Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Shiny protector
Isn't their anything that the doctors could do about the hart attack 
infecting her organs? Can't they do a heart massage technique?
- Original Message - 
From: Greg gwblindm...@gwblindman.org

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Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hello Thomas,
My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My best 
friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart attack and 
a stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish you and all 
yours a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you can possibly have 
with your loss.

Best wishes,
Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread dark
Muhammed, when something along these lines seems to happen, it is rather 
insensative,  not to say slightly rude to ask those sorts of bald 
questions.


Imagine for instance your dad were run over by a car and I started asking 
where did the car hit him? what make of car? how fast was it going? did he 
die at the scene or later on? etc, etc.


You'd get pretty irritated at me, and wouldn't really want to answer all 
those remes of questions.


While I'm sure your intentions are good, please remember that when someone 
has lost a family member or gone through any tragic circumstance, the last 
thing they would want is to thrash out all the petty litle details.


Just a note about your thoughts and sympathy is usually all that is needed 
in these situations.


I hope this explains things.

Beware the Grue!

Dark.
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From: Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 10:16 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


Isn't their anything that the doctors could do about the hart attack 
infecting her organs? Can't they do a heart massage technique?
- Original Message - 
From: Greg gwblindm...@gwblindman.org

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hello Thomas,
My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My best 
friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart attack and 
a stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish you and all 
yours a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you can possibly 
have with your loss.

Best wishes,
Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Jim Kitchen

Hi Thomas,

Just writing to send my condolences.

BFN

Jim

C. E. O. Kitchen's Inc.

j...@kitchensinc.net
http://www.kitchensinc.net
(440) 286-6920
Chardon Ohio USA
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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Thomas Ward
Hi Luke,

Thanks very much for saying that. I know Muhammed is young and perhaps
doesn't know any better, but these kinds of questions are simply
inapropriate when a family is going through any kind of tragity or
hard times. Even though they may make a tragity public, as I did, that
doesn't mean they want everything to be made public. There is
somethings meant to stay private and remain with the family. Probing
for more information can be both painful and rude.



On 12/20/10, dark d...@xgam.org wrote:
 Muhammed, when something along these lines seems to happen, it is rather
 insensative,  not to say slightly rude to ask those sorts of bald
 questions.

 Imagine for instance your dad were run over by a car and I started asking
 where did the car hit him? what make of car? how fast was it going? did he
 die at the scene or later on? etc, etc.

 You'd get pretty irritated at me, and wouldn't really want to answer all
 those remes of questions.

 While I'm sure your intentions are good, please remember that when someone
 has lost a family member or gone through any tragic circumstance, the last
 thing they would want is to thrash out all the petty litle details.

 Just a note about your thoughts and sympathy is usually all that is needed
 in these situations.

 I hope this explains things.

 Beware the Grue!

 Dark.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Ben
Hello Tom,
I know it isn't the same for me, but I feel so empathetic that you wouldn't
know.  I sort of follow a religion, but I won't go into details - it isn't
really a religion, more of a calling.

Regardless, I agree with every single word you placed in that mewssage.
Don't tell what you don't wish to tell, but make your life as good as it can
get: and with this tragic loss, just remember this.  If you had any good
times at all, in the words of avenged sevenfold: some pictures and some
memories will have to help me through.  I hope this is the case, and you can
live in peace and harmony with your family, friends and fellow man.

I would like to leave you with a prayer that we always recite on founders
day, where we remember those who perished in the 2 world wars:
Go forth into the world in peace
be of good courage
hold fast to that which is good
render to no man evil for evil
strengthen the fainthearted
support the weak
help the afflicted
honour everyone
love and serve the Lord, 
Amen
I may not be Christian, but the point still stands.

I am saddened by the fact that she took her own life; people have moments of
rage and emotional torment, we all know that.  But I'm also saddened to
realize that if it was a suicide, she wasn't helped or didn't ask for it.
In light of what has happened, I just hope that this won't cloud the spirit
and festivities of Christmas, and that you will remember her fondly in the
hearts of you, your family and those who knew her.

As a lesson to all, I wish to harken back to what you said earlier about not
making vowes that could become literal.  I have done such things before then
broken them in realization as to the fact that they may come true, as in the
case of your youngest step sister.  Just don't repeat the actions, anyone,
that proved to be very shocking and guilt-spreading.  When your down, just
ask for help from anyone whom you trust.  Don't reside in your hole of
depression, but come out and see the light of love and a new dawn.

I wish to express my most sincere condolences at this time of sadness, but
know this.  You'll pull through, and emerge from the darkness with new hopes
and ambitions.

Tom, I'm here for you every step of the way.  Whenever you need help, I'll
give it.

I leave you with the knowledge that I know how it feels to lose a loved one
- I lost my granddad 2 years ago and I was saddened - even though we weren't
close, but I came out a better man.  I hope you can do the same too.

Regards,
Ben.


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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Shiny protector

Ok Dark.
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From: dark d...@xgam.org

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 10:25 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


Muhammed, when something along these lines seems to happen, it is rather 
insensative,  not to say slightly rude to ask those sorts of bald 
questions.


