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On Tue, Aug 10, 2010 at 12:33 PM, Jean Briscoe <[email protected]>wrote:

> When foreigner's come from other countries's and your nation has big
> changes in this area their are many concerns and fear's.
>
> On Tue, Aug 10, 2010 at 12:17 PM, Jean Briscoe 
> <[email protected]>wrote:
>
>> Do you think it is right and limited.  That is The neighborhood belongs to
>> the culture that it occupies?  It is somewhat new to me of this outlook.  I
>> geuss a person without a land and a culture is left out.  No country,no
>> place.  And could this cause fear?
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 10, 2010 at 8:23 AM, Slip Disc <[email protected]> wrote:
>>
>>> That is exactly what the Cultural Evolution thread is basically all
>>> about; people finding groups of like thinkers without regard for good
>>> or bad, positive or negative.   It's the old adage Birds of a feather
>>> flock together.
>>> It is also the basis of much of gruff's xenophobia in that the more
>>> groups increasing in number that are incongruous with others the more
>>> potential there is for fear which can lead to violence.  The
>>> neighborhood belongs to the culture that occupies it.
>>>
>>> On Aug 9, 10:05 am, Jean Briscoe <[email protected]> wrote:
>>> > I enjoyed what you said and it is well put.  Sometimes a verification
>>> let
>>> > some know that others think somewhat the same way.
>>> >
>>>  > On Mon, Aug 9, 2010 at 9:40 AM, Slip Disc <[email protected]> wrote:
>>> > >  ..............how do we confront a level of fear that
>>> > > allows us to get past it and function more fully without stripping
>>> > > away that portion which keeps us from being vanquished by the world?
>>> >
>>> > > As individual units we can adjust our sense of fear accordingly and
>>> > > within the parameters of our environmental circumstance but as a
>>> > > global society I don't see anything changing for the better or for
>>> the
>>> > > worse.  Global fears would have to be replaced with global trusts in
>>> > > order to circumvent what seems to have been the mode de jeur for
>>> > > centuries.  Private gated communities have established a secluded
>>> > > sense of trust within the confines of the community but the presence
>>> > > of the gates themselves indicate the distrust of all that lies beyond
>>> > > the perimeter.  Fear has grown over the past several years with the
>>> > > ever growing terrorist threat. Neighbors are increasingly looking at
>>> > > others around them as potential threats as homeland security pushes
>>> to
>>> > > expose homegrown terror.  The economic landslide, post the subprime
>>> > > mortgage scenario, is a wake up call for many who never thought they
>>> > > had anything to fear; losing home, job and a good life is a reality.
>>> > > Meanwhile millions of illegal immigrants continue to leach off the
>>> > > public coffers further depleting the resources that once sustained
>>> the
>>> > > country.  George Bernard Shaw  “You see things; and you say, ‘Why?’
>>> > > But I dream things that never were; and I say, “Why not?".   This in
>>> > > all reality can change things but I'm not sure that people are still
>>> > > capable of dreaming and bringing those dreams to fruition.  We have
>>> > > become sullen and morose and complacently waiting for things to
>>> change
>>> > > on their own or trusting others to make the changes.  Soap box
>>> > > politicians are still leading us down the path of delusion without
>>> any
>>> > > real change and we are stuck in a quagmire of stagnation politics.
>>> > > The whole of it needs revamping as is the case with any revolution.
>>> > > Governments wield the power to make real change but have only
>>> indulged
>>> > > those in the world of high finance and capitalist gain; I think
>>> > > capitalism breeds fear. From Pat in another thread: ".........there's
>>> > > a moral wealth
>>> > > that is completely ignored by the ruthlessness of applied capitalism.
>>> > > Capitalism divides society into 2 parts: the rich and the poor.
