Kevin Tarr wrote:
>
> So I was at a bar a few weeks ago, ran into some friends. There was a girl
> with them that I hadn't met before. We were talking nice and since we were
> both single I asked if she wanted to go out sometime. Tonight we met and
> things were okay until there was an obvious difference of opinion. Basically
> there are a few things I like to do that she doesn't like at all, mostly
> hunting and fishing. It was okay for me that she didn't like what I do, I
> could really care less. It's something I like, I wouldn't force it upon her,
> I wouldn't ask her to join me or understand what I do.
>
> My problem is that she made it quite clear that if we ever got 'serious', I
> would HAVE TO stop doing what she didn't like. Actually she was warning me
> that we would get close and THEN she would slowly but surely make me stop
> what I was doing. For her, what I like wasn't a deal breaker because I
> would stop doing it 'if I really fell for her'.
Oh, and she wouldn't accept that you like doing a few things she
doesn't, and let you do them now and again 'if you really fell for her'?
Sheesh.
I could say more, but I'd rather not be more uncomplimentary about
someone I know so little about in a publicly accessible forum....
Julia
who'd recommend dropping her based on the little information she has
