I just don't think it's that black and white. Haven't you ever shared a hotel room platonically? What, are you people made out of money? I have definitely shared rooms, and even beds, with friends of both sexes to reduce vacation costs. I don't think it would be weird for coworkers, that are long-time friends, that have NEVER had a romantic/sexual involvement to travel together and share a room and not have sex. Now if it's the guy's (or girl's) intention to move things to a new level, he (or she) should make that clear before asking for a travel buddy.
--- In [email protected], "lovett1979" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In [email protected], "fgalleto" <fgalleto@> > wrote: > > > > Gene is making me mad. He is wrong wrong wrong. > > > > Some of us just LIKE Madrid, OK?! And you're a sucker if a guy > offers > > to take you there and you don't go. Doesn't mean you gotta pay him > > back with sex. > > It has nothing to do with "paying him back." It has to do with > desires. If you don't want to sleep with someone, don't put yourself > in a situation where you are sharing a bed. No matter how much you > want the trip they are offering, if you accept a 1-bed situation and > don't make it clear that it is a strictly platonic venture, then you > are leading him on. > > This is different from feeling like you "owe" him something because he > spent money on you. That is prostitution, which is perfectly fine in > its own right, but not what we are discussing here. > Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/weingartenchatters/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
