The only reason why group 'therapy' (and I use the term advisedly) might not
work for male perpetrators of domestic and family violence is that such
courses and groups are either drastically under resourced, if they exist at
all, or are not designed specifically for the intended target group. Most
men in Australia who want to change their behaviour must endure long waiting
lists or travel. For example, services in southern Australian cities are
usually unable to meet demand, and there are no established behaviour change
courses for men - or any other similar groups - in area such as Darwin, from
where I write. Furthermore, standard 'group sessions' will invariably fail
when dealing with male perpetrators unless facilitators have a clear
understanding of what is needed to engage men in such a program, in terms of
the programs design, promotion and implementation.

Men who engage with such services more often than not 'spread the word' at a
social level, and engage - and challenge - other men's opinions, attitudes
and behaviours in relation to gender, aggression and violence. It is rather
extraordinary to suggest that the burgeoning field of working with men is a
complete failure when government support is minimal and social awareness of
the real issues behind gender-based violence is even less.

As noted the British Association of Counselling, the country's largest
professional body for therapists, 'It all depends on what kind of
counselling they have been measuring the success of.' Working with men is a
fast evolving sector that requires vastly different approaches than standard
counselling, especially when challenging long standing opinions and
attitudes to masculinity, gender stereotypes and relations, and domestic
violence. It is impossible to accurately evaluate the success of working
with male offenders without defining the design and methods of the courses.
It is also dangerous to tar all programs with the same brush. I would
suggest that group work specifically designed to challenge such issues is
hugely successful, if designed and implemented appropriately. At present, we
're still working this out. There are some well-meaning but rather dodgy
services in any community, but there are great ones too.

We need to be smarter and more creative to break the cycle of violence.
Imprisonment, 'tagging' and even shelters do not do this in the long term.

____________________________________________
Danny Blay
Co-ordinator
YWCA Palmerston Parenting Support Service
Shop G6, Satepak Building
11 Palmerston Circuit
Palmerston
GPO Box 2586
Darwin NT 0801
Australia
ph: 61 8 8932 6866
fx: 61 8 8941 3943
mobile: 043 88 55 357
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