list is correct each 
day after I update it.
 
…Bill!
 



From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 6:14 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
 
  








Bill,

 

There is a contradiction here. If something is on your permanence list on a 
certain day. The next day, it disappears. Is that item still permanent, only 
hidden by you somewhere else, or it has become transient?

 

Anthony

 

This may be the fifteenth item on the 14 unsolvable questions on Buddha's list.

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:


From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 4:43 PM

  


Anthony,

I do indeed have a good idea on what is permanent. In fact I have a list. It 
changes every day.

...Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Tuesday, November 09, 2010 4:57 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Kristy,

Chuckles. It is hard to figure out a better reply. However, unfortunately all 
fun is transient. Maybe Bill has an idea on what is permanent.

Anthony

--- On Mon, 8/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 8 November, 2010, 12:16 PM

*s*

Perhaps.. but it sure isn't as much fun. I'll ponder a better reply ;) 

Kristy

--- On Sun, 11/7/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:

From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, November 7, 2010, 9:11 PM

Anthony and Kristy,

I don't disagree with your observations below, but couldn't you say the same 
thing about any activity into which you put your whole being - not just sex?

For example - bowling?

...Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Monday, November 08, 2010 4:13 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Kristy,

I understand. I am 71. When I was young, I had similar experiences, though not 
so often, as it depended on occassions and surroudings. Like you say, that 
explains why Tantrism puts so much significance on sexism, as it definitely is 
'spiritual', in addition to physical. However, there are other ways. How about 
heroin and other drugs? They induce similar experiences. I have not tried them, 
but read some 'fantastic' descriptions. On the other hand, near death 
experiences seem to be another type. There is bliss, but does not appear to be 
'mind blowing'. 

Anthony

--- On Sun, 7/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, 7 November, 2010, 6:44 PM

Anthony,

As I have neither the time nor expertise to substitute there.. let me offer a 
more serious thought. 

If you truly are asking a question about if or how sexuality intersects with 
spirituality, I can say that I had an experience wherein there was such a 
fusion of physical body and soul / heart / mind energies (however you interpret 
those), that it was as if space and time fell away or did not exist. There were 
no egos, secrets, inhibitions or thoughts. Consciousness and physicality 
merged. Its primal energy and primordial spirit. Animal intensity but somehow 
driven by a soul awareness for which there are no words. An intensity beyond 
measure and impossible to duplicate exactly. An intimacy so profound it felt 
like touching God-source (however defined). A complete acceptance of energy 
flow.

I couldn't speak for a day. My body tingled for nearly a week. I had no desire 
for food and drank only small amounts of water at a time for days. Its just 
un-defineable. Its experential.

But , for me, it left me believing in spirit (beit mind /heart or soul). k

--- On Sat, 11/6/10, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote:

From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Saturday, November 6, 2010, 4:50 PM

K and E,

My local zen center just had 

RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Anthony Wu
Bill,
 
Whatever Dalai Lama says is sacred, because he is a Bodhisatva reincarnate. I 
try to emulate him, but found myself more than ten thousand miles behind.
 
Anthony

--- On Wed, 10/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:


From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 9:23 AM


  



Anthony,

Why do you think some things are sacred and some things are not? ...Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 6:16 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Bill,

Of course, a monastry is different, as it is a place for sacred sex, in 
contrast to an orgyhouse, where there is nothing sacred.

Anthony

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:

From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 4:46 PM

Anthony,

Why do you think a monastery is different from any other place?

…Bill! 

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Tuesday, November 09, 2010 6:15 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas


ED,

The point is they don't let you see and learn from.

If they do, what price is the ticket? I would stand in a long line to purchase 
it.

Anthony

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 6:42 AM 


 But it is a different matter when it is performed in a monastry.

What's the difference?
(I think it's OK, provided engaged in on the monastery roof, for all to see and 
learn from. ;-) )
--ED

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Anthony Wu wu...@... wrote:

 Kristy,
 
 I appreciate your candor and enjoy your stories. I understand you had an 
 eventless nde, but colorful sex experiences. You should be satisfied. Why 
 should you question dharma, scriptures and the meaning of exitence? 
 
 I know sex climax, LSD and ndes are all different, hard to compare. 
 Forgetting how a senior runner should perform for the time being, my original 
 question is how Tantra reconcile sexuality and Buddhism (LSD and nde are not 
 yet in the game). I am not against sex, as long as it is carried out in an 
 appropriate place, including an 'orgyhouse'. But it is a different matter 
 when it is performed in a monastry.
 
