Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
it's been so long since I have had any intimacy with a female that I would probably pass out with excitement at the first caress. Jim **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)
Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Hi Jim, I was lucky to have a PT that advised me not to listen to the ''Experts'' and to listen to my inner-self in all areas. She was so right. One of my first insights was not to tie my sexuality to my erections. I was getting erections with a brush of a nurse's hand, or a position change, but my sexuality was buried deeper in my mind, and it would take more concentration to learn how to reach it. My wife and I started working on the mental side of our sexuality before I left rehab. We did a lot of talking listening to each other early on, and started using what we learned for some erotic game playing at rehab. By not worring as much about my erections at that point, we were able to find ways to give, and to get, enough sexual pleasure to each other to encourage us on with our learning SCI Sex. Today I talk, listen, fiddle around, flirt, play, and work around women. I've learned I can say as much to a lady with my eyes, as with an erection, as it is amazing how many with ''look back''! Stay strong. With Love, CtrlAltDel aka Dave C4/5 Complete - 31 Years Post Texas, USA [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I have heard so much about mental orgasms and what pleasure they bring but I am one that cannot achieve this. After my injury back in 2000 my wife had nothing to do with me sexually. The only erection that I achieve is once in a while in the morning. Since I'm a SCI virgin I do not know if I can achieve an erection being sexually stimulated or not, I hardly doubt it. I have had erotic dreams and have even gone to the Internet to surf porn to see if I would be able to achieve an erection or even have an orgasm but so far nothing. My ex-wife was never really very sexual and I guess she could be even labeled as frigid so, I was left high and dry on too many occasion is to even count. Maybe if our sex life was more active while I was able-bodied maybe she would have taken an interest after my injury. I still get sexually frustrated at times but nothing like I was after my injury so, I guess I can say sex is not that big of a deal anymore. Although it would be nice to try. Jim - See AOL's top rated recipes and easy ways to stay in shape for winter.
RE: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
LOL. Well said Dave!!! MAY YOU AND ALL MY VERY SPECIAL FRIENDS ON THE QUAD –LIST HAVE A VERY VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR!! LOVE ALL OF YOU!!! SILAS From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, December 19, 2007 8:38 PM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. Funny how 40 years of SCI, 35 years of happy marriage, three kids and foleys can dampen the 'urge' so it mostly goes away. Intimacy gives way to stability and security, lust turns into gratitude for what lengthy cohabitation brings, and the spark is kept alive by total strangers that cast that special look and sometimes add a wink. it's very nice to you can still turn a head but have no obligation to prove anything. the great part is she knows i look, i know she knows and she knows i know she knows - and we're both cool with it. she knows that just because i'm on a diet, it's ok if i look at the menu. no matter where i get my appetite, i always come home for dinner. Dave -Original Message- From: Lori Michaelson [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, 17 Dec 2007 7:17 pm Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are not with a partner. :-) Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship... especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good relationship. Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT OR ENJOY sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be! You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of it. I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned 15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris. But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to cum. Feeling sexy for women plays a huge part as well. For example... having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax. I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does that. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on! On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail! _ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail http://o.aolcdn.com/cdn.webmail.aol.com/mailtour/aol/en-us/text.htm?ncid=aolcmp000503 !
FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Dave, you have expressed our dilemma most eloquently. I want so much to have that old drive back, but too much trauma and too many years (55) have taken their toll. I also find that I have grown considerably weaker the past few years. The old gray mule, he aint what he used to be. To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual.Date: Wed, 19 Dec 2007 21:38:15 -0500From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Funny how 40 years of SCI, 35 years of happy marriage, three kids and foleys can dampen the 'urge' so it mostly goes away. Intimacy gives way to stability and security, lust turns into gratitude for what lengthy cohabitation brings, and the spark is kept alive by total strangers that cast that special look and sometimes add a wink. it's very nice to you can still turn a head but have no obligation to prove anything. the great part is she knows i look, i know she knows and she knows i know she knows - and we're both cool with it. she knows that just because i'm on a diet, it's ok if i look at the menu. no matter where i get my appetite, i always come home for dinner. Dave -Original Message-From: Lori Michaelson [EMAIL PROTECTED]To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Mon, 17 Dec 2007 7:17 pmSubject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are not with a partner. :-) Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship... especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good relationship. Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT OR ENJOY sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be! You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of it. I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned 15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris. But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to cum. Feeling sexy for women plays a huge part as well. For example... having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax. I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does that. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on! On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that.My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail! More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail! _ Get the power of Windows + Web with the new Windows Live. http://www.windowslive.com?ocid=TXT_TAGHM_Wave2_powerofwindows_122007
Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Ha, better yet HA HA. Men get lazy and let the women do all the work, lol It's just an effective ploy. Best Wishes W In a message dated 12/20/2007 1:48:57 P.M. Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I know that sex gets a little complicated as a quad. But I thought guys never give up. I know there are times when you might feel bad or whatever. But do you loose the drive or just feel like it is to much effort? **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)
Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Some women just need too much. Catch yourself thinking, I could have had a
nap. The urge may still be there but the flesh is weak. The mind wants to, but
the body knows the mind is long gone...lol
john
- Original Message
From: Amy Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: William Willis [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com
quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Thursday, December 20, 2007 2:47:46 PM
Subject: Re: FW: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual.