Imagine for instance your dad were run over by a car and I started asking 
where did the car hit him? what make of car? how fast was it going? did 
he die at the scene or later on? etc, etc.


You'd get pretty irritated at me, and wouldn't really want to answer all 
those remes of questions.


While I'm sure your intentions are good, please remember that when someone 
has lost a family member or gone through any tragic circumstance, the last 
thing they would want is to thrash out all the petty litle details.


Just a note about your thoughts and sympathy is usually all that is needed 
in these situations.


I hope this explains things.

Beware the Grue!

Dark.
- Original Message - 
From: Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 10:16 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


Isn't their anything that the doctors could do about the hart attack 
infecting her organs? Can't they do a heart massage technique?
- Original Message - 
From: Greg gwblindm...@gwblindman.org

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hello Thomas,
My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My best 
friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart attack 
and a stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish you and 
all yours a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you can 
possibly have with your loss.

Best wishes,
Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Greg

Hello,
No, they have declared her brain dead.  So there is nothing they can do but 
wait for her to pass.

Greg W.
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From: Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 5:16 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


Isn't their anything that the doctors could do about the hart attack 
infecting her organs? Can't they do a heart massage technique?
- Original Message - 
From: Greg gwblindm...@gwblindman.org

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hello Thomas,
My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My best 
friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart attack and 
a stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish you and all 
yours a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you can possibly 
have with your loss.

Best wishes,
Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Shiny protector

I'm sorry to here it.
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To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 12:06 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hello,
No, they have declared her brain dead.  So there is nothing they can do 
but wait for her to pass.

Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 5:16 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


Isn't their anything that the doctors could do about the hart attack 
infecting her organs? Can't they do a heart massage technique?
- Original Message - 
From: Greg gwblindm...@gwblindman.org

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hello Thomas,
My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My best 
friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart attack 
and a stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish you and 
all yours a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you can 
possibly have with your loss.

Best wishes,
Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Lori Duncan
Oh no, that's terrible, isn't that against the rules and counts as abuse to 
verbley attack someone on line?  Where were the moderaters?  It's people 
like that who make me sick, there's none so blind as those who don't see.
- Original Message - 
From: Stephen whocr...@internode.on.net

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 3:35 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hi there.
I am so sorry for your loss.
In august a really good friend of 7 years was murdered in his own home in 
a very well-to-do area of Melbourne Australia, we first met on a chat 
room, he had a barber's shop, and I'd go and get my hair cut there.  Let 
me share a story with you.
While not directly game related, I was in a chat room and I was talking 1 
on 1 with some guy about something I don't remember what.  When I told him 
about how I am totally blind he asked if I was serious and I said Yes.
The next thing I knew he starts calling me every nasty name under the sun 
he can think of.  Go away you blind retard, you pathetic freak, Hey guys, 
this blind (expletive) wants to talk to me.

Well, I think you get the idea.
Then his friend joined in the attack.
Peter saw what was happening and quickly put an end to it.
The only reason those 2 people stopped attacking me was because they were 
one of the many people who visited Peter's shop, a lot of people looked up 
to him, and he had a very strong sence of right and wrong and if he saw 
someone getting ganged up on, he'd speak out about it and They did not 
want to end up in Peter's bad books.  It always seems that the bad things 
happen to good people as it did with Peter, we shared many good times 
together and I will always remember what a decent person he was.


At 12:51 PM 12/20/2010, you wrote:

Will pray for them Thomas. Really sorry to hear the news.

- Original Message - From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who 
were

affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Lori Duncan
I agree Tom, don't let that get to you.  While I'm sure some of us wonder 
about what actually happened most of us respect your privicy.  I'm glad 
you've opened up and spoken to us about it, sometimes it helps to write 
things down, I find it easier writing things like this down than saying them 
outloud.  Best wishes Lori
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 11:03 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hi Luke,

Thanks very much for saying that. I know Muhammed is young and perhaps
doesn't know any better, but these kinds of questions are simply
inapropriate when a family is going through any kind of tragity or
hard times. Even though they may make a tragity public, as I did, that
doesn't mean they want everything to be made public. There is
somethings meant to stay private and remain with the family. Probing
for more information can be both painful and rude.



On 12/20/10, dark d...@xgam.org wrote:

Muhammed, when something along these lines seems to happen, it is rather
insensative,  not to say slightly rude to ask those sorts of bald
questions.

Imagine for instance your dad were run over by a car and I started asking
where did the car hit him? what make of car? how fast was it going? did 
he

die at the scene or later on? etc, etc.

You'd get pretty irritated at me, and wouldn't really want to answer all
those remes of questions.

While I'm sure your intentions are good, please remember that when 
someone
has lost a family member or gone through any tragic circumstance, the 
last

thing they would want is to thrash out all the petty litle details.

Just a note about your thoughts and sympathy is usually all that is 
needed

in these situations.

I hope this explains things.

Beware the Grue!

Dark.


