It is not an interpretation of anyone's character, it is not a
diagnosis or psychological evaluation.

Shades of color thread:

Pat to Fiddler:
"Then, as an old friend used to say, "You're wired weird".  Have you
passed that trait onto any children or do you know, yet? "

Is Pat making a diagnosis of Fidd, placing him into a psychological
category?  Pat used "quotes" too, at least I used the word "MAYBE".

I can find more examples of ad hom that you seem to ignore.

You want to follow me to the bathroom too molly, make sure I pick up
the seat?




On Mar 3, 10:19 am, Molly <[email protected]> wrote:
> The point is, Slip, that this is YOUR interpretation of a persons
> character.  None of us is here to label the others with diagnosis or
> psychological categories.  Doing so is ad hom.  Attack the statement,
> not the person.
>
> On Mar 3, 11:07 am, Slip Disc <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > Calling someone an idiot and suggesting that someone might feel like
> > one are two distinct applications the later of which would not be
> > considered ad hom.
>
> > The disposition of being Homophobic does not necessarily have to be
> > interpreted as derogatory.  Your interpretation is incorrect.
>
> > On Mar 3, 9:37 am, Molly <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > Respect is never a waste of time, Slip.  Name calling is not allowed
> > > in here.  Saying: "Maybe he feels like an idiot," does not mask the
> > > name calling, nor does, "Maybe he got a bit homo phobic"  Knock it
> > > off.
>
> > > On Mar 3, 10:21 am, Slip Disc <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > Well I hope you can see that it is not in the least ad hom and
> > > > regardless of the ridiculousness of your post I'll waste some time
> > > > responding to it. I would also like second and third opinions on this
> > > > by Chis and Ian.
>
> > > > homo-phobic is a "Viable" reference term:
>
> > > > homophobic - Definition
> > > > [hṓmə-fṓbē-ə]
> > > > (n.)    Fear of or contempt for lesbians and gay men.
> > > > (n.)    Behavior based on such a feeling.
> > > > Dictionary.com · The American Heritage® Dictionary
>
> > > > or if you prefer Webster:
>
> > > > Main Entry: ho·mo·pho·bia
> > > > Pronunciation: \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\
> > > > Function: noun
> > > > Date: 1969
> > > > : irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against
> > > > homosexuality or homosexuals
>
> > > > In case you hadn't noticed during your zealous perusing of my post for
> > > > picayune infractions of ad hom, the thread had gone from body
> > > > consciousness to homosexuality.
>
> > > > My post "IS" tied to Manfraco's as he says:   "Anyhow this tread was
> > > > not exactly started to talk about homosexuality,
> > > > it was started to talk about consciousness and Slip would like to go
> > > > back to talk about consciousness,........" etc,
> > > > and the term was used in reference to RP in that "MAYBE" he.....etc.
> > > > in light of the thread diversion.
>
> > > > We are not all A level logicians in here and most use terms rather
> > > > loosely.  I think it would be a fair statement that I never attack
> > > > anyone unprovoked.  This is a waste of time and interferes with the
> > > > flow of thought that produces good dialogue in threads.
>
> > > > On Mar 3, 8:03 am, Molly <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > I hope you can see that your statement "Maybe he got a bit homo
> > > > > phobic" is an ad hom, as it is not tied to any statement by Manfranco
> > > > > in your comment, thus only related to the personal "he" on the
> > > > > sentence.  If you feel that particular statements he has made can be
> > > > > categorized as such, pointing them out along with a defination of your
> > > > > term and a request to further explain would be more in the spirit of
> > > > > dialogue and less of a character slur.  Please keep personal attacks
> > > > > in check, even when the topics are as touchy as this one.
>
> > > > > On Mar 2, 10:32 am, Slip Disc <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > Ya mon frac, consciousness and the consciousness of dreams, much
> > > > > > better.
>
> > > > > > It looks as though Mr. Parker has left for the duration of the
> > > > > > thread.  Maybe he got a bit homo phobic, :-)
>
> > > > > > On Feb 28, 3:41 pm, Manfraco Frank Elder <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > Lee, it seems to me that we agree in general terms about
> > > > > > > homosexuality, except that we have a different opinion about it, 
> > > > > > > you
> > > > > > > seem to welcome homosexuality with open arms, whereas I accept it 
> > > > > > > just
> > > > > > > because it cannot be avoided.
> > > > > > > Anyhow this tread was not exactly started to talk about 
> > > > > > > homosexuality,
> > > > > > > it was started to talk about consciousness and Slip would like to 
> > > > > > > go
> > > > > > > back to talk about consciousness, which could be very interesting 
> > > > > > > for
> > > > > > > me, as I am interested in personal consciousness of dreams, the 
> > > > > > > cosmos
> > > > > > > the afterlife and religions, which are all part of our body
> > > > > > > consciousness.
>
> > > > > > > On Feb 26, 10:02 pm, Lee <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > Well I really didn't say that at all Frank, I merely asked you 
> > > > > > > > to
> > > > > > > > consider it a possibily in light of your assurtion that mother 
> > > > > > > > nature
> > > > > > > > must do all she can for the survival of the species, and 
> > > > > > > > anything that
> > > > > > > > runs counter to that cannot be 'natural'
>
> > > > > > > > I gave you an example where not breeding was the best thing for 
> > > > > > > > the
> > > > > > > > survival of the species, and if mother nature governs the 
> > > > > > > > nature of
> > > > > > > > man, then homosexuality via a process of Darwinian evolution 
> > > > > > > > must (in
> > > > > > > > the context of this example) be considerd as an evolutionary 
> > > > > > > > plus,
> > > > > > > > thus my 'more evolved' question.
>
> > > > > > > > I do notice BTW that you did not answer my question re: 
> > > > > > > > hetrosexual
> > > > > > > > sex and masterbation for pleasure, would you also see these as
> > > > > > > > 'unnatural'?
>
> > > > > > > > On 24 Feb, 21:17, Manfraco Frank Elder <[email protected]> 
> > > > > > > > wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > OK Lee I see your point there, but to say that the 
