[FairfieldLife] Re: to Emily
Dear Share, what I was actually *doing* was encouraging you to *claim* what works for you and use it to get through the fear and resentment you have towards me and now I understand more fully, towards women in general. It isn't about me - don't kid yourself. (The comment you made back to Empty re: women was very sad and I do believe you believe it. Remember, you are one!) Practice self-love Share and practice doubting your ability to perceive reality correctly. Try on different lenses; don't be confident in your assumptions. Stay open to opposite interpretations. You really don't *know* Share; to the extent that you think you do, you shut yourself off over and over and over. Your comments today to Ann, me, and Fleetfoot indicate the nature of your problem. You are completely impervious to any feedback on yourself; you are completely transparent in this way and you can't see it. Nothing any of us said to you had any effect whatsoever on your being. I was very detached yesterday Share, despite what it looked like and I just stayed open to the feeling I received from you and it was very, very, blank. Look for your heart; search for a connection to your soul. Collecting bits of knowledge in your disorganized mind to later tout out in an effort to sound intelligent is a waste of your golden years. Pray and meditate to God for the ability to give and receive love. It wasn't my intention to hurt your feelings. You do *not* have the *ability* to understand my sense of humor and you misinterpret me completely because you assume that I don't have benign or benevolent intentions. You said it; you believe it. Claim it, feel it, and let it go. I have never wavered once from numerous efforts to get you to have a real conversation with me in whatever format you please and I have no resentment towards you whatsoever. I accept you where you are. I pray for you. If you were solid in your conviction that EFT tapping works, than you wouldn't have been so unnerved by my challenging you to use it. Don't let your fear feed your pattern of avoidance. I will leave you the last word Share. I am leaving FFL for now. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote : Emily, you make fun of my doing tapping. Then you ask me if I do Sedona Method. Why would I answer?! To give you more ammo?! Duh!
[FairfieldLife] Re: to Emily
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote : Dear Share, what I was actually *doing* was encouraging you to *claim* what works for you and use it to get through the fear and resentment you have towards me and now I understand more fully, towards women in general. Wow, we can get therapy here too! I've been thinking this place reminds me of somewhere more and more recently, which one of you is nurse Ratched? It isn't about me - don't kid yourself. (The comment you made back to Empty re: women was very sad and I do believe you believe it. Remember, you are one!) Practice self-love Share and practice doubting your ability to perceive reality correctly. Try on different lenses; don't be confident in your assumptions. Stay open to opposite interpretations. You really don't *know* Share; to the extent that you think you do, you shut yourself off over and over and over. Your comments today to Ann, me, and Fleetfoot indicate the nature of your problem. You are completely impervious to any feedback on yourself; you are completely transparent in this way and you can't see it. Nothing any of us said to you had any effect whatsoever on your being. I was very detached yesterday Share, despite what it looked like and I just stayed open to the feeling I received from you and it was very, very, blank. Look for your heart; search for a connection to your soul. Collecting bits of knowledge in your disorganized mind to later tout out in an effort to sound intelligent is a waste of your golden years. Pray and meditate to God for the ability to give and receive love. It wasn't my intention to hurt your feelings. You do *not* have the *ability* to understand my sense of humor and you misinterpret me completely because you assume that I don't have benign or benevolent intentions. You said it; you believe it. Claim it, feel it, and let it go. I have never wavered once from numerous efforts to get you to have a real conversation with me in whatever format you please and I have no resentment towards you whatsoever. I accept you where you are. I pray for you. If you were solid in your conviction that EFT tapping works, than you wouldn't have been so unnerved by my challenging you to use it. Don't let your fear feed your pattern of avoidance. I will leave you the last word Share. I am leaving FFL for now. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote : Emily, you make fun of my doing tapping. Then you ask me if I do Sedona Method. Why would I answer?! To give you more ammo?! Duh!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He even says that you are probably nice in person. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you. I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He even says that you are probably nice in person. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty dumb. On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you. I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He even says that you are probably nice in person. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
If you'll forgive me, Share, I hardly consider your opinion definitive on what is dumb and what is not. I understand why you have to avoid the tough questions, though. That's your modus operandi. You couldn't survive otherwise. Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty dumb. On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you. I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He even says that you are probably nice in person. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Your questions are dumb imo, Judy because you are asking me about something that you yourself do. That is, you have no standards for your buddies and very harsh standards for those you don't like. On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:46 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: If you'll forgive me, Share, I hardly consider your opinion definitive on what is dumb and what is not. I understand why you have to avoid the tough questions, though. That's your modus operandi. You couldn't survive otherwise. Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty dumb. On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you. I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He even says that you are probably nice in person. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Your questions are dumb imo, Judy because you are asking me about something that you yourself do. That is, you have no standards for your buddies and very harsh standards for those you don't like. No, no, Share, you've tried that before with me, and you came up empty, remember? In fact, it's one of your fantasies. It's OK if you don't want to answer my questions about your double standards. I just note that you've declined to do so, which says something about you in and of itself. On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:46 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: If you'll forgive me, Share, I hardly consider your opinion definitive on what is dumb and what is not. I understand why you have to avoid the tough questions, though. That's your modus operandi. You couldn't survive otherwise. Judy, I answered one of your questions even though imo they're all pretty dumb. On Thursday, December 26, 2013 1:14 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You didn't answer my questions. I guess they must be pretty threatening to you. I support Richard because not only are his posts humorous and interesting and having good spiritual knowledge, but they are also kind, for the most part. He even says that you are probably nice in person. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
So, you're an older woman NOT working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey because you chose this? You're not even making any sense, Judy. On 12/24/2013 4:03 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct /his/ fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the forum. I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what Feliz Navidad meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. ROTFLMAO! On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: *LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.* Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Siga las instrucctiones de los operadores del tren. Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the forum. I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what Feliz Navidad meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. ROTFLMAO! On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro. Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Just delete the NOT, and you'll be making perfect sense. (Except for all your other fantasies, of course.) So, you're an older woman NOT working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey because you chose this? You're not even making any sense, Judy. On 12/24/2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
