On Wed, March 28, 2007 1:48 pm, Karl Cunningham wrote: >> For how long? Are you committed for life? > No > > Do you love her unconditionally? > No > > Or do you only love her until someone more attractive comes along? > That depends on the extent of our love for each other. If it wanes > enough, others will start to look attractive to each of us. > > Until you grow tired of her or until she displays some weakness that you > dont want to live with? > Yes, but I'd change "weakness" to "characteristic". And the same applies > to her. > > Are you willing to someday leave her, this woman with whom you became so > intimate, this person who made herself so vulnerable to you as she > expressed her sexuality? > Yes each of us would given some circumstances. No one has asked how > likely that might be. Each of us at this point would each say "Very > unlikely." But I said the same thing with my first wife; hence I also > say "You never know."
Well thanks for your honesty. If you also allow your wife to leave you if she finds some characteristic in you or a condition she doesn't like then it sounds like you are being consistent. I hope she doesn't have bad pizza someday and decide to leave you for some flimsy reason. And I assume if we asked her she'd agree that's the deal?...that she isn't assuming you'll stick around if you find something displeasing in her? Chris -- [email protected] http://www.kernel-panic.org/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/kplug-list
