[FairfieldLife] Re: to Emily

2014-06-14 Thread emilymae...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Dear Share, what I was actually *doing* was encouraging you to *claim* what  
works for you and use it to get through the fear and resentment you have 
towards me and now I understand more fully, towards women in general. It isn't 
about me - don't kid yourself. (The comment you made back to Empty re: women 
was very sad and I do believe you believe it.  Remember, you are one!)  
Practice self-love Share and practice doubting your ability to perceive reality 
correctly.  Try on different lenses; don't be confident in your assumptions. 
Stay open to opposite interpretations. You really don't *know* Share; to the 
extent that you think you do, you shut yourself off over and over and over. 
Your comments today to Ann, me, and Fleetfoot indicate the nature of your 
problem. You are completely impervious to any feedback on yourself; you are 
completely transparent in this way and you can't see it.  Nothing any of us 
said to you had any effect whatsoever on your being. I was very detached 
yesterday Share, despite what it looked like and I just stayed open to the 
feeling I received from you and it was very, very, blank.  Look for your heart; 
search for a connection to your soul.  Collecting bits of knowledge in your 
disorganized mind to later tout out in an effort to sound intelligent is a 
waste of your golden years.  Pray and meditate to God for the ability to give 
and receive love. It wasn't my intention to hurt your feelings.  You do *not* 
have the *ability* to understand my sense of humor and you misinterpret me 
completely because you assume that I don't have benign or benevolent 
intentions.  You said it; you believe it.  Claim it, feel it, and let it go.  I 
have never wavered once from numerous efforts to get you to have a real 
conversation with me in whatever format you please and I have no resentment 
towards you whatsoever. I accept you where you are.  I pray for you.  If you 
were solid in your conviction that EFT tapping works, than you wouldn't have 
been so unnerved by my challenging you to use it.  Don't let your fear feed 
your pattern of avoidance.  I will leave you the last word Share.  I am 
leaving FFL for now.   
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Emily, you make fun of my doing tapping. Then you ask me if I do Sedona 
Method. Why would I answer?! To give you more ammo?! Duh!
 






[FairfieldLife] Re: to Emily

2014-06-14 Thread salyavin808

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote :

 Dear Share, what I was actually *doing* was encouraging you to *claim* what  
works for you and use it to get through the fear and resentment you have 
towards me and now I understand more fully, towards women in general.
 

 Wow, we can get therapy here too!
 

 I've been thinking this place reminds me of somewhere more and more recently, 
which one of you is nurse Ratched?
 

 

 

  It isn't about me - don't kid yourself. (The comment you made back to Empty 
re: women was very sad and I do believe you believe it.  Remember, you are 
one!)  Practice self-love Share and practice doubting your ability to perceive 
reality correctly.  Try on different lenses; don't be confident in your 
assumptions. Stay open to opposite interpretations. You really don't *know* 
Share; to the extent that you think you do, you shut yourself off over and over 
and over. Your comments today to Ann, me, and Fleetfoot indicate the nature of 
your problem. You are completely impervious to any feedback on yourself; you 
are completely transparent in this way and you can't see it.  Nothing any of us 
said to you had any effect whatsoever on your being. I was very detached 
yesterday Share, despite what it looked like and I just stayed open to the 
feeling I received from you and it was very, very, blank.  Look for your heart; 
search for a connection to your soul.  Collecting bits of knowledge in your 
disorganized mind to later tout out in an effort to sound intelligent is a 
waste of your golden years.  Pray and meditate to God for the ability to give 
and receive love. It wasn't my intention to hurt your feelings.  You do *not* 
have the *ability* to understand my sense of humor and you misinterpret me 
completely because you assume that I don't have benign or benevolent 
intentions.  You said it; you believe it.  Claim it, feel it, and let it go.  I 
have never wavered once from numerous efforts to get you to have a real 
conversation with me in whatever format you please and I have no resentment 
towards you whatsoever. I accept you where you are.  I pray for you.  If you 
were solid in your conviction that EFT tapping works, than you wouldn't have 
been so unnerved by my challenging you to use it.  Don't let your fear feed 
your pattern of avoidance.  I will leave you the last word Share.  I am 
leaving FFL for now.   
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Emily, you make fun of my doing tapping. Then you ask me if I do Sedona 
Method. Why would I answer?! To give you more ammo?! Duh!
 








Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-26 Thread Share Long
I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and 
having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He 
even says that you are probably nice in person.





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I 
can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? 
And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?

 Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 






On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... wrote:

Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this.
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-26 Thread authfriend
You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you.
 
  I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting 
and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. 
He even says that you are probably nice in person. 
 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than 
I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies 
too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?
 

  Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 

 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-26 Thread Share Long
Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty dumb.





On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you.


 I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting 
and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. 
He even says that you are probably nice in person. 





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I 
can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? 
And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?

 Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 






On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... wrote:

Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this.
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-26 Thread authfriend
If you'll forgive me, Share, I hardly consider your opinion definitive on what 
is dumb and what is not. I understand why you have to avoid the tough 
questions, though. That's your modus operandi. You couldn't survive otherwise.
 

  Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty 
dumb. 
 

 
 
 On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... 
wrote:
 
   You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to 
you.
 
  I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting 
and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. 
He even says that you are probably nice in person. 
 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than 
I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies 
too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?
 

  Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 

 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-26 Thread Share Long
Your questions are dumb imo, Judy because you are asking me about something 
that you yourself do. That is, you have no standards for your buddies and very 
harsh standards for those you don't like. 





On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:46 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
If you'll forgive me, Share, I hardly consider your opinion definitive on what 
is dumb and what is not. I understand why you have to avoid the tough 
questions, though. That's your modus operandi. You couldn't survive otherwise.

 Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty 
dumb. 





On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you.


 I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting 
and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. 
He even says that you are probably nice in person. 





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I 
can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? 
And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?

 Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 






On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... wrote:

Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this.
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?









Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-26 Thread authfriend
 Your questions are dumb imo, Judy because you are asking me about something 
that you yourself do. That is, you have no standards for your buddies and very 
harsh standards for those you don't like. 
 

 No, no, Share, you've tried that before with me, and you came up empty, 
remember? In fact, it's one of your fantasies.
 

 It's OK if you don't want to answer my questions about your double standards. 
I just note that you've declined to do so, which says something about you in 
and of itself.
 

 

 
 
 On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:46 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... 
wrote:
 
   If you'll forgive me, Share, I hardly consider your opinion definitive on 
what is dumb and what is not. I understand why you have to avoid the tough 
questions, though. That's your modus operandi. You couldn't survive otherwise.
 

  Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty 
dumb. 
 

 
 
 On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... 
wrote:
 
   You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to 
you.
 
  I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting 
and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. 
He even says that you are probably nice in person. 
 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than 
I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies 
too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?
 

  Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 

 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread Richard J. Williams
So, you're an older woman NOT working out of a home office near a beach 
in New Jersey because you chose this? You're not even making any sense, 
Judy.


On 12/24/2013 4:03 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and 
others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you 
correct /his/ fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own 
fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda 
inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?



 Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room 
and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams 
punditster@... wrote:
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... 
wrote:



Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman
in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because
she chose this.

You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home
office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread Richard J. Williams
Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the 
forum. I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what 
Feliz Navidad  meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, 
Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure 
snark. ROTFLMAO!


On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren 
se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.*



 Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of 
Spanish. Go figure. 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread authfriend
Siga las instrucctiones de los operadores del tren.

 
 Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the forum. 
I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what Feliz Navidad  
meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just 
doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. ROTFLMAO! 
 
 On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:
 
   LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se 
para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.
 
 
  Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go 
figure. 
 
 
 
 
 
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread authfriend
Just delete the NOT, and you'll be making perfect sense.
 

 (Except for all your other fantasies, of course.)
 
 So, you're an older woman NOT working out of a home office near a beach in New 
Jersey because you chose this? You're not even making any sense, Judy.
 
 On 12/24/2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:
 
   You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than 
I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies 
too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?
 
