Instead of shooting to someone or start arguing. Simply asking would take
all misunderstand off and avoid this disgusting mess.

Le 13 févr. 2018 08:33, "Mark Struberg" <strub...@yahoo.de.invalid> a
écrit :

> +1  words - and especially brief once as emails - are just a mapping from
> the reality to some 'transport mechanism' (Claude Shannon sender theoreme
> anyone?).
> And of course each 'map' is a huge simplification from the reality and
> thus prone to be misinterpreted.
>
> The important part here is that those clashes bring up some difference in
> view.
> And yes, I also think this has nothing to do with immature or childish. We
> are all just passionate.
> So the first very important step is to identify the pain point.
>
> For Romain and me, etc is to avoid duplication of work which already got
> done in other ASF projects.
> And to not have those modules hardcoded bound to the TomEE Application
> Server but to be reusable for other projects.
> Please note that I'm talking about the Appliation Server only and not
> about the TomEE project as governance body.
>
> I also had an important lesson in the 90s:
>
> If you have a problem
> 1.) solve it
> 2.) if you cannot solve it, live with it
> 3.) if you cannot live with it, leave it.
>
> More generally:
> There are some points which totally doesn't matter to someone.
> There are other points which we would love to see a certain outcome, but
> we would also perfectly accept a compromise.
> And is also a category of points where we simply cannot live with a
> compromise. Or where we would simply stop being part of it.
>
> In the current situation it's pretty easy. NONE of the cases fits.
> It was simply a misunderstanding.
> Andy wanted to commit samples and integrate mp-config to TomEE.
> This is perfectly fine, but the commit comment and the location was very
> easy to get misinterpreted.
> And that's exactly what happens.
>
> That's like you forbid your daughter to use your car and then she snatches
> your keys.
> You shout at her, but only after she bursts out in tears you find out that
> she only wanted to wash your car as a birthday present...
>
> And now back to work pretty please ;)
>
> LieGrue,
> strub
>
> > Am 13.02.2018 um 07:38 schrieb dsh <daniel.hais...@gmail.com>:
> >
> > All,
> >
> > I followed what David calls "incidents" or "childish" quite closely in
> the
> > past. Why? Cause such situations are quite familiar to me. I've been
> there
> > thousands of times and what I can tell for granted is that non of these
> > situations are neither "incidents" nor "childish".
> >
> > As a matter of fact each individual has a certain believe system on one
> > hand and on the other hand lives on his/her own island. The latter I use
> as
> > an explanation for the fact that we all have our own perception of what
> we
> > think reality is and it usually isn't congruent with the perception of
> > others. If either your believe systems are conflicting or your perception
> > of what you think is reality are clashing, you usually have such
> > "incidents".
> >
> > That said I learned the hard way that usually you are not fighting, like
> in
> > this case, about backed out code but it's usually something
> inter-personal.
> > What makes me wondering especially if I think about all the Twitter and
> > Facebook posts where I see you guys hanging out together is, that such,
> as
> > I suspect it inter-personal conflicts, erupt on the mailing list or over
> > code commits, where my naive understanding is, that you could talk
> > face-to-face to nail down what really drives you crazy.
> >
> > What I learned is that it doesn't quite help, neither from the
> perspective
> > of somebody that is involved, nor from the perspective of somebody who
> is a
> > leader to finger point or to call out individuals. In the end you turned
> > this into a mess and thus you have to fix it TOGETHER. If necessary you
> > could even pull in a coach from outside. I for myself applied for a coach
> > back in 2015. It's not a silver bullet and does not fix everything you
> > screwed up in the past but it sometimes helps to have somebody with a
> > neutral view and another opinion.
> >
> > In the end my perception of reality on my little island is that you all
> > bond a very strong team. I saw and worked with teams that were no real
> team
> > in the end. In your case I don't have such a perception and thus I
> believe
> > that you get this sorted out in a sustainable manner. Take it as a growth
> > opportunity!
> >
> > Cheers
> > Daniel
> >
> > On Tue, Feb 13, 2018 at 6:33 AM, David Blevins <david.blev...@gmail.com>
> > wrote:
> >
> >> Ok, community, we have to have another quick talk and then hopefully we
> >> can go back to being awesome.
