Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-14 Thread Khuli
Is there any merit in the possibility of users here being able to 'Rate' another user, or a thread, and after a suitably poor rating the thread gets automatically locked, or the user gets some kind of penalty? Perhaps people with a higher rating have more weight when voting, and people with a

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-14 Thread gw43
London's Burning - The Clash? Fire - Arthur Brown? Burn - Deep Purple? Disco Inferno - The Tramps? Towering Inferno? Blazing Saddles? Backdraft? Fireman Sam? Are any of these forbidden - or have I missed the point? I'll get my coat! -- gw43

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-14 Thread MuckleEck
Is that a white coat? -- MuckleEck Alasdair 3 SB3s - Linn - Acoustat - AudioEngine 2 - Cambridge Audio 640R - Mordaunt Short MuckleEck's Profile: http://forums.slimdevices.com/member.php?userid=11301 View this thread:

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-14 Thread Pat Farrell
Khuli wrote: Is there any merit in the possibility of users here being able to 'Rate' another user, or a thread, and after a suitably poor rating the thread gets automatically locked, or the user gets some kind of penalty? Perhaps people with a higher rating have more weight when voting, and

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-14 Thread juniper
I like this forum very much. I have received lots of helpful patient advice and sometimes when I have felt brave enough contributed some ideas, help myself. I have no personal experience of being flamed, trolled, nor have I seen any instance of it. That maybe is because the threads I follow do

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread snarlydwarf
haunyack;268726 Wrote: Who said anything about productive? Start another thread if you wish to discuss production. Oh, sorry, I forgot that you own this thread and have the right to tell others what to post where. At risk of violating the board rules, I will say something I would not

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread Mark Lanctot
Whatever happened to being polite? If you were invited in to someone's home, would you tell them your curtains suck or the renovations you're undertaking are a poorly implemented pipe dream? No. That would be rude. Then why is it acceptable here? Constructive criticism is fine and, in fact,

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread MuckleEck
Well said Mark.. -- MuckleEck Alasdair 3 SB3s - Linn - Acoustat - AudioEngine 2 - Cambridge Audio 640R - Mordaunt Short MuckleEck's Profile: http://forums.slimdevices.com/member.php?userid=11301 View this thread:

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread slimpy
Thanks Mark, my sentiments exactly. -s. -- slimpy slimpy's Profile: http://forums.slimdevices.com/member.php?userid=1524 View this thread: http://forums.slimdevices.com/showthread.php?t=43308

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread jonheal
Mark Lanctot;268957 Wrote: Whatever happened to being polite? Because some folks feel they're above it, and there's probably not a whole lot that can be done about it. There will always be kind, thoughtful types. And there will always be ... other types. -- jonheal Jon Heal says: Have a

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread Mark Lanctot
Thanks for the comments everyone. jonheal;268976 Wrote: Because some folks feel they're above it, and there's probably not a whole lot that can be done about it. There will always be kind, thoughtful types. And there will always be ... other types. Hopefully it will become evident that the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread Siduhe
Thirded. Mark, I believe I must have been 'channelling' (http://forums.slimdevices.com/showthread.php?p=268400highlight=paraphrasing#post268400) you/one of your posts yesterday... I was thinking we might do something more along the lines of the Sean-Adams-Response-O-Matic.. -- Siduhe

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread kdf
contribute at all to such threads and I bet there are others like me. Count on it. It isn't just limited to forum threads. What motivation is there to give free time testing, debugging, or writing for someone else's benefit when it's just for continued abuse. I can certainly understand the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread JimC
This thread has been closed by a moderator for one of the following reasons: * Profanity: This post contains expletives or vulgar language. Please post in more friendly manner. * Personal attack: Insults or rude ad hominem arguments directed at another member are not permitted. * Troll /

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread Robin Bowes
JimC wrote: This thread has been closed by a moderator for one of the following reasons: * Profanity: This post contains expletives or vulgar language. Please post in more friendly manner. * Personal attack: Insults or rude ad hominem arguments directed at another member are not

