Calling me an arsehole was nice. I like it and it is in keeping with my
opinion on profanity I mentioned earlier.
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Regarding my threat to D, when I said I kept grudge I meant exactly the
opposite, which can make the later part of my statement, the threat, null
for some views. Maybe a bad joke (highly inopportune one too, as it has
turned out to be). Would you say it is not possible? I can give you an
earlier instance. I said I apologised. I did exactly the opposite. Apology
is speech in self-defence. I just retracted my statement and told I was
sorry. D thinks it is only a quarter of an apology.
Further, my first message to D and D's reply should give some perspective,
if anybody is bothered other than to go on a lynching spree.
On another vein, I think I owe D another apology (meaning the opposite) for
that possibly misconstrued threat of mine. After all, not what I meant but
what effect my words produced, is the relevant thing. I am not penitent or
ashamed but just being  reasonable. Since she felt threatened by me (that
also through personal mail), I retract that message and ask her to forgive
my misadventure. I am not ideologically bound (in narrow sense) and I don't
have firm faiths. I have no problem being disproved. I state this because
those who put me down to some ideological mass hostile to theirs would
naturally consider my retraction an instance of cunning.
Arunima's view of taking on the crappy threats from an arsehole (is that her
view? then, the STFU she imposes on the arsehole is slightly off) is
sensible because she is willing to meet the adversaries, whereas some others
seem to want a gender neutral secure environment. Can you afford that, at
least as yet?
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The mod guy did an unpardonable thing. He has gone further with trying to
trace my location and publishing it. All this, while blocking my messages!
Did anybody notice it? I asked  him to remove it but he hasn't complied. I
explained to some why I took a false name and revealed my true identity to
them, especially to the person who was hurt by my action.
I have reported abuse on the guy. If nothing is done about that I will take
recourse to a self-imposed STFU and leave. In that case, I will be removing
all my posts to the group.



On 6/10/07, Arunima G <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

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