I think that at one point or another, we all think we have it all under 
control.  I have begun to realize that perhaps I am here to provide a home, 
food and what care I can for them for the time I have them whether it is long 
or short.  I take them in, love them for whatever time I have them.  Hopefully 
that will help erase some of the pain and sadness they have been through before 
they came to me.  In the last few years, I have been home to 2 dogs and over 20 
cats.  Everyone around here thinks I am crazy but I get much love and happiness 
in return.  That is payment enough.

---- Lee Evans <moonsiste...@yahoo.com> wrote: 
> Margo, most of my cats are special needs also. Either they have behavioral 
> problems (litter box issues mostly) or physical issues - one tripod, one half 
> blind, several old, one allergic to something we can't figure out but she 
> loses her fur in patches, then grows it back and another has seizure disorder 
> - like epilepsy in humans but not as severe. Several have or are developing 
> stomatitis. It's just one thing after another. I have one from a colony I 
> used to feed who has bone cancer but eats and does everything normally except 
> that her days are probably numbered. I seem to be a way station for tossed 
> out cats. And you seem to have the same problem. The only way to cope, aside 
> from crying 24/7 is to just feel you are doing the best you can.

Spay and Neuter your cats and dogs and your weird relatives and nasty neighbors 

> From: Margo <toomanykitti...@earthlink.net>
>To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
>Sent: Sunday, April 28, 2013 2:58 PM
>Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] For Chang......Cat dying at home
>                      I think I agree with you. This is just so new, and was 
>quite a shock. When it comes to the cats he's been with, I do understand that, 
>as my Vet put it, "that ship has sailed". It's the need to add a cat to them 
>that has me flummoxed. The more I "learn" (as there are so many differing 
>stances, opinions, and conflicting results when it comes to FeLV) the more 
>confused i get. 
>>                       You're right, I will find a way to live with it, I'm 
>>just not there yet. I've dealt with so many other issues (all the cats I kept 
>>were special needs of some kind or other, and considered un-adoptable) that I 
>>thought I had it all under control. Much of it is that I feel so helpless. 
>>There just isn't really anything with any kind of documented success rate, I 
>>can "DO" for him. My cabinet full of meds and very co-operatve Vet are just 
>>plain useless.
>>                       Anyway, thanks for the input. I can just do what I can 
>>-----Original Message----- 
>>From: Lee Evans 
>>Sent: Apr 28, 2013 3:15 PM 
>>To: "felvtalk@felineleukemia.org" 
>>Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] For Chang......Cat dying at home 
>>You could drive yourself crazy worrying about all of that. I had two cats 
>>living in a group of 12 for over 13 years. When they were very old, they 
>>developed renal failure. I took them for sub-q therapy as I do all my renal 
>>compromised cats until I see that the situation has progressed beyond a good 
>>quality of life. However, Tigger and Twerp developed some other symptoms that 
>>were very odd. Twerp had been tested twice for FeLv, Tigger once in the past. 
>>The vet suggested another test. Both were positive and active in the virus. 
>>Both passed away several days after the test. The other 10 cats who had lived 
>>with them, groomed and been groomed by them, shared food, litter boxes and 
>>sleeping nests never tested positive. All are gone now, most living to age 14 
>>and over, all from renal failure except one who had an ear tumor that 
>>progressed rapidly. He had to be euthanized because it was inoperable. I 
>>really feel that worrying and giving off negative feelings
>  to the cats is going to do more harm than the exposure to the virus. You 
> have to let go sometimes and leave it to the Universe to decide.
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