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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Darren Duff
Please use some sense and think before you send these kind of messages! They
are extremely rood and insensitive!  IF you do not have anything good to say
then just keep it to your self! These kinds of questions are totally
inappropriate!

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Shiny protector
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 5:16 AM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Isn't their anything that the doctors could do about the hart attack
infecting her organs? Can't they do a heart massage technique?
- Original Message -
From: Greg gwblindm...@gwblindman.org
To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Hello Thomas,
 My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
 prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My 
 best friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart 
 attack and a stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish 
 you and all yours a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you 
 can possibly have with your loss.
 Best wishes,
 Greg W.
 - Original Message -
 From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com
 To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death 
 in my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me 
 that my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. 
 At this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To 
 say that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very 
 sad is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and 
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel 
 extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every 
 other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my 
 step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who 
 lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the 
 same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background 
 please pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for 
 my step sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she 
 never could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your 
 closest ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. 
 Remember that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no 
 matter how bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a 
 good cause is the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this 
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try 
 to make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, 
 those who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than 
 what happened in my sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can 
 say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left 
 behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger 
 step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of 
 the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in 
 this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to 
 see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of 
 course, she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the 
 guilt of allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making 
 peace with her sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises 
 she wasn't there for her sister when she went over the emotional 
 brink and took her own life when she needed her family, her loved 
 ones,  more than ever.

 So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you 
 is don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far 
 that you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the 
 things you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, 
 and tell those you love that you love them. Let them know you care 
 regardless of how angry you might be at them. You will never know 
 when tomorrow is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Stephen

It was a chat room full of sighted people.
btw: good friends are hard to come by.
At 11:50 PM 12/20/2010, you wrote:
Oh no, that's terrible, isn't that against the rules and counts as 
abuse to verbley attack someone on line?  Where were the 
moderaters?  It's people like that who make me sick, there's none so 
blind as those who don't see.

- Original Message - From: Stephen whocr...@internode.on.net
To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 3:35 AM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hi there.
I am so sorry for your loss.
In august a really good friend of 7 years was murdered in his own 
home in a very well-to-do area of Melbourne Australia, we first met 
on a chat room, he had a barber's shop, and I'd go and get my hair 
cut there.  Let me share a story with you.
While not directly game related, I was in a chat room and I was 
talking 1 on 1 with some guy about something I don't remember 
what.  When I told him about how I am totally blind he asked if I 
was serious and I said Yes.
The next thing I knew he starts calling me every nasty name under 
the sun he can think of.  Go away you blind retard, you pathetic 
freak, Hey guys, this blind (expletive) wants to talk to me.

Well, I think you get the idea.
Then his friend joined in the attack.
Peter saw what was happening and quickly put an end to it.
The only reason those 2 people stopped attacking me was because 
they were one of the many people who visited Peter's shop, a lot of 
people looked up to him, and he had a very strong sence of right 
and wrong and if he saw someone getting ganged up on, he'd speak 
out about it and They did not want to end up in Peter's bad 
books.  It always seems that the bad things happen to good people 
as it did with Peter, we shared many good times together and I will 
always remember what a decent person he was.



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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-20 Thread Tom Randall
Hello Tom, my deepest condolences to you and your family at this very
difficult time.  There is no good way to lose someone for sure, but this way
is perhaps one of the worst and most pointless to those of you who are left.
My family has had a difficult loss this last year as well although not of
the same kind, my sister in law was killed by a drunk driver and my brother
was seriously injured as well.  These things never seem to make any sense,
and I agree wholeheartedly with all that you said in your message.

Best regards and take care.

Tom

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 10:13 AM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in my
family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that my oldest
step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At this point in time
the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say that this comes as a
shocking suprise for the family and is very sad is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel extremely
sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every other Christmas
without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my step father who lost a
daughter, and my surviving step sisters who lost one of their sisters. For
them Christmas will never ever be the same. For those of you who have faith
in a religious background please pray for them in this time of morning and
grief. Also pray for my step sister that perhaps she can find happiness in
death that she never could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell
your closest ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them.
Remember that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter
how bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause is
the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to make,
if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those who are
your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what happened in my
sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can say is
that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left behind a lot of
unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger step sisters, her
grandparents, and things were said in the heat of the moment to each other
that can never be taken back or settled in this life time. My youngest step
sister, for example, vowed never to see my oldest step sister again in this
life time, and now, of course, she never will. My youngest step sister has
to live with the guilt of allowing her personal feelings get in the way of
making peace with her sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises
she wasn't there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and
took her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is don't
let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that you have to
live each and every day of your life regretting the things you have said and
done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell those you love that you
love them. Let them know you care regardless of how angry you might be at
them. You will never know when tomorrow is simply too late to say, I'm
sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Mike Maslo
Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who were
affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread peter Mahach

Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
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From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net

