[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 First I will go to Vizag, Calcutta, and Assam, and visit 
 Devipuram, Khalighat, and Kamakhya. And also probably Babadham and
the very 
 powerful Tarapeeth.

It will be a great yatra I am sure. I have been to none of these
places myself, the most east I ever was, was Amarkanthak, were Guru
Dev once has been and that is not too far away from Puri or Calcutta.
(I saw a cave now closed, from which I later heard through another
friend, that this was probably one of the caves where GD has been).
And I have a friend in Vizag, it must be a great city, but I have
never been. Since I spend now more time in Andhra, I will try to go to
Sri Sailam one day.



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Mr. Ed [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 India vs. LSD
 
  I latched on to that comparison immediately..Both are full 
 of vibrant colors, in both trips everything seems intensely 
 significant, and then there's the bugs crawling on 
 ya...sorrya little off topic, but unfortunate nonetheless.

A mosquito net protects you from such surprises during sleep.

  Seriously while I don't know that the author of the Gita 
 intended for it to pave the way for the caste system, so many great 
 ideas, so much inspiration and beauty have come from the subcontinent 
 that I'd thoroughly dig a visit there. Any culture that could produce 
 Buddha is cool by me.Has anyone else made the connection of 
 Buddha being to Hinduism what Jesus was to Judaism? 

I think I have read that somewhere, or maybe a comparision between
Buddhism and Protestantism, I am not sure, but Buddhism has been seen
as a reformatory movement to Hinduism by many. Buddhism has a much
greater appeal to westerners,as it is more rational, and obviously
less discriminatory. Hinduism OTOH is irrational, colorful, manifold
and difficult to comprehend.

 Or am I just non 
 retardedly challenged? Not entirely the same.but they were both 
 well versed in their culture's religious traditions but both kinda 
 said..this might be simpler than all this superfluous ceremonial 
 stuff yer doin. And in both cases their followers created their own 
 superfluous ceremonial mummery and far out religious groups and 
 organizations that are often hard to connect with the life and actual 
 teachings of these two people. Don't get me wrong.I LOVE what 
 Japan has done with Buddhism..Like the Nichiren Sect that teaches 
 it's adherents to chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo because these syllables 
 are so sacred that merely uttering them brings you into alignment 
 with the deeper underlying energy of the universe
 
 .I KNOW! I'm like, what a coincidence! WHere have I heard that 
 kinda thing?
 
 By the way, I would never advocate the use of ANY drugs.I've 
 NEVER done any of them so I'm SURE they have NOTHING to 
 offer. :) I've 'heard' that LSD makes everything colorful and 
 significant.and makes you think you've got bugs crawling on 
 ya.Just remember..If drugs were Flinstone Vitamins, LSD 
 would be the 'Great Gazoo'.NEVER mix yer Gazoos with yer 
 Dinos..justjus' DON'T...
 Now, if religions were Flinstone Vitaminsyeah, this is 
 stoopit.good night y'all.

I haven't done LSD either or hallucinogenic drugs. I had marihuana
first in India 93 - was sorta nice but gave me a headache later. And
probably one inhale which I coughed out immediately at the Kumbh in
Allahabad, which I had, just to be nice to a Naga Baba - but that had
a great effect.




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  then he said the words  that pierced me: It would be BAD KARMA for
  MAHARISHI for you to be  here, and it would be BAD KARMA FOR YOU to
  be here. You must leave...
  
 snip
 
 yep, I thought that was 24 karat pure bullshit too-- sounded like the 
 boogey-man's gonna get you. real crap.



WEll, it WAS announced days before the cremation on the Maharishi Channel that 
it would 
be a strictly tradtional Vedic ceremony, fully segregated by sex. I try not to 
crash other 
people's religious ceremonies if they have a bias against me being there unless 
I'm 
secretly doing an expose on segregated religious ceremonies.

Obviously, the proper thing was to turn around and walk off as it was a 
strictly observed 
men-only ceremony and regardless of the karmic issues for MMY, refusing to 
honor the 
religious ceremonial wishes of the deceased seems less than respectful.


When in Rome, and all that.


Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread curtisdeltablues
 When in Rome, and all that.
 


Cultural relativism is very popular today, but not with me.  I am Rome.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 sandiego108@
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   then he said the words  that pierced me: It would be BAD KARMA for
   MAHARISHI for you to be  here, and it would be BAD KARMA FOR YOU to
   be here. You must leave...
   
  snip
  
  yep, I thought that was 24 karat pure bullshit too-- sounded like
the 
  boogey-man's gonna get you. real crap.
 
 
 
 WEll, it WAS announced days before the cremation on the Maharishi
Channel that it would 
 be a strictly tradtional Vedic ceremony, fully segregated by sex. I
try not to crash other 
 people's religious ceremonies if they have a bias against me being
there unless I'm 
 secretly doing an expose on segregated religious ceremonies.
 
 Obviously, the proper thing was to turn around and walk off as it
was a strictly observed 
 men-only ceremony and regardless of the karmic issues for MMY,
refusing to honor the 
 religious ceremonial wishes of the deceased seems less than respectful.
 
 
 When in Rome, and all that.
 
 
 Lawson





[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

  When in Rome, and all that.
  
 
 
 Cultural relativism is very popular today, but not with me.  I am Rome.
 

So if you walk into a Jewish temple munching on a regular pepperoni pizza (meat 
+ cheeze), 
you don't apologize for your ignorance and walk out if someone points out to 
you that you 
are in a kosher establishment?


Sheesh.


Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 sandiego108@ 
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   then he said the words  that pierced me: It would be BAD 
KARMA for
   MAHARISHI for you to be  here, and it would be BAD KARMA FOR 
YOU to
   be here. You must leave...
   
  snip
  
  yep, I thought that was 24 karat pure bullshit too-- sounded 
like the 
  boogey-man's gonna get you. real crap.
 
 
 
 WEll, it WAS announced days before the cremation on the Maharishi 
Channel that it would 
 be a strictly tradtional Vedic ceremony, fully segregated by sex. 
I try not to crash other 
 people's religious ceremonies if they have a bias against me being 
there unless I'm 
 secretly doing an expose on segregated religious ceremonies.
 
 Obviously, the proper thing was to turn around and walk off as it 
was a strictly observed 
 men-only ceremony and regardless of the karmic issues for MMY, 
refusing to honor the 
 religious ceremonial wishes of the deceased seems less than 
respectful.
 
 
 When in Rome, and all that.
 