So, I guess this does explain why Judy did understand what Feliz Navidad meant,so she responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. Judy DID know what it meant, so she responded with the meanest, and nastiest snark she could think up on the spur of the moment. It just doesn't get any better than this! On 12/25/2013 9:30 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: *Siga las instrucctiones de los operadores del tren.* Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the forum. I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what Feliz Navidad meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. ROTFLMAO! On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: *LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.* Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Well, I always pictured Judy as a mature and hard-working, free-lance editor working out of a home office, near a beach; sitting at a computer with a large flat-screen monitor; with maybe a nice picture window to look out of; and sometimes posting to a discussion group for amusement and fun. But, up till now Judy seemed to make sense, but maybe I got it all wrong- it WAS just a fantasy. Go figure. On 12/25/2013 9:47 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: *Just delete the NOT, and you'll be making perfect sense.* * * *(Except for all your other fantasies, of course.)* So, you're an older woman NOT working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey because you chose this? You're not even making any sense, Judy. On 12/24/2013 4:03 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct /his/ fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Actually, Share and I were exchanging equivalent wishes. She has a great deal of trouble expressing her resentments and hatreds straightforwardly, so I was just helping her out. La via del tren subterraneo es peligrosa... Much safer to come out and say what you're really feeling than keeping it all bottled up under the surface. So, I guess this does explain why Judy did understand what Feliz Navidad meant,so she responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. Judy DID know what it meant, so she responded with the meanest, and nastiest snark she could think up on the spur of the moment. It just doesn't get any better than this! On 12/25/2013 9:30 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: Siga las instrucctiones de los operadores del tren. Oh, great! Now we have a Spanish speaker AND a Sanskrit speaker on the forum. I guess this explains why Judy didn't seem to understand what Feliz Navidad meant, and then responded with Fuck you very much, Share in reply. It just doesn't get any better than this for pure snark. ROTFLMAO! On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro. Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
turq, maybe I'm in prep to be a mom next lifetime! As in love the child, reject the destructive behavior, deal with it in a firm but loving way. All grist for the learning mill. Anyway, Happy Holidays. Do you all do Christmas, etc. for Maya? On Monday, December 23, 2013 11:39 AM, TurquoiseB turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or flaws which of course we all have. Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. If I were to pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in such interactions, it would go sorta like this. Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. They are hooked on it in the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when they see someone getting more Attention than they are (or, let's face it on this forum, any Attention at all), they get pissed off at those who are attracting the Attention because it's Ours, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according to psychosis, the posts from Mean Girls would consistently be green, for jealousy. :-) So anyway, these wannabe occultists see someone else getting the Attention that they seek, so they Can't Have That. They have to combat that somehow. The most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. If it doesn't work, they move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make the other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage in which the Mean Girls usually pull out all the stops. They'll say anything they can think of about the person they're trying to demonize, because the Whole Purpose is *to* demonize them. Since they *obviously* can't compete on equal ground and gain a similar measure of Attention, they attempt to discredit the ones who are getting more Attention than they are, in the hopes that it will shift back to them. So *naturally* such people focus on what they perceive as your mistakes or faults. *Their* whole act is about pretending that they don't have any. So if you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and they are. Yeah, right. This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people still fall for it. But they do. Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write you off because of what a few Mean Girls say about you, they really aren't worth having in your sphere of influence, are they? Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends! You should look into the works of Carlos Castaneda. He may have been a charlatan, but a case can be made that everyone else people cite on this forum as an authority is, too. :-) Charlatans or not, they occasionally said things one can learn from. In Carlos' case, the pieces of his philosophy you might wanna look into have to do with his characterization of the Petty Tyrant. They're pretty much required reading if one wants to survive on the Internet. In the strategic inventories of warriors, self-importance figures as the activity that consumes the greatest amount of energy, hence, their effort to eradicate it. One of the first concerns of warriors is to free that energy in order to face the unknown with it. The action of rechanneling that energy is impeccability. The most effective strategy for rechanneling that energy consists of six elements that interplay with one another. Five of them are called the attributes of warriorship: control, discipline, forbearance, timing, andwill . They pertain to the world of the warrior who is fighting to lose self-importance. The sixth element, which is perhaps the most important of all, pertains to the outside world and is called the petty tyrant. A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power of life and death over warriors or simply annoys them to distraction. Petty tyrants teach us detachment. The ingredients of the new seers' strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using a petty tyrant. The strategy not only gets rid of self-importance; it also prepares warriors for the final realization that impeccability is the only thing that counts in the path of knowledge. - Carlos Castaneda, The Fire From Within
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. turq, maybe I'm in prep to be a mom next lifetime! As in love the child, reject the destructive behavior, deal with it in a firm but loving way. All grist for the learning mill.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
This is the kind of sneaky, hypocritical meanness I'm talking about that's so destructive. It's much healthier, not to mention more honest, to put your resentment right out there. Pretending to love the people you hate will have a terrible effect on any child you might have. Are you familar with the Dickens character Uriah Heep? Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: This is the kind of sneaky, hypocritical meanness I'm talking about that's so destructive. It's much healthier, not to mention more honest, to put your resentment right out there. Pretending to love the people you hate will have a terrible effect on any child you might have. Are you familar with the Dickens character Uriah Heep? Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. Now let's see if she or anyone else who insists on supporting her faux good nature can condemn me for saying this when they say far worse things about you. Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure. On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote: Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com mailto:authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Ok, but all I want for Christmas is to know how to say go figure in Spanish (-: On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:19 PM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure. On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote: Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/22/2013 9:33 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Fuck you very much, Share. On 12/24/2013 10:45 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: This is the kind of sneaky, hypocritical meanness I'm talking about that's so destructive. It's much healthier, not to mention more honest, to put your resentment right out there. Pretending to love the people you hate will have a terrible effect on any child you might have. Are you familar with the Dickens character Uriah Heep? Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
vaya usted a saber - go figure in Spanish. On 12/24/2013 2:28 PM, Share Long wrote: Ok, but all I want for Christmas is to know how to say go figure in Spanish (-: On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:19 PM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure. On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote: Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com mailto:pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com mailto:authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro. Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this? Nope, no similarity at all. Share and Judy aren't even members of the same species. One resembles the spineless, brainless jelly fish and one doesn't. http://infotel.ca/newsitem/TRAVEL-Log-Jellyfish/CP26576138 http://infotel.ca/newsitem/TRAVEL-Log-Jellyfish/CP26576138
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
But, Judy didn't seem to understand feliz navidad that Share posted. Go figure. On 12/24/2013 3:05 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: *LA VIA DEL TREN SUBTERRANEO ES PELIGROSA. No salga afuera. Si el tren se para entre las estaciones, quedese adentro.* Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
My first Christmas present! Thank you, Richard. And for you this chant that Snatam Kuar sang in FF in honor of Maharishi after his passing. It's very beautiful and her voice is so pure. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Gzip-zj0vY On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:36 PM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: vaya usted a saber - go figure in Spanish. On 12/24/2013 2:28 PM, Share Long wrote: Ok, but all I want for Christmas is to know how to say go figure in Spanish (-: On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 2:19 PM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: Apparently Judy doesn't speak or understand a single word of Spanish. Go figure. On 12/24/2013 10:36 AM, Share Long wrote: Richard, Judy's still focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive, meaning ignoring the part about loving the child. But keep up the good work! I think you're beginning to have a positive influence on her. Feliz Navidad! On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 10:29 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:16 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Let's hope you've rejected your own destructive behavior before you get anywhere near being a mother. You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Judy. Feliz Navidad! Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
