There have been occasions where Japanese mistook me as another Japanese. So, 
I'm pretty sure I'm not blonde ;-)

Siska
-----Original Message-----
From: Edgar Owen <edgaro...@att.net>
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Date: Wed, 22 May 2013 21:36:01 
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Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: Zuli Agrees With Bill!

Yes, I had assumed you were Scandinavian... But I guess not blond?
:-)

Edgar


On May 22, 2013, at 8:44 PM, siska_...@yahoo.com wrote:

> Hi Edgar,
> 
> A British-Dutch friend told me that Siska is a Dutch name. Before, I thought 
> it was Indonesian :-P
> 
> If you meant formal education, yes, I guess part of my formal education can 
> be called western. I completed my degree in London and did my master in a 
> distance learning program with a UK's University of Leicester.
> 
> ;-)
> 
> Siska
> 
> From: Edgar Owen <edgaro...@att.net>
> Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Wed, 22 May 2013 12:06:33 -0400
> To: <Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com>
> ReplyTo: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: Zuli Agrees With Bill!
> 
>  
> I thought so, but don't really know Indonesian names that well.
> 
> 
> Anyway you sound Western educated. Is that so?
> 
> My curiosity is because I might be available...
> :-)
> 
> Edgar
> 
> 
> 
> On May 22, 2013, at 10:28 AM, siska_...@yahoo.com wrote:
> 
>>  
>> Hahaha, can't you tell, from my name? I'm a woman.
>> 
>> Mind sharing what triggered your curiosity?
>> 
>> Siska
>> 
>> From: Edgar Owen <edgaro...@att.net>
>> Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>> Date: Wed, 22 May 2013 09:53:32 -0400
>> To: <Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com>
>> ReplyTo: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>> Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: Zuli Agrees With Bill!
>> 
>>  
>> OK, now I'm intrigued. Pardon me for asking but are you a woman or a man?
>> 
>> 
>> Edgar
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> On May 22, 2013, at 9:08 AM, siska_...@yahoo.com wrote:
>> 
>>>  
>>> I live in Jakarta. 
>>> 
>>> Uhm, in case you don't know, (many people don't), that's in Indonesia :)
>>> 
>>> Siska
>>> 
>>> From: Edgar Owen <edgaro...@att.net>
>>> Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>>> Date: Wed, 22 May 2013 08:33:06 -0400
>>> To: <Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com>
>>> ReplyTo: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>>> Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: Zuli Agrees With Bill!
>>> 
>>>  
>>> Interesting. Thanks. Where do you live now?
>>> 
>>> 
>>> Edgar
>>> 
>>> 
>>> On May 22, 2013, at 7:40 AM, siska_...@yahoo.com wrote:
>>> 
>>>>  
>>>> Hi Edgar,
>>>> 
>>>> Born and grew up in Indonesia, my native language is Indonesian.
>>>> 
>>>> Siska
>>>> 
>>>> From: Edgar Owen <edgaro...@att.net>
>>>> Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>>>> Date: Wed, 22 May 2013 07:08:51 -0400
>>>> To: <Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com>
>>>> ReplyTo: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>>>> Subject: Re: [Zen] Re: Zuli Agrees With Bill!
>>>> 
>>>>  
>>>> Siska,
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> What's your native language?
>>>> 
>>>> Edgar
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> On May 21, 2013, at 8:32 PM, siska_...@yahoo.com wrote:
>>>> 
>>>>>  
>>>>> Hi Bill,
>>>>> 
>>>>> I always like that pond haiku. Unfortunately, I often cannot relate to 
>>>>> poetry other than those in my mother language. And I think poetry are 
>>>>> best left un-translated. 
>>>>> 
>>>>> I'm better with koans....
>>>>> 
>>>>> Siska
>>>>> 
>>>>> From: "Bill!" <billsm...@hhs1963.org>
>>>>> Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>>>>> Date: Tue, 21 May 2013 08:20:33 -0000
>>>>> To: <Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com>
>>>>> ReplyTo: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
>>>>> Subject: [Zen] Re: Zuli Agrees With Bill!
>>>>> 
>>>>>  
>>>>> 
>>>>> Siska,
>>>>> 
>>>>> Exactly!  The problem with words (phrases really), especially English, us 
>>>>> that our whole language is duality-based.  Even our sentence structure 
