I think there is a level of both. I think our genetics makes certain paths easier to take than others. However at the same time I think that if a parent is unable to say no, then it will create issues down the road.
I also think there are varied degrees. You basically make it like there is a black and white, either you are good an normal, or you are evil and useless. I think you can show how a lack of parenting can cause kids to not learn how to behave until later in life. Child care is usually considered just that. Care, a baby sitter, make sure they are alive and busy, and not doing things they shouldn't be. But it doesn't teach the why part. Why shouldn't I hit Billy? > -----Original Message----- > From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Tuesday, March 27, 2007 4:24 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: Does DayCare Ruin Kids? > > my impression is we are wired to be who we are, regardless of our > surroundings... if i was born to be fucked up, no matter my upbringing > im going to be FUCKED UP. > > YES, surroundings shape us, but RIGHT from WRONG is innate. > and if we dont have that switch, we never had that switch, and it > doesnt > matter anyway. > > yes, some people are just fucked up wasted soiled underwear, and are > never going to amount to a fucking thing, its just that way. > > and then some of us are given everything, and are still fucked up > beyond > belief. > > surroundings make a bit of a diff. but not much. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Create Web Applications With ColdFusion MX7 & Flex 2. Build powerful, scalable RIAs. Free Trial http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJS Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:231414 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5
