It wouldn't be you going without the cat, it would be the cat going without you. I have seen cats given up by their owners grieve and mourn themselves TO DEATH. I've seen cats given away by their owners be fine. I've seen cats who have been declawed suffer. I have seen cats who have been declawed do absolutely fine. It isn't all as easy as it looks sometimes.
I have not had a cat declawed but I did have one who had to have a mastectomy and who I am sure would have been in horrible pain had it not been for the oral pain meds the vet prescribed. I would hope any vet doing declaw surgery would provide pain meds. At any rate I'm 44 so hopefully it would be a while before I went into a nursing home. On Fri, Aug 26, 2011 at 7:04 PM, Natalie <at...@optonline.net> wrote: > I would seriously consider declawing very, very seriously– it is the most > devastating thing for a cat. Knowing what I do, I would be more heartbroken > doing it to a beloved cat than being without the cat, trust me. I wonder > how a cat would feel if **** > > he/she knew that it had a choice between missing the owner or having their > paws mutilated? According to Dr. Nicholas Doddman, who wrote *The Cat > that Cried for Help, *after declawing surgery, cats feel such extreme pain > that they either climb the walls of the cage or sit completely morose and > cowering in the corner, something that their owners will never see. I have > a copy of an article written for NY Times Magazine a few years ago, where a > woman writes about declawing her older cat because her mother’s oriental rug > was being scratched up. It is one of my hand-out’s to adopters – the story > is heartbreaking, and very typical. After the hurricane is over, I will > scan it and post it. It is probably the best I’ve read, without going into > the gory details of declawing.**** > > Natalie**** > > ** ** > > *From:* felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org [mailto: > felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] *On Behalf Of *Kelley Saveika > *Sent:* Friday, August 26, 2011 7:22 PM > > *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > *Subject:* Re: [Felvtalk] FW: Keep Cats Indoors**** > > ** ** > > Sorry! This is a 62 email thread in gmail. I don't know how your email > program organizes stuff. Anyway I did not look at the date. > > I've seen cats (especially senior cats) mourn their owners literally to > death after being given away, and honestly in that case I'd rather declaw > them. Hopefully I will not need to make that choice. **** > > On Fri, Aug 26, 2011 at 5:58 PM, Natalie <at...@optonline.net> wrote:**** > > OMG – you are responding to a post from March……I thought that I was going > crazy and somehow missed a whole thread of talking about declawing, NOW!** > ** > > **** > > There are also some apartments that allow cats ONLY if they are declawed…I > guess they prefer taking their chances of those cats peeing everywhere > instead of possibly scratching something, and it would most likely be the > tenants’ own furniture!**** > > **** > > I would rather give my cat away than declaw it – especially when it’s an > older cat – it’s so much harder on them (not that it isn’t on young(er) > cats).**** > > **** > > There needs to be a lot of education on declawing and what the > psychological/emotional and physical effects can take be. We have had a few > abandoned declawed cats, and I have witnessed almost all of them…..but all > the damage had already been done, and what was I to do – throw them out or > kill them? I found some homes that understood the ramifications and dealt > with the problems as well as they could.**** > > **** > > *From:* felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org [mailto: > felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] *On Behalf Of *Kelley Saveika > *Sent:* Friday, August 26, 2011 6:45 PM**** > > > *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > *Subject:* Re: [Felvtalk] FW: Keep Cats Indoors**** > > **** > > Because if the owner has to go into the nursing home and is fortunate > enough to find one where they can take their cat, the nursing home is likely > to require declawing.**** > > On Wed, Mar 23, 2011 at 9:34 PM, Natalie <at...@optonline.net> wrote:**** > > That is true, but I don't understand why an old person can't have a cat > with > claws. Dealing mostly with feral cats, I have never been bitten or > scratched - what's the danger, I am 70 yrs old. And as I said, bites are a > natural defense for declawed cats!**** > > **** > > > _______________________________________________ > Felvtalk mailing list > Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org**** > > > > > -- **** > > Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. > > http://www.rescuties.org > > Vist the Rescuties stores and save a kitty life! > > http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect-home?tag=rescuties-20 > > http://www.zazzle.com/rescuties* > > Buy or renew magazines and help our kitties! > http://www.magfundraising.com/rescuties**** > > **** > > Please help Trooper!**** > > **** > > http://rescuties.chipin.com/trooper**** > > > > "And it is the most divisive incivility to tell true animal lovers they > can’t complain about it, that they can’t fight for the animals, that they > should sit down and shut up and allow the killing to continue."**** > > ** ** > > - Nathan Winograd**** > > ** ** > > _______________________________________________ > Felvtalk mailing list > Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org > > -- Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. http://www.rescuties.org Vist the Rescuties stores and save a kitty life! http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect-home?tag=rescuties-20 http://www.zazzle.com/rescuties* Buy or renew magazines and help our kitties! http://www.magfundraising.com/rescuties Please help Trooper! http://rescuties.chipin.com/trooper "And it is the most divisive incivility to tell true animal lovers they can’t complain about it, that they can’t fight for the animals, that they should sit down and shut up and allow the killing to continue." - Nathan Winograd
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