You support Richard, who has more fantasies about me and Ann and others than I can count. What's up with that, Share? Why don't you correct his fantasies too? And Barry's? Not to mention your own fantasies about us. Who's living in a fantasy world? Seems kinda inconsistent, don't you think? Like, hypocritical? Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Actually I live in a 2 BR, 1 1/2 bath townhouse with dining room and breakfast nook. The rest is also Ann's fantasy about me. What I am not fantasizing about is that you have no one to share that with. On Tuesday, December 24, 2013 3:05 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/24/2013 10:51 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: Judy, there is a reason Share is living alone as an older woman in a one-bedroom flat in the middle of Iowa. And it's not because she chose this. You mean compared to an even older woman working out of a home office near a beach in New Jersey, and not because she chose this?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/22/2013 11:26 PM, bobpri...@yahoo.com wrote: /Since it looks like he's never going to vacate the laundry room/ We thought we saw somebody snooping around the laundry room out back by the patio, but it was kind of dark back we were not sure. Was that you, Bob? Maybe we should check to see if any underwear is missing. I hope you're not planning on wearing any of our dirty underwear - if you do, you're hopeless.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/23/2013 1:29 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: what do you think of changing the name of FFL to FFF? HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Maybe it's time to review a few internet protocols: 1. Avoid using all caps - it is usually construed to be a form of shouting. 2. Avoid using foul language on a family oriented discussion group. 3. Avoid drinking too much eggnog around Christmas time. 4. Don't allow your teenage offspring to curse their mother.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. On 12/23/2013 1:38 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: P.S. If you throw in a load of laundry, you'll feel a lot better, Richard. If you want me to help you work through your FEELINGS about doing laundry, let me know. I'm available after the new year. Rita usually takes care of the laundry around here, but thanks for your concern. And, I have no feelings one way or the other if anyone wants to masturbate or not. For the record, its none of my business what one, two or more adults do in the privacy of their own bedroom. P.S. Please tell Bob to not be snooping around our laundry room anymore - sometimes Rita and I like to fool around when we do the laundry - it's none of anybody's business what we do in there. Thanks.
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HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. On 12/23/2013 1:48 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: That wasn't so hard, was it? Well, I guess it all depends on how much help a person has - Rita helps me out, so I don't need to resort to self-abuse. Rita and I had a really marvelous evening. Thanks for your concern, but it's kind of a private thing, Emily.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote: Richard, why so down in the dumps? Hey, what do you think of changing the name of FFL to FFF? We've got Fairfield Food as an option and I'm thinking of proposing Fairfield Feelings as another one. Personally, I think it is looking very good for the New Year. Cheer up, sport. Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life. As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and self control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get me to want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally sucking the place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, apparently, only a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six words together in a semblance of the English language but with no relevance or insight into anything except the insight which we are continually being given into the state of her hapless existence. So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not sure I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful inane in sharebear will subside. Let us pray... ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got banned by the owner of the forum - for cursing and making personal threats . Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share. On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM,
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote: Excellent Share, excellent! It only took you 2.85 days to unpack what you meant by GET A FRIGGING LIFE. That wasn't so hard, was it? Here is the rest of Lesson 2. Set up a file box (maybe an Iowa-themed recipe box will do) with 26 cards, one for each letter of the alphabet. When you identify a feeling you are having, write it down under the corresponding letter. Now, we're after only the more negative feelings with you; you've got positivity down. So, as I recollect, you were feeling cranky with Robin (a C word) and were feeling exasperated by Bob and Emily. I'll bet Judy and Ann elicit feelings too. Try to keep it to 3 feelings/emotions per letter of the alphabet. This will give you a range of 78 feelings in your feeling bank. Let me know when Lesson 2 is complete and we will move on to Lesson 3 - also a fun one - How to tell a Feeling from a Fact. This is where we start to take on the phenomenon of why you like to engage in name-calling. I'll work on my list too so you don't have to go it alone. Don't let Richard get you down now; maybe you could send him a recipe box? I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. (clap, clap) ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Ann wrote: Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life. As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and self control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get me to want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally sucking the place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, apparently, only a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six words together in a semblance of the English language but with no relevance or insight into anything except the insight which we are continually being given into the state of her hapless existence. So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not sure I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful inane in sharebear will subside. Let us pray... AMEN.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/23/2013 8:53 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote: I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. (clap, clap) Maybe you forgot this advice from Emily to Share: HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.
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On 12/23/2013 9:14 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: *Ann wrote:* Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life. As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and self control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get me to want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally sucking the place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, apparently, only a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six words together in a semblance of the English language but with no relevance or insight into anything except the insight which we are continually being given into the state of her hapless existence. So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not sure I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful inane in sharebear will subside. Let us pray... AMEN. Something seems to have gotten sniped here. Go figure. HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.
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Richard, that would be fun to meet at Revs in person. It it the FF *in* spot. You might even spot Oprah or David Lynch there. Only kidding! I think Oprah went to Cafe Paradiso which is just down the street. Maybe we could all dress in Duck Dynasty outfits too. That'll give the TMers something to meditate on! PS I agree with you that FFLers are probably nicer in person.
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Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or flaws which of course we all have. Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends! On Monday, December 23, 2013 10:19 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/23/2013 8:53 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote: I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. (clap, clap) Maybe you forgot this advice from Emily to Share: HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.
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Snipped too, Richard. Maybe they're just unstressing (-: On Monday, December 23, 2013 10:32 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: On 12/23/2013 9:14 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Ann wrote: Dear Emily, Richard is having some sort of life crisis. I don't know if his wife has flown the coop, he has discovered he has no real friends or the approach of Christmas just brings out the crazy in him. And we aren't likely to ever find out. In the meantime Sillyshare just keeps feeding off his inanities and fibbing away pretending she doesn't know, at her ripe old age, the meaning of the word frigging. She knows all about how pitta effects pimple production, how to find quinoa in a grocery store and can make her way to the Dome (when it isn't foggy, which it rarely is in FF) but can she define frigging? Appears not because she is either very, very silly or she has been living in Iowa in some sort of neuroplastic bubble most of her life. As much as we all would like to help Richard and Share become less manic in their posting, to help them define and understand the limits of good conduct within a civilized society where intelligence and appropriate humility and self control seem to exist they both appear to be living in some sort of Twilight Zone of strangeness and compulsion. If there was ever anything to get me to want to vacate the premises it would be these two who are literally sucking the place dry - Tex who will simply not shut up and share who has, apparently, only a brain cell or maybe two left with which to put five or six words together in a semblance of the English language but with no relevance or insight into anything except the insight which we are continually being given into the state of her hapless existence. So, at this time of festivity, lights and glad tidings I wish I had better news; I wish I could extend hope for the future but at this time I am not sure I can. Perhaps the crazy in Texas Ricky will recede and the spiteful inane in sharebear will subside. Let us pray... AMEN. Something seems to have gotten sniped here. Go figure. HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.
