Historical and societal baggage... hmmm one thing that i can see as a 
woman's exclusive impediment to liberation is the bond between mother and 
child. It is one bond presumably harder to break for women than men. Even 
today. Not just in the Buddha's time. 

Remember that there were very few lay persons. It was Monk or nothing. 
And to be monk meant to give up everything.

Yes societal baggage. You have to question it. As a Karate sensei said 
once; We do things because they are traditional, passed down along the 
lineage. What if someone was an idiot. You have a tradition of idiots.

But are some seperations of the sexes helpful?

When we sit on saturdays in our large mixed group, Suko has us now 
seperated, men on one side, women on the other. Because it is 
traditional. At first I resented it as some kind of inequal societal 
baggage. But let me digress. I don't know if this is my particular demon 
or not, but whenever someone new came to sit with us, for the first day 
they sat, while i sat meditating, sexual thoughts of me and them would 
arise. Men and women alike. The second time and consequent times those 
thoughts did not arise. But I found with the sexual segregation, when a 
new woman would come to sit with us, such thoughts did not arise at all. 
Out of sight, out of mind i guess. And sitting segregated with the men, 
yes, the thoughts did not arise on consequent sittings.

So in a community of young men and women, overcoming thoughts of sex 
could more easily be overcome with the segregation. Doesn't help of 
course if you straddle the fence, so to speak. So I don't really have an 
answer.

When i was studying Karate there was a heirarchy of knowledge as 
exhibited by belt rankings. Men and women, older and younger taught. 
Sometimes women taught men, sometimes younger taught older. As one woman 
resident instructor and senior black belt (first dan) once explained to a 
teen sandan (third dan) "No! You teach me. You are senior!" Even when 
students from Okinawa came to visit the dojo, when there was a young 
woman with them, she had the respect due her rank. And believe me should 
could kick the ass of any equivalent westerner.


And wandering off on a thought, When you get a black belt, it is only the 
mark of a beginner. It only means you have been accepted as a tudent 
worthy of training. It's like your first kensho. DOesn't mean you're  
master. It only means able to learn.

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