--- In [email protected], Duveyoung <no_re...@...> wrote:
>
> I almost did post "hey Kirk you're gunna go over" but Alex did
> that before I could, so there was no need for a second opinion
> as I saw it. My tough love says it's okay to warn about dog shit,
> but to take a person's right to post-and-go-over-and-fail-the-rules
> seems to be more about Alex wanting not to have to be the one who
> bans Kirk than it was about Alex wanting to be sure Alex got more
> of Kirk's wisdom in the next week of postings. Alex, is my concept
> here true about you?
It's true that I *really* didn't want to be the one to ban him. But, it wasn't
about me wanting to be able to read what he writes. It was about me wanting him
to have this outlet available to him because it seems to be helpful for him at
this time. I think there are times when tough love is appropriate, but I don't
think this is one of those times. I think your tough love has way too sensitive
a hair trigger.