 
 Lawson

No problem with the respect for other cultures, at all, no issue 
there. It was this warning of the possible bad karma that rankled me-
- plays on imagined fears (treats the person spoken  to like a 
child) , vs. just explaining the situation clearly (treats the 
person spoken to like an adult).



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread curtisdeltablues
 So if you walk into a Jewish temple munching on a regular pepperoni
pizza (meat + cheeze),  you don't apologize for your ignorance and
walk out if someone points out to you that you  are in a kosher
establishment?

Again with the relativism. Are you equating religious food practices
with treating woman as second class citizens?  I'm not.  I hang with
an international crowd and am down with all their customs, up to an
not including some of their backward ideas about the value of certain
humans.  Then I stand up like St. Amy Winehouse and say, No, No. No.






--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
   When in Rome, and all that.
   
  
  
  Cultural relativism is very popular today, but not with me.  I am
Rome.
  
 
 So if you walk into a Jewish temple munching on a regular pepperoni
pizza (meat + cheeze), 
 you don't apologize for your ignorance and walk out if someone
points out to you that you 
 are in a kosher establishment?
 
 
 Sheesh.
 
 
 Lawson





[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Again with the relativism. Are you equating religious food 
 practices with treating women as second class citizens?  

Is that bad? I've always treated women as
a religious food experience. Some have even 
thanked me for it. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I've always treated women as
a religious food experience.

Get a checking !




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread dhamiltony2k5




   then he said the words  that pierced me: It would be BAD 
KARMA for
   MAHARISHI for you to be  here, and it would be BAD KARMA FOR 
YOU to
   be here. You must leave...
   
  snip
  
  yep, I thought that was 24 karat pure bullshit too-- sounded 
like the 
  boogey-man's gonna get you. real crap.
 
 
 
 WEll, it WAS announced days before the cremation on the Maharishi 
Channel that it would 
 be a strictly tradtional Vedic ceremony, fully segregated by sex.  
 When in Rome, and all that.
 

Well, nothing in the 'vedic scripture' proscribes this particular 
distinction about funeral rites.  No separation by gender from 
scripture in Shastra and the like, hence this particular funeral part 
about gender Jim-crow is not 'Vedic'.  It was conceived.  

Not vedic, it was just in the choreography and power-tripping of this 
unique event.  Keeping the Westerners at bay in a way too.  The 
Indian movement was respectful when they had to be, but evidently not 
as inclusive.  Inner and outer circles.  You'll notice Nadir Ram 
walked behind and was not in their boat?  

It was just part of the story there.  Nobody stood up for the women 
when it could have been done, except those soldiers later in the 
story.  Probably as likely that nobody wanted to deal with or work 
out the logistics.  So it boiled down to:  Just tell them 
its 'Vedic', and keep them out.  



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread Rick Archer
I’ve been out of the loop on this discussion, but just wanted to mention
that Amma officiated at mass cremations for tsunami victims, and no one
seemed to mind: HYPERLINK
http://www.amritapuri.org/tsunami/smriti.phphttp://www.amritapuri.org/tsun
ami/smriti.php. But then she’s never been a stickler for sexist
“traditions.”


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[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Well, nothing in the 'vedic scripture' proscribes this particular 
 distinction about funeral rites.  No separation by gender from 
 scripture in Shastra and the like, hence this particular funeral part 
 about gender Jim-crow is not 'Vedic'.  It was conceived. 

All the relations present, men and women bow to the dead. Finally the
corpse is put upon a ladder-like bier of bamboo and borne by four
persons on their shoulders to the crematin ground, the priest and the
chief mourner (who holds the sacred fire for burning the dead body)
walking in front of the bier. Women do not accompany a funeral
procession.

http://www.nagpuronline.com/people/rit_hndu.html


 Not vedic, it was just in the choreography and power-tripping of this 
 unique event.  Keeping the Westerners at bay in a way too.  The 
 Indian movement was respectful when they had to be, but evidently not 
 as inclusive.  Inner and outer circles.  You'll notice Nadir Ram 
 walked behind and was not in their boat?  
 
 It was just part of the story there.  Nobody stood up for the women 
 when it could have been done, except those soldiers later in the 
 story.  Probably as likely that nobody wanted to deal with or work 
 out the logistics.  So it boiled down to:  Just tell them 
 its 'Vedic', and keep them out.





[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5
 dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  Well, nothing in the 'vedic scripture' proscribes this particular 
  distinction about funeral rites.  No separation by gender from 
  scripture in Shastra and the like, hence this particular funeral part 
  about gender Jim-crow is not 'Vedic'.  It was conceived. 
 
 All the relations present, men and women bow to the dead. Finally the
 corpse is put upon a ladder-like bier of bamboo and borne by four
 persons on their shoulders to the crematin ground, the priest and the
 chief mourner (who holds the sacred fire for burning the dead body)
 walking in front of the bier. Women do not accompany a funeral
 procession.
 
 http://www.nagpuronline.com/people/rit_hndu.html
 
 
  Not vedic, it was just in the choreography and power-tripping of this 
  unique event.  

That a woman should be allowed to perform the last rites of a Hindu
in one of the most holy places has a special significance. For, the
authorities of Ujjain's Mahaakaal temple duly approved the act. Ashes
from adjoining Shipra Ghat (cremation ground) are used to propitiate
Lord Shiva in the daily morning bhasma aarati (ritual in which ashes
are used) in this famous temple. Around the time Sandhya was
challenging the Hindu custom of not allowing women to enter cremation
grounds, another young woman was setting a similar example in
Allahabad, one of the holiest of holy Hindu pilgrim centres.

http://www.tribuneindia.com/2003/20030914/herworld.htm#4



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread dhamiltony2k5
This is good.  Your encyclo source is saying then that it was a 
traditional Hindu funeral.  Different than Vedic.  

Same thing i got from asking around to other sources.  As in, Vedic 
is based on vedic scripture; and as such, older than the religion of 
Hinduism.  

Hence, the funeral was evidently 'traditional' Hindu, by these 
rites.  Not necessarily Vedic just because they say it was.  Keeping 
women out at Hindu funerals that way evidently is not necessarily 
vedic by this or universally recognized there.  Is Hindu apparently.  
So i am told by people who seem to know these things.  Enlighten me 
some more if you know otherwise.  Thanks for your e-mails.  

Regardless, was odd feeling for people who had come to pay their 
respects.  Western women and Indian women, who had come there  
were 'held back' in areas at a remote location.  

-Doug in FF  



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5
 dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  Well, nothing in the 'vedic scripture' proscribes this particular 
  distinction about funeral rites.  No separation by gender from 
  scripture in Shastra and the like, hence this particular funeral 
part 
  about gender Jim-crow is not 'Vedic'.  It was conceived. 
 