> >>
> >> This thread got very negative and bares a striking resemblance to the
> >> "Suffocating Development Environment" thread from the June 27th
> incident.
> >> Yes, I've written about it enough times in the board reports that I have
> >> the date memorized.  What I've written is mostly positive and been
> praised
> >> by the board for our handling of a hard situation.  You're all making a
> >> liar out of me. :)
> >>
> >> I was delicate in the first situation, but now I have to be a bit more
> >> direct.
> >>
> >>
> >> In the June 27th incident we had Andy committing code, Romain reverting
> >> it, the two exchanging insults for one hour till Andy quit complaining
> that
> >> he's working in his spare time implies Romain is killing the project.
> Mark
> >> joins attempting to take some heat off of Romain.  Jon joins attempting
> to
> >> be as neutral as possible.  In the end both Mark and Jon apologize.
> Andy's
> >> code stays reverted.
> >>
> >> In this incident Andy committed code. Mark and Romain begin arguing.
> >> Insults are exchanged for one hour till Andy quits complaining that he's
> >> working in his spare time and implies Romain is killing the project.
> Jon
> >> joins attempting to be as neutral as possible.  In the end both Mark and
> >> Jon apologize.  Andy's code stays reverted.  This time it's all
> Tomitribe's
> >> fault.
> >>
> >>
> >> Am I the only one to notice a pattern?  That pattern is not one person's
> >> fault.  The pattern is we are behaving like children.
> >>
> >>
> >> This will not get better if each of us is expecting the other guy to
> >> change.  If your only response to this email is find flaws in others, I
> >> guarantee nothing will get better.
> >>
> >> Mark, you got there in the end which is great.  You pointed out
> something
> >> you could have done better and something Andy could do better.  That's
> the
> >> right pattern.  People are much more willing to accept feedback when
> they
> >> see you're also willing to accept it.
> >>
> >> We need to get there sooner next time and we need more than one person
> >> doing it.
> >>
> >>
> >> So with all that said, how do we turn this into an awesome learning
> >> experience that makes us stronger?
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> -David
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>> On Feb 12, 2018, at 11:22 AM, Andy Gumbrecht <agumbre...@tomitribe.com
> >
> >> wrote:
> >>>
> >>> Added project stubs: https://github.com/apache/
> >> tomee/tree/master/microprofile
> >>>
> >>> Andy.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> On 05/02/18 11:17, Jean-Louis Monteiro wrote:
> >>>> Hi,
> >>>>
> >>>> Ok thanks guys.
> >>>> @Rudy, you are most welcome :)
> >>>>
> >>>> --
> >>>> Jean-Louis Monteiro
> >>>> http://twitter.com/jlouismonteiro
> >>>> http://www.tomitribe.com
> >>>>
> >>>> On Fri, Feb 2, 2018 at 11:39 AM, Rudy De Busscher <
> >> rdebussc...@gmail.com>
> >>>> wrote:
> >>>>
> >>>>> I think it is a very important spec, also for non-microprofile
> >>>>> implementations as it can enhance the interoperability of all
> servers.
> >>>>>
> >>>>> I'm also very interested in the implementation (and want to help a
> bit
> >> with
> >>>>> it also :) )
> >>>>>
> >>>>> regards
> >>>>> Rudy
> >>>>>
> >>>>>
> >>>>>
> >>>>> On 2 February 2018 at 11:23, Mark Struberg <strub...@yahoo.de.invalid
> >
> >>>>> wrote:
> >>>>>
> >>>>>> To clarify this even further:
> >>>>>> The Geronimo Server is now officially dead.
> >>>>>> But the Geronimo project is not. It alredy contains quite a few
> >> modular
> >>>>>> parts which are reused in many ASF projects and also outside.
> >>>>>> Examples is the geronimo-transaction-manager, geronimo-javamail,
> >>>>>> geronimo-config, xbean-finder, etc
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> Of course it would probably make sense to fold those 2 projects
> >> together,
> >>>>>> as already discussed in the past.
