Skip wrote:

My father had a very sage comment on this very subject, "The best way to

lose a friend is to shoot his wedding."  My rule of thumb is to never 
photograph a wedding to which we would be invited.  Since my wife and I 
shoot weddings, I have had several "friends" ask us to do theirs, of
course 
at a steep "friendly" discount.  This rule avoids that issue.  If they 
really are good enough friends to invite us to the wedding, then,
generally, 
either they wouldn't ask us in the first place, or they certainly
understand 
our feelings on the matter.  Hey, we just want to have fun with our
friends, 
not have the pressure of getting all the important images and forego 
socializing, which is the only choice.  If they are not good enough
friends 
to invite us to their wedding, then they certainly don't qualify for the

"friendly" discount...

Skip Middleton
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Skip, that is excellent advice. I have seen this cause grief for friends
and myself.

Peter K
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