 All the relations present, men and women bow to the dead. Finally 
the
 corpse is put upon a ladder-like bier of bamboo and borne by four
 persons on their shoulders to the crematin ground, the priest and 
the
 chief mourner (who holds the sacred fire for burning the dead body)
 walking in front of the bier. Women do not accompany a funeral
 procession.
 
 http://www.nagpuronline.com/people/rit_hndu.html
 
 
  Not vedic, it was just in the choreography and power-tripping of 
this 
  unique event.  Keeping the Westerners at bay in a way too.  The 
  Indian movement was respectful when they had to be, but evidently 
not 
  as inclusive.  Inner and outer circles.  You'll notice Nadir Ram 
  walked behind and was not in their boat?  
  
  It was just part of the story there.  Nobody stood up for the 
women 
  when it could have been done, except those soldiers later in the 
  story.  Probably as likely that nobody wanted to deal with or 
work 
  out the logistics.  So it boiled down to:  Just tell them 
  its 'Vedic', and keep them out.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-06 Thread m2smart4u2000
Who specifically told you to leave?
Was it a westerner? That would seem inappropriate in India


FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5 [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 This is good.  Your encyclo source is saying then that it was a 
 traditional Hindu funeral.  Different than Vedic.  
 
 Same thing i got from asking around to other sources.  As in, 
Vedic 
 is based on vedic scripture; and as such, older than the religion 
of 
 Hinduism.  
 
 Hence, the funeral was evidently 'traditional' Hindu, by these 
 rites.  Not necessarily Vedic just because they say it was.  
Keeping 
 women out at Hindu funerals that way evidently is not necessarily 
 vedic by this or universally recognized there.  Is Hindu 
apparently.  
 So i am told by people who seem to know these things.  Enlighten 
me 
 some more if you know otherwise.  Thanks for your e-mails.  
 
 Regardless, was odd feeling for people who had come to pay their 
 respects.  Western women and Indian women, who had come there  
 were 'held back' in areas at a remote location.  
 
 -Doug in FF  
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael soulchild@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5
  dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
  
   Well, nothing in the 'vedic scripture' proscribes this 
particular 
   distinction about funeral rites.  No separation by gender from 
   scripture in Shastra and the like, hence this particular 
funeral 
 part 
   about gender Jim-crow is not 'Vedic'.  It was conceived. 
  
  All the relations present, men and women bow to the dead. 
Finally 
 the
  corpse is put upon a ladder-like bier of bamboo and borne by four
  persons on their shoulders to the crematin ground, the priest 
and 
 the
  chief mourner (who holds the sacred fire for burning the dead 
body)
  walking in front of the bier. Women do not accompany a funeral
  procession.
  
  http://www.nagpuronline.com/people/rit_hndu.html
  
  
   Not vedic, it was just in the choreography and power-tripping 
of 
 this 
   unique event.  Keeping the Westerners at bay in a way too.  
The 
   Indian movement was respectful when they had to be, but 
evidently 
 not 
   as inclusive.  Inner and outer circles.  You'll notice Nadir 
Ram 
   walked behind and was not in their boat?  
   
   It was just part of the story there.  Nobody stood up for the 
 women 
   when it could have been done, except those soldiers later in 
the 
   story.  Probably as likely that nobody wanted to deal with or 
 work 
   out the logistics.  So it boiled down to:  Just tell them 
   its 'Vedic', and keep them out.
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 9:09 AM, dhamiltony2k5 wrote:
 
  Then another guy came running towards us and I avoided him 
seeing my
  face, I knew him.. and I didn't want anymore of his judgements, 
about
  me being there..He started yelling at Meadow. He said it was 
announced
  to all the ladies in the hall that they could not come. Meadow 
said to
  him :  Who are You? You are being so rude to me, I just arrived 
a
  couple of hours ago, and I didn't get to go in the hall, I never 
heard
  the announcement. I felt a pinch... I had not heard the 
announcement
  directly, but I knew that was the case from all the talk around 
the
  grounds. I FELT OBLIGATED TO RELINQUISH MY STRONG DESIRE AND
  RETREAT... I said to Meadow: Let's just go, come on...: She 
didn't
  want to leave. She wanted me to stay... But I couldn't... If 
there was
  even the SLIGHTEST, MINUTEST, CHANCE that MAHARISHI could get BAD
  KARMA from me being there, how could I possibly stay? How selfish
  would that have been???
 
  Meadow gave in finally and we started to leave but the guards 
wouldn't
  let us. Let  go inside, it's OK. I told one guard that we were 
just
  told that we couldn't come in and we didn't want to create a 
problem.
  He and several others wouldn't hear of it... THEY WANTED US TO GO
  IN...THEY WERE INSISTING...
 
  So what to do? Whose voice was the voice of Divinity that we were
  suppose to listen to, the guards, or the movement guys???  A 
TOUGH
  CALL FOR SHIVA MA...
  I try to take my cues innocently from NATURE... DIVINITY in the
  FLESH... Whoever is in front of me speaking, I try to take as the
  words coming from GOD.
  Well MY INNER VOICE finally said GO So I went.
 
  We held hands as we sadly started down the stairs. We stopped 
about
  halfway down, at the spot where we had stood holding on to the 
wooden
  pole for dear life, and just closed our eyes and went into THE
  PROFOUND SILENCE...
 
 Why does this whole thing have a sort of Cinderella-at-the-ball 
kind  
 of feel to me?  Only in this case the good fairy is a bad fairy, 
and  
 Prince Charming never shows up.
 
 Sal

very dramatic and ungrounded is what I got out of it.



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:


 yep-- in situations that you describe, I always end up feeling 
 sorriest for the asshole. After all, you can work out and get over 
 the experience, whereas the person that yelled at you number one has 
 to live being like that and two will one day realize that his 
 supposed closeness to Maharishi doesn't shield him from his 
 miserable life.

I sort of wondered, why no women where there, and thought its one of
those patriarchical movement rules, but later heard that its a general
religious Hindu injunction for funerals. The movement had built a sort
of an alternative altar-room for women in the hall where Maharishis
body was kept for the last 24 hours, and men were prohibited to go
there. I think this was a nice move. The ascent to the burning place
was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women. 