To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who were
affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Nick Helms
Thomas,
I'm really sorry to hear of the death in your family.
You and your family are in my prayers, and, to all who read this who
are in a dark place in your life right now, Find a friend or family
member who cares. It feels great to talk about it, and even better to
have someone to help you to resolve whatever issues you're trying to
deal with. My point is that you can come out of your shell, and make
peace with those you care about, and live a great life. Don't think
that there's no way out, or that you are worth nothing, or that taking
your own life would help you or the people you know. That's complete
crap. You can work through it, no matter how hopeless you think your
situation is. So take those first stepps. Taking your own life is not
the way to go, and I'm terebly sorry that Thomas's sister felt that
taking her own life was the only way out.
In the words of Aaron Lewis Falling is easy, it's getting back up
that becomes the problem. And if you believe you can find a way out,
then you've solved your problem.
Never give up. Find someone to talk to and work with, and pull
yourself back up. It's worth it, I promise.
And Thomas, I'm so sorry about your stepsister. Again, you and your
family are in my prayers.

On 12/19/10, peter Mahach piterm...@gmail.com wrote:
 Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
 - Original Message -
 From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
 To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
 Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Thomas:

 Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

 A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
 those things you said hit home for her and the family.

 My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who were
 affected by this tragedy.

 May God bless each and every one on the list.

 -Original Message-
 From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
 Behalf Of Thomas Ward
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
 To: Gamers Discussion list
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
 my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
 my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
 this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
 that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
 is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
 extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
 other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
 step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
 lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
 same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
 pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
 sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
 could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
 ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
 that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
 bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
 is the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
 make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
 who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
 happened in my sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
 say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
 behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
 step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
 the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
 this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
 see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
 she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
 allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
 sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
 there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
 her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
 ever.

 So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
 don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
 you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
 you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
 those you love that you love them. Let them know you care

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Shiny protector

Hi Thomas,
I agree with Peter here. I understand how your feeling now. Don't let your 
sadness continue for the rest of your life. This is not a rude intention, 
but the trooth I believe is that life is life. You'd have hard parts, parts 
your sad in, parts your happy in. So please calm down a little bit. I 
understand how upseting it must be for you. But this time will pass.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Shiny protector
Nick, that is extremely true. Don't believe that their is know choice. 
Always think of the best.
- Original Message - 
From: Nick Helms nick.he...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:34 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas,
I'm really sorry to hear of the death in your family.
You and your family are in my prayers, and, to all who read this who
are in a dark place in your life right now, Find a friend or family
member who cares. It feels great to talk about it, and even better to
have someone to help you to resolve whatever issues you're trying to
deal with. My point is that you can come out of your shell, and make
peace with those you care about, and live a great life. Don't think
that there's no way out, or that you are worth nothing, or that taking
your own life would help you or the people you know. That's complete
crap. You can work through it, no matter how hopeless you think your
situation is. So take those first stepps. Taking your own life is not
the way to go, and I'm terebly sorry that Thomas's sister felt that
taking her own life was the only way out.
In the words of Aaron Lewis Falling is easy, it's getting back up
that becomes the problem. And if you believe you can find a way out,
then you've solved your problem.
Never give up. Find someone to talk to and work with, and pull
yourself back up. It's worth it, I promise.
And Thomas, I'm so sorry about your stepsister. Again, you and your
family are in my prayers.

On 12/19/10, peter Mahach piterm...@gmail.com wrote:

Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
- Original Message -
From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday 
and

those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who 
were

affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] 
On

Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Nick Helms
I believe it's true. I speak from experience.

On 12/19/10, Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com wrote:
 Nick, that is extremely true. Don't believe that their is know choice.
 Always think of the best.
 - Original Message -
 From: Nick Helms nick.he...@gmail.com
 To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:34 PM
 Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Thomas,
 I'm really sorry to hear of the death in your family.
 You and your family are in my prayers, and, to all who read this who
 are in a dark place in your life right now, Find a friend or family
 member who cares. It feels great to talk about it, and even better to
 have someone to help you to resolve whatever issues you're trying to
 deal with. My point is that you can come out of your shell, and make
 peace with those you care about, and live a great life. Don't think
 that there's no way out, or that you are worth nothing, or that taking
 your own life would help you or the people you know. That's complete
 crap. You can work through it, no matter how hopeless you think your
 situation is. So take those first stepps. Taking your own life is not
 the way to go, and I'm terebly sorry that Thomas's sister felt that
 taking her own life was the only way out.
 In the words of Aaron Lewis Falling is easy, it's getting back up
 that becomes the problem. And if you believe you can find a way out,
 then you've solved your problem.
 Never give up. Find someone to talk to and work with, and pull
 yourself back up. It's worth it, I promise.
 And Thomas, I'm so sorry about your stepsister. Again, you and your
 family are in my prayers.

 On 12/19/10, peter Mahach piterm...@gmail.com wrote:
 Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
 - Original Message -
 From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
 To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
 Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Thomas:

 Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

 A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday
 and
 those things you said hit home for her and the family.

 My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who
 were
 affected by this tragedy.

 May God bless each and every one on the list.