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My offer still holds! Good 'til the end of the year! Bitcoins...
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or flaws which of course we all have. Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. If I were to pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in such interactions, it would go sorta like this. Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. They are hooked on it in the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when they see someone getting more Attention than they are (or, let's face it on this forum, any Attention at all), they get pissed off at those who are attracting the Attention because it's Ours, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according to psychosis, the posts from Mean Girls would consistently be green, for jealousy. :-) So anyway, these wannabe occultists see someone else getting the Attention that they seek, so they Can't Have That. They have to combat that somehow. The most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. If it doesn't work, they move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make the other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage in which the Mean Girls usually pull out all the stops. They'll say anything they can think of about the person they're trying to demonize, because the Whole Purpose is *to* demonize them. Since they *obviously* can't compete on equal ground and gain a similar measure of Attention, they attempt to discredit the ones who are getting more Attention than they are, in the hopes that it will shift back to them. So *naturally* such people focus on what they perceive as your mistakes or faults. *Their* whole act is about pretending that they don't have any. So if you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and they are. Yeah, right. This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people still fall for it. But they do. Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write you off because of what a few Mean Girls say about you, they really aren't worth having in your sphere of influence, are they? Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends! You should look into the works of Carlos Castaneda. He may have been a charlatan, but a case can be made that everyone else people cite on this forum as an authority is, too. :-) Charlatans or not, they occasionally said things one can learn from. In Carlos' case, the pieces of his philosophy you might wanna look into have to do with his characterization of the Petty Tyrant. They're pretty much required reading if one wants to survive on the Internet. In the strategic inventories of warriors, self-importance figures as the activity that consumes the greatest amount of energy, hence, their effort to eradicate it. One of the first concerns of warriors is to free that energy in order to face the unknown with it. The action of rechanneling that energy is impeccability. The most effective strategy for rechanneling that energy consists of six elements that interplay with one another. Five of them are called the attributes of warriorship: control, discipline, forbearance, timing, and will . They pertain to the world of the warrior who is fighting to lose self-importance. The sixth element, which is perhaps the most important of all, pertains to the outside world and is called the petty tyrant. A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power of life and death over warriors or simply annoys them to distraction. Petty tyrants teach us detachment. The ingredients of the new seers' strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using a petty tyrant. The strategy not only gets rid of self-importance; it also prepares warriors for the final realization that impeccability is the only thing that counts in the path of knowledge. - Carlos Castaneda, The Fire From Within
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Oh, the inanity! (How does she tie her shoes in the morning?) Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or flaws which of course we all have. Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends! On Monday, December 23, 2013 10:19 AM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: On 12/23/2013 8:53 AM, awoelflebater@... mailto:awoelflebater@... wrote: I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. (clap, clap) Maybe you forgot this advice from Emily to Share: HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
And somehow this initial snipe got snipped too: Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or flaws which of course we all have. Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. Huh. We've been saying all this about Share ever since she started getting nasty. She reminded us of the Mean Girls we knew in high school; she's the embodiment of the Mean Girl stereotype.
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Ah ha ha ha. Barry, as head of the *real* Mean Girls Club, you just described the MO of you, Share, and Richard perfectly. I don't know how you do it - your ability to talk about yourself and your compatriots is bar none, the best! Merry Christmas. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, turquoiseb@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Richard, I'm pretty sure this is a specialty of the MGC. If they think of you as the enemy, they ignore what's good about you and focus on your mistakes or flaws which of course we all have. Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a quality shared by Mean Girls everywhere, not just on this forum. If I were to pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in such interactions, it would go sorta like this. Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. They are hooked on it in the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when they see someone getting more Attention than they are (or, let's face it on this forum, any Attention at all), they get pissed off at those who are attracting the Attention because it's Ours, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according to psychosis, the posts from Mean Girls would consistently be green, for jealousy. :-) So anyway, these wannabe occultists see someone else getting the Attention that they seek, so they Can't Have That. They have to combat that somehow. The most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. If it doesn't work, they move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make the other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage in which the Mean Girls usually pull out all the stops. They'll say anything they can think of about the person they're trying to demonize, because the Whole Purpose is *to* demonize them. Since they *obviously* can't compete on equal ground and gain a similar measure of Attention, they attempt to discredit the ones who are getting more Attention than they are, in the hopes that it will shift back to them. So *naturally* such people focus on what they perceive as your mistakes or faults. *Their* whole act is about pretending that they don't have any. So if you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and they are. Yeah, right. This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people still fall for it. But they do. Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write you off because of what a few Mean Girls say about you, they really aren't worth having in your sphere of influence, are they? Actually I just realized something: it's probably healthier to have them as enemies than as friends! You should look into the works of Carlos Castaneda. He may have been a charlatan, but a case can be made that everyone else people cite on this forum as an authority is, too. :-) Charlatans or not, they occasionally said things one can learn from. In Carlos' case, the pieces of his philosophy you might wanna look into have to do with his characterization of the Petty Tyrant. They're pretty much required reading if one wants to survive on the Internet. In the strategic inventories of warriors, self-importance figures as the activity that consumes the greatest amount of energy, hence, their effort to eradicate it. One of the first concerns of warriors is to free that energy in order to face the unknown with it. The action of rechanneling that energy is impeccability. The most effective strategy for rechanneling that energy consists of six elements that interplay with one another. Five of them are called the attributes of warriorship: control, discipline, forbearance, timing, and will . They pertain to the world of the warrior who is fighting to lose self-importance. The sixth element, which is perhaps the most important of all, pertains to the outside world and is called the petty tyrant. A petty tyrant is a tormentor. Someone who either holds the power of life and death over warriors or simply annoys them to distraction. Petty tyrants teach us detachment. The ingredients of the new seers' strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using a petty tyrant. The strategy not only gets rid of self-importance; it also prepares warriors for the final realization that impeccability is the only thing that counts in the path of knowledge. - Carlos Castaneda, The Fire From Within
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Dear Share and Richard, How do you do? I'm delighted to meet you both. Isn't it a heavenly day today. Please give my regards to Barold and HAVE A SENSATIONAL FLIPPIN' DAY!