 
  Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 
 
 
 
 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
mailto:punditster@... wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread Richard J. Williams
So, I guess this does explain why Judy did understand what Feliz 
Navidad  meant,so she responded with Fuck you very much, Share in 
reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. Judy DID 
know what it meant, so she responded with the meanest, and nastiest 
snark she could think up on the spur of the moment. It just doesn't get 
any better than this!


On 12/25/2013 9:30 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*Siga las instrucctiones de los operadores del tren.*


Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the 
forum. I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what 
Feliz Navidad  meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, 
Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure 
snark. ROTFLMAO!


On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:

*LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el 
tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.*



 Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of 
Spanish. Go figure. 







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread Richard J. Williams
Well, I always pictured Judy as a mature and hard-working, free-lance 
editor working out of a home office, near a beach; sitting at a computer 
with a large flat-screen monitor; with maybe a nice picture window to 
look out of; and sometimes posting to a discussion group for amusement 
and fun. But, up till now Judy seemed to make sense, but maybe I got it 
all wrong- it WAS just a fantasy. Go figure.


On 12/25/2013 9:47 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*Just delete the NOT, and you'll be making perfect sense.*

*
*

*(Except for all your other fantasies, of course.)*


So, you're an older woman NOT working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey because you chose this? You're not even making any 
sense, Judy.


On 12/24/2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:

You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and 
others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you 
correct /his/ fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own 
fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda 
inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?



 Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room 
and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams 
punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote:
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... 
wrote:



Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman
in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not
because she chose this.

You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home
office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?










Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-25 Thread authfriend
Actually, Share and I were exchanging equivalent wishes. She has a great deal 
of trouble expressing her resentments and hatreds straightforwardly, so I was 
just helping her out.
 

 La via del tren subterraneo es peligrosa...
 

 Much safer to come out and say what you're really feeling than keeping it all 
bottled up under the surface.
 

 So, I guess this does explain why Judy did understand what Feliz Navidad  
meant,so she responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just 
doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. Judy DID know what it meant, 
so she responded with the meanest, and nastiest snark she could think up on the 
spur of the moment. It just doesn't get any better than this!
 
 On 12/25/2013 9:30 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Siga las instrucctiones de los operadores del tren.
 
 
 Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the forum. 
I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what Feliz Navidad  
meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just 
doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. ROTFLMAO! 
 
 On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:
 
   LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se 
para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.
 
 
  Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go 
figure. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Share Long
turq, maybe I'm in prep to be a mom next lifetime! As in love the child, reject 
the destructive behavior, deal with it in a firm but loving way. All grist for 
the learning mill. Anyway, Happy Holidays. Do you all do Christmas, etc. for 
Maya?





On Monday, December 23, 2013 11:39 AM, TurquoiseB turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:

 Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you 
 as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or 
 flaws which of course we all have. 

Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a 
quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. If I were to 
pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in such interactions, it 
would go sorta like this. 

Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. They are hooked on it in 
the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when they see someone 
getting more Attention than they are (or, let's face it on this forum, any 
Attention at all), they get pissed off at those who are attracting the 
Attention because it's Ours, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according 
to psychosis, the posts from Mean Girls would consistently be green, for 
jealousy.  :-)

So anyway, these wannabe occultists see someone else getting the Attention that 
they seek, so they Can't Have That. They have to combat that somehow. The most 
common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is 
getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their 
self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. 

If it doesn't work, they move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make 
the other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying 
attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage 
in which the Mean Girls usually pull out all the stops. They'll say anything 
they can think of about the person they're trying to demonize, because the 
Whole Purpose is *to* demonize them. Since they *obviously* can't compete on 
equal ground and gain a similar measure of Attention, they attempt to discredit 
the ones who are getting more Attention than they are, in the hopes that it 
will shift back to them.

So *naturally* such people focus on what they perceive as your mistakes or 
faults. *Their* whole act is about pretending that they don't have any. So if 
you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and they are. 

Yeah, right. 

This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people 
still fall for it. But they do. 

Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write you off 
because of what a few Mean Girls say about you, they really aren't worth having 
in your sphere of influence, are they?

 Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as 
 enemies than as friends!

You should look into the works of Carlos Castaneda. He may have been a 
charlatan, but a case can be made that everyone else people cite on this forum 
as an authority is, too. :-) Charlatans or not, they occasionally said things 
one can learn from. 

In Carlos' case, the pieces of his philosophy you might wanna look into have to 
do with his characterization of the Petty Tyrant. They're pretty much required 
reading if one wants to survive on the Internet. 


In the strategic inventories of warriors, self-importance figures as
the activity that consumes the greatest amount of energy, hence,
their effort to eradicate it.
     

One of the first concerns of warriors is to free that energy in order
to face the unknown with it. The action of rechanneling that energy
is impeccability.
     

The most effective strategy for rechanneling that energy consists of
six elements that interplay with one another. Five of them are called
the attributes of warriorship: control, discipline, forbearance,
timing, andwill . They pertain to the world of the
warrior who is fighting to lose self-importance. The sixth element,
which is perhaps the most important of all, pertains to the outside
world and is called the petty tyrant.
     

A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power of
life and death over warriors or simply annoys them to
distraction.
     

Petty tyrants teach us detachment. The ingredients of the new seers'
strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using a
petty tyrant. The strategy not only gets rid of self-importance; it
also prepares warriors for the final realization that impeccability
is the only thing that counts in the path of knowledge.

- Carlos Castaneda, The Fire From Within





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread authfriend
Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get 
anywhere near being a mother.
 

  turq, maybe I'm in prep to be a mom next lifetime! As in love the child, 
reject the destructive behavior, deal with it in a firm but loving way. All 
grist for the learning mill. 
 

 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you 
get anywhere near being a mother.

You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Share Long
Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, 
meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I 
think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her.
Feliz Navidad!





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get 
anywhere near being a mother.
You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad 
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread authfriend
This is the kind of sneaky, hypocritical meanness I'm talking about that's so 
destructive. It's much healthier, not to mention more honest, to put your 
resentment right out there. Pretending to love the people you hate will have a 
terrible effect on any child you might have.
 

 Are you familar with the Dickens character Uriah Heep?
 

 

  Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, 
meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I 
think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her.
Feliz Navidad! 
 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:
 
 Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get 
anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. 
Feliz Navidad!
 
 Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad 
 http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 This is the kind of sneaky, hypocritical meanness I'm talking about that's so 
destructive. It's much healthier, not to mention more honest, to put your 
resentment right out there. Pretending to love the people you hate will have a 
terrible effect on any child you might have.
 

 Are you familar with the Dickens character Uriah Heep?
 

 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this.
 

 Now let's see if she or anyone else who insists on supporting her faux good 
nature can condemn me for saying this when they say far worse things about you.
 

 

  Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, 
meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I 
think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her.
Feliz Navidad! 
 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:
 
 Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get 
anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. 
Feliz Navidad!
 
 Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad 
 http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 




 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Richard J. Williams
Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go 
figure.


On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote:
Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the 
positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep 
up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive 
influence on her.

Feliz Navidad!



On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
mailto:authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you 
get anywhere near being a mother.

You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o







Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Share Long
Ok, but all I want for Christmas is to know how to say go figure in Spanish 
(-:





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:19 PM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.

On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote:

  
Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, 
meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I 
think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her.
Feliz Navidad!






On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get 
anywhere near being a mother.
You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad 
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o






Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/22/2013 9:33 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

Fuck you very much, Share.

On 12/24/2013 10:45 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


This is the kind of sneaky, hypocritical meanness I'm talking about 
that's so destructive. It's much healthier, not to mention more 
honest, to put your resentment right out there. Pretending to love the 
people you hate will have a terrible effect on any child you might have.



Are you familar with the Dickens character Uriah Heep?



 Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the 
positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep 
up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive 
influence on her.

Feliz Navidad! 



On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams 
punditster@... wrote:

On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote:


Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before
you get anywhere near being a mother.