 -Original Message-
 From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org]
 On
 Behalf Of Thomas Ward
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
 To: Gamers Discussion list
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
 my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
 my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
 this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
 that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
 is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
 extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
 other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
 step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
 lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
 same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
 pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
 sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
 could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
 ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
 that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
 bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
 is the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
 make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
 who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
 happened in my sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
 say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
 behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
 step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
 the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
 this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
 see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
 she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
 allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
 sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
 there for her sister when she went over

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread lirin

Praz to the gOD FOR BETTER TIME FOR HER.

aCTUALLZ, IÄ…M AGREE WITH EVERZTHING WHAT ZOU WROTE. i AM THINKING IN THE 
SAME WAZ. iF ZOU ARE LOVE SOMEONE, TELL IT, CAUSE CAN BE TOO LATE FOR 
THIS KIND OF WORDS.


sAD TEWS, BUT MAZBE GOD NEEDS HER NOW, AND PROBABLZ IF GOD DECIDED TO DO 
IT, IT WILL BE BETTER FOR HER, I BELIEVE.


i BELIEVE THIS WILL BE GREAT LESSON AS ZOU WROTE, FOR EVERZONE WHO 
THINKING IN ANOTHER WAZ.





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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Shiny protector

Ah ok.
- Original Message - 
From: Nick Helms nick.he...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:39 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



I believe it's true. I speak from experience.

On 12/19/10, Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com wrote:

Nick, that is extremely true. Don't believe that their is know choice.
Always think of the best.
- Original Message -
From: Nick Helms nick.he...@gmail.com
To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:34 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas,
I'm really sorry to hear of the death in your family.
You and your family are in my prayers, and, to all who read this who
are in a dark place in your life right now, Find a friend or family
member who cares. It feels great to talk about it, and even better to
have someone to help you to resolve whatever issues you're trying to
deal with. My point is that you can come out of your shell, and make
peace with those you care about, and live a great life. Don't think
that there's no way out, or that you are worth nothing, or that taking
your own life would help you or the people you know. That's complete
crap. You can work through it, no matter how hopeless you think your
situation is. So take those first stepps. Taking your own life is not
the way to go, and I'm terebly sorry that Thomas's sister felt that
taking her own life was the only way out.
In the words of Aaron Lewis Falling is easy, it's getting back up
that becomes the problem. And if you believe you can find a way out,
then you've solved your problem.
Never give up. Find someone to talk to and work with, and pull
yourself back up. It's worth it, I promise.
And Thomas, I'm so sorry about your stepsister. Again, you and your
family are in my prayers.

On 12/19/10, peter Mahach piterm...@gmail.com wrote:

Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
- Original Message -
From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday
and
those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who
were
affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org]
On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Shiny protector

Thomas, when you mean the police, do you mean forensic scientists?
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Damien Pendleton

Hi Nick,
That was beautifully said. That has even encouraged me. Thank you.
Thomas, very sad news indeed. It's one thing having a family member die 
through illness, but it's another story when it comes to suicide. I feel 
sorry for your whole family, especially your sister. I will be praying for 
you all.

All my best,
Damien.


- Original Message - 
From: Nick Helms nick.he...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:34 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas,
I'm really sorry to hear of the death in your family.
You and your family are in my prayers, and, to all who read this who
are in a dark place in your life right now, Find a friend or family
member who cares. It feels great to talk about it, and even better to
have someone to help you to resolve whatever issues you're trying to
deal with. My point is that you can come out of your shell, and make
peace with those you care about, and live a great life. Don't think
that there's no way out, or that you are worth nothing, or that taking
your own life would help you or the people you know. That's complete
crap. You can work through it, no matter how hopeless you think your
situation is. So take those first stepps. Taking your own life is not
the way to go, and I'm terebly sorry that Thomas's sister felt that
taking her own life was the only way out.
In the words of Aaron Lewis Falling is easy, it's getting back up
that becomes the problem. And if you believe you can find a way out,
then you've solved your problem.
Never give up. Find someone to talk to and work with, and pull
yourself back up. It's worth it, I promise.
And Thomas, I'm so sorry about your stepsister. Again, you and your
family are in my prayers.

On 12/19/10, peter Mahach piterm...@gmail.com wrote:

Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
- Original Message -
From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday 
and

those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who 
were

affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] 
On

Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Lori Duncan
Hi Tom, I'm really sorry to hear about your news, it's always heart-breaking 
when someone you love dies, but especially if it happens around Christmas 
time, it has happened to me although in my case the lady we lost was friends 
with us all so there wern't any bad feelings.  I wish I could do something 
to help you, but I hope you can accept my condolences and that of my family 
and friends, we are all praying for you and your family.  I will also send 
some healing tonight when I do my meditation, I just wish I could do more. 
My heart goes out to you and your family.  Best wishes from Lori.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Thomas Ward
Hi Muhammed,

Yes. Basically, that kind of ruling is up to the coroner's office. At
the moment the coroner has declared it a suicide by a self-inflicted
gunshot to the head. If you don't mind I'd really not like to talk
about this. Especially, on list. I just want people to know what is
going on, and if I go no mail for a few days you will know why I have
left the list for a while.

Thanks.

On 12/19/10, Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com wrote:
 Thomas, when you mean the police, do you mean forensic scientists?