 Anthony



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Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,
 
I clicked the website already and found pages starting from P1 to somewhere. It 
happens this part I think is good and gives you a glimpse of what Buddhism is 
like. They are worth reading. The Tantric part is well after that. You won't be 
able to see it, neither will you the last part on zen. However, these two 
latter sections are not so good. 
 
The book was written by a Westener in fluent English, and published by a 
western entity. Tibet is ruled by Communists. You would be looking for thorns 
in a Thai widow ghost, if you look for a book like that from Tibet.
 
Anthony

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From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 2:28 PM


  








Anthony:
 
I paste the book: World of the Buddha so that you can tell us which pages is 
written the tantric practice.  Is this book written by the tibetans themselves 
of by a westerner?.  It's been noticeable to me that  Publishers of the book 
are from Canada and America and not from Tibet. 
 
Mayka
 


--- On Tue, 9/11/10, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote:


From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 23:08


  






Mayka,
 
It is the title of a book. You can just type in the name on Google, you will 
find it, but not a complete one, only some pages. I borrowed it from a local 
library. I am not sure if you can find it somehow in your country. In my 
opinion, the quality of the book is so so. The part on Tantra I referred to 
contains vague words, but you can deduce that the Tantric monks have sex with a 
16 year old girl, and try to make it 'sacred'. It is up to you whether you are 
disgusted or not.
 
 
Anthony

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From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 4:32 PM


  






Anthony:
 
Is World of the Buddha a book?.  Can you paste the link here.  Thanks.
 
Mayka

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From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 1:03


  






ED,
 
If you have time, browse through 'World of the Buddha'. It covers a wide 
spectrum from original Buddhism to zen, passing through Tantrism on the way.
 
Anthony

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 8:48 AM


  



Anthony,
Do you know for certain that monks in a monastery have had monks have had sex 
wuth 16 year old girls? If so, where did you get this information from?
Thanks, ED
 
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Anthony Wu wu...@... wrote:

 Edgar,
  
 No, it is with a 16 year old girl.
  
 anthony
 










Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka,
 
I don't think I can create a bad reputation for Tibetan Tantric using their 
technique. On the contrary, I would only enhance their popularity.
 
Anthony

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From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 2:47 PM


  








Anthony:
 
That is naughty to do. Kbelieve you had a sexual problem and I  in her own 
understanding of life an personal experience over the subject she tried to help 
you.  She played naive.   Unless you're a Chinese spy to destroy the 
Tibetans by creating a bad reputation for them using the tantric teaching.  
 
Mayka 
 
 

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote:


From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 23:20


  






Kristy/Mayka,
 
Make no mistake. I have no 'longing' on sex. I bring it up from time to time 
just to make this forym not as boring as 'just this'.
 
Anthony

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From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 5:11 PM


  






Only Anthony himself knows what is the best for him and not you. Whether 
zen is  useful to him or not to resolve issues mentioned,  and only in the case 
that those issues were real to be resolved in him.  Nobody knows the real 
reason behind him keep asking about the same issues.  None of us knows him for 
real. 
 
--- On Tue, 9/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 2:19


  






Anthony,
 
I am not offended at all.  But perhaps you should cry anyway.  It is clear  
that you have deep and conflicted feelings about this issue, and have for a 
very long time. You seem  stuck here. The same question has plagued you like a 
bad mantra for too long. I  think a good cry and opening up your heart to your 
deepest longings can  serve as a fresh start. 
 
I am not that familar with the work of Byron Katie, but I remember that she has 
four key questions  that she advises others to consider when confronted with a 
dilemma.
 
Ask yourself:
 
1-- Is it true?
 
2--Do you know for certain if it is true?
 
3-- How do you react when you believe it is true?
 
4--  Would you be (at all) without this belief /thought?
 
Then reverse them.
 
So, for example,  if one had an abusive mother..
 
Go through the steps..
 
Then to reverse them, say :  Yes , she is abusive, and the reverse is how do I 
abuse her?
 
And so on...
 
Admittedly, this is a different tract than zen-- but franklyy, I can't see that 
the past few years of zen has helped  you break free of this issue, so perhaps 
a change in venue is advised.  If not this-- something.
 
Take care..
 
Kristy


--- On Mon, 11/8/10, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote:


From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, November 8, 2010, 6:00 PM


  






Kristy,
 
If you take offence at anything I say, I will weep under my pillow.
 
Yes, sex can be connected with spirituality, like you experienced, sometimes 
you feel the disappearance of ego. But it is different whether it can coexist 
with Buddhism. Everytime I read Tantric Buddhism on the subject, I had a mixed 
feeling of amusement and shock. That is why I mention it on this forym to bring 
some liveliness to it.
 
