Bill,
You said: "I do agree that we all do tend to blame others (other people, circustances, 'luck', etc...) for our feelings." Yes. People have different attitudes toward misfortunes, and the parts they, others, and kismet, karma or luck have to play with it. These attitudes have several sources which the individual has been exposed to. Furthermore, these mind-sets, which have developed and solidified over decades, are extremely difficult to modify. It appears easy to perceive the disempowered and ineffective mind-sets that others hold, but it is usually quite impossible to perceive one's own inferior mind-sets in the present. --ED --- In [email protected], "Bill!" <BillSmart@...> wrote: > ED, First of all thank you for your direct answer. Second of all, I apologize for not getting the humor intended. I do agree that we all do tend to blame others (other people, circustances, 'luck', etc...) for our feelings. ...Ill! > Bill, > > That statement of mine, had the typical male-female relationship in > mind, and was slyly intended to be humorous: "If only my husband (or > wife) would change her ways, wouldn't we both be happier?" > > It is easier to complain about the other's behaviors than to retraining > our ourselves to adapt to them. > > --ED