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Please stop that, Em - Barry *hates* it when women laugh at him. Especially now, two frickin' (SF Bay Area variation) days before Christmas, and a woman who sounds intelligent and empowered, is laughing at him. Makes him droopy and unhappy - reminder of years past, when his nickname was skinless frank - Anyway, just trying to be sensitive. Happy Holidays!!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, awoelflebater@... wrote: ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote: Excellent Share, excellent! It only took you 2.85 days to unpack what you meant by GET A FRIGGING LIFE. That wasn't so hard, was it? Here is the rest of Lesson 2. Set up a file box (maybe an Iowa-themed recipe box will do) with 26 cards, one for each letter of the alphabet. When you identify a feeling you are having, write it down under the corresponding letter. Now, we're after only the more negative feelings with you; you've got positivity down. So, as I recollect, you were feeling cranky with Robin (a C word) and were feeling exasperated by Bob and Emily. I'll bet Judy and Ann elicit feelings too. Try to keep it to 3 feelings/emotions per letter of the alphabet. This will give you a range of 78 feelings in your feeling bank. Let me know when Lesson 2 is complete and we will move on to Lesson 3 - also a fun one - How to tell a Feeling from a Fact. This is where we start to take on the phenomenon of why you like to engage in name-calling. I'll work on my list too so you don't have to go it alone. Don't let Richard get you down now; maybe you could send him a recipe box? I see it now. The whole divine purpose of sharebear here is to bring out some of the best in Emily. In the last few hours I have witnessed the posting of very helpful tips from Emily given in the most light-hearted and humorous manner. Let's give a hand to the most artificial and insincere member of our fine forum, Share Longnose, for providing the impetus for Emily's creativity. (clap, clap) http://www.flickr.com/photos/110607246@N05/11519029306/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/110607246@N05/11519029306/ Dear Ann, I don't know if there is much hope for Sharester, but she has taken a few baby steps this year, despite herself. Given that Daughter #1 cracked the front bumper of her car through and through trying to do a u-turn on a side street without quite knowing the turning radius of her car (I have told her over and over - do what I say and not what I do; these kinds of maneuvers take experience to be successful) - but she didn't listen to dear old mom. And, given that Daughter #2 dropped her new phone in the toilet, and when I replied with why do you feel the need to take your phone into the bathroom with you?, she laid down one of my favorite lines...MOMMM, YOU JUST DON'T *GET IT.* - well, I must go and take on one of my favorite roles, that of Crisis Control Manager. We are leaving town for a little RR after Christmas, with or without the new, new, phone and regardless of what the insurance company says - little do the daughters know. Have a good one. Emily. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive,
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
I think I will call you Doctor Droll. Happy Holidays to you too. I have taken your advice on where to hide the Festivus pole. Em.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Great, but what about the Prairie Home Companion? That show is almost pure country. Do they have radio stations up there? On our trips up to see Dad, we used to listen to satellite radio in our car, but the rent is too damn high, so we listen to NPR out of Austin all the way to Lampasas. After that, we have to switch to our iPod plugged into the radio until we can tune a Dallas station. The last time I drove up to Fairfield, back in 2000, I took I-35 North and turned right on Highway 34. We are thinking about visiting friends in Deadwood SD, and Woodland, CA, on our way to visit my daughter in Santa Rosa. It will be a long road trip. On 12/23/2013 10:21 AM, sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Richard, that would be fun to meet at Revs in person. It it the FF *in* spot. You might even spot Oprah or David Lynch there. Only kidding! I think Oprah went to Cafe Paradiso which is just down the street. Maybe we could all dress in Duck Dynasty outfits too. That'll give the TMers something to meditate on! PS I agree with you that FFLers are probably nicer in person.
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Emily observed: Ah ha ha ha. Barry, as head of the *real* Mean Girls Club, you just described the MO of you, Share, and Richard perfectly. I don't know how you do it - your ability to talk about yourself and your compatriots is bar none, the best! Merry Christmas. Here's a translation to show what he was really talking about. Makes a lot more sense, doesn't it? Trying my best to speak generically, Share, I think you'll find that this is a quality shared by Mean Girls like you and me everywhere, not just on this forum. If I were to pass along the occult view of the 'dynamic' in place in such interactions, it would go sorta like this. Mean Girls (of any type, or sex) feed on Attention. I am hooked on it in the same way that smack addicts are hooked on heroin. And when I see someone getting more Attention than I am (or, let's face it on this forum, any Attention at all), I get pissed off at those who are attracting the Attention because it's Mine, damnit. If one could auto-color posts according to psychosis, the posts from me would consistently be green, for jealousy. :-) So anyway, wannabe occultists like me see someone else getting the Attention that I seek, so I Can't Have That. I have to combat that somehow. My most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence*. This first psychic attack is intended to weaken them. If it doesn't work, I move on to Stage Two, which involves trying to make the other people in the immediate environment see the person who they're paying attention to as flawed or broken, as 'less than themselves.' This is the Stage in which I usually pull out all the stops. I'll say anything I can think of about the person I'm trying to demonize, because the Whole Purpose is *to* demonize them. Since I *obviously* can't compete on equal ground and gain a similar measure of Attention, I attempt to discredit the ones who are getting more Attention than I am, in the hopes that it will shift back to me. So *naturally* I focus on what I perceive as their mistakes or faults. *My* whole act is about pretending that I don't have any. So if you do, *you* are not worth paying Attention to, and I am. Yeah, right. This is such an old, tired act on the Internet that it amazes me that people still fall for it. But they do. Bottom line from my POV is that *if* people do, and *if* they write me off because of what a few people say about me, they really aren't worth having in my sphere of influence, are they?
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
ROFL - Your dedication pays off! This is flat out hilarious!
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: ROFL - Your dedication pays off! This is flat out hilarious! Fuck yea, if the shoe fits, wear it. Nicely done Auth, it's been hard slogging but the big payoff has occurred. Christ, I can rest now.
[FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
just know that I have taken a solemn oath, Em, and am always here, for whatever ails you - Also, Christmas special, this week only, from the Doc himself: Brooklyn Bridge, only 1,995 bitcoins. An additional *10 percent off*, for *either* supporters, or opponents, of the MGC - Hey, whatever, its Christmas!!! Skoal!
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, awoelflebater@... wrote: ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: ROFL - Your dedication pays off! This is flat out hilarious! Fuck yea, if the shoe fits, wear it. Nicely done Auth, it's been hard slogging but the big payoff has occurred. Christ, I can rest now. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OjOmFbaBJCk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OjOmFbaBJCk
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Yes, Richard, we have radio stations up here and even NPR. But I admit I've never heard of a satellite radio in a car. Is that some new fangled notion? On Monday, December 23, 2013 2:33 PM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: Great, but what about the Prairie Home Companion? That show is almost pure country. Do they have radio stations up there? On our trips up to see Dad, we used to listen to satellite radio in our car, but the rent is too damn high, so we listen to NPR out of Austin all the way to Lampasas. After that, we have to switch to our iPod plugged into the radio until we can tune a Dallas station. The last time I drove up to Fairfield, back in 2000, I took I-35 North and turned right on Highway 34. We are thinking about visiting friends in Deadwood SD, and Woodland, CA, on our way to visit my daughter in Santa Rosa. It will be a long road trip. On 12/23/2013 10:21 AM, sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Richard, that would be fun to meet at Revs in person. It it the FF *in* spot. You might even spot Oprah or David Lynch there. Only kidding! I think Oprah went to Cafe Paradiso which is just down the street. Maybe we could all dress in Duck Dynasty outfits too. That'll give the TMers something to meditate on! PS I agree with you that FFLers are probably nicer in person.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Satellite radio is a radio http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radio service broadcast from satellites http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satellite primarily to cars... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satellite_radio http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satellite_radio Yes, Richard, we have radio stations up here and even NPR. But I admit I've never heard of a satellite radio in a car. Is that some new fangled notion?