 - Original Message -
 From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com
 To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:12 PM
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
 my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
 my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
 this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
 that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
 is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
 extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
 other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
 step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
 lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
 same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
 pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
 sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
 could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
 ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
 that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
 bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
 is the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
 make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
 who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
 happened in my sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
 say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
 behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
 step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
 the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
 this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
 see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
 she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
 allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
 sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
 there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
 her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
 ever.

 So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
 don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
 you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
 you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
 those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
 of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
 is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Shiny protector

Hi Thomas,
All right I won't talk about it.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:09 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Hi Muhammed,

Yes. Basically, that kind of ruling is up to the coroner's office. At
the moment the coroner has declared it a suicide by a self-inflicted
gunshot to the head. If you don't mind I'd really not like to talk
about this. Especially, on list. I just want people to know what is
going on, and if I go no mail for a few days you will know why I have
left the list for a while.

Thanks.

On 12/19/10, Shiny protector muhamme...@googlemail.com wrote:

Thomas, when you mean the police, do you mean forensic scientists?



- Original Message -
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com
To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Thomas Ward
Thank you, Nick. I really appreciate those words of wisdom. I agree
with you that suicide is definitely the wrong answer all the way
around. No matter how deep and dark the hole is you find yourself in
taking your own life isn't the way out, and I find it such a terrible
waiste that she didn't reach out for help before taking her own life.
Instead she fell down and stayed down, and somewhere along the way
lost the will to pick herself up and go on.

On 12/19/10, Nick Helms nick.he...@gmail.com wrote:
 Thomas,
 I'm really sorry to hear of the death in your family.
 You and your family are in my prayers, and, to all who read this who
 are in a dark place in your life right now, Find a friend or family
 member who cares. It feels great to talk about it, and even better to
 have someone to help you to resolve whatever issues you're trying to
 deal with. My point is that you can come out of your shell, and make
 peace with those you care about, and live a great life. Don't think
 that there's no way out, or that you are worth nothing, or that taking
 your own life would help you or the people you know. That's complete
 crap. You can work through it, no matter how hopeless you think your
 situation is. So take those first stepps. Taking your own life is not
 the way to go, and I'm terebly sorry that Thomas's sister felt that
 taking her own life was the only way out.
 In the words of Aaron Lewis Falling is easy, it's getting back up
 that becomes the problem. And if you believe you can find a way out,
 then you've solved your problem.
 Never give up. Find someone to talk to and work with, and pull
 yourself back up. It's worth it, I promise.
 And Thomas, I'm so sorry about your stepsister. Again, you and your
 family are in my prayers.

 On 12/19/10, peter Mahach piterm...@gmail.com wrote:
 Just wanna say I agree with everything you said... and I pray for you
 - Original Message -
 From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
 To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 7:18 PM
 Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News


 Thomas:

 Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

 A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
 those things you said hit home for her and the family.

 My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who
 were
 affected by this tragedy.

 May God bless each and every one on the list.

 -Original Message-
 From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
 Behalf Of Thomas Ward
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
 To: Gamers Discussion list
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
 my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
 my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
 this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
 that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
 is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
 extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
 other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
 step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
 lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
 same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
 pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
 sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
 could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
 ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
 that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
 bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
 is the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
 make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
 who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
 happened in my sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
 say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
 behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
 step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
 the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
 this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
 see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
 she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
 allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
 sister when she could have

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread dark

Hi Tom.

I'm really sorry to here this, and will be thinking about you and the rest 
of your family.


All the best,

dark.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 6:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread shaun everiss

that royally sucks loads.
Its christmas week so double suckage.
At 07:12 a.m. 20/12/2010, you wrote:

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Christopher Bartlett
Thomas, I am very sorry for your loss and your family's troubles around it.
May God's peace blossom in every heart, so that this time of sorrow can at
least be a beginning of something better.  And may the soul of your sister
find the peace in death that she couldn't find before.

Christopher Bartlett



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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Greg

Hello Thomas,
My sympathies are with you and your family.  I will keep you all in my 
prayers.  This is turning out to be a tragic christmas season.  My best 
friend is losing her grandmother.  Her grandmother had a heart attack and a 
stroke, and her organs are now all shutting down.  I wish you and all yours 
a good christmas, or at least as good a one as you can possibly have with 
your loss.

Best wishes,
Greg W.
- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:12 PM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Yohandy

Will pray for them Thomas. Really sorry to hear the news.