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Some of those Purusha guys are the biggest assholes. I remember 
during the 
 Taste of Utopia when I wanted to see Maharishi up close in the 
field house 
 and I has very bad vision and so I went into the purusha group to 
see him 
 and one of them asked me, Are you on purusha? To which I 
replied, Yes. 
 And then he yelled at me with utter righeousness, You are a 
liar!  he 
 yelled it at me and I felt so shaken that I went to the back of 
the hall and 
 forgot about trying to get close to Maharishi again during that 
time. Last 
 time he came to the US. I had never been so close to such self 
righteousness 
 in my entire life, and not since. Powerful. Assholeness.
 
yep-- in situations that you describe, I always end up feeling 
sorriest for the asshole. After all, you can work out and get over 
the experience, whereas the person that yelled at you number one has 
to live being like that and two will one day realize that his 
supposed closeness to Maharishi doesn't shield him from his 
miserable life.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:01 AM, Michael wrote:


I sort of wondered, why no women where there, and thought its one of
those patriarchical movement rules, but later heard that its a general
religious Hindu injunction for funerals.


IOW, patriarchal and misogynist--you had it right the first time.  As  
Curtis and others have pointed out several times, hiding behind  
religion and slapping the term Vedic over everything doesn't make  
abusive traditions any less so.


Sal




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:01 AM, Michael wrote:

The movement had built a sort of an alternative altar-room for  
women in the hall where Maharishisbody was kept for the last 24  
hours, and men were prohibited to go there.


How thoughtful of them.


I think this was a nice move. The ascent to the burning place
was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.


Let them decide that, OK, Bonzo? Obviously some thought they could   
ascend. And Indian women  apparently weren't allowed either.


Sal




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Kirk
. The ascent to the burning place
 was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.

---Yeah, their pussies get in the way. Oh wait, maybe they'll bleed on 
something.  Or more likely some devout Hindu will get a horrible erection 
and inadvertantly cum themself to death.  Or not having coks they can't 
muster the testosterone necessary for the long hike those twenty or so steps 
up the pire.

Or maybe the urge to self immolate will be so strong given the natural 
tendency for Hindu women to just get all burned up over someone. Yep, so 
many really good reasons for women and men to be separated. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:01 AM, Michael wrote:
 
  I sort of wondered, why no women where there, and thought its one of
  those patriarchical movement rules, but later heard that its a general
  religious Hindu injunction for funerals.
 
 IOW, patriarchal and misogynist--you had it right the first time.  

I didn't mean to say that the rules are less patriarchal due to being
 Hindu rules - and I don't think the movement is really free to do
what they want in this respect, would it have been there wouldn't have
been a cremation in the first place. I think the Shankaracharya - who
still is head to this particular tradition, has a big say in this.

As  
 Curtis and others have pointed out several times, hiding behind  
 religion and slapping the term Vedic over everything doesn't make  
 abusive traditions any less so.

Not what I said, nor did I even use the word Vedic at all - I
deliberately used Hindu. So please get this right madam - I am not
saying Hindu things are right, I was just saying its a Hindu rule
rather than a movement rule, thats all.Its so heard here to say
anything without being immediately put into some kind of a box or
being misunderstood.

You can't just get a Hindu funeral with all the chanting etc and then
change the rules - except of course if you want to reform Hinduism in
a mayor way. 

When I was in south India, this was a big issue with the Ayyapa temple
in Sabarimala. Its a temple in Kerala where only men are allowed to
visit, and the must have a vow of celibacy for a period of 3 month.
Women from 10 - 50 are currently disallowed to visit the temple. After
the Venkateshwara temple in Tirupati, this is the 2nd most visited
temple in India, with local copies in almost all cities. 
Alone Chennai has 3 Ayyapa temples

see http://www.hindu.com/2008/02/08/stories/2008020859321400.htm
New Delhi: The Kerala government on Thursday filed an affidavit in
the Supreme Court favouring entry of women of all ages into the
Sabarimala Ayyappa temple without restriction. At present, women in
the age group 10-50 are not allowed.

Ayyapa http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayyappan
http://www.sabarimala.org/



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:01 AM, Michael wrote:
 
  The movement had built a sort of an alternative altar-room for  
  women in the hall where Maharishisbody was kept for the last 24  
  hours, and men were prohibited to go there.
 
 How thoughtful of them.

Yes, indeed it was thoughtful.

  I think this was a nice move. The ascent to the burning place
  was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.
 
 Let them decide that, OK, Bonzo? 

Who's Bonzo?

 Obviously some thought they could   
 ascend. And Indian women  apparently weren't allowed either.

Well I didn't keep anyone away if thats what you mean. Why is it so
difficult to share some observations without being attacked for it.
And isn't ascend the English word for going up? From latin as-cendere,
as opposed to transcendere, going beyond.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:35 AM, Michael wrote:


Its so heard here to say
anything without being immediately put into some kind of a box or
being misunderstood.


So think before you talk, instead of coming across as an arrogant  
asshole. It was you, I believe, who said the ascent would be too  
tough for western women, or something to that effect.  Who are you to  
make (or in this case, justify) decisions for others?  Obviously, the  
women who wanted to go didn't think it would be too tough.  But you  
or they know better.


You can't just get a Hindu funeral with all the chanting etc and  
then change the rules - except of course if you want to reform  
Hinduism in a mayor way.


Yeah, I'm sure reforming Hinduism is high on everyone's to-do list.   
All they wanted to do was say goodbye to MMY.  Why is that so hard to  
understand.


Sal




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:41 AM, Michael wrote:


Well I didn't keep anyone away if thats what you mean. Why is it so
difficult to share some observations without being attacked for it.


You did more than share, you rationalized the practice of  
discrimination.


Sal




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 . The ascent to the burning place
  was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.
 
 ---Yeah, their pussies get in the way. Oh wait, maybe they'll bleed on 
 something.  Or more likely some devout Hindu will get a horrible
erection 
 and inadvertantly cum themself to death.  Or not having coks they can't 
 muster the testosterone necessary for the long hike those twenty or
so steps 
 up the pire.
 
 Or maybe the urge to self immolate will be so strong given the natural 
 tendency for Hindu women to just get all burned up over someone.
Yep, so 
 many really good reasons for women and men to be separated.


I said MOST western women. It was an almost stampede. I am not
exaggerating, it was the toughest I was ever in. Actually I like women
more who can handle such a thing, but most movement women I know
wouldn't. Going up those steps meant that the whole crowd started
swinging back and forth as it met against resistence of more people
already standing there, and you know there is something called
gravity. I must ask you, when have you last been in a crowd like this?
Well I guess you prefer to sit at home in front of your TV or computer
and give your live commentary from a save distance.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Kirk

 see http://www.hindu.com/2008/02/08/stories/2008020859321400.htm
 New Delhi: The Kerala government on Thursday filed an affidavit in
 the Supreme Court favouring entry of women of all ages into the
 Sabarimala Ayyappa temple without restriction. At present, women in
 the age group 10-50 are not allowed.