You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Richard J. Williams

vaya usted a saber - go figure in Spanish.

On 12/24/2013 2:28 PM, Share Long wrote:
Ok, but all I want for Christmas is to know how to say go figure in 
Spanish (-:




On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:19 PM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. 
Go figure.


On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote:
Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the 
positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep 
up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive 
influence on her.

Feliz Navidad!



On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com mailto:pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
mailto:authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you 
get anywhere near being a mother.

You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o











Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose 
this.
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office 
near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread authfriend
LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para 
entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.

 
  Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go 
figure. 

 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?

Nope, no similarity at all. Share and Judy aren't even members of the same 
species. One resembles the spineless, brainless jelly fish and one doesn't.

http://infotel.ca/newsitem/TRAVEL-Log-Jellyfish/CP26576138 
http://infotel.ca/newsitem/TRAVEL-Log-Jellyfish/CP26576138
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Richard J. Williams
But, Judy didn't seem to understand feliz navidad that Share posted. 
Go figure.


On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren 
se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.*



 Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of 
Spanish. Go figure. 






Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Share Long
Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast 
nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me.





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:

Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this.
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread Share Long
My first Christmas present! Thank you, Richard. And for you this chant that 
Snatam Kuar sang in FF in honor of Maharishi after his passing. It's very 
beautiful and her voice is so pure.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Gzip-zj0vY





On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:36 PM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
vaya usted a saber - go figure in Spanish.

On 12/24/2013 2:28 PM, Share Long wrote:

  
Ok, but all I want for Christmas is to know how to say go figure in Spanish 
(-:






On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:19 PM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go 
figure.

On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long
  wrote:

  
Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, 
meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! 
I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her.
Feliz Navidad!






On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get 
anywhere near being a mother.
You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad!

Jose Feliciano
  - Feliz
  Navidad 
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o









Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread authfriend
You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I 
can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? 
And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a 
fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical?
 

  Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and 
breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. 

 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-24 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast 
nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me.

What I am not fantasizing about is that you have no one to share that with.
 

 
 
 On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a 
one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. 
You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a 
beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/22/2013 11:26 PM, bobpri...@yahoo.com wrote:

/Since it looks like he's never going to vacate the laundry room/
We thought we saw somebody snooping around the laundry room out back by 
the patio, but it was kind of dark back we were not sure. Was that you, 
Bob? Maybe we should check to see if any underwear is missing. I hope 
you're not planning on wearing any of our dirty underwear - if you do, 
you're hopeless.


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 12/23/2013 1:29 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 what do you think of changing the name of FFL to FFF?
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.

HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.

Maybe it's time to review a few internet protocols:

1. Avoid using all caps - it is usually construed to be a form of shouting.
2. Avoid using foul language on a family oriented discussion group.
3. Avoid drinking too much eggnog around Christmas time.
4. Don't allow your teenage offspring to curse their mother.



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.

On 12/23/2013 1:38 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 P.S.  If you throw in a load of laundry, you'll feel a lot better, 
 Richard.  If you want me to help you work through your FEELINGS about 
 doing laundry, let me know.  I'm available after the new year. 
Rita usually takes care of the laundry around here, but thanks for your 
concern. And, I have no feelings one way or the other if anyone wants to 
masturbate or not. For the record, its none of my business what one, two 
or more adults do in the privacy of their own bedroom.

P.S. Please tell Bob to not be snooping around our laundry room anymore 
- sometimes Rita and I like to fool around when we do the laundry - it's 
none of anybody's business what we do in there. Thanks.


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.

On 12/23/2013 1:48 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 That wasn't so hard, was it? 
Well, I guess it all depends on how much help a person has - Rita helps 
me out, so I don't need to resort to self-abuse. Rita and I had a really 
marvelous evening. Thanks for your concern, but it's kind of a private 
thing, Emily.


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Richard, why so down in the dumps?  Hey, what do you think of changing the 
name of FFL to FFF?  We've got Fairfield Food as an option and I'm thinking 
of proposing Fairfield Feelings as another one.  Personally, I think it is 
looking very good for the New Year.  Cheer up, sport.  
 

 Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his 
wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the 
approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely 
to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his 
inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, 
the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects 
pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way 
to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define 
frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been 
living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life.
 

 As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in 
their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct 
within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and self 
control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight 
Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get me to 
want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally sucking the 
place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, apparently, only 
a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six words together in 
a semblance of the English language but with no relevance or insight into 
anything except the insight which we are continually being given into the state 
of her hapless existence. 
 

 So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better 
news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not sure 
I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful inane 
in sharebear will subside. Let us pray...
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, 
but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of 
Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got 
banned by the owner of the forum  - for cursing and making personal threats . 
Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to 
go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at 
this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share.
 
 On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote:
 
   Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 
 
 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 
 
 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... 
wrote:
 
 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... 
wrote:
 
 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, 

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Excellent Share, excellent!  It only took you 2.85 days to unpack what you 
meant by GET A FRIGGING LIFE.   That wasn't so hard, was it?  
 

 Here is the rest of Lesson 2.  Set up a file box (maybe an Iowa-themed recipe 
box will do)  with 26 cards, one for each letter of the alphabet.  When you 
identify a feeling you are having, write it down under the corresponding 
letter.  Now, we're after only the more negative feelings with you; you've got 
positivity down.  So, as I recollect, you were feeling cranky with Robin (a 
C word) and were feeling exasperated by Bob and Emily.  I'll bet Judy and Ann 
elicit feelings too.  Try to keep it to 3 feelings/emotions per letter of the 
alphabet.  This will give you a range of 78 feelings in your feeling bank.  
Let me know when Lesson 2 is complete and we will move on to Lesson 3 - also a 
fun one - How to tell a Feeling from a Fact.  This is where we start to take 
on the phenomenon of why you like to engage in name-calling.  I'll work on my 
list too so you don't have to go it alone.  
 

 Don't let Richard get you down now; maybe you could send him a recipe box? 
 

 I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some 
of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of 
very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous 
manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our 
fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. 
(clap, clap)

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 

 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 

 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!

 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread authfriend
Ann wrote:
  Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his 
wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the 
approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely 
to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his 
inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, 
the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects 
pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way 
to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define 
frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been 
living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life.

 

 As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in 
their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct 
within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and self 
control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight 
Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get me to 
want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally sucking the 
place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, apparently, only 
a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six words together in 
a semblance of the English language but with no relevance or insight into 
anything except the insight which we are continually being given into the state 
of her hapless existence. 
 

 So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better 
news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not sure 
I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful inane 
in sharebear will subside. Let us pray... 
 


AMEN.
 
 







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/23/2013 8:53 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring 
out some of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed 
the posting of very helpful tips from Emily given in the most 
light-hearted and humorous manner. Let's give a hand to the most 
artificial and insincere member of our fine forum, Share Longnose, for 
providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. (clap, clap)

Maybe you forgot this advice from Emily to Share:

HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/23/2013 9:14 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*Ann wrote:*

 Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't
know if his wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no
real friends or the approach of Christmas just brings out the
crazy in him. And we aren't likely to ever find out. In the
meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his inanities and
fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, the
meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta
effects pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store
and can make her way to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it
rarely is in FF) but can she define frigging? Appears not
because she is either very, very silly or she has been living in
Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life.


As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less
manic in their posting, to help them define and understand the
limits of good conduct within a civilized society where
intelligence and appropriate humility and self control seem to
exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight Zone
of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get
me to want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are
literally sucking the place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up
and share who has, apparently, only a brain cell or maybe two left
with which to put five or six words together in a semblance of the
English language but with no relevance or insight into anything
except the insight which we are continually being given into the
state of her hapless existence.


So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I
had better news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at
this time I am not sure I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky
will recede and the spiteful inane in sharebear will subside.
Let us pray... 


AMEN.


Something seems to have gotten sniped here. Go figure.

HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread sharelong60
Richard, that would be fun to meet at Revs in person. It it the FF *in* spot. 
You might even spot Oprah or David Lynch there. Only kidding! I think Oprah 
went to Cafe Paradiso which is just down the street. Maybe we could all dress 
in Duck Dynasty outfits too. That'll give the TMers something to meditate on!

PS I agree with you that FFLers are probably nicer in person.

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Share Long
Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you 
as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or 
flaws which of course we all have. Actually I just realized something: it's 
probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends!





On Monday, December 23, 2013 10:19 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
On 12/23/2013 8:53 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:

I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some 
of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of 
very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous 
manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our 
fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. 
(clap, clap)
Maybe you forgot this advice from Emily to Share:

HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Share Long
Snipped too, Richard. Maybe they're just unstressing (-:





On Monday, December 23, 2013 10:32 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
On 12/23/2013 9:14 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

  
Ann wrote:
 Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his 
wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the 
approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely 
to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his 
inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, 
the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects 
pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way 
to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define 
frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been 
living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life.



As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in 
their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct 
within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and 
self control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of 
Twilight Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to 
get me to want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally 
sucking the place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, 
apparently, only a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six 
words together in a semblance of the English language but with no relevance 
or insight into anything except the insight which we are continually being 
given into the state of her hapless existence. 


So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better 
news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not 
sure I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful 
inane in sharebear will subside. Let us pray... 

AMEN.

Something seems to have gotten sniped here. Go figure.

HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread doctordumbass
My offer still holds! Good 'til the end of the year! Bitcoins...

[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:

 Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think
of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your
mistakes or flaws which of course we all have.

Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that
this is a quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this
forum. If I were to pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place
in such interactions, it would go sorta like this.

Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. They are hooked on
it in the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when
they see someone getting more Attention than they are (or, let's face it
on this forum, any Attention at all), they get pissed off at those who
are attracting the Attention because it's Ours, damnit. If one could
auto-color posts according to psychosis, the posts from Mean Girls would
consistently be green, for jealousy.  :-)

So anyway, these wannabe occultists see someone else getting the
Attention that they seek, so they Can't Have That. They have to combat
that somehow. The most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to
try to attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to
make them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence*. This first psychic
attack is intended to weaken them.

If it doesn't work, they move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to
make the other people in the immediate environment see the person who
they're paying attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than
themselves.' This is the Stage in which the Mean Girls usually pull out
all the stops. They'll say anything they can think of about the person
they're trying to demonize, because the Whole Purpose is *to* demonize
them. Since they *obviously* can't compete on equal ground and gain a
similar measure of Attention, they attempt to discredit the ones who are
getting more Attention than they are, in the hopes that it will shift
back to them.

So *naturally* such people focus on what they perceive as your mistakes
or faults. *Their* whole act is about pretending that they don't have
any. So if you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and they
are.

Yeah, right.

This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that
people still fall for it. But they do.

Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write you
off because of what a few Mean Girls say about you, they really aren't
worth having in your sphere of influence, are they?

 Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have
them as enemies than as friends!

You should look into the works of Carlos Castaneda. He may have been a
charlatan, but a case can be made that everyone else people cite on this
forum as an authority is, too. :-) Charlatans or not, they occasionally
said things one can learn from.

In Carlos' case, the pieces of his philosophy you might wanna look into
have to do with his characterization of the Petty Tyrant. They're pretty
much required reading if one wants to survive on the Internet.

In the strategic inventories of warriors, self-importance figures as the
activity that consumes the greatest amount of energy, hence, their
effort to eradicate it.
One of the first concerns of warriors is to free that energy in
order to face the unknown with it. The action of rechanneling that
energy is impeccability.
The most effective strategy for rechanneling that energy consists
of six elements that interplay with one another. Five of them are called
the attributes of warriorship: control, discipline, forbearance, timing,
and will . They pertain to the world of the warrior who is fighting to
lose self-importance. The sixth element, which is perhaps the most
important of all, pertains to the outside world and is called the petty
tyrant.
A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power
of life and death over warriors or simply annoys them to distraction.
Petty tyrants teach us detachment. The ingredients of the new
seers' strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using a
petty tyrant. The strategy not only gets rid of self-importance; it also
prepares warriors for the final realization that impeccability is the
only thing that counts in the path of knowledge.

- Carlos Castaneda, The Fire From Within





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread authfriend
Oh, the inanity!
 

 (How does she tie her shoes in the morning?)
 

  Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of 
you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes 
or flaws which of course we all have. Actually I just realized something: it's 
probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends! 
 
 

 
 
 On Monday, December 23, 2013 10:19 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
   
 On 12/23/2013 8:53 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote:
 
 I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some 
of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of 
very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous 
manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our 
fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. 
(clap, clap) Maybe you forgot this advice from Emily to Share:
 
 HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. 
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread authfriend
And somehow this initial snipe got snipped too:
 

  Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the 
photo of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE 

 

 
 
 
 






[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread authfriend
 Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of 
you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes 
or flaws which of course we all have. 

 Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a 
quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. 
 

 Huh. We've been saying all this about Share ever since she started getting 
nasty. She reminded us of the Mean Girls we knew in high school; she's the 
embodiment of the Mean Girl stereotype.



[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread emilymaenot
Ah ha ha ha.  Barry, as head of the *real* Mean Girls Club, you just described 
the MO of you, Share, and Richard perfectly.  I don't know how you do it - your 
ability to talk about yourself and your compatriots is bar none, the best!  
Merry Christmas.  
 

 

 

 

 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, turquoiseb@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote:
 
 Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you 
 as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or 
 flaws which of course we all have. 

 Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a 
quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. If I were to 
pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in such interactions, it 
would go sorta like this. 

Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. They are hooked on it in 
the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when they see someone 
getting more Attention than they are (or, let's face it on this forum, any 
Attention at all), they get pissed off at those who are attracting the 
Attention because it's Ours, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according 
to psychosis, the posts from Mean Girls would consistently be green, for 
jealousy.  :-)

So anyway, these wannabe occultists see someone else getting the Attention that 
they seek, so they Can't Have That. They have to combat that somehow. The most 
common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is 
getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their 
self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. 

If it doesn't work, they move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make 
the other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying 
attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage 
in which the Mean Girls usually pull out all the stops. They'll say anything 
they can think of about the person they're trying to demonize, because the 
Whole Purpose is *to* demonize them. Since they *obviously* can't compete on 
equal ground and gain a similar measure of Attention, they attempt to discredit 
the ones who are getting more Attention than they are, in the hopes that it 
will shift back to them.

So *naturally* such people focus on what they perceive as your mistakes or 
faults. *Their* whole act is about pretending that they don't have any. So if 
you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and they are. 

Yeah, right. 

This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people 
still fall for it. But they do. 

Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write you off 
because of what a few Mean Girls say about you, they really aren't worth having 
in your sphere of influence, are they?

  Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as 
  enemies than as friends!

 You should look into the works of Carlos Castaneda. He may have been a 
charlatan, but a case can be made that everyone else people cite on this forum 
as an authority is, too. :-) Charlatans or not, they occasionally said things 
one can learn from. 

In Carlos' case, the pieces of his philosophy you might wanna look into have to 
do with his characterization of the Petty Tyrant. They're pretty much required 
reading if one wants to survive on the Internet. 

 In the strategic inventories of warriors, self-importance figures as the 
activity that consumes the greatest amount of energy, hence, their effort to 
eradicate it.
  One of the first concerns of warriors is to free that energy in order to 
face the unknown with it. The action of rechanneling that energy is 
impeccability.
  The most effective strategy for rechanneling that energy consists of six 
elements that interplay with one another. Five of them are called the 
attributes of warriorship: control, discipline, forbearance, timing, and will . 
They pertain to the world of the warrior who is fighting to lose 
self-importance. The sixth element, which is perhaps the most important of all, 
pertains to the outside world and is called the petty tyrant.
  A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power of life 
and death over warriors or simply annoys them to distraction.
  Petty tyrants teach us detachment. The ingredients of the new seers' 
strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using a petty tyrant. 
The strategy not only gets rid of self-importance; it also prepares warriors 
for the final realization that impeccability is the only thing that counts in 
the path of knowledge.