As regards ndes, it means near death experiences. Didn't you say you had it, 
but with not so much events as described in some reports?
 
Anyway, thanks a lot for your stories. They will stay in my memories for a long 
time. Something to refer to frequently.
 
Anthony

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 7:45 AM


  






Anthony,
 
I'm not sure I understand  your point. You are the one who brings up the topic 
of sex in conjunction (I assume) with spirituality.  Specifically tantra and 
Buiddhism.  I don't view or use sex as a means to sacred spiritual awareness It 
is part of my relationship with a man I love.  While I find your comments 
abrupt, they are also confusing. I don't know what you mean by ndes, and you 
lost me with the comment on LSD and senior runners.  You mentioned drug-induced 
states, so I commented on that as an adjunct.
 
I thought your point was that you wanted  to find some type of spiritual 
awareness /awakening via sex and orgy-houses,  as  part of a 

[Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread ED


Mayka:

You are a passionate woman who brings life to the Zen Forum; please
don't stray too far.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=ivv=QrdeD8LLoCMannotation_id=anno\
tation_242860
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=ivv=QrdeD8LLoCMannotation_id=ann\
otation_242860

--ED

Form is Emptiness, the passions are the awakening.  --Zen Master who
used to frequent orgy-houses



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:


ED:   I've been participating a little bit too much latlely in the
forum.  I can't see any of my posting be useful to anyone.  When this
happens the best for a practicioner is to quietly let go all the chat
and lurk for a while.   See you later aligator, nor for a while
cocrodile. Thank you for all the company you have been giving through
the weeks. Mayka


Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Anthony Wu
Mayka/Kristy,

Not a single doubt you can be good friends. I benefit a lot from Kristy's 
posts. That is a good example of sincerity, in contrast to hypocrisy now so 
prevalent. Probably you have not noticed that one of my motivations of my posts 
on Tantrism is my suspicion that they are hypocrites. If you want to play sex, 
there is no need to make it 'sacred'.

Anthony

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From: Maria Lopez flordel...@btinternet.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 8:16 PM







 



  



  
  
  K...
 
Enjoyed the clarity of this post of yours.  
 
I think that Mike might have been right and there is the possibility that if we 
both met and knew face to face we might become friends.  Anyway, we're in the 
same group and find very silly not to interact with each other.  You're wrong 
and I do like you.  We both are impulsive ladies. I like from the posting you 
sent to Anthony your very good intentions of helping him. There was warm and 
compassion in your personal way of posting .   I admire people who don't fear 
the consequences of speaking up their minds specially with taboo subjects as 
the one you spoke about.   Interaction between Anthony and yourself was an 
interesting dharma.  
 
Can we make up and be friends?
Mayka
 
 
 
 
 
--- On Mon, 8/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 8 November, 2010, 23:45


  






Anthony,
 
I'm not sure I understand  your point. You are the one who brings up the topic 
of sex in conjunction (I assume) with spirituality.  Specifically tantra and 
Buiddhism.  I don't view or use sex as a means to sacred spiritual awareness It 
is part of my relationship with a man I love.  While I find your comments 
abrupt, they are also confusing. I don't know what you mean by ndes, and you 
lost me with the comment on LSD and senior runners.  You mentioned drug-induced 
states, so I commented on that as an adjunct.
 
I thought your point was that you wanted  to find some type of spiritual 
awareness /awakening via sex and orgy-houses,  as  part of a buddhist /zen 
practice.  I don't even know what an orgy-house is.  Is that a brothel?  I 
understand orgy as train-sex. Thats not my style, and how one could ever see 
orgy sex as sacred is beyond me. But go for it.  Moreover, when I questioned 
you initially  about why you mention it so often, you stated that it gave some 
humor to the forum.
 
I shared a personal experience as a means to open a dialogue about a topic you 
seem to care deeply about.   Perhaps it is a cultural mis-perception.  I  felt 
that you discuss it alot because you actually have unfulfilled needs, and I was 
trying  to offer my support by suggesting that sex can be a part of life at any 
age.
 
I question dharma,  and many spiritual disciplines, mostly because I am not 
seeking a guru as a means to an end.  My zen and other spiritual practices are 
part of a balanced lifestyle. They are not my entire focus.  They serve as a 
foundation to guide me in my work, relationships, values and character. They 
are the base of my integrity and  help me offer what I  can in my everyday , 
busy life. They help me resolve conflicts.  They mediate my stress. They guide 
my compassion and offer some wisdom.
 
But I do not cling to a particular dharma path or religious  doctrine. I allow 
those to flow within, and change over time, as everything does. As said before, 
what works for others is completely fine with me.
 