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-13 Thread JimC
We looked at the value of this thread, versus the one post that was in violation, and opted to reopen the thread and simply remove the offending post. It seemed a bit harsh to close the thread for one post that needed to be removed. We'll get better at this. -= Jim -- JimC well, she

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread morris_minor
As a relative newcomer to all things Slim I found this forum to be an excellent resource in helping me take the plunge. The fact that Sean co particpate so much gives a value to this not often found. It happens to be the only forum I actually post in, and the only one I read with any regularity

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread maggior
Mark Lanctot;268496 Wrote: If you antagonize them to start with you are not likely to get a useful response. The fact that such posters sometimes do get a useful response speaks to the extraordinary patience of some of the regulars here. I've witness this and was amazed. There are some

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread aubuti
Mark Lanctot;268496 Wrote: ...the adage you'll get more flies with sugar than with vinegar. though I've never understood why anyone *wants* flies... (and of course we all know what substance attracts more flies than anything!). -- aubuti

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread mudlark
Cheers mate, :) -- mudlark SB3CyrusDACXPreXvsNAP140+260AKEFiQ7, Avondale and Naim cable, Kubuntu Gusty Gibbon server, linkstation for storage. DIY SB3 3A linear power supply. Using SqueezeCentre7 mudlark's Profile:

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread smc2911
mudlark;268565 Wrote: PS SMC2911 - Thanks for the incite into the workings of the mind of a loud poster, If it's any consolation the price of gear in the Uk is without exception higher than one would expect when comparing prices from either Europe or the States.Perhaps I could say one time

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Mitch Harding
I am not opposed to criticism, as long as it is civil and polite. If I told one of my coworkers that the program they wrote sucks, or that it was a poorly implemented pipe dream, I think it would be considered rude. If I instead gave a reasoned explanation of weaknesses in their code, I don't

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread MrSinatra
mudlark;268619 Wrote: The impression of words like sucks is that the user doesn't care. It's an easy and lazy throw away word which can be amusing in the appropriate context. If someone is asking for help then why use words that are ill considered? Many people don't think the Sb3 sucks so

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread MrSinatra
mudlark;268664 Wrote: I don't advocate banning the use of the word sucks, I just ask folks to make a balanced approach to posting. Why unnecessarily upset anyone? What do you want, the opportunity to post what you want or the opportunity to have access to the widest sources of advice

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
mudlark;268671 Wrote: If these people happen to be the very people who can give you the advice you want, then you run the risk of not getting the advice at all. Small price to pay in my opinion. The self-fulfilling nature of a post such as that probably deserves no advice. If you don't

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread mudlark
MrSinatra;268642 Wrote: and thats the beauty of freedom. the people are free to say something, and you are free to ignore it, deride it, whatever. but BAN it? make policies against it? sorry, i take a stand there. I don't advocate banning the use of the word sucks, I just ask folks to

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread radish
MrSinatra;268642 Wrote: and thats the beauty of freedom. the people are free to say something, and you are free to ignore it, deride it, whatever. but BAN it? make policies against it? sorry, i take a stand there. So you're fine with the forums being full of spam? -- radish

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread seanadams
MrSinatra;268652 Wrote: i fully support that you have the right to do it. as someone else said, this is your show, your forums, your deal. We run the server and pay the bill, but the forum is FOR all of its members. If they are better served by moderated forums then we'll moderate. I realize

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
snarlydwarf;268709 Wrote: So referring to the people who contribute as the Brain trust and calling the software spaghetti code is unintentional rudeness? No my dear snarly, it's intentional rudeness without the profanity. (I hate smileys) . -- haunyack Transporter - BK 200.2 -