- Carlos Castaneda, The Fire From Within







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread emilymaenot
Dear Share and Richard, How do you do?  I'm delighted to meet you both.  Isn't 
it a heavenly day today. Please give my regards to Barold and HAVE A 
SENSATIONAL FLIPPIN' DAY! 



[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread doctordumbass
Please stop that, Em - Barry *hates* it when women laugh at him. Especially 
now, two frickin' (SF Bay Area variation) days before Christmas, and a woman 
who sounds intelligent and empowered, is laughing at him. Makes him droopy and 
unhappy - reminder of years past, when his nickname was skinless frank - 
 Anyway, just trying to be sensitive. Happy Holidays!!  


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread emilymaenot


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, awoelflebater@... wrote:

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Excellent Share, excellent!  It only took you 2.85 days to unpack what you 
meant by GET A FRIGGING LIFE.   That wasn't so hard, was it?  
 

 Here is the rest of Lesson 2.  Set up a file box (maybe an Iowa-themed recipe 
box will do)  with 26 cards, one for each letter of the alphabet.  When you 
identify a feeling you are having, write it down under the corresponding 
letter.  Now, we're after only the more negative feelings with you; you've got 
positivity down.  So, as I recollect, you were feeling cranky with Robin (a 
C word) and were feeling exasperated by Bob and Emily.  I'll bet Judy and Ann 
elicit feelings too.  Try to keep it to 3 feelings/emotions per letter of the 
alphabet.  This will give you a range of 78 feelings in your feeling bank.  
Let me know when Lesson 2 is complete and we will move on to Lesson 3 - also a 
fun one - How to tell a Feeling from a Fact.  This is where we start to take 
on the phenomenon of why you like to engage in name-calling.  I'll work on my 
list too so you don't have to go it alone.  
 

 Don't let Richard get you down now; maybe you could send him a recipe box? 
 

 I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some 
of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of 
very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous 
manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our 
fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. 
(clap, clap)

 

 http://www.flickr.com/photos/110607246@N05/11519029306/ 
http://www.flickr.com/photos/110607246@N05/11519029306/

 

 Dear Ann, I don't know if there is much hope for Sharester, but she has taken 
a few baby steps this year, despite herself.  
 

 
 Given that Daughter #1 cracked the front bumper of her car through and through 
trying to do a u-turn on a side street without quite knowing the turning radius 
of her car (I have told her over and over - do what I say and not what I do; 
these kinds of maneuvers take experience to be successful) - but she didn't 
listen to dear old mom.  And, given that Daughter #2 dropped her new phone in 
the toilet, and when I replied with why do you feel the need to take your 
phone into the bathroom with you?, she laid down one of my favorite 
lines...MOMMM, YOU JUST DON'T *GET IT.* - well, I must go and take on one of 
my favorite roles, that of Crisis Control Manager.  We are leaving town for a 
little RR after Christmas, with or without the new, new, phone and regardless 
of what the insurance company says - little do the daughters know.  Have a good 
one.  Emily.  
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 

 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 

 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, 

[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread emilymaenot
I think I will call you Doctor Droll.  Happy Holidays to you too.  I have taken 
your advice on where to hide the Festivus pole.  Em.  


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams
Great, but what about the Prairie Home Companion? That show is almost 
pure country. Do they have radio stations up there?


On our trips up to see Dad, we used to listen to satellite radio in our 
car, but the rent is too damn high, so we listen to NPR out of Austin 
all the way to Lampasas. After that, we have to switch to our iPod 
plugged into the radio until we can tune a Dallas station.


The last time I drove up to Fairfield, back in 2000, I took I-35 North 
and turned right on Highway 34. We are thinking about visiting friends 
in Deadwood SD, and Woodland, CA, on our way to visit my daughter in 
Santa Rosa. It will be a long road trip.


On 12/23/2013 10:21 AM, sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:


Richard, that would be fun to meet at Revs in person. It it the FF 
*in* spot. You might even spot Oprah or David Lynch there. Only 
kidding! I think Oprah went to Cafe Paradiso which is just down the 
street. Maybe we could all dress in Duck Dynasty outfits too. That'll 
give the TMers something to meditate on!


PS I agree with you that FFLers are probably nicer in person.






[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread authfriend
Emily observed:
 
  Ah ha ha ha.  Barry, as head of the *real* Mean Girls Club, you just 
described the MO of you, Share, and Richard perfectly.  I don't know how you do 
it - your ability to talk about yourself and your compatriots is bar none, the 
best!  Merry Christmas.  
 

 Here's a translation to show what he was really talking about. Makes a lot 
more sense, doesn't it?
 Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a 
quality shared by Mean Girls like you and me everywhere, not just on this 
forum. If I were to pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in 
such interactions, it would go sorta like this. 

Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. I am hooked on it in the 
same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when I see someone 
getting more Attention than I am (or, let's face it on this forum, any 
Attention at all), I get pissed off at those who are attracting the Attention 
because it's Mine, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according to 
psychosis, the posts from me would consistently be green, for jealousy.  :-)

So anyway, wannabe occultists like me see someone else getting the Attention 
that I seek, so I Can't Have That. I have to combat that somehow. My most 
common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is 
getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their 
self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. 

If it doesn't work, I move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make the 
other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying 
attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage 
in which I usually pull out all the stops. I'll say anything I can think of 
about the person I'm trying to demonize, because the Whole Purpose is *to* 
demonize them. Since I *obviously* can't compete on equal ground and gain a 
similar measure of Attention, I attempt to discredit the ones who are getting 
more Attention than I am, in the hopes that it will shift back to me.

So *naturally* I focus on what I perceive as their mistakes or faults. *My* 
whole act is about pretending that I don't have any. So if you do, *you* are 
not worth paying Attention to, and I am. 

Yeah, right. 

This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people 
still fall for it. But they do. 

Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write me off 
because of what a few people say about me, they really aren't worth having in 
my sphere of influence, are they?







[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread doctordumbass
ROFL - Your dedication pays off! This is flat out hilarious!


[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 ROFL - Your dedication pays off! This is flat out hilarious!
 

 Fuck yea, if the shoe fits, wear it. Nicely done Auth, it's been hard slogging 
but the big payoff has occurred. Christ, I can rest now.


 


[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread doctordumbass
just know that I have taken a solemn oath, Em, and am always here, for whatever 
ails you - Also, Christmas special, this week only, from the Doc himself: 
Brooklyn Bridge, only 1,995 bitcoins. An additional *10 percent off*, for 
*either* supporters, or opponents, of the MGC - Hey, whatever, its Christmas!!! 
Skoal!


[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread emilymaenot


 

 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, awoelflebater@... wrote:

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 ROFL - Your dedication pays off! This is flat out hilarious!
 

 Fuck yea, if the shoe fits, wear it. Nicely done Auth, it's been hard slogging 
but the big payoff has occurred. Christ, I can rest now.

 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OjOmFbaBJCk 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OjOmFbaBJCk


 




Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Share Long
Yes, Richard, we have radio stations up here and even NPR. But I admit I've 
never heard of a satellite radio in a car. Is that some new fangled notion?





On Monday, December 23, 2013 2:33 PM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
Great, but what about the Prairie Home Companion? That show is almost pure 
country. Do they have radio stations up there? 

On our trips up to see Dad, we used to listen to satellite radio
  in our car, but the rent is too damn high, so we listen to NPR out
  of Austin all the way to Lampasas. After that, we have to switch
  to our iPod plugged into the radio until we can tune a Dallas
  station. 

The last time I drove up to Fairfield, back in 2000, I took I-35
  North and turned right on Highway 34. We are thinking about
  visiting friends in Deadwood SD, and Woodland, CA, on our way to
  visit my daughter in Santa Rosa. It will be a long road trip.