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/20/2013 11:33 AM, bobpri...@yahoo.com wrote: As compelling as it is to watch what Richard can do with the footnotes of a wikipedia page It looks like Bob has been monitoring my posts. There's not much anyone can do with the footnotes of a wikipedia page, except read them and follow up with further reading. Was Bob thinking there was something else to be done with Wiki footnotes? Almost all of the books cited in my posts I either have in my collection, have read from library books, or they are on order. At one time, I owned over 5,000 books in two states and in three cities. These days I have only a small collection with me out in the laundry room. Sometimes I re-read them - they are that good. So, I can get most any book I need through the inter-library loan system at my local library in about a week. I have about 10,00 pages that I xeroxed from my old collection that I am digitizing for computer use. I have been taking copious notes for my book which I have been writing since 1999, soon to be self-published.
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/23/2013 12:09 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: She reminded us of the Mean Girls we knew in high school; she's the embodiment of the Mean Girl stereotype. Don't see the faults of others; examine yourself - discover the areas that are lacking, and try to improve them... Never dwell on the faults of others. When we find fault with others, we pollute our own inner instrument in the process - this is not beneficial to us at all... When we dwell on the faults of another, that person receives no benefit. On the other hand, those faults enter into our mind and contaminate it... Think first about your own faults; to think about the faults of others will be very dangerous for you - Xeno
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
You are the gift that just keeps on giving, Emily. Thanks. Jose Feliciano - Feliz Navidad http://youtu.be/xMtuVP8Mj4o 4. Flippin -a word used as fuck or frick -used in napoleon dynamite 'flippin idiot, gawd!' http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flippin On Mon, Dec 23, 2013 at 12:33 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: Dear Share and Richard, How do you do? I'm delighted to meet you both. Isn't it a heavenly day today. Please give my regards to Barold and HAVE A SENSATIONAL FLIPPIN' DAY!
Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
On 12/23/2013 10:58 AM, TurquoiseB wrote: */The most common tactic -- Stage One, as it were -- is to try to attack the person who is getting more attention directly, *to make them feel bad, and lose their self-confidence/* Well, yes and I don't see anyone else on this forum attacking me except three mean girls, and Bob. Whatever happend to Bob? Anyway, it looks like I did get their attention and it looks like they are really JELLOS. Go figure.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Sorry Doc, I just don't know what you are talking about when you don't include the quote. On 12/23/2013 10:49 AM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote: My offer still holds! Good 'til the end of the year! Bitcoins...
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/20/2013 11:33 AM, bobpriced@... mailto:bobpriced@... wrote: As compelling as it is to watch what Richard can do with the footnotes of a wikipedia page It looks like Bob has been monitoring my posts. There's not much anyone can do with the footnotes of a wikipedia page, except read them and follow up with further reading. Was Bob thinking there was something else to be done with Wiki footnotes? Almost all of the books cited in my posts I either have in my collection, have read from library books, or they are on order. At one time, I owned over 5,000 books in two states and in three cities. These days I have only a small collection with me out in the laundry room. Sometimes I re-read them - they are that good. So, I can get most any book I need through the inter-library loan system at my local library in about a week. I have about 10,00 pages that I xeroxed from my old collection that I am digitizing for computer use. I have been taking copious notes for my book which I have been writing since 1999, soon to be self-published. Richard Macro (#108) Move over Lewis Carroll.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Emily, so I did! But I can't unpack cuz don't know dictionary def of frigging, only sense of it. Was that really very interesting?! Maybe compared to doing laundry (-: On Friday, December 20, 2013 2:37 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: But Share, *you* wrote it! H..veeerrryyy interresting. I've gotta go do a load of dirty laundry myself. My older daughter just informed me that what I am wearing is unacceptable. Smile. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Nope, Emily, Bob wasn't willing to unpack first so I'm not playing! For one thing I'm not sure what frigging means! On Friday, December 20, 2013 1:06 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Your FIRST! Don't forget to unpack GET A FRIGGIN LIFE for Bob (and for me too). I'm pretty sure we're not as intuitive as you are; some of us need things spelled out in black and white. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: My first LOL of the day, Richard, thank you. Be good. But have fun. Happiest of holidays to you and your family and all the best in 2014. On Friday, December 20, 2013 12:06 PM, Richard J. Williams punditster@... wrote: There seems to be a lot of sneakiness around here lately: First there was Ravi sneaking around Bill's trailer house; then Bob sneaking around calling Rita at work; and just last night I saw a guy snooping around our laundry room in the dark. And, I wouldn't be surprised if some editor is monitoring all my posts to FFL! On 12/20/2013 9:57 AM, sharelong60@... wrote: Yes, Richard that's what I'm saying and no I don't think Emily should get booted for that. Hey, way to conjure up Judy!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Share blabbered: Emily, so I did! But I can't unpack cuz don't know dictionary def of frigging, only sense of it.-: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=frigging
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Dear Share, let's unpack this together. I am in a good mood this morning. I feel lighter and brighter than usual. IT'S A FRIGGING MIRACLE, SHARE. Now, I could attribute this MIRACLE to the Vitamin D in liquid form that I have in my cupboard and tend to ingest through spiritual osmosis, but I suspect (I am the tiniest bit paranoid, if you've been paying attention), that bOb, in his inimitable (Google this word, Share) wisdom, is somehow responsible for the assist. You could learn a lot from Bob and JUDY, Share, about music and art and thoughtful conversation, for three. However, it is intuitive of you to ask me to help you understand more about the word FRIGGING, because I happen to know a lot about this word, in that I am raising teenagers, for one. According to the Urban Dictionary, friggin' (and I prefer this spelling and pronunciation) is a handy word used to replace fuckin(g) in arguments with your mom, as in What the crap mom, that's so fu-friggin' lame. I will confirm that this very phrase has been used on me. When I asked my teen to please not swear at me, she told me in no uncertain terms that FRIGGIN was not a swear word. Hmm.very interesting, isn't it? Another definition in the Urban Dictionary of friggin' is a word for a female masturbating. Is this the sense of the word that you were sensing? In that the whole phrase was ...GET A FRIGGING LIFE and that frigging is used as an adjective, not a verb, I think this unlikely. However, if you feel like friggin, don't be embarrassed about it - I'm guessing that even the Neanderthals had this figured out. Yet another definition of the word frigging is a word used by cowards who are too afraid to say fucking. I suspect this is what you meant in your declaration; did you sense that Bob and I should GET A FUCKING LIFE Share? I am only asking because *you* wrote what *you* were sensing at the time, and I can only be responsible for my *share* of what crosses FFL, and that would be what I write. Now, this statement of yours was made in response to a question to you about what you thought about Ann's tree. I'm guessing, based on your response, that you found this question intolerable in some way. In my world (the world of teenagers), the phrase GET A FUCKING LIFE (Or FRIGGING, if you prefer) is another way of saying FUCK YOU OR FUCK OFF! Now, this could be a clue for *you* that *you* may be holding a resentment. Luckily for you, I have put together a FEELINGS 101 manual for you and I am willing to put it in the mail and pay for postage. I worry for you Share, because resentments can lead to RAGE and they also often result in MEAN behavior - both of which are not good for one's health. No amount of quinoa (or dietary restrictions in general) will help with this kind of a problem. But, Share, this is just a tease, the solution is in the manual, so let me know if this is something you'd like to pursue. TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. P.S. This is a remedial lesson on this fabulous word FUCK. (If the link doesn't work, you'll have to cut and paste it in.) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gPdhHed4sg http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gPdhHed4sg ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, authfriend@... wrote: Share blabbered: Emily, so I did! But I can't unpack cuz don't know dictionary def of frigging, only sense of it.-: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=frigging
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
This thread is getting more impressive every hour. I hope my grand children don't read this. But, just as a reminder this forum is supposed to be a family forum - I don't think Rick wants it to get a XXX rating. Maybe it might be better to take this offline or to private email. Kirk got booted by Rick for using this kind of language, so don't get carried away. Have a nice Christmas. On 12/22/2013 8:01 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Sometimes posting to a chat room brings out the mean side of people, Share, who otherwise might be the nicest people you'd ever meet. Go figure. If I ever get back up to Fairfield, I'd like to have a cup of coffee at Revelations with you, Buck and Alex - the latter probably being the most intelligent subscriber to this list, by staying out of most of the conversations. But, I can't believe that Buck doesn't listen to Prairie Home Companion on the radio. Go figure. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Prairie_Home_Companion On 12/22/2013 9:07 PM, Share Long wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got banned by the owner of the forum - for cursing and making personal threats . Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share. On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got banned by the owner of the forum - for cursing and making personal threats . Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share. Richard Macro (#23) Since it looks like he's never going to vacate the laundry room, please ask him if he would mind throwing in the odd load of laundry: It's not like he actually has to stand up or anything! Go figure. On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Richard, why so down in the dumps? Hey, what do you think of changing the name of FFL to FFF? We've got Fairfield Food as an option and I'm thinking of proposing Fairfield Feelings as another one. Personally, I think it is looking very good for the New Year. Cheer up, sport. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got banned by the owner of the forum - for cursing and making personal threats . Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share. On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
P.S. If you throw in a load of laundry, you'll feel a lot better, Richard. If you want me to help you work through your FEELINGS about doing laundry, let me know. I'm available after the new year. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, emilymaenot@... wrote: Richard, why so down in the dumps? Hey, what do you think of changing the name of FFL to FFF? We've got Fairfield Food as an option and I'm thinking of proposing Fairfield Feelings as another one. Personally, I think it is looking very good for the New Year. Cheer up, sport. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: What happened to Emily and Bob? At first they seemed like pretty nice people, but something happened to them. It looks like they came under the influence of Judy. It's reached the point now that Judy and Bob support a guy that got banned by the owner of the forum - for cursing and making personal threats . Now his supporters are just going into a very dark area that I don't want to go. When it gets this personal, it's a very bad sign for the whole group at this time of the year. It's not looking good for the new year, Share. On 12/22/2013 9:41 PM, Share Long wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... mailto:sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Excellent Share, excellent! It only took you 2.85 days to unpack what you meant by GET A FRIGGING LIFE. That wasn't so hard, was it? Here is the rest of Lesson 2. Set up a file box (maybe an Iowa-themed recipe box will do) with 26 cards, one for each letter of the alphabet. When you identify a feeling you are having, write it down under the corresponding letter. Now, we're after only the more negative feelings with you; you've got positivity down. So, as I recollect, you were feeling cranky with Robin (a C word) and were feeling exasperated by Bob and Emily. I'll bet Judy and Ann elicit feelings too. Try to keep it to 3 feelings/emotions per letter of the alphabet. This will give you a range of 78 feelings in your feeling bank. Let me know when Lesson 2 is complete and we will move on to Lesson 3 - also a fun one - How to tell a Feeling from a Fact. This is where we start to take on the phenomenon of why you like to engage in name-calling. I'll work on my list too so you don't have to go it alone. Don't let Richard get you down now; maybe you could send him a recipe box? ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, for me frigging connotes exasperation due to the extremity of some situation. For example, if I said I haven't a frigging clue, it would mean that I don't even have a hint of a clue and felt exasperated by that. Get a frigging life means I was exasperated at how you and Bob were making a mountain out of a molehill with regards to my reaction to last year's photo of Ann's tree! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 9:28 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, Share, that's what I gave you, the Urban Dictionary definition. Consider this a Christmas present from me. I'm also willing to go a step further. Here is Lesson 1 from the Feelings Manual 101. Acknowledge that you are having an emotion. Just that Share, no need to identify it yet. That is Lesson 2 and it is a fun one - 26 easy steps corresponding with the letters of the alphabet. Whadya say...are you curious? Shall we do this together? P.S. For the record, Share, what sense of the word friggin' do you have? And, yes, I have been hitting the egg nog - one made with coconut milk; pretty darn tasty. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Emily, have you been hitting the egg nog?! I said I didn't know the dictionary definition of frigging. period. I never asked for your help to unpack it. I'm quite happy with my sense of it, thank you very much! On Sunday, December 22, 2013 8:01 PM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: HAVE A MARVELOUS FRIGGING EVENING RICHARD. Is this better? Share asked me to help her unpack the word FRIGGING Richard, so I did. She wrote it; she could have Googled it herself, if she was unaware of what she wrote. I think Feste should check in on her to make sure she is O.K. as I don't understand why she didn't know what she was writing or why she didn't know to Google the word. ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, punditster@... wrote: On 12/22/2013 12:48 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: TODAY IS DECEMBER 22nd! ISN'T IT GRAND? HAVE A MARVELOUS FUCKING DAY SHARE. Emily. This very impressive, Emily, especially during the Christmas season!