>>> > > Socialism, to some extent, tries to redress the balance and bring
>>> that
>>> > > excess 'wealth' back into a useful form for society's poor.  If
>>> > > America doesn't try to protect the well-being of its own poor, then
>>> > > they will be forced to defend themselves against an enemy government,
>>> > > and, the Declaration of Independence, whilst NOT the Constitution,
>>> > > still lays down a framework granting justification for such a self-
>>> > > defence if presented with "...a long chain of abuses and usurpations
>>> > > pursuing, invariably, the same object, evinces a design to reduce
>>> them
>>> > > under absolute despotism...".
>>> > > As a proponent of capitalism I don't think you would agree with the
>>> > > premise or the outcome but for sure it is or should be considered as
>>> > > one element underlying the climate of global fear.
>>> >
>>> > > On Aug 8, 2:01 pm, gruff <[email protected]> wrote:
>>> > > > Sure, times are tough for the average person but that’s no reason
>>> to
>>> > > > get nasty about it.  I know it’s legend that people used to be much
>>> > > > nicer to each other but I’ve no idea if that legend has any
>>> validity
>>> > > > or basis in reality.
>>> >
>>> > > > I can believe that rural folks were much nicer to each other and
>>> more
>>> > > > concerned with each others welfare.  But the country was much
>>> bigger
>>> > > > and our population much smaller back then.  That lack of crowding
>>> led
>>> > > > to conditions that made people behave better toward each other
>>> (with
>>> > > > some exceptions as we shall see.)
>>> >
>>> > > > Back in that day, people in a rural community also had the same
>>> > > > background, heritage, religion and values, which lent to a common
>>> > > > concern for each other.  Today most communities, even some of the
>>> more
>>> > > > rural ones, are a homogeneous mix of race, culture, religion and
>>> > > > values, all of which tend to make people a bit more wary of each
>>> > > > other.  Or at best it makes them distant from oneself.  Makes one
>>> more
>>> > > > stand-offish.
>>> >
>>> > > > If there is one significant characteristic all species seem to
>>> share
>>> > > > it is a general xenophobia – a fear of anything unknown or new, a
>>> fear
>>> > > > of strangers.  Many blame it on being driven from heaven but
>>> > > > regardless it’s source, as we have with so many of nature’s
>>> built-in
>>> > > > protections, our species has taken xenophobia to heretofore
>>> undreamed
>>> > > > levels.  We even create things to fear – vampires, ghouls and such.
>>> > > > And there are far too many of us even to afraid to look themselves
>>> in
>>> > > > the eye in a mirror.   It took me till I was in my late thirties
>>> and
>>> > > > had some therapy under my belt to accomplish that little feat.
>>> >
>>> > > > I can believe some of the legend of nice people because I can
>>> recall
>>> > > > times when I would be overcome with an urge to perform some
>>> > > > spontaneous act of kindness and the response was generally thanks
>>> and
>>> > > > gratitude or at the very least a smile and a nod.  Today when I try
>>> a
>>> > > > gratuitous kindness I am too often looked at with suspicion – as
>>> > > > though I had some hidden agenda.  I don’t do it very often anymore.
>>> > > > I’m no hero.
>>> >
>>> > > > Our politics these days seems to run more on hate than I can
>>> remember
>>> > > > in seventy years of the stuff even though I only paid attention for
>>> > > > the last two decades.  Sure, politics is the arena most likely to
>>> > > > evoke emotional reactions but anymore it seems like those emotions
>>> > > > boil over into a darker place in us.  One that removes all trace of
>>> > > > concern for each other and replaces it with aggression, fear, lies
>>> and
>>> > > > hatred.
>>> >
>>> > > > Yet these facets of human behavior are not too hard to understand.
>>> > > > After all we’ve come from a very frightening past and certainly
>>> still
>>> > > > carry a lot of those fears with us.  But there is a new dimension
>>> to
>>> > > > our xenophobia, a new level we’ve taken it to that is beyond
>>> anything
>>> > > > rationally acceptable as a survival instinct.  In spite of commonly
>>> > > > available knowledge we fear differences in each other that we know
>>> (or
>>> > > > should know) are false.