Be well.. 
 
Kristy
   


--- On Mon, 11/8/10, Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg wrote:


From: Anthony Wu wu...@yahoo.com.sg
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, November 8, 2010, 2:46 PM


  






Kristy,
 
I appreciate your candor and enjoy your stories. I understand you had an 
eventless nde, but colorful sex experiences. You should be satisfied. Why 
should you question dharma, scriptures and the meaning of exitence? 
 
I know sex climax, LSD and ndes are all different, hard to compare. Forgetting 
how a senior runner should perform for the time being, my original question is 
how Tantra reconcile sexuality and Buddhism (LSD and nde are not yet in the 
game). I am not against sex, as long as it is carried out in an appropriate 
place, including an 'orgyhouse'. But it is a different matter when it is 
performed in a monastry.
 
Anthony

--- On Mon, 8/11/10, Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Kristy McClain healthypl...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 8 November, 2010, 6:25 AM


  






Hi Anthony,
 
You bring up  a good point. I will say that while the particular experience I 
shared was 

Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Anthony Wu
ED,

'Stink' is composed of chemicals all from aromatic groups. What is wrong?

Anthony

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From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 10:29 PM







 



  



  
  
   
 
Bill,
Stage seven is the glow in which you are radiating yourself as truth. You will 
feel totally in contact with yourself, and your presence will radiate from you 
like a glow. This will continue until you have fully presented yourself to 
others. The Zen people refer to this as the Zen stink.  See: 
http://www.godening.com/FAQ.htm
Surely not stage seven already?  ;-) ;-) ;-)
Aromatically and thornily yours,
--ED
 
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, billsm...@... wrote:

 Mayka,
 
 Oh yes! And Ed has quite an aroma also. But those are just the things you 
 have to put up with if you're going to catch a baby tiger
¦Bill!




 





 



  







RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread BillSmart
Ed,

Since this is an e-forum I guess it would be more correctly called
e-stink...Bill!

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Of ED
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 9:30 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

  
 
 
Bill,
Stage seven is the glow in which you are radiating yourself as truth. You
will feel totally in contact with yourself, and your presence will radiate
from you like a glow. This will continue until you have fully presented
yourself to others. The Zen people refer to this as the Zen stink.  See:
http://www.godening.com/FAQ.htm
Surely not stage seven already?  ;-) ;-) ;-)
Aromatically and thornily yours,
--ED
 
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, billsm...@... wrote:

 Mayka,
 
 Oh yes! And Ed has quite an aroma also. But those are just the things you
have to put up with if you're going to catch a baby tiger
¦Bill!



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RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread BillSmart
Mayka,

You don't need a high level of intelligence to understand my last post.  All 
that's required is that you've read the posts for the past several days.

I don't think your intelligence level is appreciably different than Anthony's, 
but that doesn't matter on this forum.  Intelligence (as in IQ) is not a 
requirement for zen. In fact sometimes I think a high IQ is a detriment.

...Bill!

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Maria Lopez
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 2:28 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

  
Bill:
 
You sound mysterious.  I wonder what you're trying to tell me.  Do remember 
that my intelligence is in much lower degree than the one from Anthony.
 
Mayka

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From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 7:16
  
Mayka,

Oh yes! And Ed has quite an aroma also. But those are just the things you have 
to put up with if you’re going to catch a baby tiger…Bill!

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Maria Lopez
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 2:04 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Do you think so?. 

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From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 1:19

Lovely? Maybe - but with LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of THORNS!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Maria Lopez
Sent: Tuesday, November 09, 2010 11:05 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Nothing to forgive ED. You're also lovely in your own way.
Mayka

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 16:01

Mayka,
Do forgive me - it is just my ego obsessed with what is best for itself.
--ED

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:

 ED;
 
 If you would like to to know about whatever you want to know about Anthony 
 better ask him directly and not me. But if you ask me about the role he plays 
 in the forum I would say that he's a lovely character. I never seen his ego 
 deffending itself and no matter how badly at times he's been provoked. I 
 admire his modesty and kind character towards everyone. 
 Mayka
 The I/me/mine in me responds: Does Anthony know or care about what others 
 in the forum know are best for themelves?
--ED

  Only Anthony himself knows what is the best for him and not you.
  Mayka

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RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread BillSmart
Ed,

In your post below you made two statements:

1. Men behave toward each other differently when women are around than when
no women are around.
2. Women behave toward each other differently when men are around than when
no men are around.

You could only have experienced one of these.  Which is it?

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RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread BillSmart
Anthony,

I am definitely underwhelmed at the sayings of the Dalai Lama.