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread snarlydwarf
haunyack;268706 Wrote: I believe most offensive language that occurs in these forum is spontaneous and stems from frustration coupled with an immediate avenue of expression for that frustration. The intentional stuff is readily apparent, and almost never happens here. So referring to the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
snarlydwarf;268724 Wrote: And you believe that being deliberately offensive to anyone that might be willing to help is productive. Interesting. Who said anything about productive? Start another thread if you wish to discuss production. This thread is ostensibly concerned with the affects

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread snarlydwarf
haunyack;268712 Wrote: I suppose a user with the same level of frustration would not consider that statement rude. On the flipside, someone who works to make the code usable may find it offensive. And you believe that being deliberately offensive to anyone that might be willing to help is

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread MrSinatra
Pat Farrell;268731 Wrote: You know what bad titles are. well, apparently YOU do. i for one, don't share your level of sensitivity. i might call it hyper. is that rude of me? my basic premise, just to restate, is that different folks have different standards, and i have all too often seen

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Pat Farrell
haunyack wrote: This thread is ostensibly concerned with the affects of free speech on individuals and the greater good of this forum. Free speech as in free beer? This site is not about free beer or free speech. Go to politico.com or moveon.org for free speech. Similarly, this thread has

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
Pat Farrell;268731 Wrote: haunyack wrote: This thread is ostensibly concerned with the affects of free speech on individuals and the greater good of this forum. Free speech as in free beer? This site is not about free beer or free speech. Go to politico.com or moveon.org for free

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
MrSinatra;268742 Wrote: well, apparently YOU do. i for one, don't share your level of sensitivity. i might call it hyper. is that rude of me? my basic premise, just to restate, is that different folks have different standards, and i have all too often seen people, especially newbies,

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
mlsstl;268705 Wrote: Sadly, what is often forgotten by the speech-with-no-barrier advocates is that there is no shortage of people who will, knowingly or not, test any situation to see just how far they can push things. If unknowingly, then the test point is moot. How many times have you

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
radish;268699 Wrote: No, it isn't, ... MrSinatra;268669 Wrote: spam, flaming, profanity are separate issues, narrowly defined, and not applicable to the points i'm making. I'll let MrSinatra speak for himself then, in your case. . -- haunyack Transporter - BK 200.2 - Vandersteen 3A

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread mudlark
MrSinatra;268669 Wrote: i want everyone to have the the opportunity to express themselves as they see fit, and everyone else have the opportunity to respond as they see fit, or not, on a case by case basis. what i don't want, is to see the community put hands over their collective eyes

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread haunyack
radish;268663 Wrote: So you're fine with the forums being full of spam? I don't think MrSinatra inferred that. That's another issue and you know it. . -- haunyack Transporter - BK 200.2 - Vandersteen 3A Signature C.G. Conn New York Wonder - circa 1898.

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread radish
haunyack;268665 Wrote: I don't think MrSinatra inferred that. That's another issue and you know it. . No, it isn't, they're fundamentally the same. I don't believe that MrSinatra does think we should allow spam, and that's the point. We don't tolerate spam on the forum because it's noise

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread MrSinatra
i fully support that you have the right to do it. as someone else said, this is your show, your forums, your deal. but i just don't think it is right to do it. the shame is that the thread you closed clearly was constructive. however, i greatly appreciate the chance to say this and that my

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread mudlark
MrSinatra;268591 Wrote: i just get the feeling that some here think sucks is beyond the pale, and thats what i consider orwellian. The impression of words like sucks is that the user doesn't care. It's an easy and lazy throw away word which is amusing in the appropriate context. If

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread dgpretzel
This forum is not open source, and it is not about free speech, although the owners may manage it that way, if they prefer. Posting here is not a right. It is a privilege. That privilege is extended to users by the owners, who are the ones who pay the freight. The owners may continue to

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread seanadams
MrSinatra;268577 Wrote: this forum should be open as the source code is. I feel like agreeing with you on some level, but I'm not sure what you mean by that. The source code is readable by anyone, by writeable by only a very select few. I don't think any useful analogy can be made. the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread MrSinatra
seanadams;268313 Wrote: We have tried for a long time to avoid moderating here. Spam and profanity are the only things we delete. This forum is for you. I prefer not to police what people talk about but I do feel that we need to keep the environment civil and friendly. Criticism is