> >>>>>> I'm still all open to it, but I have an important criterium to
> fulfil:
> >>>>>> If we move those portable parts to TomEE, then this would mean that
> >> TomEE
> >>>>>> would become an 'Umbrella project'.
> >>>>>> And further that we would need a new name for those portable parts.
> >>>>>> They would effectively be mainatained by the TomEE community (which
> >> has a
> >>>>>> big overlap with Geronimo anyway) but those parts must clearly be
> >>>>>> recognized separately from TomEE.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> Otherwise people will assume that those parts only work within
> TomEE -
> >>>>>> where in reality they would even work on WildFly or Liberty, etc. or
> >>>>> even a
> >>>>>> naked Tomcat.
> >>>>>> Got me?
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> We might e.g. brand them as 'TomEE Geronimo Spare Parts Department'
> :)
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> LieGrue,
> >>>>>> strub
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> PS: I'd also love to keep the org.apache.geronimo package name to
> ease
> >>>>>> backward compatibility.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>>> Am 02.02.2018 um 11:08 schrieb Romain Manni-Bucau <
> >>>>> rmannibu...@gmail.com
> >>>>>>> :
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>> 2018-02-02 11:05 GMT+01:00 Otávio Gonçalves de Santana <
> >>>>>>> osant...@tomitribe.com>:
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>> Guys, I have a question:
> >>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>> Why not a project to each implementation?
> >>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>> this is the case but geronimo is used as an umbrella project.
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>> This way I can use just a specific if I want also.
> >>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>> exactly the goal and user usage AFAIK ;)
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>> long story short: we learnt from the past errors and since always
> the
> >>>>>> same
> >>>>>>> people work on these projects it is better to not split it accross
> N
> >>>>>>> communities since
> >>>>>>> it leads to a lot of efforts for these people. Having a single
> >> umbrella
> >>>>>>> project with N subprojects reduces the administrative work etc and
> >>>>>> enhance
> >>>>>>> the projects productivity.
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>> On Fri, Feb 2, 2018 at 7:44 AM, Romain Manni-Bucau <
> >>>>>> rmannibu...@gmail.com>
> >>>>>>>> wrote:
> >>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>> Hi JL,
> >>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>> Microprofile apache effort is hosted in geronimo and John already
> >>>>> spoke
> >>>>>>>>> about it I think. Would probably saner to keep it all at the same
> >>>>> place
> >>>>>>>> for
> >>>>>>>>> the foundation.
> >>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>> Romain Manni-Bucau
> >>>>>>>>> @rmannibucau <https://twitter.com/rmannibucau> |  Blog
> >>>>>>>>> <https://rmannibucau.metawerx.net/> | Old Blog
> >>>>>>>>> <http://rmannibucau.wordpress.com> | Github <https://github.com/
> >>>>>>>>> rmannibucau> |
> >>>>>>>>> LinkedIn <https://www.linkedin.com/in/rmannibucau> | Book
> >>>>>>>>> <https://www.packtpub.com/application-development/java-
> >>>>>>>>> ee-8-high-performance>
> >>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>> 2018-02-02 9:39 GMT+01:00 Jean-Louis Monteiro <
> >>>>>> jlmonte...@tomitribe.com
> >>>>>>>>> :
> >>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>>> Hi all,
> >>>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>>> I was wondering if we could have the Microprofile JWT
> implemented
> >> in
> >>>>>>>>> TomEE.
> >>>>>>>>>> What do you think?
> >>>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>>> I was reading the spec and I'd like to contribute that in.
> >>>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>>> Jean-Louis
> >>>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>>>>> --
> >>>>>>>>>> Jean-Louis Monteiro
> >>>>>>>>>> http://twitter.com/jlouismonteiro
> >>>>>>>>>> http://www.tomitribe.com
> >>>>>>>>>>
> >>>>>>
> >>>
> >>> --
> >>> Andy Gumbrecht
> >>> https://twitter.com/AndyGeeDe
> >>> http://www.tomitribe.com
> >>> https://www.tomitribe.io
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> Ubique
> >>>
> >>
> >>
>
>

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