--- In [email protected], yonyonson@... wrote:
>
> Where is the anger directed? At the person who was abused before that
> continues the chain? At the behavior? Your example was so general. Are
> you seeing this? Do you give the abuser a hand after you stop the initial
> action and ask them what's happened to them? Can you let them have a
> cigarette to gain their composure? Do you have children?
>
> Hi yon. Oh, I see what you are saying, and you are probably right.
I'm afraid that my own cultivation is probably not mature enough yet to allow
me such discerning compassion. But it's coming along, and I daresay it will get
there someday. Thank you for a very appropriate and skillful admonishment!
Steve
>
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