He's supposed to be a big-time Buddhist leader and continues to encourage his 
countrymen to cling to their attachment to their culture and language.  Most of 
his quotes sound like bumper-stickers seen on 1960-vintage cars.

Don't worry about being 10,000 miles behind him.  That's not necessarily so.  
It all depends on which direction you're traveling.

...Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Thursday, November 11, 2010 5:43 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

  
Bill,
 
Whatever Dalai Lama says is sacred, because he is a Bodhisatva reincarnate. I 
try to emulate him, but found myself more than ten thousand miles behind.
 
Anthony

--- On Wed, 10/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:

From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 9:23 AM
  
Anthony,

Why do you think some things are sacred and some things are not? ...Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 6:16 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Bill,

Of course, a monastry is different, as it is a place for sacred sex, in 
contrast to an orgyhouse, where there is nothing sacred.

Anthony

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:

From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 4:46 PM

Anthony,

Why do you think a monastery is different from any other place?

…Bill! 

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Anthony Wu
Sent: Tuesday, November 09, 2010 6:15 AM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas


ED,

The point is they don't let you see and learn from.

If they do, what price is the ticket? I would stand in a long line to purchase 
it.

Anthony

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 6:42 AM 


 But it is a different matter when it is performed in a monastry.

What's the difference?
(I think it's OK, provided engaged in on the monastery roof, for all to see and 
learn from. ;-) )
--ED

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Anthony Wu wu...@... wrote:

 Kristy,
 
 I appreciate your candor and enjoy your stories. I understand you had an 
 eventless nde, but colorful sex experiences. You should be satisfied. Why 
 should you question dharma, scriptures and the meaning of exitence? 
 
 I know sex climax, LSD and ndes are all different, hard to compare. 
 Forgetting how a senior runner should perform for the time being, my original 
 question is how Tantra reconcile sexuality and Buddhism (LSD and nde are not 
 yet in the game). I am not against sex, as long as it is carried out in an 
 appropriate place, including an 'orgyhouse'. But it is a different matter 
 when it is performed in a monastry.
 
 Anthony



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RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

2010-11-10 Thread Maria Lopez
Bill:
 
It meant to be a sarcastic joke.  But anyway to participate in this forum and 
most of them last thing important is the practice.  So your point here wouldn't 
be applicable anyway.  You don't shine because of your practice but because of 
your inteligence and being very smart,  People are not interested in zen as zen 
but to have a good time.  And you provide that.    
Mayka
 
 
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From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, 11 November, 2010, 1:54


  



Mayka,

You don't need a high level of intelligence to understand my last post. All 
that's required is that you've read the posts for the past several days.

I don't think your intelligence level is appreciably different than Anthony's, 
but that doesn't matter on this forum. Intelligence (as in IQ) is not a 
requirement for zen. In fact sometimes I think a high IQ is a detriment.

...Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Maria Lopez
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 2:28 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Bill:

You sound mysterious. I wonder what you're trying to tell me. Do remember that 
my intelligence is in much lower degree than the one from Anthony.

Mayka

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From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 7:16

Mayka,

Oh yes! And Ed has quite an aroma also. But those are just the things you have 
to put up with if you’re going to catch a baby tiger…Bill!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Maria Lopez
Sent: Wednesday, November 10, 2010 2:04 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Do you think so?. 

--- On Wed, 10/11/10, billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:

From: billsm...@hhs1963.org billsm...@hhs1963.org
Subject: RE: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, 10 November, 2010, 1:19

Lovely? Maybe - but with LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of THORNS!

From: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com [mailto:zen_fo...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of 
Maria Lopez
Sent: Tuesday, November 09, 2010 11:05 PM
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas

Nothing to forgive ED. You're also lovely in your own way.
Mayka

--- On Tue, 9/11/10, ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: ED seacrofter...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Zen] Re: FW: Quote from St. Thomas Aquinas
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 9 November, 2010, 16:01

Mayka,
Do forgive me - it is just my ego obsessed with what is best for itself.
--ED

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Maria Lopez flordel...@... wrote:

 ED;
 
 If you would like to to know about whatever you want to know about Anthony 
 better ask him directly and not me. But if you ask me about the role he plays 
 in the forum I would say that he's a lovely character. I never seen his ego 
 deffending itself and no matter how badly at times he's been provoked. I 
 admire his modesty and kind character towards everyone. 
 Mayka
 The I/me/mine in me responds: Does Anthony know or care about what others 
 in the forum know are best for themelves?
--ED

  Only Anthony himself knows what is the best for him and not you.
  Mayka

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