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread mudlark
aubuti;268526 Wrote: though I've never understood why anyone *wants* flies... (and of course we all know what substance attracts more flies than anything!). Aubuti, why are you so shy of using the word 'jam'? My glass is always half full. M. PS SMC2911 - Thanks for the incite into the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread mlsstl
MrSinatra wrote: spam, flaming, profanity are separate issues, narrowly defined... There's the rub. What you infer to be so easily defined may not be so clear to another free speech advocate. What looks like a flame to you may well be a central, heartfelt issue for someone else. (Think of the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Mark Lanctot
Siduhe;268400 Wrote: One of the most effective posts I have ever seen on here was someone responding to a very over-the-top first post with (paraphrasing here) -Hi and welcome to the forums. Sorry to hear you're having problems. I have a few ideas, but posting stuff like that doesn't make

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread MrSinatra
seanadams;268581 Wrote: I feel like agreeing with you on some level, but I'm not sure what you mean by that. The source code is readable by anyone, by writeable by only a very select few. I don't think any useful analogy can be made. sorry, lets consider it a bad metaphor. i just meant

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Pat Farrell
Mitch Harding wrote: I don't think (or maybe I just hope) that nobody is opposed to negative opinions. I think the objection is to people who aren't civil when expressing them. I don't think it's too much to ask that people conduct themselves politely, regardless of the opinion they are

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Mitch Harding
I don't think (or maybe I just hope) that nobody is opposed to negative opinions. I think the objection is to people who aren't civil when expressing them. I don't think it's too much to ask that people conduct themselves politely, regardless of the opinion they are expressing. On Feb 12, 2008

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread peejay
I guess the fact that every contributor to this thread being a regular contributor points to an unlikely downward trend of this sort of thing, given most offenders in this vein tend to be infrequent posters. I do notice that thread moderators on other forums tend to be more proactive about this

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Phil Leigh
radish;268448 Wrote: Better yet, if you feel like you need to rant just type up your comment in notepad. Then take a deep breath and delete it. You'll feel better and won't have wasted anyone's time :) If only, Radish...if only... You are right - that is amuch better idea! -- Phil Leigh

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread radish
Phil Leigh;268421 Wrote: That's actually a very good idea (IMHO). At least all the stuff that none of us want to read is contained in one place. Better yet, if you feel like you need to rant just type up your comment in notepad. Then take a deep breath and delete it. You'll feel better and

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread smc2911
peejay;268761 Wrote: Furthermore, I think we should ban the use of the word 'proselytize'. :-)That'll be me. Sorry. Can I use evangelize? -- smc2911 smc2911's Profile:

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread seanadams
MrSinatra;268591 Wrote: i just get the feeling that some here think sucks is beyond the pale, and thats what i consider orwellian. I see many separate issues: 1) what words are acceptable? 2) shouldn't a subject describe, well, the subject of the post? 3) is flamebait acceptable? --

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread peejay
smc2911;268766 Wrote: That'll be me. Sorry. Can I use evangelize? No worries -- peejay I've got a fever above my waist You got a squeeze box on your knee I know the truth is in between the 1st and 40th drink - Tori Amos

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Phil Leigh
damian.duffy;268412 Wrote: This is a super forum and I'm sure it is frustrating for those who do know what they're talking about to see off-the-cuff and apparently disparaging comments. But equally some people will want to have a rant and want to be understood. There's no point in me

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread damian . duffy
This is a super forum and I'm sure it is frustrating for those who do know what they're talking about to see off-the-cuff and apparently disparaging comments. But equally some people will want to have a rant and want to be understood. There's no point in me telling Mrs D about things - I have to

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Siduhe
There forums are effectively self-moderating and I'd prefer they stayed that way. If someone posts something over the top, what usually happens is that there are some reasoned posts in response, often a helping hand or two, and in most cases the problem is resolved. In my experience, the OP