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From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net

To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who were
affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Allison Mervis
Dear Thomas,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your
family during this difficult time.
Allison
http://www.allisonmervis.com/


-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in my
family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that my oldest
step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At this point in time
the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say that this comes as a
shocking suprise for the family and is very sad is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel extremely
sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every other Christmas
without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my step father who lost a
daughter, and my surviving step sisters who lost one of their sisters. For
them Christmas will never ever be the same. For those of you who have faith
in a religious background please pray for them in this time of morning and
grief. Also pray for my step sister that perhaps she can find happiness in
death that she never could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell
your closest ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them.
Remember that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter
how bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause is
the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to make,
if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those who are
your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what happened in my
sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can say is
that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left behind a lot of
unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger step sisters, her
grandparents, and things were said in the heat of the moment to each other
that can never be taken back or settled in this life time. My youngest step
sister, for example, vowed never to see my oldest step sister again in this
life time, and now, of course, she never will. My youngest step sister has
to live with the guilt of allowing her personal feelings get in the way of
making peace with her sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises
she wasn't there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and
took her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is don't
let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that you have to
live each and every day of your life regretting the things you have said and
done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell those you love that you
love them. Let them know you care regardless of how angry you might be at
them. You will never know when tomorrow is simply too late to say, I'm
sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Scott Chesworth
Hi Tom,

Not the religious type here, so I can't offer much in the way of
prayers, but it looks like you've got quite a few of those on the way
already. Just wanted to chime in and say that I hope the festive
season doesn't put you and yours through the ringer too much this
year. From memory, I think you have a young son right? That like a
kid at Christmas saying is there for a reason, he'll be a little ball
of energy whatever happens so long as Crimbo is on the TV and in the
neighbours windows. Focus on him, it'll help.

Outpourings of sympathy won't actually change anything, but shout if
there's anything I or we can do other than keep sending you positivity
in whichever way we each subscribe too.

Chin up bud...
Scott

On 12/20/10, Allison Mervis alliso...@gmail.com wrote:
 Dear Thomas,
 I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your
 family during this difficult time.
 Allison
 http://www.allisonmervis.com/


 -Original Message-
 From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
 Behalf Of Thomas Ward
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:13 PM
 To: Gamers Discussion list
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in my
 family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that my oldest
 step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At this point in time
 the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say that this comes as a
 shocking suprise for the family and is very sad is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel extremely
 sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every other Christmas
 without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my step father who lost a
 daughter, and my surviving step sisters who lost one of their sisters. For
 them Christmas will never ever be the same. For those of you who have faith
 in a religious background please pray for them in this time of morning and
 grief. Also pray for my step sister that perhaps she can find happiness in
 death that she never could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell
 your closest ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them.
 Remember that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter
 how bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause is
 the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to make,
 if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those who are
 your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what happened in my
 sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can say is
 that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left behind a lot of
 unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger step sisters, her
 grandparents, and things were said in the heat of the moment to each other
 that can never be taken back or settled in this life time. My youngest step
 sister, for example, vowed never to see my oldest step sister again in this
 life time, and now, of course, she never will. My youngest step sister has
 to live with the guilt of allowing her personal feelings get in the way of
 making peace with her sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises
 she wasn't there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and
 took her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
 ever.

 So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is don't
 let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that you have to
 live each and every day of your life regretting the things you have said and
 done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell those you love that you
 love them. Let them know you care regardless of how angry you might be at
 them. You will never know when tomorrow is simply too late to say, I'm
 sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Stephen

Hi there.
I am so sorry for your loss.
In august a really good friend of 7 years was murdered in his own 
home in a very well-to-do area of Melbourne Australia, we first met 
on a chat room, he had a barber's shop, and I'd go and get my hair 
cut there.  Let me share a story with you.
While not directly game related, I was in a chat room and I was 
talking 1 on 1 with some guy about something I don't remember 
what.  When I told him about how I am totally blind he asked if I was 
serious and I said Yes.
The next thing I knew he starts calling me every nasty name under the 
sun he can think of.  Go away you blind retard, you pathetic freak, 
Hey guys, this blind (expletive) wants to talk to me.

Well, I think you get the idea.
Then his friend joined in the attack.
Peter saw what was happening and quickly put an end to it.
The only reason those 2 people stopped attacking me was because they 
were one of the many people who visited Peter's shop, a lot of people 
looked up to him, and he had a very strong sence of right and wrong 
and if he saw someone getting ganged up on, he'd speak out about it 
and They did not want to end up in Peter's bad books.  It always 
seems that the bad things happen to good people as it did with Peter, 
we shared many good times together and I will always remember what a 
decent person he was.


At 12:51 PM 12/20/2010, you wrote:

Will pray for them Thomas. Really sorry to hear the news.

- Original Message - From: Mike Maslo mmaslo1...@swbell.net
To: 'Gamers Discussion list' gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Thomas:

Let me say that I fully agree with every word you have said.

A loved one I am extremely close to lost her mother this past Tuesday and
those things you said hit home for her and the family.

My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family and those who were
affected by this tragedy.

May God bless each and every one on the list.

-Original Message-
From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
Behalf Of Thomas Ward
Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 12:13 PM
To: Gamers Discussion list
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let

Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Clement Chou
Sorry to hear about what's happened... but my prayers and my heart 
reach out for you. Hang in there, Tom. I don't have much to say, but 
I do hope things get better.