If Hindu gods listen to rules of democracies then why couldn't Maharishi?




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
  see http://www.hindu.com/2008/02/08/stories/2008020859321400.htm
  New Delhi: The Kerala government on Thursday filed an affidavit in
  the Supreme Court favouring entry of women of all ages into the
  Sabarimala Ayyappa temple without restriction. At present, women in
  the age group 10-50 are not allowed.
 
 
 If Hindu gods listen to rules of democracies then why couldn't
Maharishi?


Well, ask Maharishi if you still can, and then the legislation is not
yet through. Also I am not an Ayyappa guy, the temples I go to allow
women.




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 So please get this right madam - I am not
 saying Hindu things are right, I was just saying its a
 Hindu rule
 rather than a movement rule, thats all.
 
 Not a TMO rule?  

No, a Hindu rule, I asked other people about it.

 That's why Purusha was so passionate
 about the presence of women, rather than apologetic? 

Can't speak for that guy and don't want to.

 And that's why there are no women in high places in
 the 
 TMO?

These are movement rules, yes, but not he above.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Mar 5, 2008, at 12:08 PM, Michael wrote:


You did more than share, you rationalized the practice of
discrimination.


No, I didn't. I just pointed to the source.


Michael, thee were your exact words:
The ascent to the burning place
was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.

That's rationalizing a discriminatory practice.  And you did it again  
here:

I said MOST western women. It was an almost stampede. I am not
exaggerating, it was the toughest I was ever in. Actually I like women
more who can handle such a thing, but most movement women I know
wouldn't

Let them decide that, is all I'm saying.


And then I reported
something you didn't know yet, even though its just a minor detail.
And then I didn't take a stand - and that seems to drive you mad.


Projection, Michael.

Sal




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:35 AM, Michael wrote:
 
  Its so heard here to say
  anything without being immediately put into some kind of a box or
  being misunderstood.
 
 So think before you talk, instead of coming across as an arrogant  
 asshole. 

And I had thought there was something like a code for basic courtesy
on this board.

It was you, I believe, who said the ascent would be too  
 tough for western women, or something to that effect.  Who are you to  
 make (or in this case, justify) decisions for others?  Obviously, the  
 women who wanted to go didn't think it would be too tough.  But you  
 or they know better.

I said too tough for MOST women I know in the movement based on my 20
year old experience with Mother Divine. It would have been so simple
to just actually read what I wrote instead of just assuming that I was
all for those rules and was maybe even setting them up, no hey, I must
have been this rude Purusha guy himself (wasn't I Purusha once, and
aren't they all the same?) or I must have been at least in a sort of
telepathic rapport with him. So much about projection. And then I even
have the wits of defending myself to a feminist, a sure sign of being
a chauvinist asshole, what else could I be? ;-)

  You can't just get a Hindu funeral with all the chanting etc and  
  then change the rules - except of course if you want to reform  
  Hinduism in a mayor way.
 
 Yeah, I'm sure reforming Hinduism is high on everyone's to-do list.   
 All they wanted to do was say goodbye to MMY.  Why is that so hard to  
 understand.

It is easy to understand, Sal, but its just as easy to understand that
I didn't make up the rules, nor could I change them. I was actually
just glad that I was allowed there myself and not chased away by
either a movement guy, or some Punjabi policeman.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Angela Mailander

So please get this right madam - I am not
saying Hindu things are right, I was just saying its a
Hindu rule
rather than a movement rule, thats all.

Not a TMO rule?  That's why Purusha was so passionate
about the presence of women, rather than apologetic? 
And that's why there are no women in high places in
the 
TMO?

Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger.yahoo.com 


[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 11:41 AM, Michael wrote:
 
  Well I didn't keep anyone away if thats what you mean. Why is it so
  difficult to share some observations without being attacked for it.
 
 You did more than share, you rationalized the practice of  
 discrimination.

No, I didn't. I just pointed to the source. And then I reported
something you didn't know yet, even though its just a minor detail.
And then I didn't take a stand - and that seems to drive you mad. I
just said how things there were, not what I think how they should be.
Its mute to me, as I can't change them, so no need for me to judge and
evaluate in a sort of an empty space.




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 12:08 PM, Michael wrote:
 
  You did more than share, you rationalized the practice of
  discrimination.
 
  No, I didn't. I just pointed to the source.
 
 Michael, thee were your exact words:
 The ascent to the burning place
 was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.
 
 That's rationalizing a discriminatory practice.  And you did it again  
 here:
 I said MOST western women. It was an almost stampede. I am not
 exaggerating, it was the toughest I was ever in. Actually I like women
 more who can handle such a thing, but most movement women I know
 wouldn't
 
 Let them decide that, is all I'm saying.

I am all for that, but ITS NOT MY DECISION. I'm not in charge. I just
said that many, actually most women I know wouldn't even have tried
it, nor would there have been many western men either. (The Purushas
were aready sitting up there)

  And then I reported
  something you didn't know yet, even though its just a minor detail.
  And then I didn't take a stand - and that seems to drive you mad.
 
 Projection, Michael.

And when you say I come across as an arrogant asshole, that must have
been projection as well I guess.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Kirk

 Well I guess you prefer to sit at home in front of your TV or computer
 and give your live commentary from a save distance.

-Yeah. It's true I prefer not to be part of stampedes. But now that you 
mention it, I was just one of those poor shmucks who could not afford to 
traipse across the globe so ooops, maybe it's due to socioeconomic factors 
like not one single self serving asshole in the Movement thought to try to 
help other lesser beings go pay tributes. And then all those smug smiles and 
faces and how lucky it is to be so filthy rich and wonderful. Geez. 
Whatever. 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Vaj


On Mar 5, 2008, at 1:35 PM, Michael wrote:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 12:08 PM, Michael wrote:

  You did more than share, you rationalized the practice of
  discrimination.
 
  No, I didn't. I just pointed to the source.

 Michael, thee were your exact words:
 The ascent to the burning place
 was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.

 That's rationalizing a discriminatory practice. And you did it again
 here:
 I said MOST western women. It was an almost stampede. I am not
 exaggerating, it was the toughest I was ever in. Actually I like  
women

 more who can handle such a thing, but most movement women I know
 wouldn't

 Let them decide that, is all I'm saying.

I am all for that, but ITS NOT MY DECISION. I'm not in charge. I just
said that many, actually most women I know wouldn't even have tried
it, nor would there have been many western men either. (The Purushas
were aready sitting up there)

  And then I reported
  something you didn't know yet, even though its just a minor  
detail.

