thanks j glad we sorted this out

good luck

richard

On Sep 12, 4:58 pm, Jared Rypka-Hauer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> As I am concerned you had barged into a ModelGlue list demanding an  
> education in ColdSpring, OO architecture and design, ModelGlue and UI  
> development and then spit in the face of one of the people who was  
> most active in helping you. Apparently, it was a misunderstanding and  
> I'm glad that it has been righted. Kudos to you for apologizing and  
> making it right.
>
> I should have said something more like "Dude, Chris was only trying  
> to help, seriously, that's not what he meant" rather than jumping  
> directly to invective. I was pissed... someone had impugned my friend  
> who was trying to help them, and I was trying to make a point: If  
> you're going to spit in the face of your helpers, go learn to help  
> yourself. That was, and is, my only point, and it still stands even  
> if it no longer applies in this situation.
>
> So, apparently you and I have had our own misunderstanding, for which  
> I apologize. I was unclear in my response to your assault on Chris.  
> It had nothing to do with patience, your level of knowledge or  
> anything else. It had to do exclusively with your reaction to someone  
> who was putting in every effort to assist you and receiving your  
> scorn in return.
>
> Anyone who knows me knows I can be an arrogant dickhead, but that I  
> am also reasonable and more than willing to make things right where I  
> was wrong. I regret that our first encounter was of this nature and  
> that I chose to respond the way I did. Please accept my apology for  
> being quick to react.
>
> Hopefully we can all just get along and play nice now... us "so-
> called experts" lose patience so easily one never knows what might  
> happen if these shenanigans continue. ;)
>
> J
>
> On Sep 12, 2008, at 10:03 AM, cs01rsw wrote:
>
>
>
> > there is a common belief amongst the so called experts that they get
> > frustrated with people who may not know as much, and also their egos
> > stretch to unbelievable heights. the good thing about the cf community
> > is that i rarely see this. the cf community really seems to be there
> > to help people no matter what their experience level, or questions.
>
> > people giving advice also need to learn to take it and not be too
> > hostile - not mentioned any names (j), and the so called experts need
> > understand that cultures are different and the nature of people is
> > different, and that sometimes advice may not get across in the way
> > that it is meant. ...
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