Anthony,

You disappoint me,but maybe I'm just behind the times.

The word 'respect' certainly has changed meaning in the last couple decades - 
especially in American inner-city jargon.  Nowdays when you hear inner-city 
youths, especially gang members, talk about 'respect' they are equating 
'respect' with 'fear'.  If you don't fear them, you're not showing them 
respect.  You're 'dissing' them (dis-respecting).

When I use the word 'respect' it has nothing to do with fear.  In fact I don't 
respect people I fear.  I just fear them.  To me 'respect' means 'having esteem 
for', 'holding in high regard' or 'placing high value one'.

It has nothing at all to do with fear.

...Bill! 

--- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@...> wrote:
>
> Bill,
>  
> You say, ' zen has 'distilled' Buddhism down into only the bare essense.' I 
> like it.
>  
> You also say, ' Out of my respect for your yak I will spare you 40 blows this 
> time.' Instead of your 'respect', it reflects your fear. Remember, there is 
> always something to fear in the day to day life. Or, to a lesser degree, 
> something to avoid.
>  
> Anthony
> 
> --- On Mon, 11/7/11, Bill! <BillSmart@...> wrote:
> 
> 
> From: Bill! <BillSmart@...>
> Subject: Re: [Zen] Zen and Christianity are incompatible
> To: [email protected]
> Date: Monday, 11 July, 2011, 8:23 AM
> 
> 
>   
> 
> 
> 
> Anthony,
> 
> Some say zen has 'surpassed' earlier versions of Buddhism and some say it has 
> 'corrupted' them.
> 
> I say it has 'distilled' them down into only the bare essense.
> 
> Out of my respect for your yak I will spare you 40 blows this time.
> 
> ...Bill!
> 
> --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> >
> > Bill,
> >  
> > It is said that zen literature has surpassed Theravada, Mahayana or 
> > Vajrayana in volumes, though zen masters keep saying 'shut up, shut up'. So 
> > I am just following the lower case zen.
> >  
> > As regards your big stick, as I said, I have had a demon (yak) protect me, 
> > so be careful.
> >  
> > Anthony
> > 
> > --- On Sun, 10/7/11, Bill! <BillSmart@> wrote:
> > 
> > 
> > From: Bill! <BillSmart@>
> > Subject: Re: [Zen] Zen and Christianity are incompatible
> > To: [email protected]
> > Date: Sunday, 10 July, 2011, 8:41 AM
> > 
> > 
> >   
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > Anthony,
> > 
> > You talk to much! Like a doting old grandmother! 
> > Better you just keep your mouth shut, turn around and walk away.
> > 
> > Unless of course you want the Big Stick!
> > 
> > ...Bill!
> > 
> > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Mel,
> > >  
> > > There are plenty of zen quotations to the effect of killing Buddha.
> > >  
> > > One of them, 'when you meet Buddha on the road, kill him.'
> > >  
> > > To a lesser degree, 'when you utter the word Buddha, wash your mouth 
> > > completely.'
> > >  
> > > To a more degree by Unmon Zen Master, 'Too bad I wasn't there when Buddha 
> > > made his 7 steps in each direction, and exclaimed, 'in heaven and on 
> > > earth I am the most worthy of honor', as soon as he was born. If I had 
> > > been, I would have struck him death and fed his body to hungry dogs.'
> > >  
> > > You are right that no Middle Eastern religions ever come close as that 
> > > statement. IMO, those remarks are aimed at ridding you of all 
> > > attachments, including the most sacred ones.
> > >  
> > > Anthony
> > > 
> > > --- On Sat, 9/7/11, Mel <gunnar19632000@> wrote:
> > > 
> > > 
> > > From: Mel <gunnar19632000@>
> > > Subject: Re: [Zen] Zen and Christianity are incompatible
> > > To: [email protected]
> > > Date: Saturday, 9 July, 2011, 10:45 PM
> > > 
> > > 
> > >   
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > With my lack of interest in too much ritual and ceremony, I doubt 
> > > that I could be described as a Zen Buddhist. As far as I'm 
> > > concerned, you bow once when you enter the room, and then once on your 
> > > way out. The Soto group I was with also had these naming ceremonies and 
> > > robes which I never really took to. However, I have stuck 
> > > to(well, sort of) the Soto way of things as I never liked this Rinzai 
> > > obssession with koans. Unlike Bill, I use 'zen' and Zen whichever one 
> > > fits my mood at any given moment, but neither wording changes what I do
> > >  
> > > Urged to kill the teacher? I may be misunderstanding your wordings here, 
> > > but morals and compassion in the Hebrew sense is not where I am here. I'm 
> > > not sure I understand your question completely
> > >  
> > > in Buddha's grace
> > > Mel
> > > 
> > > --- On Sun, 10/7/11, Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > > 
> > > 
> > > From: Anthony Wu <wuasg@>
> > > Subject: Re: [Zen] Zen and Christianity are incompatible
> > > To: [email protected]
> > > Received: Sunday, 10 July, 2011, 12:09 AM
> > > 
> > > 
> > >   
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > Mel,
> > >  
> > > Then how can you be a zen Buddhist while you are urged to kill your 
> > > teacher?
> > >  
> > > Anthony
> > > 
> > > --- On Sat, 9/7/11, Mel <gunnar19632000@> wrote:
> > > 
> > > 
> > > From: Mel <gunnar19632000@>
> > > Subject: [Zen] Zen and Christianity are incompatible
> > > To: [email protected]
> > > Date: Saturday, 9 July, 2011, 7:53 PM
> > > 
> > > 
> > >   
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > Being a devout Christian and a practitioner of zen is basically an 
> > > impossiblity. One has an actual god that one obeys without question, and 
> > > the other one which is zen/Zen, doesn't
> > >  
> > > in Buddha's grace
> > > Mel
> > >
> >
>




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