  And then I didn't take a stand - and that seems to drive you mad.

 Projection, Michael.

And when you say I come across as an arrogant asshole, that must have
been projection as well I guess.



The moral of this story is: ALWAYS bring marshmallows to a barbecue.  
It's a sure in, weird caste laws or not.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Kirk
talk, instead of coming across as an arrogant  
 asshole. 
 
 And I had thought there was something like a code for basic courtesy
 on this board.

--Assumption of the decade.


 
It was you, I believe, who said the ascent would be too  
 tough for western women, or something to that effect.  Who are you to  
 make (or in this case, justify) decisions for others?  Obviously, the  
 women who wanted to go didn't think it would be too tough.  But you  
 or they know better.
 
 I said too tough for MOST women I know in the movement based on my 20
 year old experience with Mother Divine. 


--Whoah, Isn't she a bit young?  


It would have been so simple
 to just actually read what I wrote instead of just assuming that I was
 all for those rules and was maybe even setting them up, no hey, I must
 have been this rude Purusha guy himself (wasn't I Purusha once, and
 aren't they all the same?) or I must have been at least in a sort of
 telepathic rapport with him. So much about projection. And then I even
 have the wits of defending myself to a feminist, a sure sign of being
 a chauvinist asshole, what else could I be? ;-)

Touchy touchy.


[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread curtisdeltablues
then he said the words  that pierced me: It would be BAD KARMA for
MAHARISHI for you to be  here, and it would be BAD KARMA FOR YOU to
be here. You must leave...

Great!  One bitch doesn't know her place, and now Maharishi is
gunna miss seconds on ice cream night in heaven for eternity!  Nice
work ladies.  Oh the joy this guy must have felt upholding a made up
rule over a woman.  This was for every chick in high school who
wouldn't give him the time of day.

As our blessed Shankara from the most holy tradition on earth used to
like to say: (after the first beer I guess) A wise man views women as
corpses.  (After the third beer he was in the waitress's face with:
You should be a model baby, are you modeling?  What, no?  I've got to
introduce you to my closest friends in L.A. they got Gisele Bündchen
her Victoria Secret gig and I can totally hook you up...)

When I think of the sacrifices women in the movement made fulfilling
Maharishi's dreams, alongside their betters (er that would be the
Sneetches with stars on their bellies, or maybe a bit lower...)

The Sneetches, by Dr. Seuss

Now, the Star-Bell Sneetches had bellies with stars.
The Plain-Belly Sneetches had none upon thars.
Those stars weren't so big. They were really so small.
You might think such a thing wouldn't matter at all.

But, because they had stars, all the Star-Belly Sneetches
Would brag, We're the best kind of Sneetch on the beaches.
With their snoots in the air, they would sniff and they'd snort
We'll have nothing to do with the Plain-Belly sort!
And, whenever they met some, when they were out walking,
They'd hike right on past them without even talking.

When the Star-Belly children went out to play ball,
Could a Plain Belly get in the game? Not at all.
You only could play if your bellies had stars
And the Plain-Belly children had none upon thars.

When the Star Belly Sneetches had frankfurter roasts
Or picnics or parties or marshmallow toasts,
They never invited the Plain-Belly Sneetches
They left them out cold, in the dark of the beaches.
They kept them away. Never let them come near.
And that's how they treated them year after year.

Then ONE day, it seems while the Plain-Belly Sneetches
Were moping and doping alone on the beaches,
Just sitting there wishing their bellies had stars,
A stranger zipped up in the strangest of cars!

My friends, he announced in a voice clear and clean,
My name is Sylvester McMonkey McBean.
And I've heard of Your troubles. I've heard you're unhappy.
But I can fix that, I'm the Fix-It-Up Chappie.

I've come here to help you.
I have what you need.
And my prices are low. And I work with great speed.
And my work is one hundred per cent guaranteed!

Then, quickly, Sylvester McMonkey McBean
Put together a very peculiar machine.
And he said, You want stars like a Star-Belly Sneetch?
My friends, you can have them for three dollars each!

Just pay me your money and hop right aboard!
So they clambered inside. Then the big machine roared.
And it klonked. And it bonked. And it jerked. And it berked.
And it bopped them about. But the thing really worked!
When the Plain-Belly Sneetches popped out, they had stars!
They actually did. They had stars upon thars!

Then they yelled at the ones who had stars at the start,
We're still the best Sneetches and they are the worst.
But now, how in the world will we know, they all frowned,
If which kind is what, or the other way round?

Then up came McBean with a very sly wink.
And he said, Things are not quite as bad as you think.
So you don't know who's who. That is perfectly true.
But come with me, friends. Do you know what I'll do?
I'll make you, again, the best Sneetches on the beaches.
And all it will cost you is ten dollars eaches.

Belly stars are no longer in style, said McBean.
What you need is a trip through my Star-Off Machine.
This wondrous contraption will take OFF your stars
so you won't look like Sneetches that have them on thars.
And that handy machine working very precisely
Removed all the stars from their tummies quite nicely.

Then, with snoots in the air, they paraded about.
And they opened their beaks and they let out a shout,
We know who is who! Now there Isn't a doubt.
The best kind of Sneetches are Sneetches without!

Then, of course, those with stars got all frightfully mad.
To be wearing a star was frightfully bad.
Then, of course, old Sylvester McMonkey McBean
invited THEM into his Star-Off Machine.

Then, of course from THEN on, as you probably guess,
Things really got into a horrible mess.

All the rest of that day, on those wild screaming beaches,
The Fix-It-Up Chappie kept fixing up Sneetches.
Off again! On again! In again! Out again!
Through the machines they raced round and about again,

Changing their stars every minute or two. They kept paying money.
They kept running through until the Plain nor the Star-Bellies knew
Whether this one was that one or that one was this one. Or which one
Was what one or what one was who.

Then, when every last 

[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
  Well I guess you prefer to sit at home in front of your TV or computer
  and give your live commentary from a save distance.
 
 -Yeah. It's true I prefer not to be part of stampedes. But now
that you 
 mention it, I was just one of those poor shmucks who could not
afford to 
 traipse across the globe so ooops, maybe it's due to socioeconomic
factors 
 like not one single self serving asshole in the Movement thought to
try to 
 help other lesser beings go pay tributes. And then all those smug
smiles and 
 faces and how lucky it is to be so filthy rich and wonderful. Geez. 
 Whatever.