> > > > > > > > > homosexuals are
> > > > > > > > > more evolved that the rest of us is an exaggeration, for me 
> > > > > > > > > it is only
> > > > > > > > > a way for Mother Nature to adjust the imbalance which 
> > > > > > > > > herself/itself
> > > > > > > > > created, which gives us all that extra drive about sex, when 
> > > > > > > > > to
> > > > > > > > > propagate ourselves half as much could have been plenty.
>
> > > > > > > > > On Feb 24, 9:29 pm, Lee <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > Then dwell on this one sir.
>
> > > > > > > > > > If it is true that the earth is going to double its 
> > > > > > > > > > population in the
> > > > > > > > > > next 20-30 years, then for the survival of the species it 
> > > > > > > > > > may be
> > > > > > > > > > better not to propogate our species.  Ummm perhaps we 
> > > > > > > > > > should all
> > > > > > > > > > endulge in only homosexual sex for the survial of the 
> > > > > > > > > > species.
> > > > > > > > > > Perhaps those that already do so is Mother Natures way of 
> > > > > > > > > > giving us
> > > > > > > > > > all a clue, and these people are in fact more 'evolved' 
> > > > > > > > > > than the rest
> > > > > > > > > > of us?
>
> > > > > > > > > > On 23 Feb, 21:14, Manfraco Frank Elder <[email protected]> 
> > > > > > > > > > wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > I have to follow my own beliefs here, for me God and 
> > > > > > > > > > > Mother Nature
> > > > > > > > > > > could be one and the same thing.
> > > > > > > > > > > Mather Nature as I see it; it is only a name that we give 
> > > > > > > > > > > to the best
> > > > > > > > > > > side of the natural things, which to work at their best 
> > > > > > > > > > > should follow
> > > > > > > > > > > a certain order, obviously the best order for Mother 
> > > > > > > > > > > Nature is the
> > > > > > > > > > > survival and propagation of the species, it cannot be 
> > > > > > > > > > > anything else,
> > > > > > > > > > > thus anything that does not help to accomplish that is 
> > > > > > > > > > > not Mother
> > > > > > > > > > > Nature will.
>
> > > > > > > > > > > On Feb 23, 8:43 pm, Lee <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > Umm not quite true though is it?  As Fidds point out 
> > > > > > > > > > > > there are
> > > > > > > > > > > > countless example of same gender sex occouring within 
> > > > > > > > > > > > other species.
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > Also what do you mean by Mother Nature?  There really 
> > > > > > > > > > > > is no single
> > > > > > > > > > > > force that can be given that name, is there?
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > On 22 Feb, 21:18, Manfraco Frank Elder 
> > > > > > > > > > > > <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi Lee!
> > > > > > > > > > > > > I agree with you that if it occurs it is natural; but 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > at the same time
> > > > > > > > > > > > > that is not what mother nature intended it to be, 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > because as I said,
> > > > > > > > > > > > > Mother Nature is there for the propagation of the 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > species, anything
> > > > > > > > > > > > > other than that
> > > > > > > > > > > > > would be against Mother Nature will.
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > On Feb 23, 12:31 am, Lee <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > Unnatural?  How so?
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > I mean if it occours, then it is natural yes?
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > On 20 Feb, 00:30, Manfraco Frank Elder 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If they are really happy with their relationship: 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Does it matter if
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > they get married or not?
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > For me if there is a god, this God would not and 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > perhaps could not
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > take part in their unnatural relationship as God 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > and Mother Nature
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > could be the same thing.
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Feb 20, 9:12 am, fiddler 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > A friend of mine prayed for true love in the 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > form of a blonde haired
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > and beautiful woman 5 years younger than 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > himself. He is now 10 years
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > into a spectacular relationship with a 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > dark-haired man 10 years older
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > than himself. The two love each other very much 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > and I rejoice for
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > them, they truly deserve the happiness that 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > they have have found and
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > build upon. Sadly, each claims that god 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > answered some prayer in their
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > past and dismiss the idea that they had prayed 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > for something else.
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > More sadly, anti-human rights churches (which 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > are most churches)
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > refuse to allow them to be formally married.
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Feb 19, 1:41 pm, Manfraco Frank Elder 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi Pat! Since you have personally experienced 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > this spiritual event,
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > which you think that people would not believe 
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > you or understand you,
>
> ...
>
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