I know that sex gets a little complicated as a quad. But I thought guys never
give up. I know there are times when you might feel bad or whatever. But do you
loose the drive or just feel like it is to much effort?
William Willis [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:.hmmessage P
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Dave, you have expressed our dilemma most eloquently. I want so much to have
that old drive back, but too much trauma and too many years (55) have taken
their toll. I also find that I have grown considerably weaker the past few
years.
The old gray mule, he aint what he used to be.
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual.
Date: Wed, 19 Dec 2007 21:38:15
-0500
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Funny how 40 years of SCI, 35 years of happy marriage, three kids and foleys
can dampen the 'urge' so it mostly goes away. Intimacy gives way to stability
and security, lust turns into gratitude for what lengthy cohabitation brings,
and the spark is kept alive by total strangers that cast that special look and
sometimes add a wink. it's very nice to you can still turn a head but have no
obligation to prove anything. the great part is she knows i look, i know she
knows and she knows i know she knows - and we're both cool with it. she knows
that just because i'm on a diet, it's ok if i look at the menu. no matter
where i get my appetite, i always come home for dinner.
Dave
-Original Message-
From: Lori Michaelson
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Mon, 17 Dec 2007 7:17 pm
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual.
I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond
to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are
more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but
it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are
not with a partner. :-)
Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship...
especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is
most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good
relationship.
Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT
OR ENJOY
sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be!
You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even
more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm
for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is
the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of
it.
I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned
15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my
partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me
through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that
is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely
sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris.
But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The
noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to
cum. Feeling sexy for women plays a huge part as well. For example...
having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really
really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or
during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax.
I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that
sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for
masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does
that.
So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on!
On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Hello guys,
Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic
dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we
long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke
up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all
over and my insides were too.
You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't
take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also,
because I opened my eyes thinking
Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
I would not rule out phone sex for many of you frustrated men as well. As far as infections... it never happened to me but that is also a consideration for the able-bodied population as well. It's a very common myth as far as having too much sex and acquiring infections. It's all about keeping clean afterward. On Dec 18, 2007 2:10 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Have you considered the services of an escort? Just a question. Then there is a sensitive issue about bacteria and infection. Quads bodies can harbor bacteria in their bladders. Its in their systems most/all of the time. I knew of a para couple who each time they had sex, the girl came down with a uro infection. Often the infection would distrupt the semen from achieving its goal. I know a few quads out their laughing with children, who are thinking it didn't happen with me. But for the woman... is that a consideration or a worry? Best Wishes W
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John wrote: Brave enough? Well, I'm sort of jealous. Can you tell me more about this partner you keep talking about? Does it matter? No, it doesn't. But he was my ex of 12 years but that is a passed chapter of my life. My current husband of 10 years is an expert lover! I have been very, very fortunate. Lori
Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Amy added every ingredient that I neglected! Thank you girlfriend! Intimacy can take a million different forms. It is important not to lose the intimacy even daily. My injury occurred when I was 15 years old and when I got with my first boyfriend/fiancé sex happened numerous times a week when we first got together when I was 20 years old and the few years beyond that. When you get older... you realize that every little dash of words, kisses, hugs, etc. etc. are led up to the intimacy which makes the sex act minute in the long run. Lori C/5 Amy wrote: I agree that sex is important in any relationship. But for me it is the intimacy more than anything else. Dont get me wrong...if he is well and willing ...I AM ON IT! I think SCI changes sex for both partners. It is a lot more complicated. Not only the physical aspects of sex. But like Si said...for us it is more a of a privacy issue. But how can you not love a man who just said all of those sweet things ( I love you honey!) I am sure that sex is the hardest thing to deal with after SCI. And the one thing that no one wants to talk to their docs about. (HINT HINT, Si.) But there are options out there. Just keep practising...you will come up with ideas that work for you. Keep a good sense of humor. And just have fun. That is what it is all about. As for me and the issues of the vent and caths, they play vital parts in keeping him healthy and alive and here with me. I would rather deal with any aspect involving his care that not to have him here with me. I could not even bare to think about that.
Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Funny how 40 years of SCI, 35 years of happy marriage, three kids and foleys can dampen the 'urge' so it mostly goes away. Intimacy gives way to stability and security, lust turns into gratitude for what lengthy cohabitation brings, and the spark is kept alive by total strangers that cast that special look and sometimes add a wink. it's very nice to you can still turn a head but have no obligation to prove anything. the great part is she knows i look, i know she knows and she knows i know she knows - and we're both cool with it. she knows that just because i'm on a diet, it's ok if i look at the menu. no matter where i get my appetite, i always come home for dinner. Dave -Original Message- From: Lori Michaelson [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, 17 Dec 2007 7:17 pm Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are not with a partner. :-) Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship... especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good relationship. Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT OR ENJOY sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be! You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of it. I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned 15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris. But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to cum. Feeling sexy for women plays a huge part as well. For example... having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax. I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does that. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on! On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail! More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com
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Thank you for sharing. It is a great topic even if one does not have a partner. Thank you **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)
Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual. My 2 cents
Jim writes: Clip I still get sexually frustrated at times but nothing like I was after my injury so, I guess I can say sex is not that big of a deal anymore. Although it would be nice to try. Clip I must say I do miss any sexual encounters I had before and after SCI. I use to tease and aide back in 98 about ... she's getting paid for the pleasure I gave her. We had a good old time that summer. Although, she moved on and married an old work related friend of mine. But.. This is one subject that is always on my mind. I dream about it all the time as well, but I don't have the feeling of an orgasm after I wake up. I'd love to have my hands, mouth, tongue roam a woman's body once again. Lori stated what I thought was true that a female likes subtle touches. Like sliding a bra strap off a shoulder. Yes, for sure, as a male I just wanted to jump right in, but to do so without exciting the woman's mind first you'd never get the pleasure you were after. Crap...I'd even enjoy just massaging a woman again. I loved to read playboy and hustler for what women wanted and how they wanted. I always felt I gave them that. Now, I just think back on my memories. Wipin' tears' Keith/35/C4-5/NJ PS. My spasms always activates my buddy. If I could I'd go spastic everywhere. A lil' pounding on him and he's awake. **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)
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Sex! Its really hard to explain the difference between now and before my injury. I enjoy just pleasing my lady, when shes having a orgasm I to get a tingly week feeling right along with her. My heart is pounding and my eyes feel week, also my blood pressure starts dropping when were done. Its about the same after feelings I had before my injury even though I dont have a orgasm. I have had a orgasm sense my injury and it was great, started shacking all over and my whole body became ridged. Its so hard now to get time alone here its grand central here of a day, and by night Im wore out and wont to rest. Morning is the best time when Im fresh, but its hard to get alone. Also I have a indwelling cath now, being sick also plays a big role in feeling like having sex. Not to forget being vent dependent makes it uncomfortable, so with all this shit it makes sex hard. But its still a big part of my life, it makes me feel like a man which interne boost my confidence. My girl friend is what keeps me going, it takes a special person to deal with all the adversities . She has a special way of turning a bad situation into a positive one, my bowel program is the most embarrassing thing for me, one morning while she was dilling me she said this might be plum kinky in a different circumstance. Just little things she does lightens the atmosphere and makes me feel better. Silas From: Lori Michaelson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 8:17 PM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are not with a partner. :-) Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship... especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good relationship. Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT OR ENJOY sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be! You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of it. I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned 15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris. But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to cum. Feeling sexy for women plays a huge part as well. For example... having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax. I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does that. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on! On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail!
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Brave enough? Well, I'm sort of jealous. Can you tell me more about this partner you keep talking about? I was in Dodd Hall at the same time Larry Flynt was there. The guy is a Leonardo DaVinci of this stuff. He definitely proved to me that sex isn't the end all be all some folks seem to think. I haven't had a really intense emotion about anything since my accident, but maybe that is the dividing point with the SCI and the TBI. I have tried, but there isn't anything I can tell, except a really frustrated woman by the time I'm done. john - Original Message From: Lori Michaelson [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 9:17:16 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are not with a partner. :-) Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship... especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good relationship. Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT OR ENJOY sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be! You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of it. I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned 15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris. But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to cum. Feeling sexy for women plays a huge part as well. For example... having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax. I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does that. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on! On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail! Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile.yahoo.com/;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ
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I had it happen to me once. I wish I knew how to re-create it, I would do it everyday. I also noticed I had a tremendous amount of sediment in my urine, which at the time was very unusual. Later I speculated as to whether I had actually had a wet dream winch went back into my bladder. Still don't know the answer to that and probably will never know. Quadius On 12/15/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 -- More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mailhttp://o.aolcdn.com/cdn.webmail.aol.com/mailtour/aol/en-us/text.htm?ncid=aimcmp000501 !
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Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED] - Original Message - From: Eric W Rudd To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 8:51 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. shaking head Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED] - Original Message - From: Lori Michaelson To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 8:17 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.Sexual. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on!
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guess u can decide which one ;-p Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED] shaking head Eric W Rudd [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual.
Hello guys, Let me get right to it.? This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm).? This dream felt s real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too.? You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! ? I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me.? I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail ! - http://webmail.aim.com
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In a message dated 12/15/2007 7:38:39 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Well, I don't think one can recreate the experience, gotta wait for another lucky dream :-) when it *seldom* happens to me, I wake up right before and my legs feel hot and tingly...it happens! Dianna **See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop000304)