So you say, with all the opinions you have given here recently, you
would have gone if it would have cost you just, lets say 200 bucks?
Well, I was already in India, and had to take only inland flights, so
it was cheaper to me, then it would have been to you. But there was a
risk of being too late, not getting flights in time, no flights to
Allahabad or Varanasi on the net) two days in buses, planes, cars,
with basically no sleep, being in a cheap hotel in a foreign city,
standing 8 hours in a traffic queue, freezing virtually, getting out
of the car at 6 am and starting to walk 20 kms before Allahabad,
finding a rikshaw with 2 boys not speaking english, that could
navigate through the traffic, driving to the other side of the river,
just to realize that we are totally lost, going back, getting a basic
sense of direction, finally arriving at 8.30am and getting in the
crowd right away, getting back to ffl to be smacked of politically
incorrect statements - what a wonderful life for us filthy rich.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Mar 5, 2008, at 12:35 PM, Michael wrote:


Let them decide that, is all I'm saying.


I am all for that, but ITS NOT MY DECISION.


Why not?  Couldn't you have said something?


I'm not in charge.


Couldn't you have spoken up anyway?  Or did you agree with the  
treatment those women were getting?  Or were you just following  
orders, so to speak?


I just said that many, actually most women I know wouldn't even  
have tried it,


But apparently *these* women did.  Do you even read your own emails,  
Michael?


nor would there have been many western men either. (The Purushas  
were aready sitting up there)


How did they get there--magic carpet?  Presumably either they walked  
or used some kind of powered vehicle to get there, the same way  the  
women could have.


All I'm saying is, don't rationalize or tacitly condone  bad  
behavior, as you seem to be doing.  All that is necessary for evil  
(or in this case, condescension) to succeed, is for good people to do  
nothing.  Paraphrased.


Sal




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Kirk
I would have loved to go. I have never been to India, never having had two 
dimes to rub together.

- Original Message - 
From: Michael [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, March 05, 2008 1:42 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


  Well I guess you prefer to sit at home in front of your TV or computer
  and give your live commentary from a save distance.

 -Yeah. It's true I prefer not to be part of stampedes. But now
 that you
 mention it, I was just one of those poor shmucks who could not
 afford to
 traipse across the globe so ooops, maybe it's due to socioeconomic
 factors
 like not one single self serving asshole in the Movement thought to
 try to
 help other lesser beings go pay tributes. And then all those smug
 smiles and
 faces and how lucky it is to be so filthy rich and wonderful. Geez.
 Whatever.

 So you say, with all the opinions you have given here recently, you
 would have gone if it would have cost you just, lets say 200 bucks?
 Well, I was already in India, and had to take only inland flights, so
 it was cheaper to me, then it would have been to you. But there was a
 risk of being too late, not getting flights in time, no flights to
 Allahabad or Varanasi on the net) two days in buses, planes, cars,
 with basically no sleep, being in a cheap hotel in a foreign city,
 standing 8 hours in a traffic queue, freezing virtually, getting out
 of the car at 6 am and starting to walk 20 kms before Allahabad,
 finding a rikshaw with 2 boys not speaking english, that could
 navigate through the traffic, driving to the other side of the river,
 just to realize that we are totally lost, going back, getting a basic
 sense of direction, finally arriving at 8.30am and getting in the
 crowd right away, getting back to ffl to be smacked of politically
 incorrect statements - what a wonderful life for us filthy rich.



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[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Mar 5, 2008, at 12:35 PM, Michael wrote:
 
  Let them decide that, is all I'm saying.
 
  I am all for that, but ITS NOT MY DECISION.
 
 Why not?  Couldn't you have said something?
 
  I'm not in charge.
 
 Couldn't you have spoken up anyway?  

To whom? I was in a crowd from where you couldn't even move. I didn't
get in close proximity of any movement official. They had an area of
there own, with chairs, ribbons etc, opposite of where I was amongst
Indians. I'm not a movement person, have no dome badge, I'm a complete
outsider. (but for you its probably just another rationalization)

 Or did you agree with the  
 treatment those women were getting? 

I'm not sure you are aware of the situation: Do you think that I
eye-witnessed the occassion? I just much later realized  that there
were no women. There were only Hindi speaking policemen all around, or
Indians, it was just a pushing and shoveling from beginning to end.
The story that was told I read here.

 Or were you just following  
 orders, so to speak?

Which orders? I followed the crowd, trying to stay in all the time.
 
  I just said that many, actually most women I know wouldn't even  
  have tried it,
 
 But apparently *these* women did.  Do you even read your own emails,  
 Michael?

No, I write them ;-) But I don't really see the contradiction between
my statement and yours. That these women did it, is great, but IMO
MOST movement women, especially Mother Divines, wouldn't really even
want to be in such a crowd.
 
  nor would there have been many western men either. (The Purushas  
  were aready sitting up there)
 
 How did they get there--magic carpet?  Presumably either they walked  
 or used some kind of powered vehicle to get there, the same way  the  
 women could have.

Obviously they went there before everybody else - the Rajas and
Purushas were not in the procession. Where this was leading up to, and
who already was waiting there, I only realized after we (the crowd)
had settled there, in a tight position, half kneeling sitting, half
standing.
 
 All I'm saying is, don't rationalize or tacitly condone  bad  
 behavior, as you seem to be doing. 

Thanks for the advice. But to me this whole rant of you simply sounds
a bit too absolutist, looking from the top so to say, at a situation
you have obviously no idea about. (which is okay in itself, how could
you.) Again, I was glad to be allowed there myself, no being sent away
by police or movement people, being able to get as close as I could
get to the event. I could not have talked to police-men, as they were
not speaking English. Neither could I speak to any movement people
until after the whole thing was over, as they were on the opposite
site, closed off by ribbons, sitting on chairs. Nor would they even
have listened to me , a stranger, and outsider, who was inside a
movement building last 20 years ago. So I didn't take this to be an
issue, as it would have been vain. I simply observed. Thats all. I was
in witnessing mode. Who am I to tell the movement people what they
should do? Its not my movement anymore. I have a different master, who
is btw. female, a REAL Mother Divine.

Maybe by the same token I should have spoken to all the muslim women
in India, to remove their hijab, but then again, I don't speak their
language, and they would be embarrased if a foreign man speaks to
them, and they would feel this to be an intrusion into their religion,
part of the white man showing his superiority in matters moral and
ethic to the rest of the world.




[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 then he said the words  that pierced me: It would be BAD KARMA for
 MAHARISHI for you to be  here, and it would be BAD KARMA FOR YOU to
 be here. You must leave...
 
snip

yep, I thought that was 24 karat pure bullshit too-- sounded like the 
boogey-man's gonna get you. real crap.



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I would have loved to go. I have never been to India, never having
had two 
 dimes to rub together.