On 12/23/2013 10:21 AM, sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:

  
Richard, that would be fun to meet at Revs in person. It it the FF *in* spot. 
You might even spot Oprah or David Lynch there. Only kidding! I think Oprah 
went to Cafe Paradiso which is just down the street. Maybe we could all dress 
in Duck Dynasty outfits too. That'll give the TMers something to meditate on!

PS I agree with you that FFLers are probably nicer in
  person.



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread authfriend
Satellite radio is a radio http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radio service 
broadcast from satellites http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satellite primarily to 
cars...
 

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satellite_radio 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satellite_radio

 

  Yes, Richard, we have radio stations up here and even NPR. But I admit I've 
never heard of a satellite radio in a car. Is that some new fangled notion? 
 






Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/20/2013 11:33 AM, bobpri...@yahoo.com wrote:
As compelling as it is to watch what Richard can do with the footnotes 
of a wikipedia page
It looks like Bob  has been monitoring my posts. There's not much anyone 
can do with the footnotes of a wikipedia page, except read them and 
follow up with further reading. Was Bob thinking there was something 
else to be done with Wiki footnotes?


Almost all of the books cited in my posts I either have in my 
collection, have read from library books, or they are on order. At one 
time, I owned over 5,000 books in two states and in three cities. These 
days I have only a small collection with me out in the laundry room. 
Sometimes I re-read them - they are that good.


So, I can get most any book I need through the inter-library loan system 
at my local library in about a week. I have about 10,00 pages that I 
xeroxed from my old collection that I am digitizing for computer use. I 
have been taking copious notes for my book which I have been writing 
since 1999, soon to be self-published.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/23/2013 12:09 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
She reminded us of the Mean Girls we knew in high school; she's the 
embodiment of the Mean Girl stereotype.
Don't see the faults of others; examine yourself - discover the areas 
that are lacking, and try to improve them... Never dwell on the faults 
of others. When we find fault with others, we pollute our own inner 
instrument in the process - this is not beneficial to us at all... When 
we dwell on the faults of another, that person receives no benefit. On 
the other hand, those faults enter into our mind and contaminate it... 
Think first about your own faults; to think about the faults of others 
will be very dangerous for you - Xeno


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard Williams
You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Emily. Thanks.

Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad
http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o

4. Flippin

-a word used as fuck or frick
-used in napoleon dynamite
'flippin idiot, gawd!'

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flippin


On Mon, Dec 23, 2013 at 12:33 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:



 Dear Share and Richard, How do you do?  I'm delighted to meet you both.
  Isn't it a heavenly day today. Please give my regards to Barold and HAVE
 A SENSATIONAL FLIPPIN' DAY!

  



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 12/23/2013 10:58 AM, TurquoiseB wrote:
*/The most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to 
attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to make 
them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence/*
Well, yes and I don't see anyone else on this forum attacking me except 
three mean girls, and Bob. Whatever happend to Bob? Anyway, it looks 
like I did get their attention and it looks like they are really JELLOS. 
Go figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread Richard J. Williams
Sorry Doc, I just don't know what you are talking about when you don't 
include the quote.


On 12/23/2013 10:49 AM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:


My offer still holds! Good 'til the end of the year! Bitcoins...






Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-23 Thread bobpriced


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/20/2013 11:33 AM, bobpriced@... mailto:bobpriced@... wrote:
 
 As compelling as it is to watch what Richard can do with the footnotes of a 
wikipedia page It looks like Bob  has been monitoring my posts. There's not 
much anyone can do with the footnotes of a wikipedia page, except read them and 
follow up with further reading. Was Bob thinking there was something else to be 
done with Wiki footnotes?
 
 Almost all of the books cited in my posts I either have in my collection, have 
read from library books, or they are on order. At one time, I owned over 5,000 
books in two states and in three cities. These days I have only a small 
collection with me out in the laundry room. Sometimes I re-read them - they are 
that good.
 
 So, I can get most any book I need through the inter-library loan system at my 
local library in about a week. I have about 10,00 pages that I xeroxed from my 
old collection that I am digitizing for computer use. I have been taking 
copious notes for my book which I have been writing since 1999, soon to be 
self-published.
 Richard Macro (#108)
  
 Move over Lewis Carroll.
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Share Long
Emily, so I did! But I can't unpack cuz don't know dictionary def of frigging, 
only sense of it. Was that really very interesting?! Maybe 
compared to doing laundry (-:





On Friday, December 20, 2013 2:37 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
But Share, *you* wrote it!  H..veeerrryyy interresting.  I've gotta go 
do a load of dirty laundry myself.  My older daughter just informed me that 
what I am wearing is unacceptable.  Smile.   


---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:


Nope, Emily, Bob wasn't willing to unpack first so I'm not playing! For one 
thing I'm not sure what frigging means!




On Friday, December 20, 2013 1:06 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
  
Your FIRST! Don't forget to unpack GET A FRIGGIN LIFE for Bob (and for me 
too). I'm pretty sure we're not as intuitive as you are; some of us need things 
spelled out in black and white.     


---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:


My first LOL of the day, Richard, thank you. Be good. But have fun. Happiest of 
holidays to you and your family and all the best in 2014.





On Friday, December 20, 2013 12:06 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... 
wrote:
 
  
There seems to be a lot of sneakiness around here lately: First there was Ravi 
sneaking around Bill's trailer house; then Bob sneaking around calling Rita at 
work; and just last night I saw a guy snooping around our laundry room in the 
dark. 

And, I wouldn't be surprised if some editor is monitoring all my
  posts to FFL!



On 12/20/2013 9:57 AM, sharelong60@... wrote:

  
Yes, Richard that's what I'm saying and no I don't think Emily should get 
booted for that. Hey, way to conjure up Judy!







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread authfriend
Share blabbered:
 
  Emily, so I did! But I can't unpack cuz don't know dictionary def of 
frigging, only sense of it.-: 
 

 http://lmgtfy.com/?q=frigging

 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread emilymaenot
Dear Share, let's unpack this together.  I am in a good mood this morning.  I 
feel lighter and brighter than usual.  IT'S A FRIGGING MIRACLE, SHARE.  Now, I 
could attribute this MIRACLE to the Vitamin D in liquid form that I have in my 
cupboard and tend to ingest through spiritual osmosis, but I suspect (I am the 
tiniest bit paranoid, if you've been paying attention), that bOb, in his 
inimitable (Google this word, Share) wisdom, is somehow responsible for the 
assist.  You could learn a lot from Bob and JUDY, Share, about music and art 
and thoughtful conversation, for three.  
 

 However, it is intuitive of you to ask me to help you understand more about 
the word FRIGGING, because I happen to know a lot about this word, in that I 
am raising teenagers, for one.  
 

 According to the Urban Dictionary, friggin'  (and I prefer this spelling and 
pronunciation) is a handy word used to replace fuckin(g) in arguments with 
your mom, as in What the crap mom, that's so fu-friggin' lame.  I will 
confirm that this very phrase has been used on me.  When I asked my teen to 
please not swear at me, she told me in no uncertain terms that FRIGGIN was 
not a swear word.  Hmm.very interesting, isn't it?  
 

 Another definition in the Urban Dictionary of friggin'  is a word for a 
female masturbating.  Is this the sense of the word that you were sensing? 
 In that the whole phrase was ...GET A FRIGGING LIFE and that frigging is 
used as an adjective, not a verb, I think this unlikely.  However, if you feel 
like friggin, don't be embarrassed about it - I'm guessing that even the 
Neanderthals had this figured out.
 

 Yet another definition of the word frigging  is a word used by cowards who 
are too afraid to say fucking.  I suspect this is what you meant in your 
declaration; did you sense that Bob and I should GET A FUCKING LIFE Share?  
I am only asking because *you* wrote what *you* were sensing at the time, and I 
can only be responsible for my *share* of what crosses FFL, and that would be 
what I write.  
 

