Rose, > I can't sleep, can't eat and fear that I'll never be able to stop > crying. The irony is the sadness and pain will actually help release you from > the marriage. It's all normal and perfectly appropriate.
That's all appropriate. Real human beings, no matter how long on this earth or how much they've learned still know how to cry. Get it all out - as long as it takes, I believe. >What Bob was saying is true too, but I haven't felt it yet. The more activity you have, the less > depressed you'll be. The less activity you have the more depressed. Some people are helped by lots of activity, others are helped in different ways. I tend to want to cocoon - lay out in the sun with a cigarette, music and maybe some reading material that captivates me (which may include just a trashy tabloid or maybe a travel magazine filled with photos of beautiful islands) After several weeks of this, I may eventually become a bit bored and decide it's time for a little more activity ;-) >It's a vicious cycle, an emotional roller coaster. It tis. >Hold on tight. You will. Hang in. Kakki