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Richard, Poster of the Year 2013, you make me laugh and think and are kind, so in your honor I'm making a new thread even though my new threads rarely get replied to boo hoo! Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE, I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! That's it, Emily and Bob. That was my immediate reaction to seeing the photo. Of course since then I figured out that most people use the same ornaments year after year and put the tree in the same place. So maybe it is a current photo of the current tree. But the photo sure looks suspiciously familiar. Go figure! Of course it's a very lovely tree and photo so a repeat appearance is good too. No, this year my tree is in a different spot. I wasn't going to bother to go take a picture of the new tree this year, upload it to the web and then move it over here for this thread. But the tree this year, in its new location, looks just as Christmasy and the living room is still as homey and the new puppy we have makes it all even better. Here she is, just arrived from the SPCA last night. We're calling her Fledermaus for obvious reasons. Puppies are incredibly good for the soul, not to mention the abdominal muscles.
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
What a cutie! - sounds like you have plenty of room for her, too.
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Rats!! You almost nailed that bitch! Well, there's always next year's picture...Happy Holidays!
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote: Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response. Ah Emily, just because you have a huge heart, an ability to express it and are really, really smart to boot, you must realize that the ultimate test is whether Share can resist the puppy. I say she can.
[FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Second send: Ann! I was going there next. I am curious. Share, how does the picture of Ann's puppy affect you? Feel free to use descriptors, pictures, music, poetry and all other means of creative expression in formulating your response. --
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to boot. On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Ann, it sounds like you're saying that indeed you did post your Christmas tree photo from last year. So my reaction was on target! On Friday, December 20, 2013 7:52 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote: ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Richard, Poster of the Year 2013, you make me laugh and think and are kind, so in your honor I'm making a new thread even though my new threads rarely get replied to boo hoo! Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE, I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! That's it, Emily and Bob. That was my immediate reaction to seeing the photo. Of course since then I figured out that most people use the same ornaments year after year and put the tree in the same place. So maybe it is a current photo of the current tree. But the photo sure looks suspiciously familiar. Go figure! Of course it's a very lovely tree and photo so a repeat appearance is good too. No, this year my tree is in a different spot. I wasn't going to bother to go take a picture of the new tree this year, upload it to the web and then move it over here for this thread. But the tree this year, in its new location, looks just as Christmasy and the living room is still as homey and the new puppy we have makes it all even better. Here she is, just arrived from the SPCA last night. We're calling her Fledermaus for obvious reasons. Puppies are incredibly good for the soul, not to mention the abdominal muscles.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Are you suggesting that Emily was dishonest and sneaky about leaving out the part where you said that her tree and photo were lovely. Should she get booted for that? Where's Judy when we need her? On 12/20/2013 9:36 AM, Share Long wrote: See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to boot. On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! */Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response. /*
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Emily, based on your earlier responses, I don't think you're interested in my reactions to Ann's photos except as an opportunity to put me down. Have a good day. On Friday, December 20, 2013 9:20 AM, emilymae...@yahoo.com emilymae...@yahoo.com wrote: Second send: Ann! I was going there next. I am curious. Share, how does the picture of Ann's puppy affect you? Feel free to use descriptors, pictures, music, poetry and all other means of creative expression in formulating your response. --
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
See, Share, some might say that the mean-spirited snark in your post not only far outweighs any positive effect of the purported compliment, but suggests that there is actually no genuine positive feeling behind the compliment. All the energy is in the snark; the purported compliment is lifeless. IOW, Emily's comment highlighting the snark and ignoring the compliment is far more honest than either your original post or your response here. Share whined: See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to boot. On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Yes, Richard that's what I'm saying and no I don't think Emily should get booted for that. Hey, way to conjure up Judy!
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
So, why don't you set a macro for Share? LoL! On 12/20/2013 9:52 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: See, Share, some might say that the mean-spirited snark in your post not only far outweighs any positive effect of the purported compliment, but suggests that there is actually no genuine positive feeling behind the compliment. All the energy is in the snark; the purported compliment is lifeless. IOW, Emily's comment highlighting the snark and ignoring the compliment is far more honest than either your original post or your response here. Share whined: See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to boot. On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! */Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response. /*
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann's tree photo
Richard, how about Judy set up a macro for everyone she rags on. Then she'd have more time for her clients. On Friday, December 20, 2013 10:02 AM, Richard J. Williams pundits...@gmail.com wrote: So, why don't you set a macro for Share? LoL! On 12/20/2013 9:52 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: See, Share, some might say that the mean-spirited snark in your post not only far outweighs any positive effect of the purported compliment, but suggests that there is actually no genuine positive feeling behind the compliment. All the energy is in the snark; the purported compliment is lifeless. IOW, Emily's comment highlighting the snark and ignoring the compliment is far more honest than either your original post or your response here. Share whined: See, Emily, imo your post is a form of dishonesty because you leave out the part where I say the tree and photo are lovely. And it's sneaky dishonesty to boot. On Friday, December 20, 2013 8:53 AM, emilymaenot@... emilymaenot@... wrote: Re: I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! Yes, Barry is correct. Share definitely exhibits range and an ability to feel positive emotion. I'm all teared up with this warm and fuzzy response.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
Not true Share; I really am curious in a very objective fashion. Your response gives you away, again. It has nothing to do with me.
Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: for Emily Bob, to thank Richard, Share finally replies about Ann#39;s tree photo
---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Ann, it sounds like you're saying that indeed you did post your Christmas tree photo from last year. So my reaction was on target! Yes Share, you are perfect and full of love and compassion and gentleness. The serum of truth fairly oozes out of your lovely pores and I stand humbled in the face of your searing honesty. In addition, your use of the word target is very apropos. On Friday, December 20, 2013 7:52 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... wrote: ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, sharelong60@... wrote: Richard, Poster of the Year 2013, you make me laugh and think and are kind, so in your honor I'm making a new thread even though my new threads rarely get replied to boo hoo! Emily and Bob, just so you can stop wondering about my reaction to the photo of Ann's tree and GET A FRIGGING LIFE, I shall now enlighten you both about my immediate and mundane reaction to the photo of her Christmas tree that Ann posted. Hold onto your seatbelts! Huh?! But wait a minute! I've seen this photo before! Is this the same photo Ann posted last year?! That's it, Emily and Bob. That was my immediate reaction to seeing the photo. Of course since then I figured out that most people use the same ornaments year after year and put the tree in the same place. So maybe it is a current photo of the current tree. But the photo sure looks suspiciously familiar. Go figure! Of course it's a very lovely tree and photo so a repeat appearance is good too. No, this year my tree is in a different spot. I wasn't going to bother to go take a picture of the new tree this year, upload it to the web and then move it over here for this thread. But the tree this year, in its new location, looks just as Christmasy and the living room is still as homey and the new puppy we have makes it all even better. Here she is, just arrived from the SPCA last night. We're calling her Fledermaus for obvious reasons. Puppies are incredibly good for the soul, not to mention the abdominal muscles.