>>>>> requires a subject, a verb and an object.  The subject's  actions or 
>>>>> relationship to the object is described by the verb.  There's no way to 
>>>>> adequately represent a totally holistic (non-dualistic) experience in 
>>>>> English.
>>>>> 
>>>>> The closest we can get would be poetry.  Japanese has a form called 
>>>>> 'haiku' which has been used by poets wanting to express their holistic 
>>>>> experience.  If you read some of those you'll see they are not only 
>>>>> completely focused on sensory experience, they do so as much as possible 
>>>>> without the use of a subject.
>>>>> 
>>>>> An example is one of the most famous haikus by Matsuo Basho:
>>>>> 
>>>>> Japanese
>>>>> Furu ike ya
>>>>> kawazu tobikomu
>>>>> mizu no oto
>>>>> 
>>>>> Direct English Translation
>>>>> Old pond
>>>>> frog jumped in
>>>>> sound of water
>>>>> 
>>>>> Reasonable English Translation (IMO)
>>>>> The old pond
>>>>> A frog jumped in,
>>>>> Kerplunk!
>>>>> 
>>>>> A Bad English Translation (IMO)
>>>>> A lonely pond in age-old stillness sleeps . . .
>>>>> Apart, unstirred by sound or motion . . . till
>>>>> Suddenly into it a lithe frog leaps.
>>>>> 
>>>>> You can find 28 more translations and a nice commentary on this poem at 
>>>>> http://www.bopsecrets.org/gateway/passages/basho-frog.htm 
>>>>> 
>>>>> ...Bill!
>>>>> 
>>>>> --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, siska_cen@... wrote:
>>>>> >
>>>>> > Hi Bill, 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > > I know what you mean, but 'face-to-face' is commonly use in zen to 
>>>>> > > mean 'one with', or 'not separate from'. 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > Ah I see... 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > I also think the term 'one with' is a little bias, but oh well as you 
>>>>> > said, words are limited, dualistic, no matter what we use.... 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > Siska 
>>>>> > -----Original Message----- 
>>>>> > From: "Bill!" BillSmart@... 
>>>>> > Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
>>>>> > Date: Sun, 19 May 2013 10:58:07 
>>>>> > To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
>>>>> > Reply-To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
>>>>> > Subject: Re: [Zen] Zuli Agrees With Bill! 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > Siska, 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > I know what you mean, but 'face-to-face' is commonly use in zen to mean 
>>>>> > 'one with', or 'not separate from'. For example many times when someone 
>>>>> > has experienced Buddha Nature they will be reported as saying, "I have 
>>>>> > met Bodhidharma face-to-face and he has not lied" - meaning he has 
>>>>> > experienced Buddha Nature and it is as Bodhidharma (or some other zen 
>>>>> > master) has described. 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > The problem we always have trying to describe a holistic experience is 
>>>>> > that we have to use a dualistic language to do so. That's why many 
>>>>> > ancient zen masters used non-verbal responses instead of trying to 
>>>>> > rationally explain what they experienced. 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > ...Bill! 
>>>>> > 
>>>>> > --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, siska_cen@ wrote: 
>>>>> > > 
>>>>> > > Hi again Bill, 
>>>>> > > 
>>>>> > > In regards to the duality of no experiencer to the experiences you 
>>>>> > > just discussed with Mike, would you fully agree with Zuli's term 
>>>>> > > 'face to face with the real Buddha'? 
>>>>> > > 
>>>>> > > Siska 
>>>>> > > -----Original Message----- 
>>>>> > > From: "Bill!" BillSmart@ 
>>>>> > > Sender: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
>>>>> > > Date: Sun, 19 May 2013 09:12:44 
>>>>> > > To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
>>>>> > > Reply-To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
>>>>> > > Subject: [Zen] Zuli Agrees With Bill! 
>>>>> > > 
>>>>> > > 
>>>>> > > I don't know who Zuli is but that doesn't matter to me. Right's 
>>>>> > > right. 
>>>>> > > ..Bill! 
>>>>> > >
>>>>> >
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
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