At 07:09 PM 19/12/2010, you wrote:

Hi Tom,

Not the religious type here, so I can't offer much in the way of
prayers, but it looks like you've got quite a few of those on the way
already. Just wanted to chime in and say that I hope the festive
season doesn't put you and yours through the ringer too much this
year. From memory, I think you have a young son right? That like a
kid at Christmas saying is there for a reason, he'll be a little ball
of energy whatever happens so long as Crimbo is on the TV and in the
neighbours windows. Focus on him, it'll help.

Outpourings of sympathy won't actually change anything, but shout if
there's anything I or we can do other than keep sending you positivity
in whichever way we each subscribe too.

Chin up bud...
Scott

On 12/20/10, Allison Mervis alliso...@gmail.com wrote:
 Dear Thomas,
 I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your
 family during this difficult time.
 Allison
 http://www.allisonmervis.com/


 -Original Message-
 From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On
 Behalf Of Thomas Ward
 Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 1:13 PM
 To: Gamers Discussion list
 Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

 Dear list,

 I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in my
 family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that my oldest
 step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At this 
point in time

 the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say that this comes as a
 shocking suprise for the family and is very sad is an understatement.

 Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
 extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel extremely
 sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every other Christmas
 without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my step father who lost a
 daughter, and my surviving step sisters who lost one of their sisters. For
 them Christmas will never ever be the same. For those of you who have faith
 in a religious background please pray for them in this time of morning and
 grief. Also pray for my step sister that perhaps she can find happiness in
 death that she never could in this life time. Moreover, never 
forget to tell

 your closest ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them.
 Remember that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter
 how bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a 
good cause is

 the greatest tragity of all.

 Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
 experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and 
try to make,

 if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those who are
 your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what happened in my
 sisters' case.

 I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can say is
 that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left behind a lot of
 unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger step sisters, her
 grandparents, and things were said in the heat of the moment to each other
 that can never be taken back or settled in this life time. My youngest step
 sister, for example, vowed never to see my oldest step sister again in this
 life time, and now, of course, she never will. My youngest step sister has
 to live with the guilt of allowing her personal feelings get in the way of
 making peace with her sister when she could have. Moreover, she 
now realises

 she wasn't there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and
 took her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
 ever.

 So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of 
you is don't

 let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that you have to
 live each and every day of your life regretting the things you 
have said and

 done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell those you love that you
 love them. Let them know you care regardless of how angry you might be at
 them. You will never know when tomorrow is simply too late to say, I'm
 sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread jason
Hello Thomas sorry about your step sister just prayed for you and family 
and I hope you have a good Christmas and a happy new year, know this 
that you will see her again in Heaven and God is with her.


On 12/19/2010 1:12 PM, Thomas Ward wrote:

Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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Re: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News

2010-12-19 Thread Lisa Hayes

I am so sorry to hear this Thomas.
Lisa Hayes




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- Original Message - 
From: Thomas Ward thomasward1...@gmail.com

To: Gamers Discussion list gamers@audyssey.org
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 5:12 AM
Subject: [Audyssey] Some Extremely Sad News



Dear list,

I regret to inform you that there has been a very very tragic death in
my family this weekend. Last night my mom called me and told me that
my oldest step sister died under extremely tragic circomstances. At
this point in time the police are ruling it out is a suicide. To say
that this comes as a shocking suprise for the family and is very sad
is an understatement.

Although, my step sister and I were never close I still feel sad and
extremely disappointed in how she chose to end her life. I feel
extremely sorry for my neace who will be cellibrating this and every
other Christmas without her mother. I also feel deeply sorry for my
step father who lost a daughter, and my surviving step sisters who
lost one of their sisters. For them Christmas will never ever be the
same. For those of you who have faith in a religious background please
pray for them in this time of morning and grief. Also pray for my step
sister that perhaps she can find happiness in death that she never
could in this life time. Moreover, never forget to tell your closest
ffriends, family, and other loved ones that you love them. Remember
that there is nothing more precious than life, and that no matter how
bad life gets at times that taking your own life without a good cause
is the greatest tragity of all.

Finally, I wish to leave you with something that I learned from this
experience. Remember to forgive those who have wronged you, and try to
make, if possible, peace with everyone that you can. Especially, those
who are your family and friends. Nothing is more tragic than what
happened in my sisters' case.

I'm not going to get into details and specifics, but one thing I can
say is that my oldest sister was troubled. In her death she left
behind a lot of unsettled arguments with my step father, my younger
step sisters, her grandparents, and things were said in the heat of
the moment to each other that can never be taken back or settled in
this life time. My youngest step sister, for example, vowed never to
see my oldest step sister again in this life time, and now, of course,
she never will. My youngest step sister has to live with the guilt of
allowing her personal feelings get in the way of making peace with her
sister when she could have. Moreover, she now realises she wasn't
there for her sister when she went over the emotional brink and took
her own life when she needed her family, her loved ones,  more than
ever.

So the lesson I want to pass on to each and every single one of you is
don't let your anger, your personal differences, etc go so far that
you have to live each and every day of your life regretting the things
you have said and done. Make your peace while you have time, and tell
those you love that you love them. Let them know you care regardless
of how angry you might be at them. You will never know when tomorrow
is simply too late to say, I'm sorry. I love you.

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