I believe you! I love India too, its like an LSD trip (well I don't
know how that is, but I think its like being in India) There were two
American girls who came last year and they said there is nothing which
can prepare you for that experience. Probably from the outside it is
comparable to Mexico, but then the people are different, the religion,
the sounds, the colors, its all a unique blend. And then its saints...



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunshine@
 wrote:
 
  On Mar 5, 2008, at 12:08 PM, Michael wrote:
  
   You did more than share, you rationalized the practice of
   discrimination.
  
   No, I didn't. I just pointed to the source.
  
  Michael, thee were your exact words:
  The ascent to the burning place
  was a tough one anyway, not really suited for most western women.
  
  That's rationalizing a discriminatory practice.  And you did it 
again  
  here:
  I said MOST western women. It was an almost stampede. I am not
  exaggerating, it was the toughest I was ever in. Actually I like 
women
  more who can handle such a thing, but most movement women I know
  wouldn't
  
  Let them decide that, is all I'm saying.
 
 I am all for that, but ITS NOT MY DECISION. I'm not in charge. I 
just
 said that many, actually most women I know wouldn't even have tried
 it, nor would there have been many western men either. (The 
Purushas
 were aready sitting up there)
 
   And then I reported
   something you didn't know yet, even though its just a minor 
detail.
   And then I didn't take a stand - and that seems to drive you 
mad.
  
  Projection, Michael.
 
 And when you say I come across as an arrogant asshole, that must 
have
 been projection as well I guess.

you sound like a decent soul passing on some information to me. 
thanks.



[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Michael
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sandiego108 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

   Projection, Michael.
  
  And when you say I come across as an arrogant asshole, that must 
 have
  been projection as well I guess.
 
 you sound like a decent soul passing on some information to me. 
 thanks.

Thank you. I already got into self-doubt.

I actually rather just narrate things happening than giving judgements
and evaluations. Nobody is really waiting for my opinion I think - and
why exactly must I have an opinion about everything?




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Kirk
I just love India. I have had pujas done at a huge assortment of temples via 
online services. Just the idea of being able to worship pretty much 
anything. I had the five elemental temples fully abhishekaed last year. What 
a boost to the imagination. I just would love to feel all of those vibes 
first hand and find out if it was all in my mind or what?! Buddhist lamas 
want me to go to Nepal and Tibet and Dharamsala and Sikkim and Bhutan, but 
Buddhist that I am I am just so much more into simple goodness of worship of 
things. It just seems so pretty. I think of India like being a really sexy 
sweetheart, while those other places are like good hearted brothers. I can't 
wait to go someday. First I will go to Vizag, Calcutta, and Assam, and visit 
Devipuram, Khalighat, and Kamakhya. And also probably Babadham and the very 
powerful Tarapeeth.

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Sent: Wednesday, March 05, 2008 3:13 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I would have loved to go. I have never been to India, never having
 had two
 dimes to rub together.

 I believe you! I love India too, its like an LSD trip (well I don't
 know how that is, but I think its like being in India) There were two
 American girls who came last year and they said there is nothing which
 can prepare you for that experience. Probably from the outside it is
 comparable to Mexico, but then the people are different, the religion,
 the sounds, the colors, its all a unique blend. And then its saints...



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[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation

2008-03-05 Thread Mr. Ed
India vs. LSD

 I latched on to that comparison immediately..Both are full 
of vibrant colors, in both trips everything seems intensely 
significant, and then there's the bugs crawling on 
ya...sorrya little off topic, but unfortunate nonetheless.

 Seriously while I don't know that the author of the Gita 
intended for it to pave the way for the caste system, so many great 
ideas, so much inspiration and beauty have come from the subcontinent 
that I'd thoroughly dig a visit there. Any culture that could produce 
Buddha is cool by me.Has anyone else made the connection of 
Buddha being to Hinduism what Jesus was to Judaism? Or am I just non 
retardedly challenged? Not entirely the same.but they were both 
well versed in their culture's religious traditions but both kinda 
said..this might be simpler than all this superfluous ceremonial 
stuff yer doin. And in both cases their followers created their own 
superfluous ceremonial mummery and far out religious groups and 
organizations that are often hard to connect with the life and actual 
teachings of these two people. Don't get me wrong.I LOVE what 
Japan has done with Buddhism..Like the Nichiren Sect that teaches 
it's adherents to chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo because these syllables 
are so sacred that merely uttering them brings you into alignment 
with the deeper underlying energy of the universe

.I KNOW! I'm like, what a coincidence! WHere have I heard that 
kinda thing?

By the way, I would never advocate the use of ANY drugs.I've 
NEVER done any of them so I'm SURE they have NOTHING to 
offer. :) I've 'heard' that LSD makes everything colorful and 
significant.and makes you think you've got bugs crawling on 
ya.Just remember..If drugs were Flinstone Vitamins, LSD 
would be the 'Great Gazoo'.NEVER mix yer Gazoos with yer 
Dinos..justjus' DON'T...
Now, if religions were Flinstone Vitaminsyeah, this is 
stoopit.good night y'all.




  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 I just love India. I have had pujas done at a huge assortment of 
temples via 
 online services. Just the idea of being able to worship pretty much 
 anything. I had the five elemental temples fully abhishekaed last 
year. What 
 a boost to the imagination. I just would love to feel all of those 
vibes 
 first hand and find out if it was all in my mind or what?! Buddhist 
lamas 
 want me to go to Nepal and Tibet and Dharamsala and Sikkim and 
Bhutan, but 
 Buddhist that I am I am just so much more into simple goodness of 
worship of 
 things. It just seems so pretty. I think of India like being a 
really sexy 
 sweetheart, while those other places are like good hearted 
brothers. I can't 
 wait to go someday. First I will go to Vizag, Calcutta, and Assam, 
and visit 
 Devipuram, Khalighat, and Kamakhya. And also probably Babadham and 
the very 
 powerful Tarapeeth.
 
 - Original Message - 
 From: Michael [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Wednesday, March 05, 2008 3:13 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: FW: eye-witness at the cremation
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Kirk kirk_bernhardt@ 
wrote:
 
  I would have loved to go. I have never been to India, never 
having
  had two
  dimes to rub together.
 
  I believe you! I love India too, its like an LSD trip (well I 
don't
  know how that is, but I think its like being in India) There were 
two
  American girls who came last year and they said there is nothing 
which
  can prepare you for that experience. Probably from the outside it 
is
  comparable to Mexico, but then the people are different, the 
religion,
  the sounds, the colors, its all a unique blend. And then its 
saints...
 
 
 
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