 Now, this statement of yours was made in response to a question to you about 
what you thought about Ann's tree.  I'm guessing, based on your response, that 
you found this question intolerable in some way.  In my world (the world of 
teenagers), the phrase GET A FUCKING LIFE (Or FRIGGING, if you prefer) is 
another way of saying FUCK YOU OR FUCK OFF!  Now, this could be a clue for 
*you* that *you* may be holding a resentment.  
 

 Luckily for you, I have put together a FEELINGS 101 manual for you and I am 
willing to put it in the mail and pay for postage. I worry for you Share, 
because resentments can lead to RAGE and they also often result in MEAN 
behavior - both of which are not good for one's health.  No amount of quinoa 
(or dietary restrictions in general) will help with this kind of a problem. 
But, Share, this is just a tease, the solution is in the manual, so let me know 
if this is something you'd like to pursue.
 

 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd!  ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. 
Emily.
 

 P.S.  This is a remedial lesson on this fabulous word FUCK.  (If the link 
doesn't work, you'll have to cut and paste it in.)
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gPdhHed4sg 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gPdhHed4sg

  

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, authfriend@... wrote:

 Share blabbered:
 
  Emily, so I did! But I can't unpack cuz don't know dictionary def of 
frigging, only sense of it.-: 
 

 http://lmgtfy.com/?q=frigging

 



 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd!  ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
 SHARE. Emily.
This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread emilymaenot
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked me 
to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Share Long
Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!





On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked me 
to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 


---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:


On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd!  ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
 SHARE. Emily.
This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread emilymaenot
Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  Consider 
this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step further.  Here 
is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you are having an 
emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is Lesson 2 and 
it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. 
 Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 

 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 

 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!

 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Richard J. Williams
This thread is getting more impressive every hour. I hope my grand 
children don't read this. But, just as a reminder this forum is supposed 
to be a family forum - I don't think Rick wants it to get a XXX rating. 
Maybe it might be better to take this offline or to private email. Kirk 
got booted by Rick for using this kind of language, so don't get carried 
away. Have a nice Christmas.


On 12/22/2013 8:01 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:


HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share 
asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. 
 She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware 
of what she wrote.  I think Feste should check in on her to make sure 
she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was 
writing or why she didn't know to Google the word.




---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:

 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING
DAY
 SHARE. Emily.

This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Share Long
Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!





On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  Consider 
this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step further.  Here 
is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you are having an 
emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is Lesson 2 and 
it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. 
 Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  

P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  

And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  


---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:


Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!





On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
  
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked me 
to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 


---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:


On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd!  ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
 SHARE. Emily.
This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!




Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Richard J. Williams
Sometimes posting to a chat room brings out the mean side of people, 
Share, who otherwise might be the nicest people you'd ever meet. Go figure.


If I ever get back up to Fairfield, I'd like to have a cup of coffee at 
Revelations with you, Buck and Alex - the latter probably being the most 
intelligent subscriber to this list, by staying out of most of the 
conversations. But, I can't believe that Buck doesn't listen to Prairie 
Home Companion on the radio. Go figure.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Prairie_Home_Companion

On 12/22/2013 9:07 PM, Share Long wrote:
Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the 
dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help 
to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!




On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share 
asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. 
 She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware 
of what she wrote.  I think Feste should check in on her to make sure 
she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was 
writing or why she didn't know to Google the word.



---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:

 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING
DAY
 SHARE. Emily.

This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!







Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread Richard J. Williams
What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice 
people, but something happened to them. It looks like they came under 
the influence of Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob 
support a guy that got banned by the owner of the forum  - for cursing 
and making personal threats . Now his supporters are just going into a 
very dark area that I don't want to go. When it gets this personal, it's 
a very bad sign for the whole group at this time of the year. It's not 
looking good for the new year, Share.


On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote:
Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of 
some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it 
would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt 
exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at 
how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards 
to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!




On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. 
 Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a 
step further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. 
 Acknowledge that you are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no 
need to identify it yet.  That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 
easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet.  Whadya 
say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?


P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do 
you have?


And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut 
milk; pretty darn tasty.



---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the 
dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help 
to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!




On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... wrote:
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share 
asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. 
 She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware 
of what she wrote.  I think Feste should check in on her to make sure 
she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was 
writing or why she didn't know to Google the word.



---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:

 TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS
FUCKING DAY
 SHARE. Emily.

This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!










Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread bobpriced


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, 
but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of 
Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got 
banned by the owner of the forum  - for cursing and making personal threats . 
Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to 
go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at 
this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share.

 
 Richard Macro (#23)
  
 Since it looks like he's never going to vacate the laundry room, please ask 
him if he would mind throwing in the odd load of laundry: It's not like he 
actually has to stand up or anything! Go figure. 
 
 
 On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote:
 
   Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 
 
 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 
 
 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... 
wrote:
 
 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... 
wrote:
 
 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season! 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread emilymaenot
Richard, why so down in the dumps?  Hey, what do you think of changing the name 
of FFL to FFF?  We've got Fairfield Food as an option and I'm thinking of 
proposing Fairfield Feelings as another one.  Personally, I think it is 
looking very good for the New Year.  Cheer up, sport.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, 
but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of 
Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got 
banned by the owner of the forum  - for cursing and making personal threats . 
Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to 
go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at 
this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share.
 
 On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote:
 
   Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 
 
 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 
 
 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... 
wrote:
 
 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... 
wrote:
 
 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season! 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread emilymaenot
P.S.  If you throw in a load of laundry, you'll feel a lot better, Richard.  If 
you want me to help you work through your FEELINGS about doing laundry, let me 
know.  I'm available after the new year.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Richard, why so down in the dumps?  Hey, what do you think of changing the 
name of FFL to FFF?  We've got Fairfield Food as an option and I'm thinking 
of proposing Fairfield Feelings as another one.  Personally, I think it is 
looking very good for the New Year.  Cheer up, sport.  
 

 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, 
but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of 
Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got 
banned by the owner of the forum  - for cursing and making personal threats . 
Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to 
go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at 
this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share.
 
 On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote:
 
   Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 
 
 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 
 
 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... 
wrote:
 
 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... 
wrote:
 
 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season! 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-22 Thread emilymaenot
Excellent Share, excellent!  It only took you 2.85 days to unpack what you 
meant by GET A FRIGGING LIFE.   That wasn't so hard, was it?  
 

 Here is the rest of Lesson 2.  Set up a file box (maybe an Iowa-themed recipe 
box will do)  with 26 cards, one for each letter of the alphabet.  When you 
identify a feeling you are having, write it down under the corresponding 
letter.  Now, we're after only the more negative feelings with you; you've got 
positivity down.  So, as I recollect, you were feeling cranky with Robin (a 
C word) and were feeling exasperated by Bob and Emily.  I'll bet Judy and Ann 
elicit feelings too.  Try to keep it to 3 feelings/emotions per letter of the 
alphabet.  This will give you a range of 78 feelings in your feeling bank.  
Let me know when Lesson 2 is complete and we will move on to Lesson 3 - also a 
fun one - How to tell a Feeling from a Fact.  This is where we start to take 
on the phenomenon of why you like to engage in name-calling.  I'll work on my 
list too so you don't have to go it alone.  
 

 Don't let Richard get you down now; maybe you could send him a recipe box? 
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some 
situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that 
I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging 
life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a 
molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition.  
Consider this a Christmas present from me.  I'm also willing to go a step 
further.  Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101.  Acknowledge that you 
are having an emotion.  Just that Share, no need to identify it yet.  That is 
Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of 
the alphabet.  Whadya say...are you curious?  Shall we do this together?  
 

 P.S.  For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have?  
 

 And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty 
darn tasty.  
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary 
definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm 
quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much!
 

 
 
 On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD.  Is this better?  Share asked 
me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did.  She wrote it; she 
could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote.  I think 
Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why 
she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. 
 
 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote:

 On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote:
  TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY 
  SHARE. Emily.
 This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!

 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Richard, Poster of the Year 2013, you make me laugh and think and are kind, so 
in your honor I'm making a new thread even though my new threads rarely get 
replied to boo hoo!
 

 Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo 
of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE, I shall now enlighten you both about my 
immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann 
posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!
 

 Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!
 

 That's it, Emily and Bob. That was my immediate reaction to seeing the photo. 
Of course since then I figured out that most people use the same ornaments year 
after year and put the tree in the same place. So maybe it is a current photo 
of the current tree. But the photo sure looks suspiciously familiar. Go figure!
 

 Of course it's a very lovely tree and photo so a repeat appearance is good 
too. 

 

 No, this year my tree is in a different spot. I wasn't going to bother to go 
take a picture of the new tree this year, upload it to the web and then move 
it over here for this thread. But the tree this year, in its new location, 
looks just as Christmasy and the living room is still as homey and the new 
puppy we have makes it all even better. Here she is, just arrived from the SPCA 
last night. We're calling her Fledermaus for obvious reasons. Puppies are 
incredibly good for the soul, not to mention the abdominal muscles. 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 






[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread doctordumbass
What a cutie! - sounds like you have plenty of room for her, too.

[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread doctordumbass
Rats!! You almost nailed that bitch! Well, there's always next year's 
picture...Happy Holidays!

[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread emilymaenot

 Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to 
the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!  
Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!
 

 Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to 
feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.  



[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote:

 Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to 
the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!  
Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!
 

 Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to 
feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.  

 

 Ah Emily,  just because you have a huge heart, an ability to express it and 
are really, really smart to boot, you must realize that the ultimate test is 
whether Share can resist the puppy. I say she can.

 


[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread emilymaenot
Second send:
 

 Ann!  I was going there next.  I am curious.  Share, how does the picture of 
Ann's puppy affect you?  Feel free to use descriptors, pictures, music, poetry 
and all other means of creative expression in formulating your response.

 

 --


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread Share Long
See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the 
part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to 
boot.





On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to 
the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!  
Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!

Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel 
positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.  



Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread Share Long
Ann, it sounds like you're saying that indeed you did post your Christmas tree 
photo from last year. So my reaction was on target!





On Friday, December 20, 2013 7:52 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:


Richard, Poster of the Year 2013, you make me laugh and think and are kind, so 
in your honor I'm making a new thread even though my new threads rarely get 
replied to boo hoo!

Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo of 
Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE, I shall now enlighten you both about my 
immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann 
posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!

Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!

That's it, Emily and Bob. That was my immediate reaction to seeing the photo. 
Of course since then I figured out that most people use the same ornaments year 
after year and put the tree in the same place. So maybe it is a current photo 
of the current tree. But the photo sure looks suspiciously familiar. Go figure!

Of course it's a very lovely tree and photo so a repeat appearance is good too. 


No, this year my tree is in a different spot. I wasn't going to bother to go 
take a picture of the new tree this year, upload it to the web and then move 
it over here for this thread. But the tree this year, in its new location, 
looks just as Christmasy and the living room is still as homey and the new 
puppy we have makes it all even better. Here she is, just arrived from the SPCA 
last night. We're calling her Fledermaus for obvious reasons. Puppies are 
incredibly good for the soul, not to mention the abdominal muscles. 
























Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread Richard J. Williams
Are you suggesting that Emily was dishonest and sneaky about leaving out 
the part where you said that her tree and photo were lovely. Should she 
get booted for that? Where's Judy when we need her?


On 12/20/2013 9:36 AM, Share Long wrote:
See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave 
out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's 
sneaky dishonesty to boot.





On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane 
reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto 
your seatbelts!  Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo 
before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?!


*/Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an 
ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm 
and fuzzy response. /*








Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread Share Long
Emily, based on your earlier responses, I don't think you're interested in my 
reactions to Ann's photos except as an opportunity to put me down. Have a good 
day.





On Friday, December 20, 2013 9:20 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com 
emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Second send:

Ann!  I was going there next.  I am curious.  Share, how does the picture of 
Ann's puppy affect you?  Feel free to use descriptors, pictures, music, poetry 
and all other means of creative expression in formulating your response.


--


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread authfriend
See, Share, some might say that the mean-spirited snark in your post not only 
far outweighs any positive effect of the purported compliment, but suggests 
that there is actually no genuine positive feeling behind the compliment. All 
the energy is in the snark; the purported compliment is lifeless.
 

 IOW, Emily's comment highlighting the snark and ignoring the compliment is far 
more honest than either your original post or your response here.
 
Share whined:

  See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the 
part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to 
boot. 
 

 

 
 
 On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
   Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction 
to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!  
Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!
 

 Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to 
feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.  

 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread sharelong60
Yes, Richard that's what I'm saying and no I don't think Emily should get 
booted for that. Hey, way to conjure up Judy!

Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread Richard J. Williams

So, why don't you set a macro for Share? LoL!

On 12/20/2013 9:52 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


See, Share, some might say that the mean-spirited snark in your post 
not only far outweighs any positive effect of the purported 
compliment, but suggests that there is actually no genuine positive 
feeling behind the compliment. All the energy is in the snark; the 
purported compliment is lifeless.



IOW, Emily's comment highlighting the snark and ignoring the 
compliment is far more honest than either your original post or your 
response here.



Share whined:

 See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave 
out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's 
sneaky dishonesty to boot. 





On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymaenot@... 
emilymaenot@... wrote:
Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane 
reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto 
your seatbelts!  Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo 
before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?!


*/Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an 
ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm 
and fuzzy response. /*








Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread Share Long
Richard, how about Judy set up a macro for everyone she rags on. Then she'd 
have more time for her clients.





On Friday, December 20, 2013 10:02 AM, Richard J. Williams 
pundits...@gmail.com wrote:
 
  
So, why don't you set a macro for Share? LoL!

On 12/20/2013 9:52 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

  
See, Share, some might say that the mean-spirited snark in your post not only 
far outweighs any positive effect of the purported compliment, but suggests 
that there is actually no genuine positive feeling behind the compliment. All 
the energy is in the snark; the purported compliment is lifeless.


IOW, Emily's comment highlighting the snark and ignoring the compliment is far 
more honest than either your original post or your response here.

Share whined:


 See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the 
part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to 
boot. 







On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... 
wrote:
 
  
Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to 
the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!  
Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!


Yes, Barry is correct.  Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to 
feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.  






Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread emilymaenot
Not true Share; I really am curious in a very objective fashion. Your response 
gives you away, again. It has nothing to do with me.  


Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo

2013-12-20 Thread awoelflebater


 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Ann, it sounds like you're saying that indeed you did post your Christmas tree 
photo from last year. So my reaction was on target!
 

 Yes Share, you are perfect and full of love and compassion and gentleness. The 
serum of truth fairly oozes out of your lovely pores and I stand humbled in the 
face of your searing honesty. In addition, your use of the word target is 
very apropos.
 

 
 
 On Friday, December 20, 2013 7:52 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote:

 Richard, Poster of the Year 2013, you make me laugh and think and are kind, so 
in your honor I'm making a new thread even though my new threads rarely get 
replied to boo hoo!
 

 Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo 
of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE, I shall now enlighten you both about my 
immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann 
posted. Hold onto your seatbelts!
 

 Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo 
Ann posted last year?!
 

 That's it, Emily and Bob. That was my immediate reaction to seeing the photo. 
Of course since then I figured out that most people use the same ornaments year 
after year and put the tree in the same place. So maybe it is a current photo 
of the current tree. But the photo sure looks suspiciously familiar. Go figure!
 

 Of course it's a very lovely tree and photo so a repeat appearance is good 
too. 

 

 No, this year my tree is in a different spot. I wasn't going to bother to go 
take a picture of the new tree this year, upload it to the web and then move 
it over here for this thread. But the tree this year, in its new location, 
looks just as Christmasy and the living room is still as homey and the new 
puppy we have makes it all even better. Here she is, just arrived from the SPCA 
last night. We're calling her Fledermaus for obvious reasons. Puppies are 
incredibly good for the soul, not to mention the abdominal muscles. 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 




 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





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