>>> >
>>> > > > But to borrow a Gumpism, fear is as fear does and most frequently
>>> it
>>> > > > is fear itself which drives itself to higher levels of intensity.
>>> > > > Remember Roosevelt’s admonishment?  “We have nothing to fear but
>>> fear
>>> > > > itself.”  I don’t think many realized the eternalness of that
>>> truth.
>>> >
>>> > > > Lies are virtually always rooted in fear which accounts for the
>>> > > > overwhelming number of them being floated about these days.  Fear
>>> of
>>> > > > not appearing a certain way, fear of not being what we think we
>>> should
>>> > > > be, fear of accepting responsibility, fear of the consequences of
>>> both
>>> > > > acting and inaction.  Fear drives most of Madison Avenue’s best
>>> > > > creations: Fear that you smell, that you don’t look good, that your
>>> > > > teeth are not white enough, that your skin’s not smooth and blemish
>>> > > > free, that your medical condition needs a cover up, that you need
>>> the
>>> > > > newer drug, that your children are too fat, too thin, too
>>> disturbed,
>>> > > > too talkative, too … anything.  Superficial fears all.
>>> >
>>> > > > A new aspect to commercials I’ve noticed is the disdain they show
>>> for
>>> > > > civil behavior: the shopper who leaves her no longer wanted pain
>>> > > > killers in the basket in the aisle, the man who treats children
>>> > > > cruelly and dishonestly, the executive with not enough sense to
>>> know
>>> > > > that if he fell on the lizard it would crush their main advertising
>>> > > > gimmick.  The list goes on.  Any fool can pick out the commercials
>>> > > > that are destructive to society and civilization:  virtually all of
>>> > > > them.  There are few commercials that are constructive and honest
>>> and
>>> > > > fewer yet that are even creative and entertaining.
>>> >
>>> > > > Right now the two biggest fears clutching our hearts are jobs and
>>> the
>>> > > > economy.  Following closely on their heels come two wars, the
>>> deficit,
>>> > > > health care and the future of our nation.  Some may change that
>>> order
>>> > > > but I think it’s fair to say that those are among the Top Ten.
>>> >
>>> > > > To my thinking the most dangerous aspect of this out-of-control
>>> fear
>>> > > > that is driving a lot of our behavior is that it blocks clear
>>> thinking
>>> > > > which is the key to finding solutions.  This is easily seen in some
>>> of
>>> > > > the bizarre options people, pundits and politicians are spewing.
>>> >
>>> > > > We expect our judges to put aside their personal feelings and rule
>>> on
>>> > > > issues and events based on the evidence and the law.  Would that we
>>> > > > could even come close to that ideal in our individual and public
>>> lives
>>> > > > we might be much further along than we are.  But on the other hand
>>> can
>>> > > > we afford to do less?
>>> >
>>> > > > President Obama would probably gain a few points in the polls were
>>> he
>>> > > > to come out and demand responsibility of the citizens to and for
>>> each
>>> > > > other, our society and the government.  Push responsibility.
>>>  Demand
>>> > > > it.  Accept no less.  A side benefit might be that more people
>>> would
>>> > > > come to meet their responsibilities as rational and honest citizens
>>> of
>>> > > > a civilized society.  Wouldn’t that be nice.  And I bet people
>>> would
>>> > > > start to be nicer to each other again – if we ever did, that is.
>>> >
>>> > > > While a nice dream it does not get us any closer to the core
>>> problem
>>> > > > of xenophobia.  Classic psychology and the wisdom of ages teaches
>>> that
>>> > > > it’s best to confront a fear head on.  It’s a method that I
>>> recommend
>>> > > > but it does not work easily.  The easiest fears to see are the
>>> > > > superficial ones we used to mask our deeper more real fears.
>>> > > > Superficial fears include those which commercials are designed to
>>> > > > salve.
>>> >
>>> > > > In
>>> >
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