Do blame yourself - provided it makes you less of a pain in the arse to your fellow humans, and you believe that that is a desirable objective to aim for.
On the other hand, even if you are a pain in the arse to your fellow humans, tell them that they are fully responsible for their own feelings, and that rather than whinging they ought to appreciate and seize the opportunities you furnish them with to advance their psychological and emotional growth. However, if you believe that you live in an interior world of your own that is real, and not in the illusory external world, just say to yourself: 'Mu' when confronted with the situation, and keep on practicing. --ED --- In [email protected], "Bill!" <BillSmart@...> wrote: > > I think Mayka mades a very good point when saying you shouldn't blame even YOURSELF for your feelings. Just accept them and move on...Bill!