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread guinness
I appreciate the sentiment behind this thread, but I'm afraid I dont agree with it one bit. Do you think we should also put a stop to any of the I love my SB titles too, just to ensure that we dont ever sway too close to voicing an opinion in either direction? Forums are about freedom of

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread SilverRS8
morris_minor;268369 Wrote: As a relative newcomer to all things Slim I found this forum to be an excellent resource in helping me take the plunge. The fact that Sean co particpate so much gives a value to this not often found. It happens to be the only forum I actually post in, and the only

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread amey01
I personally think this forum is EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT!! But I have two things that might be of insight: 1: Some people end up here (and that explains why you say new members) at the end of a intensely frustrating day trying to get something to work - they may be a litle hot-headed!

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-12 Thread Robin Bowes
guinness wrote: I appreciate the sentiment behind this thread, but I'm afraid I dont agree with it one bit. Do you think we should also put a stop to any of the I love my SB titles too, just to ensure that we dont ever sway too close to voicing an opinion in either direction? Forums are

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-11 Thread seanadams
We have tried for a long time to avoid moderating here. Spam and profanity are the only things we delete. This forum is for you. I prefer not to police what people talk about but I do feel that we need to keep the environment civil and friendly. Criticism is welcome but the recent outbreak of

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-11 Thread slimkid
Imagine my surprise when, after having years of Perl experience, I learned a new function while checking out some code in SC: # - WTF? Is this what I think it is, or I should really brush up on my Perl and English skills? :) -- slimkid The sound stage will open up, bass will tighten

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-11 Thread smc2911
mudlark;267768 Wrote: I would love to hear from the shouters as to why they feel the best way to approach problems is to use brute force.As I started one of the offending threads, I thought I would respond to this request. I don't think that inflammatory titles is my usual modus operandi

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-11 Thread egd
most of the bs threads are in the audiophile forum, the rest are comparatively free of noise -- egd All music also sounded completly different , and extremly musical. egd's Profile:

[slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread pfarrell
Or at least change them when rants start? I really don't enjoy seeing message with titles such as: -- WHY? Is Squeezebox only poorly implemented pipe dream? -- Why Squeezebox sucks... -- Australians being screwed on price?? showing up in my email inbox. I don't enjoy the coarse language, and

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread radish
Agreed 100%. Many of us are here to help and genuinely want people to have a good SB experience, but it does grate when people (typically brand new members) launch into a tirade. -- radish radish's Profile:

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread gbruzzo
I wholeheartedly agree. I guess this is a flipside of the squeezebox user base growing - give and take, give and take... Regards, Giacomo -- gbruzzo gbruzzo's Profile:

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread mudlark
I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiments of this thread. I would love to hear from the shouters as to why they feel the best way to approach problems is to use brute force. Modern technology has become so powerful that most people cannot hope to understand it fully. I include myself in this

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread Fifer
Gets my vote. I've always found that the best way to get help and/or meaningful responses is to be diplomatic, show a bit of respect and avoid appearing to seem like an incoherent ranter that few of us would cross a real-life street to assist. -- Fifer

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread Pat Farrell
JJZolx wrote: Or at least change them when rants start? I take it that you don't read the included messages, because they'd be too disturbing for you. It's just the titles that cause you some distress? Maybe the inflamatory titles are a good thing - then you know to avoid reading the

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread JJZolx
Or at least change them when rants start? I take it that you don't read the included messages, because they'd be too disturbing for you. It's just the titles that cause you some distress? Maybe the inflamatory titles are a good thing - then you know to avoid reading the accompanying message

Re: [slim] Can we avoid inflamatory titles?

2008-02-10 Thread gbruzzo
Pat Farrell;267824 Wrote: the signal to noise ratio is too low to bother with. Let us not make that happen -- gbruzzo gbruzzo's Profile: http://forums.slimdevices.com/member.php?userid=3633 View this thread: