there is a common belief amongst the so called experts that they get frustrated with people who may not know as much, and also their egos stretch to unbelievable heights. the good thing about the cf community is that i rarely see this. the cf community really seems to be there to help people no matter what their experience level, or questions.
people giving advice also need to learn to take it and not be too hostile - not mentioned any names (j), and the so called experts need understand that cultures are different and the nature of people is different, and that sometimes advice may not get across in the way that it is meant. i understand having seen your response chris that i misread the intention of your message. having seen the following statements to what i thought was 1 last question about the service name 'Why don't you just give it a try? ', and 'You will never achieve a deep understanding having others tell you what the answer' and 'I can tell you from experience that you will feel better about learning than getting spoon fed!' - my reaction was to believe that i was being patronized by someone who was getting frustrated. this led my reaction i do appreciate the help that you gave me, and have always appreciated the help of the cf community, but i also like people to treat people as they like to be treated themselves regardless of cf knowledge level. therefore some additional responses in this post were unnecassary and need to think on both sides of the coin having said all this, chris i am grateful for your reponses in helping me understand this issue, and apologize for the tone of my response, it was merely a mis-understanding. On Sep 12, 3:02 pm, Jared Rypka-Hauer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > If that's how you respond to the people who try to be encouraging, > supportive and enlightening, allow me to answer your next question, > and any other question you may ask on this list, in advance: > > http://www.google.com > > As far as I'm concerned, henceforth it is the answer to any and all > questions you may ever ask on this or any other list I'm on. Learn to > use it, it'll do you good. > > J > > On Sep 12, 2008, at 8:09 AM, cs01rsw wrote: > > > > > wow, thats rude, you need to understand how to teach people and the > > point of forums. thanks for your help but please do not respond to any > > more of my questions. > > i have been learning cf for 2 years and just getting into model glue > > and i have never had anyone make such a patronizing immature response > > > On Sep 12, 12:54 pm, "Chris Peterson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > >> Richard, > >> Why don't you just give it a try? I can bet you $1 that 99% of the > >> developers on this list have all learned a ton from here and other > >> web > >> resources, but at some point they had to just dive in and DO it! > >> Fire up > >> some of the sample applications that are out there and tweak and > >> test, let > >> it break and look at the debug info. You will never achieve a deep > >> understanding having others tell you what the answer is, only by > >> figuring it > >> out yourself. I can tell you from experience that you will feel > >> better > >> about learning than getting spoon fed! --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "model-glue" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/model-glue?hl=en For more about Model-Glue, check http://www.model-glue.com . -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
